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God's Will in the End Time
Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughDr. James Dobson illustrates the consequences of permissive parenting through the example of a mother whose three-year-old daughter, Sandy, repeatedly defied her authority during routine conflicts over naps and requests for water. The child rejected every boundary, screamed until neighbors intervened, and manipulated her mother into repeated concessions, ultimately turning the parent into a subordinate. Dobson attributes this dynamic to expert advice that encouraged tolerance of rebellion as a healthy release and framed parent-child clashes as mere misunderstandings rather than direct challenges to authority. He connects these child-rearing failures to the widespread adolescent rebellion of the 1960s and the resulting rise in juvenile delinquency, drug use, illicit sexual activity, sexually transmitted diseases, and illegitimate births. The same pattern of withheld discipline and absent boundaries persisted in later decades, producing further generations marked by self-indulgence, disrespect for parents, teachers, police, and other authorities, and an inability to accept limits on personal conduct. This absence of enforced standards left young people to invent their own rules, fostering narcissism, identity confusion, and related disorders often managed through medication. The sermon places these outcomes within the biblical pattern described in Isaiah 3, where children and the immature oppress their elders and lead society into error. Such juvenile defiance mirrors humanity's long-standing rebellion against God, in which successive generations refuse correction, seek protection from foreign powers rather than divine guidance, and ultimately face the severe discipline required to restore order.
Childrearing (Part Five)
Sermon/Bible Study by John W. RitenbaughJ. Edgar Hoover observed that criminals are made, not born, and that long before a youngster receives the legal label of juvenile delinquent, his actions already follow a familiar pattern of falsehoods, disobedience, truancy, and petty stealing. Each dereliction builds upon the previous one, so that without the fundamental lessons of self-discipline, trouble becomes inevitable. Muriel Beadle reinforced this by noting that early childhood training leaves such an impression that later change is virtually impossible, and that while every child should enjoy maximum freedom of expression, that freedom must be curtailed the moment it violates common decency or the rights of others. Prisons, Hoover added, are filled with people who exercised freedom of expression without self-discipline. These statements appear in the context of the larger child-rearing responsibility to train children in righteousness, responsibility, and respect through systematic verbal instruction, practical drills, and measured correction. The goal is to instill self-discipline before patterns of misconduct harden, thereby preparing the next generation for the Kingdom of God and contributing to stable families and society.
Childrearing (Part Two)
Sermon/Bible Study by John W. RitenbaughThe rearing of children carries inherent difficulties that can produce juvenile delinquency even without external pressures, as shown by Adam and Eve successfully raising Cain to murder his brother Abel despite the absence of television, peer groups, drugs, or gangs. This biblical precedent demonstrates that delinquency arises primarily from failures in parental government rather than solely from societal influences. In the United States, rapid social changes since the 1950s have intensified these challenges through widespread drug use, negative peer pressure, and media, yet the core issue remains parents' abdication of direct responsibility by outsourcing care to paid strangers, daycare centers, and after-school activities. Such practices, rooted in a 1960s mentality of allowing children freedom to develop their own personalities, result in self-willed offspring who manifest as pregnant daughters, drug-addicted sons, and individuals unable to deny their desires. These outcomes stem from imbalanced management that relies excessively on bribery through rewards, which destroys discernment and loyalty, or on fear alone, which hardens children toward eventual rebellion. Effective prevention requires combining reward, fear, and charisma in proper proportions tailored to each child, with charisma—flowing from the parent's total personality, especially love—serving as the dominant element to evoke voluntary allegiance. This approach prepares children as citizens of the Kingdom of God rather than merely of earthly nations, fulfilling the divine mandate for godly seed through consistent, hands-on training that narrows their path toward righteousness.