Jesus commands His disciples to love their enemies, bless those who curse them, do good to those who hate them, and pray for those who persecute them. This rejects retaliation and the notion of hating enemies, calling instead for self-sacrificial love, expressed by agapao and agape, toward all people without distinction. By responding to hatred with kindness, believers become sons of the Father, who sends sun and rain on both just and unjust. Tyre's downfall warns against gloating over an enemy's misfortune, for God reserves the right to fight His people's battles. David mourned for his enemies, and Christ, forgiving those who crucified Him, remains the supreme example, urging believers toward the Father's perfect, indiscriminate generosity. Also see Bible verses for Enemies, Treatment of.

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Loving Your Enemy

Sermonette by Clyde Finklea

Scripture speaks of helping an enemy and "heaping burning coals of fire on his head." This seems to imply revenge, yet the Hebrew idiom indicates otherwise.

'But I Say to You' (Part Seven): Love Your Enemies

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Jesus teaches a radical departure from human nature in His command to love even our enemies and persecutors. In Matthew 5:43-44, He refutes the common belief of hating enemies, instructing His disciples to love their enemies, bless those who curse them, do good to those who hate them, and pray for those who spitefully use and persecute them. This command stands in stark contrast to the natural human reaction of retaliation and defense when faced with aggression or hatred. Instead, He calls for self-control to override the fight or flight instinct, urging a response of love and kindness, reflecting the divine nature rather than human tendencies. This teaching aligns with God's own actions, as He provides sun and rain to both the just and unjust, demonstrating His love and providence even to His enemies. Jesus emphasizes in Matthew 5:45 that by responding to hatred with love and goodness, we become sons of the Father in heaven, growing in the character traits that identify us as His children. The real test and greatest spiritual growth occur when we face opposition and still treat our adversaries with the same care we would show to loved ones, revealing our divine likeness. Furthermore, in Romans 12, Paul echoes this principle by encouraging believers to overcome evil with good, quoting Proverbs 25:21-22 to illustrate that kindness to an enemy—such as feeding them when hungry or giving them drink when thirsty—may provoke a change of heart or attitude. Regardless of the enemy's response, the act of kindness is a witness of godliness, focusing on our character transformation rather than the outcome of the enemy's reaction. Jesus Himself exemplified this during His trials and crucifixion, not reviling in return but committing Himself to the Father, even forgiving those who crucified Him. Ultimately, Jesus sets the goal of perfection in Matthew 5:48, urging us to be perfect as the Father in heaven is perfect. This perfection means functioning as God designed His people to be, expressing limitless love, kindness, and goodness toward all, including enemies. It is a high and challenging standard, but it is the path to reflecting the righteous nature and character of God in our behavior, thoughts, and words.

Tyre and Loving One's Enemies

'Prophecy Watch' by Mike Fuhrer

Tyre's downfall illustrates the biblical principle governing how God's people are to treat their enemies. Though Tyre existed for centuries as a wealthy, arrogant city, God did not immediately punish its pride and self-exaltation. Judgment came specifically because Tyre exploited Jerusalem's destruction, mocking her downfall, plundering her wealth, and selling her people into slavery to the Greeks. God's charge against Tyre, delivered through Ezekiel, centers on this cruelty: Tyre rejoiced over Israel's calamity, clapped and stamped in derision, and sought to profit from a neighbor's suffering rather than showing sympathy or aid. Had Tyre extended kindness to a struggling Israel, God Himself would have ensured Tyre's prosperity; instead, its inhumanity toward a fallen people brought total devastation, as detailed in Ezekiel's twenty-five-fold prophecy and echoed in Joel's declaration that God would return Tyre's own retaliation upon its head. This historical example serves as instruction for believers regarding their own attitudes toward adversaries, including those in positions of civil authority who may act corruptly or destructively. The pattern of Tyre—exulting over an enemy's misfortune—stands as a warning against a similar spirit among God's people today. Rather than reveling when opponents stumble or fall, believers are called to the opposite response: love, blessing, and prayer for those who curse, hate, or persecute them, following Christ's direct command in Matthew 5:44-45 to love enemies and pray for persecutors, imitating the Father who sends sun and rain on both evil and good. This is reinforced by Solomon's warning in Proverbs 24:17 not to rejoice when an enemy falls, lest such rejoicing displease God and cause Him to withdraw His own righteous vengeance on one's behalf. The principle taught is that God reserves the right to fight battles for His people, and their responsibility is to maintain Christlike conduct rather than contempt or celebration over an enemy's ruin. David exemplifies this standard as a type of Christ, mourning and fasting for enemies even when they repaid his goodness with evil, treating them as though they were friends or family in their affliction. Christ Himself remains the supreme example of loving one's enemies. The destruction of Tyre thus functions as a sobering lesson: just as God held Tyre accountable for its gloating cruelty toward a suffering nation, He calls believers to reject vengeful or triumphant attitudes toward their own adversaries, choosing instead the difficult but godly path of compassion, intercession, and trust that divine justice will prevail without human malice contributing to it.

