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Overcoming (Part 7): Selfishness
Bible Study by Martin G. CollinsSelf-centeredness, the act of prioritizing one's own pleasures and interests, often leads others to yield to such individuals, yet it fails to bring true happiness, leaving them perpetually dissatisfied. Society fosters this attitude from infancy by placing children on pedestals, ignoring the importance of respect and honor towards parents, thus creating spoiled, selfish human beings whose selfishness grows more dominant with age. In contrast, a child taught to honor and respect his parents learns to care for others, sacrificing personal gratification and often finding greater happiness through selfless concern. Selfishness manifests in various destructive ways, such as hoarding for self-preservation, which may bring material wealth but results in spiritual destitution. It appears in false ministers who disregard their flocks' spiritual health for personal pleasure, in ignoring the rights of others, neglecting the needy, and showing heartless indifference. In the last days, self-love, self-seeking, and selfish ambition are predicted to reach unprecedented levels, with some individuals focusing only on what more they can gain, showing too much concern for their own welfare and too little for others. The consequences of selfishness are inherent and severe, carrying natural ramifications designed into life's laws, resulting in poverty, sin, and loss of spirituality. Overcoming selfishness requires yielding to a higher power, but resistance to this often allows selfishness to prevail, leading to strife and contention. True Christian love, which suffers long, is kind, and does not seek its own, stands as the antidote to self-centeredness, urging the avoidance of personal pleasure-seeking in favor of the good of others and prioritizing higher values.
Overcoming (Part 10): Self-Pity
Bible Study by Martin G. CollinsWhen things go wrong, many indulge in loneliness or despair, sinking into a melancholy mindset that distorts their thinking, seeing, and feeling. Some feed their sadness by becoming dependent on despondency for a twisted sense of comfort. Those who wallow in self-pity fail to see God at work in their lives, curling up in apathy when times get hard. Self-pity is self-indulgently dwelling on one's own sorrows or trials, often involving lying to oneself by excusing personal suffering as undeserved. It is a result of sin, incurable without repentance, and differs from godly sorrow which produces repentance. Human nature often responds to life's difficulties with a "woe is me" reaction, feeling that suffering is unjustified. This self-centered focus shows faithlessness, placing oneself above all else, and interferes with the development of righteous character. Self-pity is, in essence, excessive love of oneself, causing great stress and harm. It can fatigue and erode attitudes by presuming outcomes, focusing on personal problems, and leading to physical exhaustion. To combat self-pity, one must pray for help, rest, find a new focus, repent of sins, and take obedient action rather than remain inactive based on emotions. Genuine repentance and a clear view of one's true condition are essential to fight this distorted mindset. The ultimate cure for self-pity lies in selflessness, caring for others' welfare more than one's own. Outgoing concern and love toward others, as well as a willingness to lay down one's life for friends, mark those who overcome. How one handles life's pressures determines whether they fall into self-pity or rise above it through selfless example and spiritual strength.
Overcoming (Part 3): Self-Righteousness
Bible Study by Martin G. CollinsSelf-centeredness, a root of self-righteousness, manifests as a dangerous impediment to spiritual growth. Like the emperor in the fable who imagines himself clothed in fine raiment while exposing his nakedness, individuals can become greater in their own eyes, blind to their true spiritual condition. This attitude of complacency leads to regarding oneself as more virtuous than others, despite a deficient reality. A self-righteous person often fails to see their sin for what it is, remaining determined to maintain their own opinion of themselves despite reasoning from others. This self-centeredness reveals itself in attitudes of superiority, such as praying or acting to be noticed, or thinking others do not live up to personal standards. It can manifest in correcting, judging, and complaining about others, highlighting an inward focus on self rather than genuine virtue. Everyone struggles with some degree of self-righteousness, often revealed through constant self-referencing or using oneself as an example of correctness. This self-centeredness can appear outwardly as righteousness, giving the impression of virtue while lacking true wisdom or understanding. Such behavior, driven by pride and personal gain, deceives others into mistaking self-righteousness for genuine righteousness. In contrast to true righteousness, which fosters a humble relationship with God and others, self-righteousness is inherently self-centered and destroys relational unity. It is a rejection of God as the standard of righteousness, focusing instead on personal conformity to external requirements rather than heartfelt submission. This self-focused attitude hinders the unity and peace that come from a God-centered life.
