Playlist:

playlist Go to the Godly Love (topic) playlist

Filter by Categories

The Gift of Discernment and Godly Love

'Ready Answer' by Ronny H. Graham

In times of confusion and chaos, we must turn to the gifts of God's Spirit, particularly the virtue of godly love. This love is a precious gift for which we can thank God, given to those who actively make use of His Spirit. It stands as a beacon of hope and stability amidst the turmoil that surrounds us, offering a way to counter the deception and division that threaten to overwhelm. Through godly love, we are equipped to navigate the challenges of our era, reflecting the grace, mercy, and patience that are hallmarks of God's nature.

Love God, Love Neighbor

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

As God's called-out ones, we should possess a mature understanding of real love, which is godly love. This love is not merely an abstract concept but is shown through the eternal relationship between the Father and the Son, where the Father loves the Son, and the Son reciprocates that love back to the Father. Godly love exists best in a relationship, as it is an outgoing concern, expressed toward others rather than bottled up inside. It is meaningless in isolation, for even God's love required another Being to express it toward. God's plan is an outworking of His love, designed to share this love with billions of beings He would call His children, adopting them from humanity to enjoy, reciprocate, and express His love forever. This love manifested in the creation of angels, matter, and ultimately Adam and Eve, all as acts of outgoing concern. Every deed, from the spoken word to the physical creation, reflects His love, providing the environment for beings to exist and return that love to Him. Even before humanity sinned, God's love was evident in the predestined sacrifice of the Lamb from the foundation of the world. The One who became Jesus Christ volunteered to die for human sin, demonstrating His love long before any of us existed. This act of love, shown while we were yet sinners, covers even the most wicked among us if they believe and repent, revealing the profound depth of God's love for humanity in its most corrupt state. God's love is not distant but personal, poured abundantly into our hearts through His Spirit upon our calling and justification. It works from the inside out, transforming us into His image, changing our hearts to reflect His character. Once rooted and grounded in His love, we begin to comprehend the vast dimensions of Christ's love, which ultimately produces the fullness of God within us. This transformation is the goal of our Christian life, to express His love eternally as He does. The love of God is inseparable from love toward neighbor; they are interconnected facets of the same principle. Loving God naturally leads to loving our neighbor and keeping His commandments, while loving our neighbor demonstrates our love for God. This connection is foundational, evident in the structure of the commandments, where love toward God and neighbor underpins all other principles. Our love for others, even enemies, imitates God's impartial love, which extends to all, and is a gauge of our progress toward spiritual perfection. Practicing real godly love for our brethren manifests the depth of our love for God. Actions such as feeding, clothing, visiting, and helping one another reveal this love more authentically than mere words. When we show love to our brethren, we show it to Christ, and God notices these acts, using them as criteria for judgment. Perfecting this love for one another brings us closer to reflecting the perfect character of the Father and Christ, starting with those closest to us and extending outward, as we prepare to enter His Kingdom.

