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The Fruit of the Spirit: Kindness
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughKindness is the second of the three fruits most directly associated with personal, human relationships. It implies a more active expression of love toward God and fellow man, distinct from patience, which is love forbearing. Without kindness, no act is truly done in love, as both qualities are bound together in the essence of love. Kindness is a rare quality today, often noteworthy when displayed, and can positively impress even those who provoke us through acts that reveal patient love. The love described by Paul, which is the love of God, found its perfect expression in Jesus Christ, whose outgoing love manifested in acts of kindness, healing, and casting out demons. Kindness often requires no money, only the sacrifice of time and energy, and the discipline to be thoughtful of others' needs. Simple acts like smiling, visiting, offering encouragement, or showing friendliness through a warm handshake exemplify this virtue. God's kindness to His creation is unending and overflowing, graciously giving unearned gifts despite humanity's sins and neglect of His purpose. He does not return evil for evil, bear grudges, or plot revenge, but freely gives even to evildoers while patiently working toward His purpose. His kindness is evident in His provision for Israel despite their provocations, providing abundantly for them over centuries. His ultimate act of kindness is the gift of a blessing by which all sins can be met and paid, setting a clear standard for us to follow in our lives. David's heart, beloved by God, exemplified kindness in his desire to do good to Saul's house despite past persecutions. His spontaneous and self-motivated act to show the kindness of God elevated his motive to a higher plane. Within the fellowship of a local congregation, kindness can be challenging due to character weaknesses and personality flaws, yet God calls us to strengthen the weak, open our hearts, and generously give comfort, hope, and encouragement. We are urged to be kinder in evaluating others, to refrain from believing or spreading derogatory stories, and to deal with brethren in the gentlest, kindest manner possible, doing good to all men as opportunities arise. God's nature is to give mercy, create beauty, and save, delighting in mercy with intensity and readiness of mind. He visited us, entering our life on our level, assuming our nature, and bearing our infirmities to be a merciful High Priest, continuously showing kindness through countless acts. As His Spirit dwells in us, this nature grows within us, enabling us to work out our salvation and conform to His image despite our provocations and rebellions. We are urged to put on kindness, tender mercies, and forgiveness, acting with affection and letting our tender feelings guide us to help those in distress, just as Christ did. Though the world has hardened us, kindness is something we must develop, enabled by God's Spirit, and it remains a sweet fruit that fosters unity, backed by His promise that His kindness shall not depart from us.
Kindness
Bible Study by Martin G. CollinsTrue kindness is a gift from God, produced in us by the Holy Spirit. The world perceives kindness on a limited plane, but kind words and actions reflect a deeper goodness of heart. Kindness, as seen in the behavior of God the Father and Jesus Christ toward mankind, sets the pattern for all to follow. God gives sunshine, rain, fruitful seasons, glad hearts, and all that is good to both the just and the unjust. His marvelous kindness is great and abundant, showing mercy with everlasting kindness to those who obey Him. Through the life, sacrifice, and intercession of Jesus Christ, God reveals the exceeding wealth of His grace in kindness toward us. Kindness is love in tender action, a quality of goodness that requires gentleness in word and deed. It encompasses benevolence, generosity, mercy, charity, sympathy, compassion, and tenderheartedness. As a major attribute of moral excellence, kindness is intricately entwined with other spiritual fruits. In human relationships, we desire kindness from others, often in the form of self-sacrifice, and it begins with the kind use of the tongue. A virtuous woman speaks with kindness, and we are called to be kind to one another, adding brotherly kindness to the godly virtues God develops in us. Christian kindness is expressed through mercy, compassion, and love toward others, as well as zealous affection toward God and His church. It is an action, not merely a thought, requiring us to sow and reap through deeds. Though great acts of kindness may be rare, scarcely an hour passes without the chance to perform minor, unnoticed words or acts of kindness. Living according to God's instruction and following the example of Christ, aided by the Holy Spirit, we produce the wonderful, spiritual fruit of kindness.
