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Meekness
Bible Study by Martin G. CollinsTrue meekness arises as an inwardly developed tender-heartedness directed first and chiefly toward God. This attitude leads believers to accept His will as good and to respond without disputing or resisting, even amid adversity. It flows from the recognition that God permits insults and injuries from the world or fellow believers for the purpose of chastening and purification. Because this tender-heartedness is rooted in God's own character, it must be actively pursued and put on as part of the believer's character, enabling patient endurance of wrong without resentment. In practice it produces good conduct marked by righteousness rather than self-assertiveness, guiding interactions with all people through humble correction and teaching that can lead others to repentance. Far from weakness, such tender-heartedness reflects the power of the Spirit and measures itself against Christ's example of humility, patience, and total submission to the Father, yielding the promised blessings of peace and inheritance.
Perfect, Gentle Courtesy (Part 2)
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsTenderheartedness appears in the material as one of the essential Christian virtues that believers are instructed to put on along with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. In Colossians 3:12 it is grouped with tender mercies as part of the conduct becoming the elect of God. Ephesians 4:32 places it directly beside kindness and forgiveness, stating that believers should be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave them. First Peter 3:8 likewise joins it to compassion, brotherly love, and courtesy, requiring all to be of one mind while maintaining these qualities toward one another. The quality is presented as an inward disposition of the heart rather than an external performance. It stands in direct contrast to bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, evil speaking, and malice, which are to be put away so that speech may instead impart grace to hearers. This heart attitude supports the broader call to lay aside the old conduct learned in the world and to put on the new man created according to God in true righteousness and holiness. Tenderheartedness therefore functions as part of the practical outworking of righteousness that produces peace, quietness, and assurance in relationships within the church. It is further connected to the example of Jesus Christ, whose own gentleness and lowliness supply both the pattern and the power for such conduct. As believers follow that pattern they become a people marked by the same mercy and patience that Christ extends, enabling them to bear with one another in love and to avoid giving offense. In this way tenderheartedness contributes to the perfect gentle courtesy that the material identifies as a necessary witness and as an expression of the fruit of the Spirit.
Kindness
Bible Study by Martin G. CollinsKindness, rendered from the Greek chrestotes, encompasses goodness of heart along with graciousness and gentleness, and its many synonyms include tenderheartedness. This quality expresses itself as love in tender action, a facet of moral excellence that remains inseparably linked to the other fruit of the Spirit. God Himself demonstrates such tenderheartedness through abundant mercy, everlasting kindness, and the gift of His Son, extending compassion even to the unjust. King David modeled the same trait by honoring his covenant with Jonathan through faithful, benevolent deeds. In human relationships the desire for others to act with tenderhearted sacrifice is strong, yet true Christian practice requires reciprocating that disposition, beginning with kind words and extending to merciful, compassionate conduct. Believers cultivate tenderheartedness by adding it to virtues such as brotherly kindness and by clothing themselves with mercy and love, thereby producing visible deeds rather than mere thoughts. Jesus Christ embodied this attribute throughout His life, and those who follow Him display the same self-sacrificing tenderness in both great and unnoticed acts, confirming their readiness for the Kingdom of God.
Compassion (Part One)
CGG Weekly by John ReissWe like to think we are tender-hearted, but sometimes we fail to appreciate what others are really going through. Compassion is more than tender-heartedness.
The Wrath of Man
CGG Weekly by Clyde FinkleaRighteous anger is unselfish. Sinful anger occurs when our desires, ambitions, or demands are not met, always focusing on satisfying the self.
Perfect, Gentle Courtesy (Part 1)
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsOur manners express our personality, especially as they portray humility, courtesy, or gentleness, and are improved as we make use of God's Spirit.
Have You Become an Example to All Who Believe?
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsWhether we are called to welcome others, speak truthfully, keep commitments, or guard our own speech, credibility flows from consistent daily actions.
Manifesting Kindness
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsWe desperately need to internalize the godly traits of kindness, mercy, compassion, and tenderness, displacing the carnal traits of bitterness and wrath.
Displaying Virtuous Character
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsSelf-control has both an inward and outward dimension, the latter concerned with human relationships, manners, and reflecting God's orderly mindset.
Perfect, Gentle Courtesy (Part 3)
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsParents are obligated to teach God's laws to their children. According to Emily Post, good manners are to the family what good morals are to society.
The Beatitudes, Part 5: Blessed Are the Merciful
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughMercy is a virtue that has gone out of vogue, though it is sometimes admired. Jesus, however, places it among the most vital His followers should possess.
Conduct of the New Life
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsDriving out the evil must be followed by cultivating goodness and righteousness. An antidote to depression is to get our hearts focused on someone else.
The Meekness and Gentleness of Christ
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsJesus demonstrated His meekness in His treatment of many with whom He interacted. Balancing firmness and gentleness, He seeks to save rather than destroy.
Our Part in the Sanctification Process (Part Six): Cultivating Kindness
Sermon by David F. MaasBecause kindness is love in action, we must galvanize our thoughts into concrete behaviors, including offering encouraging words and performing uplifting deeds.
A Leader in Every Man!
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsAs Joshua felt fearful at assuming leadership, most men also feel the same trepidation, but God Almighty has placed in their DNA the ability to lead.
Joseph: A Saga of Excellence (Part Four)
Sermon by John W. RitenbaughJoseph's example proves that even the most difficult temptation can be resisted and overcome, though this skill must be developed incrementally.