Kindness, a fruit of God's Spirit, is an active expression of love toward God and others, requiring sacrifice of time and energy. It reflects God's unending, gracious giving to all, even evildoers, as seen in His provision for Israel and the ultimate gift of forgiveness. Kindness, exemplified by Jesus Christ's acts of healing and compassion, transforms us through the Holy Spirit to show mercy, generosity, and tenderheartedness. It demands effort, controlling our thoughts and words to serve others selflessly, fostering unity and peace. Simple acts like smiling or encouraging words embody this virtue, mirroring God's nature and calling us to be a light to the world through daily sacrifices.

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Kindness

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

True kindness is a gift from God, produced in us by the Holy Spirit. The world perceives kindness on a limited plane, but kind words and actions reflect a deeper goodness of heart. Kindness, as seen in the behavior of God the Father and Jesus Christ toward mankind, sets the pattern for all to follow. God gives sunshine, rain, fruitful seasons, glad hearts, and all that is good to both the just and the unjust. His marvelous kindness is great and abundant, showing mercy with everlasting kindness to those who obey Him. Through the life, sacrifice, and intercession of Jesus Christ, God reveals the exceeding wealth of His grace in kindness toward us. Kindness is love in tender action, a quality of goodness that requires gentleness in word and deed. It encompasses benevolence, generosity, mercy, charity, sympathy, compassion, and tenderheartedness. As a major attribute of moral excellence, kindness is intricately entwined with other spiritual fruits. In human relationships, we desire kindness from others, often in the form of self-sacrifice, and it begins with the kind use of the tongue. A virtuous woman speaks with kindness, and we are called to be kind to one another, adding brotherly kindness to the godly virtues God develops in us. Christian kindness is expressed through mercy, compassion, and love toward others, as well as zealous affection toward God and His church. It is an action, not merely a thought, requiring us to sow and reap through deeds. Though great acts of kindness may be rare, scarcely an hour passes without the chance to perform minor, unnoticed words or acts of kindness. Living according to God's instruction and following the example of Christ, aided by the Holy Spirit, we produce the wonderful, spiritual fruit of kindness.

The Fruit of the Spirit: Kindness

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Kindness is the second of the three fruits most directly associated with personal, human relationships. It implies a more active expression of love toward God and fellow man, distinct from patience, which is love forbearing. Without kindness, no act is truly done in love, as both qualities are bound together in the essence of love. Kindness is a rare quality today, often noteworthy when displayed, and can positively impress even those who provoke us through acts that reveal patient love. The love described by Paul, which is the love of God, found its perfect expression in Jesus Christ, whose outgoing love manifested in acts of kindness, healing, and casting out demons. Kindness often requires no money, only the sacrifice of time and energy, and the discipline to be thoughtful of others' needs. Simple acts like smiling, visiting, offering encouragement, or showing friendliness through a warm handshake exemplify this virtue. God's kindness to His creation is unending and overflowing, graciously giving unearned gifts despite humanity's sins and neglect of His purpose. He does not return evil for evil, bear grudges, or plot revenge, but freely gives even to evildoers while patiently working toward His purpose. His kindness is evident in His provision for Israel despite their provocations, providing abundantly for them over centuries. His ultimate act of kindness is the gift of a blessing by which all sins can be met and paid, setting a clear standard for us to follow in our lives. David's heart, beloved by God, exemplified kindness in his desire to do good to Saul's house despite past persecutions. His spontaneous and self-motivated act to show the kindness of God elevated his motive to a higher plane. Within the fellowship of a local congregation, kindness can be challenging due to character weaknesses and personality flaws, yet God calls us to strengthen the weak, open our hearts, and generously give comfort, hope, and encouragement. We are urged to be kinder in evaluating others, to refrain from believing or spreading derogatory stories, and to deal with brethren in the gentlest, kindest manner possible, doing good to all men as opportunities arise. God's nature is to give mercy, create beauty, and save, delighting in mercy with intensity and readiness of mind. He visited us, entering our life on our level, assuming our nature, and bearing our infirmities to be a merciful High Priest, continuously showing kindness through countless acts. As His Spirit dwells in us, this nature grows within us, enabling us to work out our salvation and conform to His image despite our provocations and rebellions. We are urged to put on kindness, tender mercies, and forgiveness, acting with affection and letting our tender feelings guide us to help those in distress, just as Christ did. Though the world has hardened us, kindness is something we must develop, enabled by God's Spirit, and it remains a sweet fruit that fosters unity, backed by His promise that His kindness shall not depart from us.

