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Respect or Respect of Persons?

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

The Bible cautions against respect of persons, yet instructs us to show proper respect for leaders, the elderly, and others. In previous generations, deference was freely given, with men and boys offering seats to women, the elderly, or disabled, and strangers addressed as Sir, Ma'am, Mister, or Miss. Today, such respect for life and property has diminished, with children rarely addressing adults with courtesy, and even public figures receiving informal or derogatory references. Scripture emphasizes honoring the elderly and giving deference to those in authority, not based on personal merit, but due to their position or description. Insolence toward those deserving respect is a warning of impending social troubles. Respect for God, the Giver of all authority, underlies the deference shown to God-given offices, though formality is not always required, as seen within family dynamics. In the church, formal titles like Mr. and Mrs. may create stilted relationships and risk elitism, despite sincere efforts to avoid disrespect. Respect for God and Jesus Christ is not diminished by intimate terms like Father or Abba, nor by addressing Jesus by His first name, as true respect stems from affection and submission based on Their character and actions. While formal respect through titles may seem forced or hollow, we are obligated by God to give respect, though within the church, insisting on formal titles is unnecessary. Sincere, heartfelt respect should be given to those in office for their work's sake, earned through love for one another.

Courtesy

'Ready Answer' by Mike Ford

These days, everyone demands respect but few are willing to grant it. It is a rare event when someone gives up his seat or when a child shows deference.

To Whom Honor Is Due

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Dishonoring one's parents is a serious abomination, considered a capital offense by God. Fathers must be worthy of honor, teaching their children to honor God.

Courtesy

Sermonette by Mike Ford

God's word has much to say about politeness and rudeness. A Christian who is taught to put others first will have little difficulty being courteous.

What's Happening to Deference?

Commentary by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Deference has largely disappeared as the emerging generation has been taught by the mores of progressivism to diss their elders, showing contempt for them.

What Has Happened to Deference?

CGG Weekly by John W. Ritenbaugh

Deference is a foundational virtue. It reveals one's humility—that he is thoughtfully aware of others and seeking to serve them even in insignificant ways.

Recovering Civility

CGG Weekly by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

We must ask ourselves if we have allowed fleshly works to creep into our lives. A little civility could go a long way in restoring unity among God's people.

Displaying a Good Conscience: Politeness

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

A Matter of Honor

'Ready Answer' by Staff

The Bible has a great deal to say about honor and whom we should honor. Here are some difficult but necessary lesson in honor.

The Fifth Commandment

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

The fifth commandment stands at the head of the second tablet of the Decalogue, which governs our human relationships. It is critical for family and society.

Perfect, Gentle Courtesy (Part 3)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Parents are obligated to teach God's laws to their children. According to Emily Post, good manners are to the family what good morals are to society.

The Fifth Commandment (1997)

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

The fifth commandment begins the section of six commands regarding our relationships with other people. Children should learn proper respect in the family.

Parental Leadership

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Although human fathers have authority, they are not to provoke their children to wrath. Our goal is to produce children whom God would be delighted to call.

The Commandments (Part Ten)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

The fifth commandment provides a bridge, connecting our relationships with God and the relationships with our fellow human beings.

Perfect, Gentle Courtesy (Part 2)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Good manners are not just an accomplishment, but a duty that everyone must practice in order for society to move smoothly.

Civility and Courtesy

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Societal incivility, discourtesy, and in-your-face attitudes (works of the flesh) have manifested themselves in the church of God, but contradict agape.

Precious Human Treasures

Article by Staff

We live in a youth-oriented culture, yet the elderly have a great deal to offer — if we will only pay attention and not push them to the margins of society.

Strengthening the Family

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

God ordained marriage and the family for the physical and spiritual growth and nurturing of children. God's goal is a Family composed of mature spirit beings.

Marriage and the Bride of Christ (Part Twelve)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

As husband and wife are commanded to become one flesh, members of the Bride of Christ become spiritually unified through the indwelling of God's Spirit.

Questioning God

Sermonette by Joseph B. Baity

Biblical figures such as Miriam, Job, and Zechariah illustrate the dangers of questioning of God's sovereignty or authority.

Displaying Gentle and Patient Conduct

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

God's people must follow the spirit of the law regarding the treatment of others, being humble, sincere, and gentle, esteeming others before themselves.

The Christian Medal of Honor

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

God rewards patient and continual perseverance in good works, reflecting an inner nobility and character.

How Far Have We Fallen? (Part One)

Commentary by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Because of the rapid information flow, the changes occur faster and the regressions become the norm, as is seen in the acceptance of homosexuality and abortion.

Paul's Letter to Titus (Part 2)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

The last two chapters of Titus emphasize the importance of sound doctrine to neutralize the negative worldly aspects of culture and the attending heresies.