Love Thy Neighbor (Part 1)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

The two great commandments cannot be separated, for one cannot love God without loving man, and loving man completes love for God by serving His creation in all the ordinariness of daily life. Jesus expands this requirement beyond natural affection or cultural lines by commanding His disciples to love their enemies, to bless those who curse them, to do good to those who hate them, and to pray for those who spitefully use or persecute them. This teaching rejects any popular notion that permits hating an enemy and instead requires generous, warm, self-sacrificial action toward every person, whether Israelite or Gentile, without drawing lines based on ethnicity, status, gender, or occupation. Such love, expressed by the terms agapao and agape, combines deliberate action with genuine emotional concern, compassion, and pity, as the Samaritan demonstrated when moved to aid the injured man. It refuses retaliation even under harsh treatment from masters or others, choosing instead to endure wrongfully for conscience toward God and thereby to act as a peacemaker. This conduct flows from seeing God involved in every circumstance and from recognizing that all mankind shares the image of the Creator, so that serving any person, especially a brother in Christ, serves God Himself. The love of Christ therefore constrains believers to live no longer for themselves but for Him who died and rose again, regarding no one according to the flesh. In this way the disciple grows toward the perfection of the Father, who shows indiscriminate generosity, and fulfills the full-time worship of God by treating every neighbor, including enemies, as the law and the example of Jesus require.

Carrying Water for Jesus Christ

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Ted E. Bowling

The theme of compassion toward enemies is illustrated most vividly through the true account of Richard Rowland Kirkland, a 19-year-old Confederate soldier at the Battle of Fredericksburg in 1862. After thousands of Union soldiers lay wounded and dying before a Confederate stone wall, Kirkland alone among 35,000 soldiers received permission to cross into no-man's-land, unarmed and without protection, to bring water and comfort to the suffering enemy soldiers. Though fired upon initially by both sides, his evident mercy silenced the guns, and he spent over an hour tending to wounded foes at the risk of his own life. This act, memorialized as "The Angel of Marye's Heights," demonstrates the godly character of showing compassion even to those who oppose or threaten harm. This historical example is directly connected to the scriptural command to love one's enemies and pray for those who persecute, and it is framed as the very character Jesus Christ displayed and expects His followers to develop. Compassion is defined as awareness plus empathy plus action—distinguished from mere sympathy or pity, which require no involvement. True compassion, by contrast, demands sacrificial deed, not merely feeling, as reinforced by 1 John 3:16-18, which warns against shutting up one's "bowels of compassion" from a brother in need and insists on loving "in deed and in truth." The Parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-33) reinforces this principle through the lens of ethnic and religious enmity between Jews and Samaritans, who despised one another as enemies. While the priest and Levite—representatives of religious respectability—passed by a wounded man without helping, it was the Samaritan, a member of a hated group, who showed genuine compassion and acted to relieve suffering. This parable teaches that eternal life is tied to becoming a person of compassion, even toward those considered enemies, rather than merely maintaining outward religious appearances. This principle extends into eschatological application: as the world descends into unprecedented tribulation, violence, and self-centeredness—marked by love growing cold and betrayal abounding—God's people are being prepared now to "carry water" for Jesus Christ in the coming Kingdom. Just as only one soldier among thousands showed compassion on that battlefield, the world after Christ's return will desperately need those who have cultivated tender-hearted mercy, including toward former enemies, so they may minister to a shattered humanity emerging from tribulation. The call is to examine oneself—asking whether one is willing to aid even an enemy—as essential preparation for that future service in God's Kingdom.