Sacrifice Dost Thou Want: Kindness

Sermon by Bill Onisick

Kindness, as a fruit of God's Spirit, is a foundational daily sacrifice that we must actively work to put on each and every day. It is the feeling of compassion in action, encompassing right thoughts, words, gestures, and deeds, reciprocating God's sacrificial love outwardly to others. Kindness requires effort and can only be truly developed when we are bonded through humble daily sacrifice and obedience with God, enabling us through His indwelling Spirit to perform acts of service to fellow man. God's Spirit of kindness controls our mind to think positively of others, always seeking opportunities to serve and do good works. It bridles our tongue, preventing complaints and negative speech about anyone, as complaining is unkind, self-focused, and contrary to God's nature. Kindness readily gives to anyone in need without keeping score or worrying about past interactions, forbearing, forgiving, and accepting loss of self-esteem to maintain peace. True kindness arises from spiritual transformation and submission to God, especially in challenging situations, and is not optional for God's called. It is a necessary response to the forgiveness and compassion we have received from Him. God's fruit of kindness is given to everyone, both to those who deserve it and to those who do not, reflecting His character of being kind to the unthankful and the evil. Only those with God's indwelling Spirit, through daily sacrifices, are empowered to perform kindness without expectation of return or keeping score, responding to His unmerited sacrifice with our own acts of kindness. When we understand the fullness of God's great mercy and kindness, we are empowered by His Holy Spirit to exhibit this humble sacrifice to everyone, regardless of merit. Kindness is an outward attribute showing we are like God, enabled through His Holy Spirit, and not a magical occurrence but a deliberate act of sacrifice. Each act of kindness, given without expectation, transforms our selfish carnal mind into a selfless, godly mind, producing God's fruit of the Spirit. Many acts of kindness do not require much time or effort, yet they are especially sweet to those in desperate need, fostering unity and peace with God and fellow man. As God's elect, we are called to be a shining light to the world, working harder to exhibit His fruit of kindness through simple gestures like a friendly greeting, encouraging words, or small acts of consideration. Each day, we have the opportunity to follow Christ's example as a living sacrifice, extending His kindness to others, regardless of what may be deserved, by developing a heart attuned to others' needs and being ready to reach out when the opportunity arises.

Themes of Ruth (Part Four): Kindness and Faith

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Kindness, as an abstract and often unquantifiable virtue, varies across cultures and societies, yet it remains a profound expression of human character. In many instances, kindness manifests as random acts of help, whether big or small, with a modern expectation to pay it forward rather than repay directly. For some, kindness is a way of life, a natural disposition to be pleasant and good to everyone encountered daily. Historically, nations like America have been seen as kind and generous, often being among the first to provide aid during global disasters, donating vast resources and helping rebuild even former enemies after conflicts. The Old Testament concept of kindness, conveyed through the Hebrew word hesed, is deeply rooted in community and covenant. Hesed emerges within the context of God's covenant with Israel, producing kindness among those who follow its teachings. True kindness, however, transcends mere obligation; it involves good and helpful actions that go beyond what the covenant requires, adding a value beyond the letter of the law. In the book of Ruth, this value-added kindness is exemplified. Ruth's actions toward Naomi demonstrate hesed by maintaining a covenantal relationship despite the marriage bond being voided by death, sacrificing personal advantages, and showing magnanimity. Ruth's commitment to Naomi, vowing to stay with her and adopt her people and God, reflects a self-sacrificial love that exceeds normal expectations. Her later kindness to Boaz, extending her loyalty to a near stranger, further amplifies this hesed, encompassing a broader purpose. Similarly, David's kindness to Mephibosheth illustrates hesed as an act of outgoing concern despite potential danger or disadvantage. By extending God's kindness to a potential rival, David shows faith in God, trusting in divine protection over personal risk. This self-sacrificial act mirrors the New Testament concept of agape, where love and kindness are offered without expectation of personal gain, only seeking to please God. Jesus Christ Himself exemplifies this ultimate kindness in His life and sacrifice, offering Himself for humanity as a sweet-smelling aroma to God. His teachings, such as forgiving a repentant sinner seven times a day, challenge followers to go beyond strict requirements, showing lovingkindness even to the most aggravating individuals. This call to exceed customary obligations aligns with the Old Testament hesed, emphasizing a magnanimous and sacrificial willingness to be there for others. The call to kindness is a divine requirement, as seen in Micah 6:8, where God instructs humanity to do justly, love mercy—understood as hesed—and walk humbly with Him. This defines what is good for individuals, communities, and the world. If a young woman from Moab like Ruth, with little prior training in God's way, can embody such kindness, so too can others follow her example, expressing true hesed and agape toward God and man through faith and humility.