Our Part in the Sanctification Process (Part Two): Cultivating Love

Sermon by David F. Maas

Godly love, as revealed through the teachings of Jesus Christ, begins with the commandment to love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind, as the greatest and first principle. Alongside this, you shall love your neighbor as yourself, for these two commands encompass the essence of all law and prophetic teachings. This love extends to treating others as you would wish to be treated, reflecting a deep, selfless concern for their well-being. In humility, value others above yourselves, not out of self-despair but in a true spirit of lowliness that aligns with healthy self-regard. This love is not driven by selfish ambition or conceit but by a genuine regard for others as superior, fostering a community of mutual respect. Furthermore, love must reach beyond friends and family to include even enemies, unselfishly seeking their highest good and praying for those who persecute you, mirroring the impartial care of your Father in heaven who blesses both the righteous and the unrighteous. This expansive love originates from your heavenly Father, flowing through a sequence of relationships—loving Him, yourself, your family, brethren, friends, neighbors, and even enemies. Such love must grow and mature, starting small and unripe but developing into sweet, full fruit through continual cultivation. The spiritual gift of love cannot be contained; it must circulate freely, connecting all in a vast network of divine affection initiated by Him who first loved you. Understanding the magnitude of His affection is essential to reciprocate this love. He intended for you to value your own miraculous creation, cultivating mature self-love as wise stewards of the life He gifted. Through His family structure, love is received and returned to Him, then extended to fellow humans made in His image. Despite challenges and damages from human nature, He provides the means to overcome, teaching you to parent yourself with the same compassion a loving father shows, as He has compassion on those who fear Him. Mature self-love is not self-centeredness but the responsible care a parent would offer a child, essential before loving others. Before esteeming others, learn to esteem yourself; before loving another, love yourself; before parenting others, parent yourself. This maturity in love, including self-love, involves moving beyond childish, selfish behaviors to act as a responsible adult, enduring patiently, showing kindness, and not seeking personal gain. As He changes your spiritual essence, moving you from victimhood to a loved member of His family, He provides resources to address past deficits. He sees the trouble of the afflicted, hears their cries, and defends the oppressed, equipping you to be good stewards of health, family, finances, and spiritual gifts. He teaches patience, trust in His providence, wise choices in companionship, appreciation of each day as a gift, control over anger and fear, development of talents to serve others, and the joy of giving over receiving. Through His compassion, mirrored in your self-care, this love extends to all companions made in His image, completing the circuit of divine love.

Is the Love of Many Growing Cold?

'Ready Answer' by David C. Grabbe

In the Olivet Prophecy of Matthew 24, Jesus Christ warns that because lawlessness will abound, the love of many will grow cold. This love, known as agape, is a dutiful, submissive, and obedient love that is first shown toward God through adherence to His law. It is a love with a moral core, distinct from emotional affection or brotherly kindness, and is manifested through sacrifice toward others, mirroring the example of Jesus Christ. When lawlessness increases, this agape love diminishes, as disobedience to God's standards causes a cooling of the relationship with Him, which is the source of this love. A symptom of this decline may be seen in reduced sacrificial love toward others, but the root cause lies in the deteriorating bond with God, often exacerbated by false prophets who compromise holiness and lead others into separation from Him. Even when agape love is present, it is not complete in us as it is in God. Each of us reflects facets of His love differently, excelling in unique ways of sacrifice and service, yet no one embodies the totality of God's love. Some may encourage and affirm verbally, while others give materially or serve quietly behind the scenes. These varied expressions mean that recognizing agape love in others can be challenging, as we may look for specific applications and miss the diverse ways it is shown. Furthermore, even the love we do express is imperfect, as we all fall short of God's glory. Sin, defined as imperfectly loving God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, and imperfectly loving our neighbor as ourselves, ensures that godly love is demonstrated incompletely by His still-imperfect children. In situations where agape love appears to be waning, as foretold by Jesus Christ, the call is to endure patiently to the end. Godly love suffers long, bears all things, and thinks no evil, refusing to keep account of wrongs or respond with carnality to imperfect love. If discernment suggests that God's love is cooling due to lawlessness, the response must be to continue displaying His love through patience and endurance. Conversely, if the perception of waning love stems from missing its varied expressions, one must look beyond personal expectations to see the broader workmanship of God in others. Regardless of the circumstance, the responsibility remains to strive toward perfecting God's love in our lives by submitting to Him and sacrificing for others, patiently enduring imperfect love as we, too, are loved imperfectly.

