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Sacredness Of Marriage

Sermonette by James Beaubelle

Marriage holds a sacred place in God's plan, reflecting both physical and spiritual dimensions. God established marriage as a divine institution from the beginning, joining one man and one woman as one flesh, as seen in Genesis 2:24. This union was dignified and defined by God, carrying a sense of sacredness that no human-devised institution can match. Beyond its physical importance, marriage symbolizes the profound spiritual relationship between Jesus Christ and His church. In the Old Testament, God is portrayed as Husband to Israel, as evidenced in Ezekiel 16:8, Jeremiah 31:14, and Isaiah 54:5. In the New Testament, Paul expresses this in II Corinthians 11:2, betrothing the church to Christ as a chaste virgin. Ephesians 5:22-33 further illustrates this parallel, showing that just as husbands and wives are joined as one flesh, so too are Christ and His church united in love and submission. Christ Himself emphasized the permanence of marriage in Matthew 19:4-6, declaring that what God has joined together, let not man separate. This divine covenant is elevated beyond a mere contract, representing an intimate betrothal at baptism into the Body of Christ. As the world diminishes the sanctity of marriage, replacing it with profane alternatives, the spiritual significance for believers remains paramount, pointing to the ultimate union when Christ returns for His bride.

Bible Answers to The Da Vinci Code

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The claim that Jesus Christ was married, as popularized in Dan Brown's The Da Vinci Code, rests primarily on the assertion that Mary Magdalene was His wife. Scripture, however, provides almost nothing to support such a relationship. The biblical record concerning Mary Magdalene is sparse: she was from Magdala, had seven demons cast out of her by Jesus, used her means to help fund His ministry alongside other women such as Joanna and Susanna, and traveled with the group of disciples. She first appears well into Jesus' ministry, ranked below the Twelve, functioning as a helper rather than a member of any inner circle. The popular notion that she was a reformed prostitute stems from a conflation of two separate anointing accounts—one involving Mary of Bethany in Matthew, Mark, and John, and an unnamed sinful woman in Luke 7—which are distinct events with different lessons, one concerning burial and memorial, the other concerning forgiveness of sin. The Gospel accounts of the crucifixion and resurrection further undermine the marriage theory. At the cross, Jesus entrusted His mother's care to the disciple John, not to Mary Magdalene, despite three intimate figures—His mother, John, and supposedly His wife—standing together; no words of comfort or farewell were directed toward her, which would be inexplicable if she were His wife facing His death. After the resurrection, Mary addressed Him as "Rabboni" (Teacher), not as husband, and her posture of falling at His feet reflects the reverence of a disciple toward a Master, not the intimacy of a wife greeting her husband. Every recorded interaction reflects a devoted disciple relationship rather than marriage. Two supporting arguments for the marriage theory are addressed directly. The first assumes Jesus was merely a man obligated by Genesis to marry and multiply. This ignores His identity as the God of the Old Testament, bound by covenant law. Since Israel, portrayed as an unfaithful wife in Ezekiel 16, Jeremiah 3, and Hosea 2, would need to be freed from her prior covenant before remarriage could occur without violating Deuteronomy 24's prohibition against remarrying a defiled former spouse, only death could dissolve that bond, as Romans 7 explains. Christ's sacrificial death accomplished this, freeing Him to be reunited with Israel through the New Covenant and to be joined to the church, described in Ephesians 5 as His bride. Marrying physically during His earthly life would have compromised this redemptive and legal necessity. The second argument, that as a Jewish rabbi He should have married, fails since celibacy was not universally required—John the Baptist, the Essenes, Daniel, and Jeremiah (by divine command) all remained unmarried. In Matthew 19:12, Jesus identifies Himself among those who chose singleness "for the kingdom of heaven's sake," dedicating Himself wholly to His mission, a devotion Paul echoes in 1 Corinthians 7. Marriage and children would also have risked creating dynastic claims or idolatrous veneration of physical descendants, precisely the scenario Dan Brown's narrative constructs. Sexuality within marriage itself was not the issue, since Scripture regards it as good; rather, legal, prophetic, and missional reasons explain why Christ remained unmarried.

The Purpose of the Marriage Relationship

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Marriage to Jesus Christ stands as the central spiritual reality toward which human marriage points, and this connection frames the entire discussion of marriage's meaning and purpose. Human marriage, instituted by God at creation when He joined Adam and Eve as one flesh, was never merely a social arrangement but was designed from the beginning to teach humanity the type of relationship the church must have with Christ. Because God is consistent, He does not ordain eternal faithfulness in the coming divine marriage while permitting casual unfaithfulness now; rather, the present preparatory period exists so that believers learn sanctity and permanence in marriage as training for the eternally faithful marriage to come. Throughout Scripture, God's relationship with His people is repeatedly pictured as a marriage, with Christ as husband and His people as wife. The prophets developed this metaphor extensively: Malachi describes marriage as a covenant and records God's hatred of divorce; Jeremiah portrays Israel's broken covenant as marital unfaithfulness, while also anticipating restoration through the phrase "I am married to you"; Ezekiel dramatizes Israel and Judah's spiritual adultery through the sisters Oholah and Oholibah; and Isaiah both records God's divorce of unfaithful Israel and promises future restoration, declaring "your Maker is your husband." These passages establish that idolatry is equated with adultery and that faithfulness to God is inseparable from the marriage metaphor. In the New Testament, Paul develops this same theme by describing himself as having betrothed the Corinthians to one husband, Christ, expressing godly jealousy that they remain a chaste virgin presented to Him, uncorrupted by false teachers. Ephesians 5 forms the doctrinal center of this teaching: husbands are commanded to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might present her to Himself glorious, without spot or wrinkle. This passage is called "a great mystery" concerning Christ and the church, establishing that human marital roles directly mirror the relationship between Christ and His betrothed people. The church, as a spiritual entity, is not confined by human organizational lines but exists as the betrothed bride awaiting her Husband. Practical principles for successful human marriage—commitment through hardship, communication, making a home, embracing extended family, living in love, and remaining faithful until death—are all presented as training grounds for the believer's relationship with Christ. Just as Israel's unfaithfulness led to divorce, believers must guard against spiritual adultery through idolatry or false doctrine. Romans 7 explains that believers, having died to the law through Christ's body, are now free to be married to Him who was raised from the dead, bearing fruit to God. This union culminates in Revelation 19, where the marriage of the Lamb arrives and His wife, having made herself ready through the righteous acts of the saints, is joined to Christ eternally. The ultimate purpose of human marriage, then, is to prepare a people who will faithfully enter this everlasting marriage, ruling with Christ in intimate family relationship forever, having proven themselves through humility, service, and enduring love in their present relationships.

The Perfect Husband

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Husbands need to imitate God's behavior as reflected through the life of Jesus Christ. Isaiah 54 reveals Yahweh (who became Jesus Christ) as the Husband of Israel.

Leadership and the Covenants (Part Six)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Paul urges Euodia and Syntyche to follow the example of Christ rather than placing their desire to be right over unity. Godly leadership follows submission.

Leadership and the Covenants (Part Two)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

We must become leaders in our own families, protecting them from the curses that are already falling on our nation. We have the obligation to fear God.

Will You Marry Me? (Part Two)

Article by Staff

The story of Boaz and Ruth and the cup of betrothal at Passover ask us to consider: Are we committed to this wonderful relationship with our Fiance?