Children, when subjected to poor parenting, often react in ways that manifest as rebellion or other negative behaviors. Some children break out in anger against domineering or neglectful parents, finding it an easy release for their frustration. Others, however, may clam up and internalize their anger, allowing it to build within them. Some become depressed, turning their anger inward, while others may act out in rebellion, seeking to escape the constraints or permissiveness of their home environment. This rebellion can be a way to express what they could not at home, often leading to reckless behavior in the world. The spectrum of reactions to such parenting ranges from wrath to discouragement. Children might experience a lack of confidence, enthusiasm, or spirit, feeling disheartened or dispirited due to constant criticism or neglect. They may develop a defeatist attitude, becoming apathetic or negative, lacking hope and a positive outlook on life. Some might withdraw, becoming sullen or lethargic, avoiding engagement with others due to the fear of making mistakes or facing further disapproval. The example of King David illustrates the consequences of neglectful parenting. His son Absalom, despite his outward charisma and leadership qualities, harbored vanity and a power-hungry nature, ultimately rebelling against his father by plotting to seize the throne and engaging in acts of betrayal. Adonijah, another of David's sons, similarly desired power and schemed for the throne, displaying a grasping, self-exalting character that led to his downfall. Solomon, though granted wisdom by God, exhibited self-indulgence and a megalomaniacal tendency, amassing wealth and wives, which eventually led to spiritual compromise and contributed to national unrest after his death. David's neglectful approach, characterized by a lack of discipline and involvement, bore significant responsibility for these outcomes. He did not rebuke or question his children's actions, allowing them to grow unchecked, often indulging their desires without correction. His focus on his throne and kingdom over family priorities left his children without the fatherly presence they needed, fostering attitudes of rebellion and other destructive behaviors. This benign neglect drove his children to act out in various negative ways, demonstrating the profound impact a parent's absence or misuse of authority can have on a child's character and life choices.

The concept of rebellious children is a persistent theme across generations, reflecting a deep-seated tension between youth and adults. Young people are often seen as immature, impulsive, and experimental, prone to rebellion, especially under the influence of peer pressure. This behavior can lead to dangerous and defiant actions, pushing boundaries beyond acceptable conduct. In the law given through Moses, specifically in Deuteronomy 21:18-21, there is a severe instruction regarding a rebellious son who is stubbornly defiant and ungovernable. This child, typically an older youth still under parental authority, refuses to heed correction despite all efforts by the parents. Described as stubborn and rebellious, using terms that emphasize extreme obstinacy and defiance, such a youth is portrayed as irredeemable, engaging in a lifestyle of vice and excess, symbolized by gluttony and drunkenness. The parents, having exhausted all means of discipline, bring the child before the city elders, testifying to his uncontrollable behavior. The community, represented by the men of the city, participates in the punishment of stoning, indicating collective responsibility and the broader impact of the child's rebellion on society. This act serves to purge evil from the midst of the people, with the stark warning that all shall hear and fear, underscoring the seriousness of such disobedience. This principle extends beyond individual families to the nation as a whole. Israel, as children of God, faced judgment for their collective rebellion. Despite being chosen and guided by their divine Father, they persistently rejected His ways, proving themselves as a rebellious son through increasing sin and perversion. Consequently, God executed judgment, leading to the destruction and captivity of Israel and Judah, purging the evil from among His people as a necessary act of divine justice. The contrast is drawn with the perfect, righteous Son, who lived without sin, providing an ideal model of obedience and godliness. Yet, ironically, He was condemned by His own people as if He were the rebellious son, showcasing their perverse judgment. This act of rejection brought further judgment upon them, aligning with the law's penalty of death for rebellion. Ultimately, a looming judgment awaits not just God's chosen people but the entire world for their incessant rebellion against their Creator. All of humanity, created in His image, stands as children who have gone astray. God will invoke the law of the rebellious son, executing just punishment during a time of great tribulation. Upon His return, the righteous Son will establish His throne, teaching survivors to live as righteous children, assisted by those transformed into immortal, righteous offspring of God, finally breaking the cycle of stubborn rebellion and closing the perpetual gap between the Father and His children.

Parenting in the modern world faces numerous challenges, with external pressures from society, government, and cultural norms undermining traditional parental authority. Many parents struggle to maintain control, often surrendering their role as authority figures, which leads to children consistently winning in family dynamics. This loss of control can spiral, leaving parents powerless as children grow increasingly rebellious. Observations in public spaces reveal children running wild, with parents seemingly unwilling to enforce discipline, often due to fear of societal backlash or adherence to politically correct childrearing methods. Studies, such as one from the University of Virginia, identify various parenting styles, many of which fail to establish firm authority. Detached parents, for instance, adopt a hands-off approach, allowing children to act without interference, while American Dreamers focus on future optimism rather than present discipline, often neglecting to set boundaries. The importance of early training is critical, as children possess a carnal, selfish nature from a young age, influenced by a corrupt world and the pervasive attitudes of hatred, pride, and greed broadcast by satan. If not addressed early, small selfish needs can grow into demands and outright rebellion. Parents must establish themselves as the authority from the earliest stages, ensuring children understand who is in charge, which can prevent later issues like teenage rebellion. Godly parenting requires constant diligence, with parents teaching and exemplifying right behavior in every situation. Children learn best by example, and parents must stand in the place of God, guiding and directing as He does. Establishing a proper fear of parents—meaning respect, honor, and obedience—creates a smooth path for relationships and growth, reducing the need for severe correction later. Consistency is vital in parenting, mirroring God's unchanging nature. Children must trust that their parents' words, commands, and promises are dependable, with no room for manipulation or playing one parent against the other. Both parents must be united in their approach, supporting each other to prevent confusion or exploitation by rebellious children. Engagement is equally essential; parents must be actively involved in their children's lives, not as distant observers but as hands-on guides and companions. This involvement, balanced without being overbearing, helps children grow confident and prepared for adulthood, reflecting God's intimate care for His children. Neglecting this responsibility can lead to a child's destruction, while diligent training brings peace and delight through well-raised, principled children.