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Love's Basic Definition

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The love of God is defined as keeping His commandments, a succinct and poignant description that ties directly to knowing Him. Without love, one cannot truly know God, and thus cannot have eternal life, for God is love. This love is the essence and core of Christianity, the greatest of all virtues, surpassing even faith and hope, though they are united with it. Love is complete and permanent, never failing or ending, enduring and bearing all things. It is a never-ending obligation, a debt owed to others daily, and the bond that ties other fine qualities together, enabling their proper use. God is love, meaning He is a loving God, driven by love as His underlying motivation in all He does. When He created, it was an act of love, motivated by a desire to share His life and quality of existence with others. His provision for creation, maintenance of both spiritual and physical aspects, and care for the just and unjust alike are evidence of His love. God's redemption of mankind, granting free moral agency, and offering the hope of eternal life further manifest this love, showing His desire to share what He is with others. The love of God always involves a cost, often requiring sacrifice, whether minor or great, even to the point of giving up what is most precious for another's well-being, including those not liked. This costliness is essential, as seen in acts that benefit others, mirroring God's own actions. The standard for measuring acts of love is the life of Jesus Christ, who spent Himself for mankind in every deed, becoming poor though He was rich, humbling Himself, and subjecting Himself to death. Love is an action, not merely a feeling, and becomes love only when the act is performed. Obedience to God's commandments proves and shows the love of God, directing actions clearly even when feelings might mislead. Feelings, often shaped by carnal experiences, must be overcome by reasoned effort and faith to follow God's law, transforming into right feelings through the Spirit of God as acts of love are practiced. Thus, the love of God is perfected in those who keep His Word, combining right action with right feeling, growing and maturing through use within the fellowship of His people.

Love's Importance and Source

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The world is in desperate need of love, a concept often misunderstood and misused. Many view love as a fleeting emotion, a warm feeling, or a thrill, equating it with a sense of regard or desire for someone or something. Others see it as mere preference or emotionalism, using the term loosely to express affection for trivial things like food, objects, or styles. However, such expressions are not true love but rather opinions or preferences. True love must involve the right kind of caring, though caring alone is not sufficient to define it. Love holds supreme importance in life, surpassing even the valuable gifts of prophecy, tongues, and knowledge. Unlike these gifts, which have their limits and will eventually end, love is eternal and always useful. There will never be a time when love cannot be applied. Without love, even God's gifts risk corrupting those who receive them, as power and knowledge can inflate pride and lead to division. Love is a debt owed to every person, every day, a debt that can never be fully paid. Regardless of how much love is given on one day, the obligation renews the next, as there is always someone in need of help. Love is the sum of all duties, the driving force behind every action, and the motivation that enables one to keep God's commandments. If love is the foundation, one cannot harm another, as love stifles thoughts of wrongdoing at their inception. Love also serves as the bond of perfection, the unifying force that holds groups together, preventing them from fragmenting. Unlike worldly virtues such as drive or assertiveness, which can descend into anger and division without spiritual control, love fosters community and unity. It is not weak but requires strength to resist carnal urges and do what is right. Ultimately, love originates from God, who is its source. God's nature is loving, and every action—whether creating, ruling, or judging—is an expression of that love. Human love, apart from God, is merely a faint reflection of His constant and boundless love. Man, made in God's image but bound by flesh and carnality, cannot fully reflect that image until transformed to love as God loves. This transformation begins with knowing God, which is intertwined with loving Him, creating a cycle sustained by God's initiating and enduring love. Through fellowship with Him, one receives and practices this love, growing to reflect His nature. God's love is revealed through His actions, such as the gift of His Son, the creation, His providence, and the granting of free moral agency. These acts demonstrate that love is not merely a feeling but an action, a sharing and giving that cannot exist in isolation. As God manifests His love through what He does, so must His followers express love through their actions, both toward Him and toward others, especially their brethren. This active love serves as a witness to the world of God's presence and nature.

No Real Love Without God

Sermon by John O. Reid

The world today is driven not by love, but by Satan's way of living, marked by greed, hatred, lust, and self-seeking—the way of get, the way of self. What the world truly needs is not the fleeting, worldly idea of love or the passionate entanglements of youth, but the true love of man reflected across all mankind, bringing peace, harmony, joy, happiness, fulfillment, purpose, and brotherly love to heal this entire world. A lack of this true love reveals a deeper void, for hatred, animosity, greed, and wrath stem from another source: the prince of the power of the air. Those who fail to reflect God's love in their lives do not know Him, regardless of their knowledge of Scripture. In the end times, as lawlessness abounds, the love of many will grow cold, influenced by cruelty, persecutions, betrayals, and false teachings. This crumbling world, coupled with brethren drifting apart or losing zeal, puts pressure on us to abandon the fervor of our first love. The danger lies not in a lack of knowledge or understanding, but in a lack of application of what we know we should be doing. A lack of confidence or persistent fear—of job loss, illness, the economy, wars, or the unknown—demonstrates that our love and trust in God are not as complete as they should be. Perfect love casts out fear, and we must work to perfect our love, faith, and trust in Him, knowing He will help us. If we harbor hatred toward our spouses, fellow workers, or others, we do not possess the love of God. The world fails to grasp the depth of love Jesus desires from His disciples. Like the Ephesian era of the church, we risk losing our first love by focusing on the details of our calling while drifting from imitating the heart of Jesus Christ in our relationships with family, church members, and neighbors. We must not let down in maintaining a humble, serving attitude essential for those God selects for His Kingdom. True love requires active belief, not mere acknowledgment, prompting us to grow, apply His teachings, and move toward perfection without harboring grudges or anger toward others begotten by God.