Love's Emotional Dimension

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Godly love, characterized as agape, stands supreme and permanent when compared to other attributes. It is rooted in God's nature, for He is a loving God, and all His acts are performed out of love. As the Source of this love, God imparts it to mankind, who does not naturally possess this kind of love. This agape love always involves a cost, requiring effort, work, or sacrifice, with the ultimate example being God's giving of His Son for mankind's sin. Jesus Christ taught that His disciples would be recognized by expressing this love in their fellowship with one another. This love is an action directed toward the well-being of others, not merely a thought or feeling. It becomes love only when it motivates a person to act, as emphasized in I John 5:3, where keeping God's commandments defines the love of God. These commandments guide how love should be expressed toward both God and man, channeling it through obedience. True love manifests through acts of obedience, even if done coldly or reluctantly, though it is more attractive when performed with warm-hearted enthusiasm. Knowing God, essential to expressing this love, comes through fellowship with Him, not through intellectual reasoning or emotionalism alone. As stated in I John 2:3-6, obedience to His commandments perfects the love of God in us, and those who abide in Him must walk as He walked. This relationship grows through time, attention, and conforming to God's preferences, fostering mutual respect, honor, concern, and goodwill. Jesus confirms in John 15:9-11 that abiding in His love through obedience brings His joy, resulting in a deep, stable sense of well-being. Godly love, or agape, is initiated by God, as seen in Romans 5:8, where He demonstrates His love by Christ's death for us while we were still sinners. He sustains this relationship, continually forgiving and beckoning us back, enabling trust to develop through fellowship. This love, poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, transforms us, producing perseverance, character, and hope through shared experiences with God, even amidst tribulations. Defined as a determination of the will to act for another's well-being, agape love is a command, as in Matthew 5:43-48, to love even enemies, overriding natural emotions of anger or antagonism. Though it involves emotion, the mind dominates in agape, ensuring actions benefit others, not merely react to feelings. This love does not permit being mistreated but always seeks remedial outcomes, often beginning with prayer to align one's attitude. Finally, I John 4:20-21 challenges us to prove our love for God by loving our brother with agape love, as true love produces actions that honor God's commandments. The feelings associated with this love arise from ongoing fellowship with God, experiencing life's events with Him as the central influence in our thinking.

No Greater Love

'Ready Answer' by Staff

Christ says that we can show no greater love than in sacrificing our lives. We must come to the point where we are doing this daily, yet how do we do this?

The Fruit of the Spirit: Love

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Love is the first fruit of the Spirit, the one trait of God that exemplifies His character. The Bible defines love as both what it is and what it does.

Keeping Love Alive (Part Two)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

If we love another person, we like to think about him/her, to hear about him/her, please him/her, and we are jealous about his/her reputation and honor.

Love's Importance and Source

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

God is the source of real love; mankind by nature does not have it. It is only by knowing God that we can have this love. Godly love is a cycle that God initiates.

Loving Christ and Revelation 2:1-7

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

There is a direct relationship between loving Christ and doing the right works. God's love for us places us under a compelling obligation to reciprocate.

No Real Love Without God

Sermon by John O. Reid

Brethren, we are called to embody a love for our fellow man that mirrors the divine nature of God, who is love itself. This love is not the fleeting passion or self-interest the world often mistakes for affection, but a deep, outgoing concern for others, reflecting benevolence, kindness, and generosity in our dealings. As we are urged in I John 4:11, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another, showing the same compassion and care that He has shown us. This love compels us to lay down our lives for the brethren, to visit the sick, to support those in need, and to risk our own well-being for the sake of others, as early Christians did during times of plague. Jesus Christ Himself taught in John 13:35 that by this love for one another, all will know we are His disciples. It is a sign of belonging to God, a mark of our identity as His people, just as much as keeping the Sabbath. We are to love our neighbor as ourselves, as Jesus instructed in Luke 10:27-28, extending this love to all—our families, friends, countrymen, and even enemies. Our neighbor is anyone near us, anyone in need, as illustrated by the Samaritan who showed mercy to the wounded man on the road to Jericho. Jesus commands us to go and do likewise, to show compassion without prejudice, to bandage wounds, to provide care, and to seek the good of others even at personal cost. This love is not selfish; it does not seek its own happiness at the expense of others. As described in I Corinthians 13, it suffers long, is kind, envies not, and is not puffed up with pride. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things without murmuring. True love never fails, for it is the foundation of harmony in homes, nations, and ultimately the universe, standing as the greatest virtue above faith and hope. We must put on this love, which is the bond of perfection, uniting all aspects of our calling. As Colossians 3:12-14 instructs, we are to bear with one another, forgive as Christ forgave us, and above all, clothe ourselves in love. This love requires us to let go of grudges, to forgive and forget offenses, and to seek the welfare of others, reflecting the tender mercies, kindness, humility, and longsuffering of our Savior. In practicing this love, we grow in the nature of God, perfecting it through active application in our relationships. If we claim to love God but hate our brother, we deceive ourselves, for as I John 4:20-21 states, he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. Therefore, let us strive to love one another, to overcome differences, and to show the world the transformative power of godly love, knowing that as we do, we abide in Him and He in us.

