Loss and suffering bring grief, a natural and good response, as Jesus wept with those who mourned. Questions about why tragedy strikes rarely yield satisfying answers, yet in Luke 13 Jesus turns attention from why toward repentance and eternal life. Grief becomes unhealthy when it destroys self-worth or the desire to live, collapsing into hopelessness. Reactive depression arises from identifiable losses, while endogenous depression stems from vaguer threats. Noah, Moses, David, Elijah, and Jeremiah endured trials so severe they desired death, and Elijah's flight illustrates how focus shifts from God to circumstances to self. Yet faithful endurance, supported by God's intervention, rest, and renewed focus on Him, produces stability, compassion, and spiritual maturity. As Job declared, the Lord's name is blessed.

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Not To Reason Why

Commentary by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

When loss and suffering occur, God allows time to mourn, as Jesus wept with those who grieved, recognizing this response as natural, necessary, and good. Questions quickly follow about why such events happen, what role personal guilt or sin may have played, and why God permitted the pain, whether through disasters, illness, accidents, or other tragedies. People seek reasons that would give suffering meaning rather than leaving it as a random or meaningless occurrence, yet satisfying answers rarely come, and explanations often amount to platitudes that fail to address why God allowed the events. In Luke 13, Jesus addresses a similar tragedy by rejecting the idea that those who perished were worse sinners and instead directs attention away from the why question toward the need for repentance so that observers may gain eternal life. This shifts focus to how one should respond to tragedy by changing toward God's way, putting off the old self, and pursuing true life. Rather than reasoning why, the proper course is to move forward in faith, viewing the event as God's means of gaining attention amid life's brevity and the urgency of salvation. God acts always in love, even when the experience appears painful, as seen in Job's response after losing everything: the Lord gives and the Lord takes away, and His name is to be blessed. This approach prevents further descent into despair and directs energy toward accomplishing the goal of faithfulness.

It's Enough! Now, Lord, Take My Life!

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Biblical figures such as Noah, Moses, David, Elijah, and Jeremiah endured severe trials that produced discouragement and depression, sometimes to the point of desiring death. Hebrews 11:32-40 describes saints who through faith subdued kingdoms yet also faced torture, mockings, scourgings, chains, imprisonment, stoning, being sawn in two, destitution, affliction, and wandering in deserts and caves. These experiences of intense suffering and loss left them without receiving the promise in their lifetimes. Grief at the loss of a loved one or something highly valued constitutes a normal response, yet it turns unhealthy when it produces total loss of self-worth or the desire to live. The majority of depressive feelings begin in response to a specific loss or adverse occurrence, where recovery of what is lost or threatened appears impossible. This initiates a cycle in which self-worth collapses, self-deprecation follows, and hopelessness immobilizes the person, slowing mental and physical systems. Reactive depression arises from pinpointable losses, while endogenous depression may stem from vaguer threats to needs or desires. Unsolved resentment, bitterness, jealousy, envy, or anger likewise generate feelings of loss that result in depressed states. Elijah's flight from Jezebel after Mount Carmel illustrates how loss of expected outcomes, focus on threats, self-pity, and physical exhaustion deepen despair to the point of requesting death. Such suffering often stems from breaking God's law or demonic influence, setting individuals up for attitudes of hopelessness. The text connects these experiences of loss and suffering to the broader message that faithful endurance through trials, supported by God's intervention, produces stability, compassion, and spiritual maturity while underscoring reliance on divine resources rather than human strength alone.

Overcoming Discouragement and Depression

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Loss and suffering frequently initiate discouragement that deepens into depression when a person confronts a specific loss, fear of loss, or adverse event with no apparent means of recovery or reversal. Such experiences produce a sense of futility that collapses self-worth, fosters self-depreciation, and generates the conviction that the situation is hopeless. Grief over the death of a loved one or the forfeiture of something highly valued is acknowledged as a natural response, yet it becomes damaging when it results in total loss of personal value or the desire to live. Reactive depression arises directly from identifiable losses, while endogenous forms may stem from less distinct threats to needs or desires that unsettling events now endanger. Biblical figures illustrate the pattern. Noah, Moses, David, Elijah, and Jeremiah each endured trials that drove them into deep depression, at times to the point of requesting death. Elijah's flight from Jezebel's threat, physical exhaustion, self-pity, and presumption that he alone remained faithful exemplify how suffering can shift focus from God to circumstances and then to self, amplifying despair. The broader message of Scripture shows that these same individuals ultimately overcame discouragement by drawing on faith, which produced greater stability, compassion, and spiritual maturity. The text emphasizes that all suffering remains subject to God's sovereign purpose; when met with rest, renewed focus on Him, realistic expectations, and obedient action, it yields growth rather than defeat.

Everlasting Consolation and Good Hope

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

God's saints are not immune to depression. Job, Moses, and Elijah all felt so overwhelmed, they wanted God to take their lives.

Those Who Mourn

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Worldly sorrow leads to death while godly sorrow leads to repentance and life. After godly repentance, sorrow is swallowed up in profound joy.

Lamentations (Part Eight)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

As we approach the coming self-examination prior to Passover, we can apply six significant lessons taught to ancient Israel through the book of Lamentations.

Job: Things Left Unsaid

Sermon by David C. Grabbe

Even the accuser of the brethren made no accusations against Job, the first of several curious absences—things left unsaid—in the book of Job.

Our Affinity to Christ

Sermon/Bible Study by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Jesus has already suffered the things we have, and now serves as our compassionate High Priest and Advocate. He provides the pattern we are to emulate.

According to My Gospel

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Paul's believed that there is only one gospel and used the terms 'gospel of God' and 'gospel of Jesus Christ,' teaching the same things as Jesus Christ.

Lamentations (Part Six)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

In Lamentations 3, the narrator finally convinces Lady Jerusalem that her own sins have caused her necessary punishment and affliction by God.

Confidence in the Flesh Versus Faith

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

We must turn from our own gossamer righteousness to God's solid righteousness, accepting a higher standard than the rest of society.

Unity (2006)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Like the symphony orchestra, only as an instrumentalist submits to the leader, working with the other members of the ensemble, can unity be accomplished.

Acts (Part Twelve)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Paul and Barnabas developed the church in the cosmopolitan city of Antioch, the location from where the term 'Christian' originated.

Unity and Unleavened Bread

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

As members of Christ's body, we must function for the good of the whole body, not competing with other parts. We must continually function as a son of God.

Philippians (Part Seven)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Paul warns the Philippians that nothing blemishes their witness more than complaining, because like the Israelites, they were calling God into account.

'But I Say to You' (Part Six): Retaliation

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Jesus, using hyperbole to shock His disciples into a change of behavior or attitude, emphasizing that they should resist the impulse to retaliate.

Ecclesiastes Resumed (Part Four)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Profit from life is produced by work, requiring sacrifices of time and energy. We have been created for the very purpose of doing good works.

Freedom and Responsibility

Commentary by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

When a culture liberalizes, there will be a corresponding rise in irresponsibility, as people become fickle, rash, undependable, untrustworthy or disloyal.

Go the Extra Mile

'Ready Answer' by John O. Reid

The Sermon on the Mount contains a explanation of what it takes to be a Christian. Matthew 5:38-42 provides the principles behind the 'above and beyond' attitude.