Love

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John O. Reid

Love, in its truest form, is defined as an outgoing concern for others, a selfless dedication to their well-being above one's own desires. It is not primarily an emotion but a decision of the will, leading to right action, as exemplified by acts of sacrifice and kindness even in the face of hostility. This agape love can be commanded, for it stems from a deliberate choice to behave in a loving manner, regardless of personal feelings or conditions. Love is fervent, meaning it is continual, intense, diligent, careful, earnest, and perpetual. It requires sincerity, being unfeigned and without hypocrisy, genuinely expressed from the heart. It involves stretching oneself to love others, even when personalities or backgrounds do not align, pushing beyond barriers to show care and concern. This love overlooks faults, forgives offenses, and does not broadcast sins, reflecting a deep commitment to harmony and understanding. Love, as a standard, is patient, enduring trials without losing faith or giving up. It is kind, showing tenderness and compassion, always ready to help or assist. It does not envy or boast, nor is it puffed up with pride, but rejoices in the blessings of others without jealousy. Love does not behave rudely, provoke anger, or think evil, instead giving the benefit of the doubt and forgetting wrongs. It bears all things, covering faults in silence, believes the best in others, hopes even when all seems lost, and endures under any strain with trust in God. Ultimately, love sets a powerful example, becoming a light to the world through consistent, caring actions that demonstrate a difference in character. It covers a multitude of sins by forgiving and hiding offenses, prioritizing reconciliation over resentment. As the highest standard, love reflects the mind of Jesus Christ, guiding us to live a better life through selfless concern for others, just as He demonstrated through His ultimate sacrifice.

Essence of Love

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David took all the persecutions from King Saul, and then later showed his mercy to Saul's extended family, he demonstrated the true essence of godly love.

The Fruit of the Spirit: Love

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Love, as revealed in the Bible, holds supreme importance to life. It surpasses all other qualities and gifts from God in value, completeness, permanence, and necessity. Unlike temporal gifts such as prophecy, tongues, or knowledge, which may become obsolete or situational, love never ends and remains essential on every occasion. It is the attribute that enables us to receive and use God's gifts without corruption, preventing pride and destruction that can arise from other powers. Biblical love is not merely a feeling, preference, or caring, as often misunderstood in the world. It is not a warm, emotional thrill or a casual expression of liking something. Instead, love is an action, demonstrated through obedience to God's commandments. Keeping His commandments is the proof and expression of love, reflecting God's own nature, as He is love and cannot sin. His commands, given in love, guide actions toward right and good results. Love also serves as the bond that holds communities together, restraining individuals to act in unity despite frictions. It is not limited to specific virtues but encompasses traits that enable communal living, requiring strength to resist natural urges and follow God's commands. Furthermore, love must be pursued and perfected, as it is not innate but comes supernaturally through God's Spirit. While it can be shown coldly or dutifully, the ideal is to express it with joyous, wholehearted enthusiasm and thankful devotion. The love of God and the love of man are inseparable. True love for God necessitates love for others; without it, claims of loving God are false. Obedience to His commands, principles, and examples is the foundation of godly love, empowered by His Spirit, guiding us into truth and creating His image in us as the supreme virtue of the Almighty Creator.

Loving Christ and Revelation 2:1-7

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The agape love is broader in application than the phileo love. Agape embraces judgment and the deliberate offense of the will as a manner of principle or duty with or without an affectionate feeling. The agape love involves judgment. It involves evaluating a situation as to whether or not it is right to do it. It embraces judgment and the deliberate offense of the will. One evaluates a situation and how one is going to handle it, and then one decides it would be love to do such and such and so and so, and then one sets one's will to do it. The agape love does not necessarily have to have an affectionate feeling attached to it. It can be the kind of love when one is performing a duty or an obligation, but it can and most frequently does include the feeling of affection as well. However, phileo expresses family affection. It has nothing to do with the will at all. Phileo love comes without one asking for it, because one loves one's family members. It is present there simply because one is a member of a certain family. It expresses family affection. It is a personal attachment as a matter of sentiment or feeling. God is love.

Going Beyond Definitions

Commentary by David C. Grabbe

It is improper to build a doctrine on one scripture, let alone the definition of a word. We need at least two reliable witnesses to establish any teaching.

John 3:16: Does God Really Love the World?

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

God does not love everybody equally. Nowhere does He tell us to prefer the ungodly world. Though He tells us to love our enemies, but not to be affectionate.

Patriotism, the Summer Soldier, and Our Times (Part One)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Jesus Christ was not a sunshine patriot, but sacrificed everything He had for the sake of God's people and the Kingdom of God—His holy nation.

Intimacy with Christ (Part Four)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

We don't really know something unless we have experienced it. Knowing God manifests itself in the way one lives, reflecting faithfulness and obedience.

Offerings (Part Seven)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

If we want to follow Christ, we must sacrifice, take up our cross, and follow His example of service to God and others.

Don't Stand Still!

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The best way to conquer evil is to do righteousness, serving God and mankind. Sins of omission are every bit as devastating as sins of commission.

God and Reality

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

What God puts us through is designed to reveal reality to us. Accepting His doctrine without looking for loopholes will keep us true.

Discern and Distinguish Between Spirits

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Inspiration and doctrine were meant to be complementary rather than adversarial. Many believe they have found new truth when they have recycled old heresies.

The Three Witnesses of Christ (Part One)

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

Controversy aside, what is the true meaning of I John 5:7-8? Ironically, these verses reveal something quite opposed to 'one God existing in three Persons.'

The Seventh Commandment: Adultery

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

In Amos' prophecy, faithlessness and sexual immorality loom large, like a a prostitute chasing after lovers. Faithlessness extends into not keeping one's word.

Be Kindly Affectionate

Sermonette by Martin G. Collins

As spiritual siblings, we ought to manifest family affection, giving honor to one another, in humility esteeming our family members above ourselves.