Love Thy Neighbor

Sermon by John O. Reid

The book of Amos provides a detailed case study of how nations treated their enemies, and God's response to that treatment forms the backbone of this teaching. Beginning with Damascus, Gaza, Tyre, Edom, Ammon, and Moab, each nation is condemned for atrocities committed against those they considered adversaries. Damascus is judged for threshing Gilead with iron implements, a brutal method used against soldiers. Gaza and Tyre are condemned for wholesale enslavement, delivering entire captive populations to Edom, with Tyre's guilt compounded by its betrayal of a covenant of brotherhood established between Solomon and Hiram. Edom itself receives judgment for pursuing "his brother" with unrelenting anger, never letting go of wrath, despite the ethnic kinship between Edom (Esau) and Israel (Jacob) as twin brothers. This hatred culminated historically in Edom's gloating over Jerusalem's destruction by Nebuchadnezzar and their betrayal of fleeing refugees. Ammon is condemned for ripping open pregnant women in Gilead merely to expand territory, an act of revulsion before both man and God. Moab, notably judged though the offense was not against Israel, is condemned for burning the bones of Edom's king to lime, an act reflecting perpetual, vengeful hatred toward an enemy. These six examples establish a pattern: even nations without God's revealed law were held accountable for how they treated those they regarded as enemies. The killing, slavery, torture, and undying hatred illustrated in these judgments are identified as sins existing since Cain and Abel, and are seen mirrored in modern hostilities such as Iran's hatred toward Judah, conflicts involving Hezbollah, Syria, and Hamas, tensions between Pakistan and India, and North Korea's warlike posture. The underlying question raised is which of God's laws, if kept, would end such hatred. The answer is identified in Leviticus 19:18, the command not to take vengeance or bear a grudge, but to love one's neighbor as oneself, which Jesus Christ affirms as the second great commandment. This principle is deliberately positioned in contrast to the enemies' behavior condemned in Amos. Judah and Israel themselves are shown to have failed the same command, not merely by mistreating outsiders but by neglecting love toward God and toward their own poor and needy. The broader message intensifies through Christ's teaching in Matthew 5, where loving one's neighbor is expanded explicitly to loving one's enemies, blessing those who curse, and doing good to those who hate, reflecting God's own character in sending sun and rain on both evil and good. The parable of the Good Samaritan illustrates this by showing compassion extended across social and ethnic boundaries without expectation of reward, conversion, or thanks, offering a direct model for how enemies and strangers alike are to be treated. The sheep and goats judgment in Matthew 25 elevates this further, identifying acts of mercy toward the hungry, thirsty, stranger, naked, sick, and imprisoned as service rendered directly to Christ Himself. Galatians 6:10 reinforces that good must be done to all as opportunity allows, especially within the household of faith. Thus, the treatment of enemies contrasted throughout Amos becomes the negative example against which the positive command to love, forgive, and show mercy—even to adversaries—is measured, forming a central test of character in the time of coming difficulty.

By This Shall All Men Know You

Sermon by John O. Reid

Jesus commanded His disciples to love their enemies, to bless those who curse them, to do good to those who hate them, and to pray for those who spitefully use and persecute them. This directive establishes a love that wishes others well without approving their conduct and refuses to return curse for curse. It requires refusing to repay evil for evil, living peaceably as far as possible, and leaving vengeance in God's hands rather than taking personal action to afflict pain or injury. When an enemy hungers or thirsts, the response must be to feed and give drink, thereby overcoming evil with good and setting an example that may lead to repentance. Such conduct demonstrates a spirit superior to that of tax collectors who merely greet their own kind, and it fulfills the requirement to be perfect as the Father in heaven is perfect by extending impartial love and concern to all. Jesus Himself modeled this love by healing the ear of the high priest's servant amid His arrest and by praying from the cross that the Father would forgive those who crucified Him, since they did not know what they were doing. He confronted wrongdoing, as when He overturned the tables of the money changers and addressed the Pharisees, yet without seeking personal vengeance. The treatment of enemies therefore forms an essential element of the right relationship with one another that must exist if a right relationship with God is to be maintained, and it serves as the identifying mark by which disciples are recognized. This agape love, which is willful, obedient, and directed toward what is best for others, must be developed through conversion so that the mind of God is possessed and the Kingdom may be entered.

Strategies for Interfacing with Babylon (Part Seven)

Sermon by David F. Maas

True peacemaking means emulating Christ, which that involves promoting justice and righteousness, not merely avoiding conflict or appeasing by compromising.

