Permissiveness is one extreme of carnal childrearing, centered on pleasing the child and assuming an inherent goodness that Scripture denies, since Jesus called ordinary people evil. It reverses God's order, placing parents in service to the child's desires, undermining the Fifth Commandment and preparing pliable adults for Satan's Beast system. It also appears when individuals craft personal faith, accepting comfortable teachings while rejecting what demands change, endorsing practices contrary to clear standards and diluting obedience. Additionally, it emerges as excessive softness in discipline, replacing firmness with leniency, overlooking offenses, and leaving children unprepared for the world. Mislabeled as mercy, it fails to grasp that mercy must accompany justice, not replace it, preventing the balanced character reflecting God's dealings with humanity.

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The March Toward Globalism (Part Six)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Permissiveness represents one extreme of carnal childrearing practice, standing opposite the severity of Victorianism as the two poles to which human nature inclines. This approach centers on pleasing the child and assumes an inherent goodness in the child's nature that parents must draw out. Scripture contradicts that assumption, for Jesus described even ordinary unconverted people as evil, and at birth a child possesses no built-in resistance to Satan's influence. Without parental intervention the child quickly absorbs that evil mind, so permissiveness amounts to a subtle effort to bribe conformity to cultural standards. Such bribery cannot succeed, because carnal nature is evil from the outset and remains insatiable, as lust continually demands more. The method also fosters inflated self-esteem rather than the humility that must balance proper self-regard, an outcome consistent with the source of the approach in Satan's spirit, which cannot produce true humility. In practice permissiveness reverses the divine order. God's method requires children to please the Father, whereas permissiveness places parents in the position of serving the child's desires, leaving the child effectively in charge of the family. This reversal undermines the Fifth Commandment, the foremost commandment in the laws of social order because it initiates every subsequent relationship in life. When that foundation weakens, allegiances throughout society erode until each person acts solely for self, producing the perilous conditions described in the last days. Satan employs permissiveness as a major cultural support for the coming Beast system, deliberately shaping pliable children into adults prepared to perform the works of the flesh. In contrast, parents who follow God's pattern train children toward sound-mindedness and self-control, thereby equipping them for right relationships with others and ultimately with God.

The March Toward Globalism (Part Seven)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Neither permissiveness nor harshness are endorsed by God; sound-mindedness in child-rearing requires control and measured justice while avoiding extremes.

The March Toward Globalism (Part Eight)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Satan is cultivating vessels of destruction by turning God's principles of child-rearing upside-down, encouraging permissiveness and destroying the family.

The March Toward Globalism (Part Four)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Self-will must be extirpated from our children; God's will must take its place. Childrearing must begin at the start of a child's formative life.

The March Toward Globalism (Part Five)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

We cannot instill sound-mindedness in our offspring unless we are personally filled with the fruits of God's Holy Spirit, modeling these for our children.

Facilitating Lawlessness

CGG Weekly by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

We are too eager to display our permissiveness in face of all we know to be against it, from traditional, biblical morality to plain old common sense.

Childrearing (Part Six)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

If we, as Christian parents, could shape and mold the minds of our children early, we could inoculate them against making the same mistakes that we did.

Ecclesiastes Resumed (Part Thirty-Nine): Ecclesiastes 11:9-10

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The fleeting time of youth is a time of strength, exploration, and boundless opportunities, offering the freedom to try new things as well as make mistakes.

Dissatisfaction

Commentary by Martin G. Collins

Change agents have attempted to apply traditional Christian terminology to politically correct referents, distorting and defiling the original meaning.

Deuteronomy (Part 7)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Sanctification is an incremental process in which we systematically destroy the sin within us as our forebears were asked to destroy the inhabitants of Canaan.

The Curse

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Malachi 4:4-6 warns of a a coming Elijah and of a curse if the hearts of the children are not turned back to the fathers and vice versa. Are we seeing this?

The Not-A-Problem Folk

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Charles Whitaker

We have no bold Phineases today who are unafraid of political correctness. The die has been cast for morally bankrupt America.

Countering the Culture

Article by Staff

There is no doubt that America's culture is plunging to depths many of us never imagined. Here are five steps to mitigate its influence on our lives.