Our Part in the Sanctification Process (Part Six): Cultivating Kindness

Sermon by David F. Maas

Kindness arises from the recognition that every person has endured isolation and suffering, a truth God highlighted when He commanded His people not to wrong or oppress a stranger because they themselves had once been strangers in Egypt. That shared experience of hardship transforms bitterness into compassion, enabling individuals to replace feelings of separation with tenderhearted care for one another. The same principle applies within the spiritual family: members who have processed their own trials acquire the capacity to bear one another's burdens and restore those overtaken by sin, fulfilling the law of Christ through gentleness rather than superiority. This kindness is not optional but reciprocal. Because God in Christ has forgiven, believers must become useful, helpful, and forgiving toward others. Jesus modeled the depth of this requirement by entering fully into human suffering, learning obedience through what He endured so that He could serve as a merciful high priest. Those who follow Him likewise learn sympathy through their own afflictions and are thereby equipped to offer comfort drawn from genuine shared experience. Kindness matures only when it moves from inward feeling to concrete action—visiting the fatherless, supplying daily needs, speaking words of encouragement, or extending hospitality. Gratitude for God's unmerited grace fuels this movement, because the same grace that saves also prepares good works in advance. As recipients of divine loving-kindness, believers are to pass that kindness forward, first to spiritual siblings, then to neighbors, and ultimately even to enemies, regarding them as potential future members of God's family. In this way kindness becomes the visible evidence that strangers have been transformed into one family, bound together by the mercy they have received and now extend to others.

Manifesting Kindness

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

We desperately need to internalize the godly traits of kindness, mercy, compassion, and tenderness, displacing the carnal traits of bitterness and wrath.

Be Kind

'Ready Answer' by James C. Stoertz

We frequently admonish our children to 'Be nice,' but what does it mean? It is far better to learn kindness, a biblically defined fruit of God's Spirit.

Be Kind

Sermonette by James C. Stoertz

The seemingly benign advice to 'Be Nice' falls short of a truly virtuous approach to life. It is associated with pleasant but superficial behavior.

God's Enduring Mercy

CGG Weekly by Ronny H. Graham

Our hearts may overflow with compassion for someone in need, and it could be in our power to help, but if we take no positive action, what good is it?

The Golden Rule (Part One)

CGG Weekly by John Reiss

God's way of life is a way of outgoing concern for the good of others. It is offering a hand to help others to do what they cannot do for themselves.

Go and Do Likewise

Sermon by Bill Onisick

Without the gift of God's Holy Spirit, it is impossible to understand the kind of love which Christ commanded of His disciples.

A True Disciple

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We must exercise longsuffering and kindness to all, including to those that have done ill to us. We are disciples of Christ if we love one another.

Mercy

Sermonette by Ronny H. Graham

Mercy is an important dimension of God's character, displayed by our compassion on and forgiveness of those over whom we have power.

Parable of the Good Samaritan

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

This well-known parable describes working compassion as contrasted to selfishness. It also clarifies just who is our neighbor.

You Shall Love Your Neighbor (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by John O. Reid

Showing God's love to our neighbor goes beyond wishing him well but extends to actively doing him good. It means doing what will benefit him.

The Beatitudes, Part 5: Blessed Are the Merciful

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Mercy is a virtue that has gone out of vogue, though it is sometimes admired. Jesus, however, places it among the most vital His followers should possess.

The Golden Rule (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by John Reiss

Showing kindness within friendships will make them all the stronger. Kindness reduces friction; it is the oil that allows our friendships to run their best.

What Makes a True Disciple? (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by Clyde Finklea

Love is patient and kind. These are the only two characteristics Paul says love is, defining it positively. What follows is what love does not do.

God Always Defaults in Mercy

Sermon by Clyde Finklea

As we strive to be perfect as our Father in Heaven is perfect, we should be as merciful as Our Heavenly Father, making mercy our default.

Essence of Love

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David took all the persecutions from King Saul, and then later showed his mercy to Saul's extended family, he demonstrated the true essence of godly love.

Have Mercy

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When we become fixated on past resentment, we will never find opportunities to display mercy, enabling a repentant brother to move forward.

Mercy: The Better Option

'Ready Answer' by John O. Reid

It is easy to fall into the traps of judgmentalism, gossip, and unforgiveness. We must overcome our natural reactions and use forbearance in our relationships.

The Identifying Sign of a True Disciple of Jesus

Sermon by Clyde Finklea

The Navy SEALs' fear is not of death, but of failing their team, parallel to the bond Jesus Christ desires among His disciples.

Children of the Light

Sermon by Clyde Finklea

The Beatitudes Mount contains Jesus' instruction primarily to His disciples, outlining seven unified character traits that define the 'children of light.'

Conduct of the New Life

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Driving out the evil must be followed by cultivating goodness and righteousness. An antidote to depression is to get our hearts focused on someone else.