The Heart's Self-Absorption
Sermon by John W. RitenbaughII Timothy 3:1-5 contains 19 characteristics of carnality. The common denominator is self-absorption and pride, placing the self above others.
Our Part in the Sanctification Process (Part Ten): Cultivating the Fruit of Self Control
Sermon by David F. MaasIt is impossible to cultivate self-control unless one uses God's Spirit to reprogram the desires of the heart from self-centeredness to submission to God.
Israel, Selfies, and Idolatry
Sermonette by Mike FordThe religious hobbyist Micah practiced his own self-devised hybrid of religion, amalgamating some orthodox truth with abundant noxious, pagan admixtures.
On Self-Righteousness
CGG Weekly by John W. RitenbaughSelf-righteousness lies at the root of many other sins. Because we are self-centered, self-righteousness will follow as surely as water runs downhill.
Celebrating Birthdays
Article by Martin G. CollinsAre birthday celebrations as harmless as they seem? How did the practice start? Here is a spiritual principle concerning birthdays that many do not consider.
Take the Red Pill
Sermonette by Bill OnisickIf we were to consciously monitor our thoughts, we would be appalled about the percentage of our day that we are exclusively wrapped up in ourselves.
Whatsoever Your Heart Desires
Sermonette by Mark SchindlerWe must not construe the term, "whatever our heart desires," as a pass to sin, but we should use every occasion to grow in thinking and acting like God.
Humility
Sermonette by James BeaubelleHumility is not an obsequious act we turn on and off at will, but a sober reflection of our true relationship to God and our spiritual siblings.
It's Not About You
Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughThe Baby Boomer generation has taken on characteristics of narcissism, self-absorption, and excessive self-centeredness, leading to rampant materialism.
Worship
Sermonette by James BeaubelleWorship is required for all events in our lives, including the trials that build character within us. Anything that displaces God must be rooted out.
What Makes Generation "Me" Tick?
Commentary by David F. MaasOver the past six decades (from the Boomer Generation to the Millennial generation), individuals have grown more narcissistic, entitled and miserable.
Are These Your Feasts? (Part One)
CGG Weekly by Mark SchindlerThis earth is a prison, and Satan is its jailer. The inmates—mankind—do not realize that there is no free will! A prison takes away freedom.
Human Will
Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughGod's children should never emulate the self-willed attitude Frank Sinatra's song "My Way" glorifies. Human nature and godly character are polar opposites.
Is Ignorance Truly Bliss?
Sermonette by David C. GrabbeThe 'people of the lie' do not believe they have any major defects and, consequently, do not have any need to examine themselves, let alone change.
New Covenant Priesthood (Part Six)
Sermon by John W. RitenbaughWe must have both perseverance and humility in prayer to keep our vision sharp and clear. Without humility, the doorway to acceptance by God is closed.

Pride, Humility, and the Day of Atonement
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughThe Day of Atonement, when God commands us to afflict our souls, is a day of self-evaluation and repentance to seek unity with Him and our brethren.
The Danger of Trusting in Oneself
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsThose wise in their own eyes, including philosophers, politicians, educators, and religious leaders, have failed in their quest to make the world better.
The March Toward Globalism (Part Two)
Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)As parents, we can protect our children from death and destruction if we discourage the self-absorptive pulls through correction and discipline.
Balaam and the End-Time Church (Part 2)
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughBalaam, motivated by self-interest, believing that the ends justify the means, willing to do anything to get his way, is spiritually inferior to a donkey.