Themes of Ruth (Part Four): Kindness and Faith
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughBoth Ruth and Naomi demonstrated covenant loyalty in this marriages long after the death of their spouses. Ruth faithfully continued to serve her mother-in-law.
Our Part in the Sanctification Process (Part Six): Cultivating Kindness
Sermon by David F. MaasBecause kindness is love in action, we must galvanize our thoughts into concrete behaviors, including offering encouraging words and performing uplifting deeds.
Manifesting Kindness
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsWe desperately need to internalize the godly traits of kindness, mercy, compassion, and tenderness, displacing the carnal traits of bitterness and wrath.
Be Kind
'Ready Answer' by James C. StoertzWe frequently admonish our children to 'Be nice,' but what does it mean? It is far better to learn kindness, a biblically defined fruit of God's Spirit.
Be Kind
Sermonette by James C. StoertzThe seemingly benign advice to 'Be Nice' falls short of a truly virtuous approach to life. It is associated with pleasant but superficial behavior.
Sacrifice Dost Thou Want: Kindness
Sermon by Bill OnisickKindness, as a fruit of God's Spirit, is a foundational daily sacrifice that we must actively work to put on each and every day. It is the feeling of compassion in action, encompassing right thoughts, words, gestures, and deeds, reciprocating God's sacrificial love outwardly to others. Kindness requires effort and can only be truly developed when we are bonded through humble daily sacrifice and obedience with God, enabling us through His indwelling Spirit to perform acts of service to fellow man. God's Spirit of kindness controls our mind to think positively of others, always seeking opportunities to serve and do good works. It bridles our tongue, preventing complaints and negative speech about anyone, as complaining is unkind, self-focused, and contrary to God's nature. Kindness readily gives to anyone in need without keeping score or worrying about past interactions, forbearing, forgiving, and accepting loss of self-esteem to maintain peace. True kindness arises from spiritual transformation and submission to God, especially in challenging situations, and is not optional for God's called. It is a necessary response to the forgiveness and compassion we have received from Him. God's fruit of kindness is given to everyone, both to those who deserve it and to those who do not, reflecting His character of being kind to the unthankful and the evil. Only those with God's indwelling Spirit, through daily sacrifices, are empowered to perform kindness without expectation of return or keeping score, responding to His unmerited sacrifice with our own acts of kindness. When we understand the fullness of God's great mercy and kindness, we are empowered by His Holy Spirit to exhibit this humble sacrifice to everyone, regardless of merit. Kindness is an outward attribute showing we are like God, enabled through His Holy Spirit, and not a magical occurrence but a deliberate act of sacrifice. Each act of kindness, given without expectation, transforms our selfish carnal mind into a selfless, godly mind, producing God's fruit of the Spirit. Many acts of kindness do not require much time or effort, yet they are especially sweet to those in desperate need, fostering unity and peace with God and fellow man. As God's elect, we are called to be a shining light to the world, working harder to exhibit His fruit of kindness through simple gestures like a friendly greeting, encouraging words, or small acts of consideration. Each day, we have the opportunity to follow Christ's example as a living sacrifice, extending His kindness to others, regardless of what may be deserved, by developing a heart attuned to others' needs and being ready to reach out when the opportunity arises.
God's Enduring Mercy
CGG Weekly by Ronny H. GrahamOur hearts may overflow with compassion for someone in need, and it could be in our power to help, but if we take no positive action, what good is it?
The Golden Rule (Part Two)
CGG Weekly by John ReissShowing kindness within friendships will make them all the stronger. Kindness reduces friction; it is the oil that allows our friendships to run their best.
Go and Do Likewise
Sermon by Bill OnisickWithout the gift of God's Holy Spirit, it is impossible to understand the kind of love which Christ commanded of His disciples.
The Golden Rule (Part One)
CGG Weekly by John ReissGod's way of life is a way of outgoing concern for the good of others. It is offering a hand to help others to do what they cannot do for themselves.