Perfect, Gentle Courtesy (Part 2)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Good manners are not just an accomplishment, but a duty that everyone must practice in order for society to move smoothly.

The Widow and the Fatherless (Part One)

CGG Weekly by Mike Ford

We can sum up the epistle of James with one verse: 'Pure and undefiled religion...is this: to visit orphans and widows..., and to keep oneself unspotted...."

A Virtuous Woman

CGG Weekly by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The phrase "a virtuous woman" means "woman of worth," "woman of strength," or "woman of noble character." It denotes a woman of skill, aptitude, or achievement.

Thou Shall Love Thy Neighbor

Sermon by John O. Reid

We are obligated to show compassion and mercy to all, refraining from gossip, exercising righteous judgment, forgiving others and applying the Golden Rule.

The Importance of Appreciation

CGG Weekly by John Reiss

In addition to thanking God for all He does, it is a godly principle to take time to consider the kind acts of others and let them know we appreciate them.

Eternal Servant Leadership

Sermon by Mark Schindler

Our responsibility should be to learn to serve rather than to emulate the pompous gentile leaders who love to domineer over their subjects.

Finding Favor

Sermonette by Ryan McClure

When we attain favor with God, we often find favor with our fellow man, but not always. We can find favor with both God and man if we value a good name.

The Church Family - Convinced and Persuaded

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Church government should reflect God's government, typified as a family, with Christ as the loving husband and the church as the submissive wife.

No Real Love Without God

Sermon by John O. Reid

The world today is driven by greed, hatred, and self-seeking, reflecting the way of satan rather than the true love that mankind desperately needs. True love, as God embodies, is an outgoing concern for others, bringing peace, harmony, and fulfillment. God's love, defined as agape, is a willful direction toward humanity's best interest, often contrary to human desires, as seen in His sacrifice of His Son for our justification and reconciliation. This love originates from God and reflects His Spirit in us, shaping our nature to mirror His. Those who exhibit God's love demonstrate they are born of Him, while those who do not, regardless of their knowledge, fail to know Him. God's love is both individual, shown in sympathy and kindness, and vast in scope, aiming to elevate all mankind into His Kingdom. We are called to love others as God loves us, even laying down our lives for one another, as Christ did. By actively loving, we perfect this love and grow in God's nature, becoming bold in His presence. Perfect love casts out fear, and though we may struggle with apprehensions in this world, we must work to deepen our trust in God, who first loved us. Love requires us to avoid harboring grudges or hatred, as true love for God extends to loving those He has begotten. We are to emulate Christ's patience, kindness, and service, reflecting God's love in all actions. Despite challenges and lawlessness that may cool our love, we must rekindle our zeal and not let our commitment drift. The greatest commandments are to love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, and to love our neighbor as ourselves. Loving God involves honoring Him above all, rejecting idols, revering His name, and keeping His Sabbath holy as a sign of obedience. Loving our neighbor means showing mercy and kindness to all, even enemies, without condoning sin, but seeking their good as we would wish for ourselves. True love is not mere sentiment but is reflected in a life of obedience to God's commandments, fostering an intimate relationship with Him and leading toward becoming part of His Family. As we forgive others, just as Christ forgave us, forgetting their offenses, we unite all aspects of God's calling and embody the godly love that binds everything together.

Time for Self-Evaluation

'Ready Answer' by John O. Reid

Prior to the Days of Unleavened Bread, we are told to examine ourselves. How can we do that? Here are a few pointers on doing a thorough, honest once over.

Do Unto Others and Reap What We Sow

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Reaping good fruit does not happen immediately. If we feel we are not reaping, we must consider that we might be reaping some negative things we have sown.

The Fruit of the Spirit: Goodness

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Goodness is a nebulous concept, used to describe everything from a tasty snack to God's sublime character. But God's character defines what goodness is.

Perfect, Gentle Courtesy (Part 3)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Parents are obligated to teach God's laws to their children. According to Emily Post, good manners are to the family what good morals are to society.

The Mystery of Goodness

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Because even Satan can transform himself into an angel of light, we must be careful not to assess goodness by surface appearances. God's goodness is our pattern.

Are You Weary of Doing What's Right?

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Sowing to the Spirit enables us to walk in the Spirit, keeping ourselves from spiritual weariness while keeping an environment of peace and tranquility.

Do You Recognize This Man? (Part Two)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The truer our conception of Christ, the truer our discernment will be in dealing with spiritual problems or conflicts. Modern Israel has cuddled up to sin.

Sowing and Reaping (2003)

Sermonette by John W. Ritenbaugh

Fear of any kind is never an excuse to break any of God's laws. God wants us to learn the principle of reciprocity- that what we sow we will also reap.