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Teaching Our Children
Commentary by Ryan McClureChildren are a blessing from God, and we have the God-given responsibility to teach and train them in the right way to live. As our children grow, they see the various holidays and have questions about why people keep them and why we do not, as well as inquiries about the holy days we observe. Each of these exchanges provides opportunities to instruct our children in the truth. If parents fail to teach their children, someone else will, and there is a battle for our children's minds through educational systems and societal influences that often promote ideas contrary to what God desires. God has blessed us with children and commanded us to train them up in a way that leads to a spiritually profitable life, aligning with the way He wants us to live. By teaching them God's commandments and moral living, our children will be equipped with the truth and tools to make correct choices when confronted with teachings contrary to God's way. We must continue to coach and inform them so that, at the appropriate age, they can make their own decisions and live life as God has prescribed.
For the Children
Sermon by David C. GrabbeGod's intent for instructing children is clear and purposeful, extending beyond individual families to future generations. He desires that His way of life be imprinted on each generation through consistent teaching, as seen in His command to read the law every seven years in the presence of all, including the little ones. This is so they may learn to fear the LORD their God and carefully observe all His words, ensuring that even the children who have not known it may hear and learn. The responsibility for this instruction rests primarily with parents, not with national leadership or church organizations. God places the duty on parents to impress His words into their own hearts and lives first, then to teach their children in every circumstance of life. This teaching is not to be delegated to others, as it is a vital part of the family's spiritual foundation, testifying to the place of God's word in every aspect of their lives. Moreover, teaching children is not solely for their benefit but also aids parents in deepening their own understanding of God's way. When parents actively teach, they reinforce these truths in themselves, making the connections more profound. However, the effectiveness of this instruction hinges on the sincerity and consistency of the parents. If God's way is not deeply convicted in the parents' lives, it will not become a conviction for the children, often resulting in them viewing these teachings as mere practices rather than a transformative way of life. Children are perceptive and can discern hypocrisy or inconsistency in their parents' behavior. If parents present a public face that differs from their private actions, children may grow to distrust not only their parents but also the way of life they proclaim. This duplicity can sow confusion and doubt, undermining the parents' ability to guide effectively. God requires sincerity and truth in living His way consistently, as pretense can ultimately cost the children's convictions when they mature. God's long-range view emphasizes the importance of teaching children to fear Him, which means hating what He identifies as evil and taking Him into account as the overriding factor in all decisions. This fear of God, or reverence, shapes choices and priorities according to His word, distinguishing between the holy and the profane. By living this way, parents help their children recognize the culture they are immersed in and choose life as God defines it, increasing the likelihood that they will adopt this way of life for themselves.
Teach Your Children
Sermonette by Bill CherryWhen we observe our children exhibiting godly traits and character, we feel a deep satisfaction, recognizing them as our own and being well pleased with their actions. God's Word provides guidance on how to instill these traits in our children, leading them toward His Kingdom. We are instructed to love the LORD our God with all our heart, soul, and strength, and to keep His words in our hearts. This passion for God, cultivated through study, memorization, and living His commandments, equips us to pass on righteous examples, scriptural knowledge, confidence, faith, and love to our children. We are called to teach these words diligently to our children, discussing them when we sit in our house, walk by the way, lie down, and rise up. Teaching requires perseverance, consistency, and planning, involving set times and places for instruction. It should be purposeful and brief, especially for young children, using Bible verses or stories to illustrate application in their lives. This could happen at bedtime, during meals, or in the morning, ensuring it is a regular part of their routine, providing direction and purpose through God's Word. Beyond formal teaching, we must engage in casual conversation with our children, listening to understand their thoughts and feelings. This happens in everyday moments—sitting together, walking, or doing chores—allowing us to guide them with scriptural insights or personal experiences when appropriate. Spending time with them, especially teenagers facing worldly pressures, is crucial to counter negative influences and provide guidance. Teaching diligently also means demonstrating God's way through our actions. If we show love, prioritize their needs, and live without hypocrisy, our children will be receptive to learning about God's Kingdom. As parents, we have a unique opportunity to impart the love of God, knowledge of His Word, and the joy of living His way, building a protective faith in them to withstand the challenges of this world. If we do not teach our children God's way, who will?
Godly Training and Admonition
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughGodly training forewarns a child of danger or faults in human nature. The Scriptures do not contain many examples of exemplary child rearing.
Parenting (Part 3): Mothers
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughThe mother provides a gentle, cherishing quality to child rearing compatible with the strength provided by her husband.
The March Toward Globalism (Part Seven)
Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)Neither permissiveness nor harshness are endorsed by God; sound-mindedness in child-rearing requires control and measured justice while avoiding extremes.
Studying the Bible
Sermon by John O. ReidBible study provides a personal means of attaining the mind of God, growing in the grace and knowledge of Jesus Christ.