You Shall Love Your Neighbor (Part Two)
CGG Weekly by John O. ReidShowing God's love to our neighbor goes beyond wishing him well but extends to actively doing him good. It means doing what will benefit him.
Parable of the Good Samaritan
Bible Study by Martin G. CollinsThis well-known parable describes working compassion as contrasted to selfishness. It also clarifies just who is our neighbor.
A True Disciple
Sermonette by Clyde FinkleaWe must exercise longsuffering and kindness to all, including to those that have done ill to us. We are disciples of Christ if we love one another.
Have Mercy
Sermonette by Hunter D. SwansonWhen we become fixated on past resentment, we will never find opportunities to display mercy, enabling a repentant brother to move forward.
Mercy
Sermonette by Ronny H. GrahamMercy is an important dimension of God's character, displayed by our compassion on and forgiveness of those over whom we have power.
The Beatitudes, Part 5: Blessed Are the Merciful
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughMercy is a virtue that has gone out of vogue, though it is sometimes admired. Jesus, however, places it among the most vital His followers should possess.
What Makes a True Disciple? (Part Two)
CGG Weekly by Clyde FinkleaLove is patient and kind. These are the only two characteristics Paul says love is, defining it positively. What follows is what love does not do.
God Always Defaults in Mercy
Sermon by Clyde FinkleaAs we strive to be perfect as our Father in Heaven is perfect, we should be as merciful as Our Heavenly Father, making mercy our default.
Essence of Love
Sermonette by Clyde FinkleaDavid took all the persecutions from King Saul, and then later showed his mercy to Saul's extended family, he demonstrated the true essence of godly love.
Conduct of the New Life
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsDriving out the evil must be followed by cultivating goodness and righteousness. An antidote to depression is to get our hearts focused on someone else.
Mercy: The Better Option
'Ready Answer' by John O. ReidIt is easy to fall into the traps of judgmentalism, gossip, and unforgiveness. We must overcome our natural reactions and use forbearance in our relationships.
Children of the Light
Sermon by Clyde FinkleaThe Beatitudes Mount contains Jesus' instruction primarily to His disciples, outlining seven unified character traits that define the 'children of light.'
The Identifying Sign of a True Disciple of Jesus
Sermon by Clyde FinkleaThe Navy SEALs' fear is not of death, but of failing their team, parallel to the bond Jesus Christ desires among His disciples.
Perfect, Gentle Courtesy (Part 2)
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsGood manners are not just an accomplishment, but a duty that everyone must practice in order for society to move smoothly.
Thou Shall Love Thy Neighbor
Sermon by John O. ReidWe are obligated to show compassion and mercy to all, refraining from gossip, exercising righteous judgment, forgiving others and applying the Golden Rule.
The Widow and the Fatherless (Part One)
CGG Weekly by Mike FordWe can sum up the epistle of James with one verse: 'Pure and undefiled religion...is this: to visit orphans and widows..., and to keep oneself unspotted...."
A Virtuous Woman
CGG Weekly by Richard T. RitenbaughThe phrase "a virtuous woman" means "woman of worth," "woman of strength," or "woman of noble character." It denotes a woman of skill, aptitude, or achievement.
The Importance of Appreciation
CGG Weekly by John ReissIn addition to thanking God for all He does, it is a godly principle to take time to consider the kind acts of others and let them know we appreciate them.
Eternal Servant Leadership
Sermon by Mark SchindlerOur responsibility should be to learn to serve rather than to emulate the pompous gentile leaders who love to domineer over their subjects.
Finding Favor
Sermonette by Ryan McClureWhen we attain favor with God, we often find favor with our fellow man, but not always. We can find favor with both God and man if we value a good name.
The Church Family - Convinced and Persuaded
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsChurch government should reflect God's government, typified as a family, with Christ as the loving husband and the church as the submissive wife.
