Betrothal is almost the same as marriage, serving as the first step and a commitment of faithfulness. The church is the betrothed Bride of Christ, in an existing relationship with God that transcends organizational lines. God places individuals in groups for effective growth in character and understanding. This betrothal relies on intimate individual communication with God and prepares the church as a chaste virgin for marriage to Christ. It signifies a sacred commitment, with the elect chosen by God the Father as Christ's eternal companion. Each person is betrothed individually, requiring preparation through overcoming challenges, striving for righteousness, justice, lovingkindness, mercy, and faithfulness. Accepting Christ as betrothed Husband grants the Holy Spirit for spiritual transformation.

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Choosing to Have a Good Relationship

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

In biblical terms, a betrothal is almost the same as a marriage. It is the first step in marriage and already a commitment of faithfulness. The church is described as the betrothed Bride of Christ, indicating an existing betrothal relationship with God. This betrothal is not limited to or confined by organizational or political lines as drawn by men. The different groups of the greater church of God have similar doctrines but different personalities, with varying strengths and weaknesses and different emphases. God has placed each individual in the group in which they will grow in character and understanding most effectively. The betrothed church's relationship with Christ depends on and relies on the intimacy of our individual communication with the present Family of God. This betrothal prepares the church to be a chaste and pure virgin for the marriage to Jesus Christ.

Will You Marry Me? (Part One)

Article by Staff

God Almighty has been planning a magnificent wedding for His Son, an event of unparalleled grandeur set from the foundation of the world. The elect are invited not merely as guests but as the Bride of Christ, a position of profound honor. Currently, we are betrothed to Christ, engaged in a sacred commitment that anticipates the ultimate union. This betrothal signifies our unique calling to be one body with Christ, His eternal companion and helper. As with ancient customs where a father selected a bride for his son, God the Father has chosen us for His Son, marking us as handpicked for this eternal bond. The theme of betrothal is evident in biblical narratives, such as the covenant between God and Israel, which mirrors Jesus' betrothal to the church. Additionally, the story of Isaac and Rebekah illustrates this divine selection, where Rebekah, found actively working and responding without hesitation to the proposal, typifies the church's readiness and commitment to Christ, whom we have not seen yet love and follow.

Remembering Who We Are

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John O. Reid

Betrothal is a significant theme in the text, emphasizing the personal and collective relationship between individuals and Jesus Christ. Each person is considered betrothed to Jesus Christ on an individual basis, not merely as part of the church collectively. This betrothal is likened to the preparation of a bride for her wedding, where the individual must make themselves ready for the future marriage to Jesus Christ. The text highlights that this preparation involves overcoming personal challenges and striving for righteousness and faithfulness, qualities that the bride of Jesus Christ must possess. The betrothal is described as a covenant that God will make with His people forever, characterized by righteousness, justice, lovingkindness, mercy, and faithfulness. This betrothal signifies a deep, personal commitment to Jesus Christ, where individuals are expected to work diligently to be worthy of this calling and to glorify God in their preparation as the future bride of Jesus Christ.

The Purpose of the Marriage Relationship

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

In the sacred framework of marriage, the concept of betrothal holds significant weight, reflecting a deep commitment akin to the bond of marriage itself. A betrothal, though not as binding as a marriage, represents a serious promise, a step toward the ultimate union. In times past, it was seen as having one foot in the marriage, a pledge of fidelity and intent that carried profound importance. God's church is viewed as the betrothed bride of Christ, a spiritual relationship that transcends human boundaries and organizational lines. This betrothal signifies the church's preparation for an eternal union with Him, emphasizing the sanctity and commitment required in this divine relationship. As we grow in our betrothed relationship with Christ, we must work with God to develop the qualities of sacrifice and submission, mirroring the dedication seen in successful human marriages. If we repent, believe with living faith, and accept Jesus Christ as our betrothed Husband, we receive God's gift of the Holy Spirit, preparing us for the spiritual transformation and eternal marriage to Him.

Will You Marry Me? (Part Two)

Article by Staff

In the New Covenant the Father selects the Bride for Jesus. Once the bride is selected and the bride-price agreed upon the man seeking a bride presents her with his cup of wine. He tells her that his cup represents his life and proposes marriage by offering his cup to her. He voices his desire that they share their lives together. If she takes his cup and drinks of it she accepts his marriage proposal and agrees to live by the terms of the new covenant they are making with each other. Jesus took the cup gave thanks and gave it to the disciples saying Drink from it all of you. For this is My blood of the new covenant which is shed for many for the remission of sins. Every year the disciples drink of the Master's cup they remind themselves of the time they accepted their Fiance's cup and formed a new covenant with Him. They look forward to the time when the King puts on a wedding for His Son when they will be the Bride at that wedding. Jesus and His Father give a guarantee of His promise to marry the Bride. On the Feast of Pentecost fifty days after Jesus' resurrection God sent a deposit the earnest of the Holy Spirit the guarantee of the full payment to come later when the Bride is changed from flesh to spirit. The Greek word for earnest is arrabon.

The Household of God and Loyalty

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

God promises to betroth His unfaithful people forever in righteousness, in justice, in loving kindness, in mercy, and in faithfulness. This close association of words itself points to God's determined loyalty to a gracious covenant. In God's mercy, He will say, You are My people, who I will faithfully own and bless. And they shall say, You are my God, whom I will loyally serve and worship.

Marriage and the Bride of Christ (Part Six)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

The betrothed is to act in a pure, moral, and faithful way. The New Testament bride image emphasizes certain basic truths including that Christ's atonement is a betrothal gift. The unity, sacrificial love, and interdependence usually associated with marriage enable comprehension in part of the unity, love, and interdependent features of God's relationship with His people under the symbols of God's covenant with Israel and the church as bride and body of Christ. The focus is on the individual's understanding of the relationship between God and His people. Spiritual realities are made clearer by comparison with earthly experiences.

Matthew (Part Twenty-Eight)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

When Hebrews became engaged the father and the mother announced their impending marriage but did not announce the date of the marriage. They told the people that the two people were betrothed to one another and that they were going to marry. Joseph and Mary were already considered married but they had not yet come together. A period in which they were considered married might last for a year or more and sometimes many years. Then suddenly everything would be ready and the father and mother would say that the marriage would occur in one week or two. A person would be expected if told beforehand to be ready for it. That custom provided the basis for the illustration. The Jews could relate to that custom very well because it was their custom to do it that way. When God invited a person to His wedding He did not tell when it was going to be. He has invited the person to it. He said that it is going to happen and that the person should get prepared for it and He will tell later on when it is going to be.

Why Are We Here? (2004)

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John O. Reid

God will make a covenant with the beasts of the field, with the birds of the air, and with the creeping things of the ground. Bow and sword of battle will be shattered from the earth to make them lie down safely. God will betroth Israel to Himself forever. God will betroth Israel to Himself in righteousness and justice, in lovingkindness and mercy. God will betroth Israel to Himself in faithfulness, and Israel shall know the LORD. It shall come to pass in that day that God will answer the heavens, and they shall answer the earth. The earth shall answer with grain, with new wine, and with oil. God will sow Israel for Himself in the earth. God will have mercy on her who had not obtained mercy. God will say to those who were not His people, You are My people, and they shall say, You are my God.

Matthew (Part One)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Matthew wrote his account with the Jews in mind, repeatedly saying, 'This was done to fulfill the prophets,' emphasizing the law and the Kingdom of God.