Children of converted parents are sanctified through their parents' calling, deemed clean in God's sight, granting them unique access to divine guidance and truth. This sanctification, however, is not a guarantee; persistent disregard for God's laws risks losing it, as accountability applies to all. Parents bear the solemn duty to teach God's ways diligently, embedding them in family life, as structured environments alone cannot ensure lasting faith. Children must revere parents, honoring God through them, and avoid cursing or contempt, which carries severe consequences. Despite parental inconsistencies, each child is responsible for their actions before God, urged to align choices with His laws and overcome youthful tendencies through self-discipline.

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Teaching Children

Sermonette by John W. Ritenbaugh

The spiritual education of children is the solemn responsibility of their converted parents, not the church. Parents are directly accountable to God for teaching their children, as it is their duty to instill His ways diligently, speaking of them at home, on the way, at bedtime, and upon rising. This responsibility cannot be shifted to the church, as it is a full-time obligation that requires personal example and constant guidance, something the church cannot adequately provide. Historically, programs like Y.O.U. and Y.E.S. inverted this priority by taking over the teaching role, often excluding parents, which led to negative outcomes and failed to produce lasting good fruit among the children. The church's role is to equip the saints, the converted parents, for their work, not to assume the direct education of the children. Parents must shape their children's character, understanding that they stand in a role akin to God's relationship with His children, molding them as He molds us. While occasional group activities for children within the church are acceptable, establishing dominant organizations for this purpose risks repeating past mistakes where such programs overshadowed parental responsibility and dominated church priorities. The key to success in rearing children lies in the parents' personal relationship with their Father in heaven, from Whom the necessary resources and attitudes flow to fulfill this sacred duty.

For the Children

Sermon by David C. Grabbe

Children of converted parents face unique challenges in embracing God's way of life, even when raised in environments structured around His standards. Despite efforts to create settings conducive to spiritual growth, such as schools administered by the church, the spiritual outcomes for these children are often mixed. Many fail to hold onto the truth, with high attrition rates showing that only a small percentage continue to adhere to God's way as they mature. A structured environment, while helpful, is not a guarantee of a lasting spiritual foundation. God's instructions emphasize the importance of generational teaching, ensuring that His way is passed on to each new generation. He commands that His law be read before all, including the little ones, so they may learn to fear the LORD their God and observe His words. This responsibility is placed directly on parents, not on the church or national leadership. Parents are to impress God's words into their own hearts and lives, teaching them to their children in every circumstance, so that His way becomes etched into the fabric of the family. The failure of many children to remain rooted in faith often stems from parents relinquishing their God-given duty, mistakenly believing that church programs or environments will suffice for spiritual training. Additionally, if God's truth is not a deep conviction in the parents' lives, it becomes merely a set of practices to the children, lacking the transformative power to sustain them against worldly influences. Children can discern inconsistency or hypocrisy in their parents, leading to distrust not only of the parents but also of the way of life they proclaim. For children to embrace God's way, parents must live it consistently, taking Him into account as the overriding factor in all decisions. This sincere commitment, demonstrated through a life aligned with His word, helps children recognize the distinction between the holy and the profane. By choosing life and good as God urges, parents increase the likelihood that their children will also value and choose this way, learning to fear the LORD and live according to His standards.

Sanctification and the Teens

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Children of converted parents hold a unique position, as they are sanctified through their parents' calling, according to I Corinthians 7:14. This sanctification means they are deemed clean in God's sight, not sinless, but legally acceptable in His presence, granting them an extraordinary opportunity for true success in life. They are not cut off from God as the rest of mankind is, and thus have access to divine guidance and truth, an advantage unavailable to most young people worldwide. However, this sanctification is not a guarantee of protection or a free pass. Just as parents can lose their sanctification by neglecting their responsibilities to God, so too can their children if they disregard His laws. The law plays no favorites, regardless of age, gender, or status. If children persistently break God's laws, they risk losing the sanctification bestowed upon them through their parents, facing the same accountability as adults. Young people must be cautious not to be careless with this gift. They are urged to rethink any complacent or reckless attitudes, recognizing that much is required of those to whom much is given. The guidance available through their sanctification offers a vision for conducting life in a way that pleases God, a privilege they must choose to embrace. Despite potential inconsistencies in parental guidance, children are ultimately responsible for their own actions before God, as each soul must stand on its own merits, according to Ezekiel 18:4 and 18:18-20. God's laws emphasize the seriousness of a child's conduct toward parents, equating maltreatment or cursing of parents with severe offenses like murder, punishable by death under His law, as seen in Exodus 21:12-17. Cursing, meaning to belittle or speak contemptuously, violates the reverence due to parents, who represent God, and breaks the Fifth Commandment. Leviticus 19:1-3 instructs children to revere their parents, a reverence that prepares them to honor God. Proverbs 20:20 warns that cursing parents may lead to a loss of divine guidance, symbolized by a lamp being extinguished in complete darkness, resulting in no prosperity or future. Children are encouraged to form a vision based on divine guidance, setting goals for righteous conduct and exercising self-discipline to follow God's truth. They must overcome the tendencies of youth—shortsightedness, impatience, and overconfidence—as cautioned in I Corinthians 13:11 and I Timothy 2:22, and make choices that align with God's laws, understanding that they will be judged for their actions, as Solomon advises in Ecclesiastes 11:9-10 and 12:1, 10-14.

Surviving the Next Hit

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

How can there be such a high attrition rate among the younger generation? How could 84 percent so easily give up the doctrines that they ostensibly believed?

Childrearing (Part One)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

The family problems predicted for the end times in II Timothy stem from faulty childrearing practices. We must help prepare our children for the Kingdom.

Sanctification, Teens, and Self-Control

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Young people are responsible for the spiritual knowledge that they have learned from their parents, as well as the custodianship of spiritual blessings.

Wisdom for the Young (Part Five)

CGG Weekly by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Seeking God is a personal, private matter between God and the individual, but the result of the person's quest will be manifested in the way he lives.

Don't Cherry Pick God's Law

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Kim Myers

While many people like some of God's laws, they like to pick and choose, preferring a blend of their own preferences with some of God's laws added in.

You Are What You Choose

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Young people must make a choice in favor of God's will. We have the freedom of choice to set our destiny, and must bear the consequences of our choice.

Can a Believer Sanctify a Husband or Wife?

Sermonette by David C. Grabbe

If only God can call someone into His family, how is it possible that a believing husband or wife can sanctify a spouse or child (I Corinthians 7:14)?

Acts (Part Seventeen)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Paul, by circumcising Timothy, demonstrates a reluctance to flaunt his religious liberty, preferring instead to exercise cautious conservative expediency.

How God Deals With Conscience (Part Two)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

We may have guilty consciences like Joseph's brothers and self-pity like Jacob, but we can break through if we acknowledge God as Jacob and Elisha did.

Conviction and Moses

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Our conviction reveals itself in living by faith. Moses is a stunning example of how a convicted Christian should live — with loyalty and faithfulness to God.