Self-control has both an inward and outward dimension, the latter concerned with human relationships, deportment, manners, reflecting Almighty God's orderly mindset, and His concern for Creation. We must emulate our Savior and Heavenly Father, replacing the self-centered mindset with outward service-oriented behavior focused on edifying rather than dominating. According to the apostle Paul, God's people must 1.) be subject to law, 2.) obey civil laws as long as they do not clash with God's law, 3.) be ready for every good work which does not compromise with God's law, 4.) remain separate from the pulls of the world, 5.) refrain from contention or conflict, 6.) use judgment in moderation, preferring gentleness and mercy, and 7.) show courtesy and humility to all men, realizing they have the same potential as we have had. This amazing potential includes: 1.) having His plan revealed to us, 2.) having never earned this divine favor, 3.) having been granted a spiritual renewing process, 4.) having been infused with the mind of Our Heavenly Father and Savior through His precious Holy Spirit, 5.) bringing us unmerited forgiveness for our past sins, 6.) giving us an excellent way of life (here and now), and 7.) the hope for a greater life to come. With this capacity, we should pay attention to the important little things regarding the use of the tongue, avoiding gossip, incessant talking and discussions of no value, the importance of fulfilling commitments and promises, demonstrating integrity (matching words to deeds), apologizing when we have acted foolishly, and showing unconditional love matching the behavior of God the Father and Our Lord and Savior, developing a compassionate and forgiving heart.