No Real Love Without God
Sermon by John O. ReidLoving God is the greatest calling we have been given, a command that surpasses all others in importance. We are to love the Lord with all our heart, with every faculty and power, holding Him supreme above all beings or things with tremendous ardor and zeal. This means devoting our lives to Him in service, submitting our intellect to His will, and loving His law and gospel more than our own thoughts and decisions. We must be willing to surrender all our faculties to His teaching and guidance, dedicating our intellectual abilities to Him. With all our physical and mental strength, we are to labor to please and glorify Him by becoming like Him in all that we do. The first four commandments reveal how we show direct love toward God. We must have no other gods besides Him, allowing nothing to take precedence over our commitment to Him. We are to avoid making idols, whether physical or in the form of lifestyles, intellect, beauty, strength, wealth, or escapes we turn to in weakness. Loving God requires us to fight against these distractions and rid ourselves of them. We must honor His name in all aspects of our lives—our marriages, childrearing, business practices, and what we allow into our minds—representing Him with integrity. Keeping the Sabbath as holy time, from sunset Friday to sunset Saturday, is a sign of our love and obedience to Him. It is a time to rest from ordinary duties, to engage in meaningful Bible study, to visit the sick, to encourage one another, and to be refreshed spiritually while attending services. God's love toward us is the foundation of our ability to love Him. He first loved us, even when we were ignorant of His way and did not desire it, wanting the best for us when we did not know what was good for ourselves. His love is shown in the world He has given us, in the rain that falls on the just and unjust, in His patience toward us, and most profoundly in sending His Son as a sacrifice so we might be reconciled to Him. We perceive His love because He laid down His life for us, and in like manner, we are to lay down our lives for others. As we actively love others, both within and outside the church, in the same manner that God loves us, His love is perfected in us, and we grow in His nature, going on to perfection. Loving God produces a desire to live His way, and His commandments are essential to that life. Obedience to His Word trains us to become just like Him, reflecting His nature. For those who conscientiously observe and work to obey His doctrine, the love of God is perfected, establishing an intimate relationship with Him and His Son. True love in the heart will be reflected in our way of living, showing that we belong to Him. If we harbor hatred or grudges toward others, we do not have His love within us. Perfect love casts out fear, and as we grow in love and trust in Him, we can stand boldly before Him, taking on His nature. We are to love Him because He first loved us, and this love is not our own but His love working in us, shaping us to love others as He does.
Time for Self-Evaluation
'Ready Answer' by John O. ReidPrior to the Days of Unleavened Bread, we are told to examine ourselves. How can we do that? Here are a few pointers on doing a thorough, honest once over.
Do Unto Others and Reap What We Sow
Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)Reaping good fruit does not happen immediately. If we feel we are not reaping, we must consider that we might be reaping some negative things we have sown.
The Fruit of the Spirit: Goodness
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughGoodness is a nebulous concept, used to describe everything from a tasty snack to God's sublime character. But God's character defines what goodness is.
Perfect, Gentle Courtesy (Part 3)
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsParents are obligated to teach God's laws to their children. According to Emily Post, good manners are to the family what good morals are to society.
Are You Weary of Doing What's Right?
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsSowing to the Spirit enables us to walk in the Spirit, keeping ourselves from spiritual weariness while keeping an environment of peace and tranquility.
Sowing and Reaping (2003)
Sermonette by John W. RitenbaughFear of any kind is never an excuse to break any of God's laws. God wants us to learn the principle of reciprocity- that what we sow we will also reap.
Civility and Courtesy
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughSocietal incivility, discourtesy, and in-your-face attitudes (works of the flesh) have manifested themselves in the church of God, but contradict agape.
God Expects a Return on His Investment (Part Six)
Sermon by David F. MaasWhen we find our proper niche of service in the body of Christ, we will experience more joy and fun than a human being ought to be allowed.
By This Shall All Men Know You
Sermon by John O. ReidA native practice involves leaving a young man on a remote island with only a bow and arrows until he learns to become a man, and God does something similar.