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The Honor Due to Parents
CGG Weekly by Richard T. RitenbaughHonor, in its deepest sense, transcends mere recognition or celebration, embodying profound esteem and deference. It implies holding someone in high respect, as seen when addressing a judge as "Your Honor," signifying respect for their role as gatekeeper of the law, revealing the word's legal and moral roots. An honorable person is one who possesses a keen perception of what is legally or morally proper, never lying or cheating to advance themselves, abhorring the betrayal of confidences, and standing firm in their principles despite adversity. The honorable keep their word, pay their debts, and fulfill their vows. God commands in Exodus 20:12, "Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the LORD your God is giving you." The Hebrew term for honor, k&257;bēd, literally means to be heavy or weighty, often carrying a negative connotation of burden, but also turning positive when used figuratively to imply someone noteworthy or impressive. When applied to individuals, it focuses on reputation, suggesting that a person could be weighty due to high position, birth, power, or wealth, and thus worthy of honor. The Bible cautions, however, against honoring those who do not deserve it, emphasizing that people in positions of responsibility, especially those placed by God like parents, should receive the honor due them for their weighty responsibilities. In Romans 13:7, the instruction is clear: "Render therefore to all their due: taxes to whom taxes are due, honor to whom honor." Thus, we should honor those in authority, if only for the sake of their office. The fifth commandment charges us to honor our parents rather than simply obey them, a distinction that bears contemplation. We must always honor our parents, especially in areas where they excel and do what is right, though obedience is conditioned by alignment with God's Word. If a child chooses to disobey a sinful command, they must submit to the consequences, fulfilling their primary responsibility to love and obey God. The moral undertone of honor surfaces in this commandment. God desires that we honor the honorable, respecting our parents' God-given positions of authority and responsibility, and especially honoring them for their integrity and faithfulness to what is right. Following the sound principles and behaviors they taught, out of respect for them and God behind them, provides a well of wisdom to draw from, prolonging and enhancing our days.
To Whom Honor Is Due
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsHonor is a vital concept, deeply embedded in the foundation of a righteous way of life. To honor means to respect, esteem, have high regard for, and to reward. It is an acknowledgment of authority or worthiness in a person, encompassing both an inward emotion of reverence and outward manifestations such as gestures or actions. Honor elevates the person being honored and is bestowed by God Himself, who determines true honor. Honor is viewed from both external and internal perspectives. Outwardly, it includes rank, wealth, or public respect; inwardly, it signifies nobility and integrity of character. True honor, as emphasized, is an inner attitude of deep reverence and respect, not merely an outward action. Without genuine inner honor, outward displays are empty. Honor is due based on relationships and authority, and no greater honor is owed to any human being than to our physical parents. Honoring parents is central to spiritual and physical success, unlocking blessings, while dishonor brings curses and judgment. The principle of honor extends to family dynamics, where fathers and mothers must set examples of respect for each other to cultivate honor in their children. Honor breeds honor, respect breeds respect, and tenderness breeds tenderness, just as dishonor and disrespect breed their own kind. Properly honoring parents is a way of life, rooted in God's truth, and is essential for a household to thrive. Even in imperfect situations or under perverse authority, honor must be maintained unless it conflicts with God's law. Humility is essential to honoring both spiritual and physical parents, and true honor comes from conforming to God's system of reverence and righteousness. Ultimately, God alone is the possessor of honor and worthy of being honored. He commands us to honor our fathers and mothers so that our days may be long and it may be well with us. The highest example of loving honor is seen in Jesus Christ, who demonstrated service and humility. Honor your father and your mother, as the LORD your God has commanded you, that it may be well with you for now and for eternity.
A Matter of Honor
'Ready Answer' by StaffIn this age of dishonor, where disrespect permeates our culture through media and societal attitudes, the call to honor others stands in stark contrast. Honor, defined as esteem, respect, and assigning value, means treating others with reverence because we prize them highly. God instructs us to render honor to whom it is due, not limiting it to Him alone but extending it to various relationships in our lives. Honoring begins with our parents, as commanded in Exodus 20:12, "Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the LORD your God is giving you." This directive comes without qualifiers; we must respect them simply because they are our parents, regardless of their actions. Similarly, parents are to honor their children by raising them with dignity, reflecting the example of our heavenly Father who publicly honors His Son. Within marriage, honor is vital. Husbands are to dwell with their wives with understanding, giving honor to them as joint heirs of grace, ensuring their prayers are not hindered. Wives, in turn, are to submit to their husbands as to the Lord, demonstrating respect. This mutual honor within the family sets a powerful example for children, teaching them respect in their future relationships. Honor extends beyond the family to all older individuals, as Leviticus 19:32 commands us to rise before the gray-headed and honor the presence of an old man. Widows, too, are to be honored, especially those truly in need, showing them special respect. Spiritual elders and ministers deserve double honor, particularly those who labor faithfully in teaching God's Word, regardless of personal opinions about their worthiness. The principle of honor encompasses all relationships, urging us to be kindly affectionate and give preference to one another. We are to honor employers and bosses, respecting them as if serving Christ Himself, without conditions on their behavior. Ultimately, God calls us to honor all people, including civil authorities like kings or presidents, even when their actions seem dishonorable, recognizing the office they hold as ordained by God. By honoring others, we follow our heavenly King and honor Him. Jesus promises in John 12:26 that those who serve Him will be honored by His Father. Thus, in humbling ourselves and giving honor, even to those who may seem unworthy, we align with God's way, receiving honor in return from the Highest in the universe. Our aim should be to honor everyone at all times.
The Christian Medal of Honor
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsGod rewards patient and continual perseverance in good works, reflecting an inner nobility and character.
Honor Before Love
Sermon by John W. RitenbaughAgape love will not occur unless we first learn to honor, esteem, and cherish God and the preciousness of Christ's sacrifice for us.
Life, Fortunes, Sacred Honor
Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. RitenbaughMany of the Declaration's signers literally lost their fortunes, properties, and health—even their lives. Are we willing to commit ourselves as fully?
Respect or Respect of Persons?
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughWhat is the proper balance between respecting someone and showing respect of persons? How should Christians treat each other in formality among church members?
The Fifth Commandment (1997)
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughThe fifth commandment begins the section of six commands regarding our relationships with other people. Children should learn proper respect in the family.
The Fifth Commandment
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughThe fifth commandment stands at the head of the second tablet of the Decalogue, which governs our human relationships. It is critical for family and society.
A Heritage and a Reward
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsAmerican society is cursed because the family, its most important component, is dysfunctional. It is impossible to raise families without God.
What's Happening to Deference?
Commentary by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)Deference has largely disappeared as the emerging generation has been taught by the mores of progressivism to diss their elders, showing contempt for them.
The Fifth Commandment
Sermon by John W. RitenbaughThe fifth commandment teaches our responsibility to give high regard, respect, and esteem to parents and other authority figures, leading to a prosperous life.
Precious Human Treasures
Article by StaffWe live in a youth-oriented culture, yet the elderly have a great deal to offer — if we will only pay attention and not push them to the margins of society.
Displaying a Good Conscience: Politeness
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsTrue politeness is not mere social formality but a sacred expression of Christian virtue. Genuine courtesy flows from love, humility, patience, and integrity.
The Unsung Hero
Sermonette by Ted E. BowlingJoseph exemplified the qualities of fairness, kindness, and humility, giving Jesus a solid moral and ethical foundation, coupled with an exemplary work ethic.