Pity is the foundational emotion from which compassion and mercy grow, a genuine feeling of sympathy that moves one to want to help. The progression runs from pity, to compassion, to mercy, as illustrated in Jesus' Parable of the Unmerciful Servant, where the master's felt pity produced forgiveness. The Hebrew ḥāmal means to commiserate and spare, seen in Pharaoh's daughter sparing Moses and God pitying His people in Joel 2:18. Pity recognizes another's suffering and moves toward relief. Listed among synonyms of mercy, pity extends kind treatment to the undeserving, sets aside revenge, and favors patience in judgment. Believers, having received God's immense pity, must extend that same tender mercy toward others.

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Mercy

Sermonette by Ronny H. Graham

Mercy is an important dimension of God's character, displayed by our compassion on and forgiveness of those over whom we have power.

God Always Defaults in Mercy

Sermon by Clyde Finklea

Pity emerges as a foundational component in understanding God's mercy, forming the emotional root from which compassion and mercy grow. The word most often translated "mercy" conveys a strong feeling of pity, sympathy, compassion, and affection, showing that mercy is never a cold or mechanical act but begins with genuine feeling. When God looks upon suffering people, He feels pity and compassion toward their needs, and this compassion always precedes mercy. Pity is described as the emotion that leads one to want to help others if possible, while compassion goes a step further, creating an actual determination to help, even in some small way. Mercy itself is the action that follows—pity and compassion moved into treatment or relief from distress. This progression from pity to compassion to mercy is illustrated vividly in Jesus' Parable of the Unmerciful Servant. The master, moved by pity and compassion for his servant's impossible debt, forgave him entirely, demonstrating mercy as the fruit of felt pity. Yet the servant, having received such mercy, failed to extend the same pity to his fellow servant who owed him a trivial amount. Instead of compassion, he demanded payment and had the man imprisoned. When confronted, the master asked, "Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?" This account teaches that believers, having received an immense measure of God's pity and mercy for their own sin-debt, are expected to feel the same tender pity toward others in their misery and respond with the same eagerness to help and willingness to forgive. This principle connects directly to the broader teaching that mercy, grace, and love are inseparably intertwined in God's character. Since God is love, and pity/compassion are the emotional wellsprings of mercy, failing to feel pity for others reveals an absence of God's love within oneself. Micah 6:8 reinforces this by commanding humanity not merely to perform merciful acts but to "love mercy," raising the question of whether the needs and sufferings of others genuinely move one to compassion internally, and whether that inward pity is allowed to proceed into merciful action—even if that action is simply praying on someone's behalf. Ultimately, pity is presented as the necessary starting point in the chain that produces godly mercy: feeling for others' suffering, which then compels action to relieve it. Jesus' command in Luke 6:36 to "be merciful, just as your Father also is merciful" parallels the command to "be perfect," suggesting that perfection before God is measured in part by one's capacity for pity-driven mercy toward others, reflecting the very nature of a God who defaults in mercy.

Compassion (Part One)

CGG Weekly by John Reiss

The concept of pity emerges as one dimension of the broader biblical theme of compassion, rooted in the Hebrew word ḥāmal, which generally means to commiserate, to have compassion, and to pity. This term captures a particular kind of emotional response to suffering, one that moves a person to sympathy and to sparing or showing mercy toward another. Its meaning is illustrated in Exodus 2:6, where Pharaoh's daughter, upon seeing the infant Moses in the basket, felt this kind of compassion or pity for him. Her reaction demonstrates that ḥāmal involves an emotional recognition of another's vulnerable or suffering condition, prompting a response of tenderness rather than indifference. This same Hebrew word appears in Joel 2:18, where the prophet declares that when the Israelites repent and return to God, the LORD will be zealous for His land and will show pity toward His people. Here, pity is directly tied to God's own character and His covenant relationship with Israel—it is not a passing sentiment but an active expression of mercy that leads to restoration. In more figurative uses, ḥāmal can also mean to spare, to feel sympathy, and to be moved with compassion, showing that pity is closely intertwined with sparing judgment and extending mercy rather than harsh treatment. Pity, as expressed through ḥāmal, stands alongside the other major Hebrew term for compassion, ra?am, which conveys mercy and tender love, often compared to the love of a parent for a child. While ra?am emphasizes the deep, abiding mercy and tenderness God has for His people—as seen in Exodus 33:19 and Psalm 86:15—ḥāmal highlights the more immediate, sympathetic response to visible suffering or vulnerability, such as the sight of a helpless infant or the plight of a repentant nation. This distinction contributes to the broader development of compassion throughout the material, which traces how true compassion moves beyond mere tender-hearted feelings to an active, suffering-with response. Pity, in this framework, represents an essential emotional component of that compassion—the inward stirring that recognizes another's need and moves one toward mercy. This connects to the New Testament concept of splanchnizomai, the visceral compassion exhibited by Jesus Christ, whose reactions to human suffering—such as feeding the hungry multitude or comforting the grieving widow of Nain—demonstrate a fuller, embodied form of the same principle first seen in the Old Testament expressions of pity and mercy. Ultimately, pity functions as part of the larger biblical portrait of a God who is "full of compassion," whose mercies are renewed daily and who is attentive to the sorrows of His people, as seen in Exodus 3:7. The pity shown by Pharaoh's daughter and promised by God through Joel foreshadows the deeper, sacrificial compassion later revealed in Christ, who not only feels pity but enters into and shares the suffering of others, embodying the true meaning of compassion as "suffering together."