Biblical Loves

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Scripture draws from Koine Greek, offering four distinct words for 'love,' each relaying different dimensions of human connection, restoring clarity and depth.

Love's Basic Definition

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Love is not a feeling, but an action—defined as keeping God's commandments, the only means by which we can possibly know Him, leading to eternal life.

What's Love Got to Do With It?

Sermonette by Joseph B. Baity

The old serpent that deluded Eve has bastardized the term love, flooding the world with over one billion books distorting love. This is not the love of God.

Thou Shall Love Thy Neighbor

Sermon by John O. Reid

We are obligated to show compassion and mercy to all, refraining from gossip, exercising righteous judgment, forgiving others and applying the Golden Rule.

Love's Greatest Challenges

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

An irrational fear of loss prevents the development of agape love — we fear that keeping God's commandments will cause us to lose something valuable.

Godly Fear is Humble Reverence

Sermonette by Ted E. Bowling

The fear and trembling before God is more like reverence and awe instead of abject terror. It leads us to total dependence upon God with a desire to repudiate sin.

The Christian Walk (Part One): In Love

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

If we submit to God, allowing His spirit to guide us, we can live in the spirit, walking in love.

An Undying Love

Sermonette by Clyde Finklea

Even though Gomer proved unfaithful, Hosea still loved her, buying her back from captivity and restoring her as his wife, just like God lovingly forgives.

Breakfast by the Sea (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

Jesus twice asks Peter if he has agape love, and both times Peter can only respond that he has tremendous personal affection — he was lacking agape love.

By This Shall All Men Know You

Sermon by John O. Reid

A native practice involves leaving a young man on a remote island with only a bow and arrows until he learns to become a man, and God does something similar.

Our Growing Fellowship

Sermonette by Austin Del Castillo

We need to nurture fellowship with our spiritual siblings, forgiving others as Christ forgave, steadfastly resisting pride and division within the church.

Abraham's Sacrifice (Part Three): Hope Demonstrated

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Abraham's resolute intent to sacrifice Isaac displayed his unreserved devotion to God's purpose for him. We must display the same kind of tenacity.

"If I Have Not Charity"

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Christianity has both an inward aspect (building godly character or becoming sanctified) and an outward aspect (doing practical good works).

Forms vs. Spirituality (Part 3)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

God's holy law gives love its foundation, stability, and evenness, preventing it from degenerating into a sappy, sentimental feeling.

The Defense Against Offense

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

The Bible states that offenses will come. Here are ways to handle offenses and keep minor irritations from growing into bitterness.

Psalm 23 (Part Three)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

The valley-of-shadow imagery symbolizes the fears, trials, and tests needed to produce character, quality fruit, and an intimate trust in the shepherd.

Just What is Mercy?

Sermonette by Clyde Finklea

It is impossible to become perfect without having mercy or compassion. Jesus' command to become perfect includes showing compassion to our enemies.

Reach for the Goal

Sermon by John O. Reid

Similar to the way people pull together in times of crisis, we must also have a goal, a vision of the finish line, in order to overcome and grow.

Philippians (Part Two)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Paul both appealed for unity among the Philippians and offered encouragement, reminding them that their relationship with one another was through Christ.

Israel's Missing Characteristics of God

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Faithfulness is living continually by faith, acting even though doing so may cost us. Love is not primarily a feeling, but faithfulness in applying God's Word.

Childrearing (Part Three)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Our children internalize our values; we teach largely by example. If we do not take seriously the responsibility for rearing our children, somebody else will.

Am I on the True Path of Conversion?

Sermonette by Craig Sablich

Observing oneself in the mirror is useless unless one makes appropriate changes based on the observed image. We must do a thorough self-examination.

The Holy Spirit and the Trinity (Part Seven)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

God personally handpicks individuals with whom He desires to form a reciprocal relationship. This relationship must be dressed, kept, tended, and maintained.