Selflessness rejects self-will and self-pleasing, expressing agape love through deliberate obedience to the Father and sacrificial service that meets others' genuine needs. It esteems others above oneself, forsaking personal glory, comfort, and recognition to honor God, who already sacrificed greatly by giving His only begotten Son. Unlike worldly servant leadership, which ultimately serves personal gain, godly selflessness aligns the will with God's purpose. The Good Samaritan and the woman planting fig trees demonstrate giving without expecting return. By practicing selflessness daily, disciples abide in the love that fulfills the law, glorifies God, and prepares them for eternal servant leadership.

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Doorway to the Kingdom

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Any time we feel prompted to exalt ourselves, we demonstrate Satan's spirit of pride, thereby jeopardizing our entry into God's family.

The Sentinels

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Ted E. Bowling

The guards at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier perform their duty not for personal glory or attention but out of respect for fallen soldiers, demonstrating a willingness to sacrifice themselves for a greater purpose. Their actions reflect an attitude in which they esteem others above themselves, avoiding any display of rank or insignia that might draw focus to their own status and instead directing all honor toward those they protect. This selflessness requires total dedication, as they endure extreme weather, long hours, and strict personal restrictions without complaint, understanding that sacrifice is not optional but essential to their role. Such commitment illustrates that true character appears most clearly when no one is watching, where actions remain consistent whether surrounded by crowds or alone in the night. This pattern of selflessness connects directly to the call for believers to offer themselves as living sacrifices, submitting personal desires, plans, and comforts to align with God's purposes rather than seeking self-gratification or recognition. Humility lies at the core of this walk, requiring each person to look out for the interests of others and to serve without drawing attention to individual achievements. The path demands forsaking personal glory and pleasure for the higher purpose of honoring God, who has already sacrificed greatly, so that all service points away from self and toward Him. In this way, the guards' example reinforces that the Christian life involves constant vigilance, steadfast perseverance, and a labor of love rooted in trust, all performed to reflect God's character and bring glory to Him alone.

Eternal Servant Leadership

Sermon by Mark Schindler

Selflessness forms the core of the agape love that Jesus requires of His disciples, as it rejects self-will and self-pleasing in favor of deliberate obedience to the Father's commandments. This love originates in the nature of God Himself and expresses itself through sacrificial service that meets the legitimate needs of others rather than their wants. Such selflessness distinguishes true friendship with Christ from mere servanthood, because only those who lay down their lives for one another continue in the love that the Father and the Son share. Worldly approaches to servant leadership attempt similar actions yet remain ultimately self-serving, since their focus stays on personal or corporate gain and therefore collapses when conditions change. In contrast, the selflessness modeled by Jesus aligns the will with God's revealed purpose, producing the fruit that allows the Father and the Son to dwell within and sanctify the believer. This same quality separates the righteous from the unrighteous at the judgment, because acts of service performed without self-interest are counted as service to Christ Himself. By practicing selflessness daily, disciples prepare for the servant leadership they will exercise with Jesus Christ throughout eternity, thereby abiding in the love that fulfills the law and glorifies God.

Altruism

CGG Weekly by John Reiss

Selflessness is the attitude of caring about others and performing acts that help them even when the doer receives nothing in return, an outgoing concern for the well-being of others. The account of the elderly woman planting fig trees demonstrates this quality by showing that present efforts must be undertaken without expectation of personal benefit, since the blessings enjoyed today result from the prior labors of others and current good works establish foundations for those who follow. The Parable of the Good Samaritan further develops the principle by illustrating how the last six commandments are fulfilled through love toward fellow man. Despite the dangers of the road from Jerusalem to Jericho and the enmity between Samaritans and Jews, the Samaritan interrupted his own journey to render aid to a half-dead victim, first treating his wounds with his own supplies, then transporting him to an inn on his own animal, and finally providing two denarii plus a pledge of further payment for his recovery. These actions reflect the Golden Rule of doing to others as one would have them do and embody the instruction to esteem others better than oneself while looking out for their interests. God Himself supplies the perfect standard of such giving, as the Father gave His only begotten Son and the Son came not to be served but to serve and to give His life a ransom for many. The calling to eternal life therefore requires living the way of give, the very quality of altruism that God both exemplifies and commands His people to practice now through gracious and generous assistance to those in need.

Seeking God's Will (Part Four): Sacrifice

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

On the Day of Atonement, we are to afflict our souls by fasting. We do no work, signifying that we did absolutely no work to attain our salvation.

A City on a Hill (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by John Reiss

We may never be featured in a museum, receive a Medal of Honor, or be the subject of a movie, but we can still be outstanding examples with our own lives.

Christian Service

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Although selfless service is not valued today, it is at the core of God's character and a trait we must emulate to go to a higher level of Christian living.

Seeks Not Its Own

Sermon by Bill Onisick

Though as a Pharisee, the apostle Paul had abundant knowledge of God's law and obedience, he was a spiritual babe because he lacked agape love.

Childlike

Sermon by Bill Onisick

Our physical family provides a type of what we aspire to become as children of God, realizing that God loves us as much as He loves Jesus Christ.

John (Part Twenty-One)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

The humble attitude exemplified by Jesus in footwashing shows the mind of God. God expects us to follow Christ's example of loving others, flaws and all.

Waxing Cold

'Prophecy Watch' by John Reiss

As Christ's return nears, we must not allow our godly love to grow cold. Instead, we must maintain and even grow in love toward God and our fellow man.

A Lesson in Sportsmanship

Sermonette by Ted E. Bowling

The 'Pierre De Coubertin Medal' is given out for sportsmanship, honoring generous behavior toward competing athletes—much harder to win than a gold medal.

Friends of the Friendless (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by John Reiss

True worship of God is more than just not sinning but also visiting the widows and the fatherless. These categories represent all who are weak and lack support.

Biblical Loves

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Scripture draws from Koine Greek, offering four distinct words for 'love,' each relaying different dimensions of human connection, restoring clarity and depth.

Principled Living (Part Four): Giving of Ourselves

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

As Christ sacrificed for us, we are called to sacrifice for others. Love is an action, a behavior, rather than an emotion, described in I Corinthians 13.

"If I Have Not Charity"

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Christianity has both an inward aspect (building godly character or becoming sanctified) and an outward aspect (doing practical good works).

Unifying Behaviors

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Every righteous, selfless act of outgoing concern we perform promotes unity within the church, drawing brethren closer together, suggesting a spiritual law.

Themes of Ruth (Part Four): Kindness and Faith

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Both Ruth and Naomi demonstrated covenant loyalty in this marriages long after the death of their spouses. Ruth faithfully continued to serve her mother-in-law.

Isaiah 58 and Fasting

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Fasting puts us in a proper humble and contrite frame of mind, allowing God to respond to us, freeing us from our burdens and guiding us into His Kingdom.