What Does God Really Want? (Part 3)
Sermon by John W. RitenbaughThe Good Samaritan parable teaches that unless one practices doing good rather than just knowing good, his faith will be severely compromised.
Themes of Ruth (Part Four): Kindness and Faith
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughBoth Ruth and Naomi demonstrated covenant loyalty in this marriages long after the death of their spouses. Ruth faithfully continued to serve her mother-in-law.
Psalms: Book Four: All His Benefits
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughAll that we have has come from others, especially God. The Day of Atonement points out how needy and dependent on God we are; fasting shows our frailty.
Authority: Why So Many Resent It
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsPride, the father of all sins, is the source of self-exaltation, self-justification and the despising of authority. It cloaks rebellion in a deceptive appeal.
Are These the Last Days? (Part 2)
'Prophecy Watch' by Richard T. RitenbaughAccording to the book, 13th Gen: Abort, Retry, Ignore, Fail?, those born between 1961-1981 belongs to the 13th Generation, the 13th since America's Founding Fathers.

Pride, Contention, and Unity
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughThe sin of pride underlies many of our other sins, and it is often the reason for the contentions we get into as brethren.

WHAT?! Me Submit to Someone Else?
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsSubmitting is repugnant to the carnal mind. The church is no place for uncompromising people who demand their own way.
How Human Nature Came to Be
CGG Weekly by Richard T. RitenbaughWhy is human nature so corrupt? Why is it so widespread? How did it come to be? Did God create it this way?
Marriage and the Bride of Christ (Part Eleven)
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsOur concept of marriage must be positive and more mature, modeled after Christ's attentiveness toward the Church, as opposed to the world's distorted concept.
Is the Christian Required To Do Works? (Part Two)
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughJust as a dead person does no works, so a faith that does not include works is also dead. A person in whom living, saving faith exists will produce works.
New Covenant Priesthood (Part Seven)
Sermon by John W. RitenbaughPride is the basis of resisting God, while humility is the key to a relationship with Him. We recognize it in others but we seldom see it in ourselves.
Are You Sharp-Tongued? (Part Two)
'Ready Answer' by StaffJames' exhortation about the use of the tongue seems to stop with James 3:12. However, the rest of the chapter provides more wisdom on controlling our speech.
Without Natural Affection
Sermonette by Richard T. RitenbaughBecause of lawlessness, love has gone stone-cold. Sin and lawlessness begets more sin and lawlessness, and natural affection and love disappear.
Thankfulness (1986)
Sermon/Bible Study by John W. RitenbaughWe need to give thanks for everything, blessings and trials. Christianity ought to be an exhilarating experience, but it depends on our outlook on life.
What Do You Fear? (Part Three)
CGG Weekly by David C. GrabbeIf we fear things other than God, we stunt our spiritual growth. We stop overcoming because any non-godly fear will involve self-centeredness, the opposite of God.
Ecclesiastes Resumed (Part Twenty-Four)
Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)The paradox of Ecclesiastes 7 shows an unrighteous man flourishing and a righteous man suffering. The solution to this conundrum is found in Psalm 73.
Godly Fear is Humble Reverence
Sermonette by Ted E. BowlingThe fear and trembling before God is more like reverence and awe instead of abject terror. It leads us to total dependence upon God with a desire to repudiate sin.
Parable of the Great Supper
Bible Study by Martin G. CollinsIn the Parable of the Great Supper, Jesus exposes and corrects the ignorance of those who, in their pride, misjudge their true moral condition.
Are You Living An Illusion?
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsReligious narcissists, who identify with the servant who received ten talents, cherry-pick Scripture to enhance their self-love and support their views.
New Covenant Priesthood (Part Nine)
Sermon by John W. RitenbaughPride elevates one above God, denigrating any dependence upon God, replacing it with self-idolatry. We ought to boast or glory in the Lord instead of ourselves.