Just What is Mercy?

Sermonette by Clyde Finklea

It is impossible to become perfect without having mercy or compassion. Jesus' command to become perfect includes showing compassion to our enemies.

Mercy: The Better Option

'Ready Answer' by John O. Reid

Pity emerges as one of the recognizable expressions of mercy, listed among synonyms such as compassion, forgiveness, kindness, tolerance, charity, benevolence, clemency, and forbearance. It describes the kind, compassionate treatment extended to someone even when severity might be expected or deserved, and it is rooted in a form of love that responds to another's state of suffering and need, regardless of whether that person is worthy or deserving of such treatment. Pity is portrayed as an active response rather than a passive feeling. A person who exhibits it is genuinely affected by the suffering of others in a way that moves him not only to offer encouragement but also to work toward lessening that suffering. This disposition looks beyond present circumstances toward the potential good that compassionate handling of a difficult situation can produce, willingly setting aside punishment, "just deserts," or personal desire for revenge in order to bring about a better outcome. This quality is directly tied to the broader teaching on mercy and righteous judgment. Since human beings cannot see into another's heart or fully understand another's intentions and background, judgments are inevitably limited and prone to error. Given this reality, leaning toward patience, forbearance, and pity is presented as the wiser and more righteous course when a judgment call must be made. Rather than responding to offense in kind, believers are urged to give a soft answer, turn the other cheek, and extend tender mercies, showing the same pity, compassion, and kindness toward others that Jesus Christ Himself demonstrated toward tax collectors and sinners. The Parable of the Sheep and the Goats in Matthew 25 illustrates this practically: feeding the hungry, giving drink to the thirsty, welcoming the stranger, clothing the naked, visiting the sick, and coming to those in prison are all treated as expressions of pity and compassion that Christ counts as done directly to Him. Showing such pity toward those in difficult circumstances is described as the merciful attitude God expects His children to exhibit at all times, though balanced with discernment so as not to become an easy target for exploitation. Ultimately, pity is woven into the larger call to imitate God's own nature, since God extends mercy to the weak, foolish, and undeserving, redeeming them from death through Christ. Because mercy triumphs over judgment, and because God will judge according to how one has judged others, cultivating pity and compassion toward fellow believers—especially amid the everyday frictions of misunderstanding, past mistakes, and personal shortcomings—is presented as essential to fulfilling what Micah 6:8 summarizes as doing justly, loving mercy, and walking humbly with God.

The Beatitudes, Part 5: Blessed Are the Merciful

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Mercy is a virtue that has gone out of vogue, though it is sometimes admired. Jesus, however, places it among the most vital His followers should possess.

Carrying Water for Jesus Christ

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Ted E. Bowling

The parable of the Good Samaritan depicts a way of life God intends all His called-out Saints to follow.

The Merciful

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The harsh religion of the Pharisees was unfeeling, placing more attention on rituals and man-made laws, and had turned their super-righteousness into sin.

Being a Christian

Sermon by Clyde Finklea

Micah provides a formula for being a Christian: 1.) Doing justly, 2.) Exercising mercy and 3.) Walking humbly. These demand total commitment, not a pretense.

The Great Flood (Part Seven)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The passage, 'God repented,' suggests that God sometimes changes, which presents us a problem when we need to have faith in His changelessness.

What Does It Take to Be a Hero?

Sermonette by Ronny H. Graham

God has chosen the weak and base things of the world, yet we can still sacrifice our personal concerns for the greater good just as our Savior did.

Resistance (Part One)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The antidote to spiritual resistance is certainty and confidence in Christ to conform us into His image—a directed movement toward Christ.

Hosea's Prophecy (Part One)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Hosea was ordered by God to make a symbolic marriage to a harlot. This heartbreaking marriage portrayed Israel's unfaithfulness to God in spite of His care.

Joseph: A Saga of Excellence (Part Four)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Joseph's example proves that even the most difficult temptation can be resisted and overcome, though this skill must be developed incrementally.