Thou Shall Love Thy Neighbor

Sermon by John O. Reid

Loving one's enemies stands as one of the most demanding applications of the second great commandment, revealing how far God's standard exceeds mere human affection. The Jewish interpretation of "love your neighbor" had degenerated into "love your friends" while treating anyone outside their race as an enemy unworthy of help—so much so that Rome charged the Jews with hatred of the entire human race. Jesus directly confronted this distortion: "You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you" (Matthew 5:43-44). This love is not the world's sentimental affection but agapao—a deliberate direction of the will toward another's well-being, regardless of feelings. Romans 12:17-21 supplies the practical outworking: repaying no one evil for evil, never avenging oneself but leaving vengeance to God, and even feeding and giving drink to a hungry or thirsty enemy. Such conduct produces peace and sets an example of God's righteous way before both the offender and onlookers. The rationale given is profound: doing this proves one to be a child of the Father in heaven, "who makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust" (Matthew 5:45). Loving only those who already love us earns no reward, since even tax collectors do that; genuine godliness is demonstrated precisely in loving those who oppose us. This is why Jesus concludes, "Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect" (Matthew 5:48). God Himself loves His enemies and will work with them in His timing, and He calls His people to release hatred rather than cling to it. This principle connects directly to the parable of the unforgiving servant and the broader teaching on forgiveness: since immense debts have been forgiven each person by God, withholding mercy from those who wrong us—including enemies—invites judgment without mercy. The example of the Good Samaritan reinforces that "neighbor" includes even those from despised or hostile groups, requiring compassion, forgiveness, and practical aid rather than avoidance. Jesus Christ Himself modeled perfect enemy-love from the stake, praying, "Father, forgive them; they know not what they do" (Luke 23:34), even as He was being brutally executed. This becomes the pattern His followers are to imitate: a love unhindered by race, injury, or provocation, marking those called by God as distinct—identified not by external status but by the quality of love extended even toward those who would do them harm.

Psalm Genres (Part Two): Imprecatory Psalms

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The treatment of enemies in Scripture centers on the phenomenon of imprecatory psalms—prayers uttered by the righteous, under severe persecution or oppression, calling for misfortune, disaster, or death to fall upon their adversaries. Rather than dismissing these as evil outbursts, four foundational principles explain their proper place in Scripture. First, imprecations are prayers directed to God, not acts of personal vengeance; the psalmists never take retribution into their own hands but ask God to act, recognizing that sin itself brings the curse of the law and simply requesting that God's timetable for justice be hastened. Second, the psalmists' seeming hatred stems from witnessing or suffering extreme, life-and-death violations of justice—not petty grievances—so their curses function as hyperbolic expressions of outrage against genuine wickedness. Third, these imprecations are calls for God's justice to fall on enemies specifically as a means of bringing mercy and relief to the suffering, asking God to rebalance the scales of justice rather than to empower the oppressed toward retaliation. Fourth, the covenant relationship between God and Israel underlies these prayers, since God had promised in Deuteronomy 29-30 to place covenant curses upon Israel's enemies once His people repented and returned to obedience; thus the psalmists remind God of His covenant obligations to defend and avenge them. Precedents for righteous cursing appear even among the most righteous figures: Joshua cursed anyone who would rebuild Jericho, a curse backed by God's own doom on the city as a symbol of resistance to Him; and Jesus Himself cursed a fig tree, using it to teach lessons on faith and hypocrisy, alongside pronouncing woes on unrepentant cities and religious leaders. Examples such as Psalm 137, 83, 5, and 109 illustrate the pattern—lament, description of the enemy's sin, a plea for God's justice, and a return to trust in God's protection—showing that the psalmists sought vindication of God's name and reestablishment of righteousness, not personal bloodlust. Even Psalm 109's extensive curses conclude with the plea that God act "that they may know that this is Your hand," showing the psalmist's desire to remain uninvolved in the violence itself. Yet this Old Testament pattern is decisively reframed under the New Covenant. Jesus declares in Matthew 5:43-45 that His followers must love their enemies, bless those who curse them, and pray for persecutors, reflecting the character of a Father who sends sun and rain on both evil and good. Consequently, imprecatory psalms are not a model for regular use but potentially dangerous if wielded from hatred or spite. Only with righteous, humble motives—free from personal vengeance—could such prayers be rightly voiced. Their abiding value lies in helping believers process anger and injustice by submitting it to God, trusting that He will judge the wicked in His own time, ultimately at Christ's return, and thereby fostering patience and endurance rather than retaliation.

John 3:16: Does God Really Love the World?

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Treatment of enemies is addressed directly through Christ's instruction in Matthew 5:43-45, where He overturns the common teaching to love one's neighbor and hate one's enemy, commanding instead to love enemies, bless those who curse, do good to those who hate, and pray for those who spitefully use and persecute. This command is explained through the pattern of God's own conduct toward the ungodly world, since He makes His sun rise on the evil and the good and sends rain on the just and the unjust. God continues to serve His creatures despite their evil, showing pity toward the wicked, kindness to the unthankful, and long-suffering endurance toward those who are wicked, yet this service falls far short of the fullness of His love, since He has not given the ungodly His Spirit, granted them access to Himself, or extended forgiveness to them. This distinction becomes the model for how believers are to treat their enemies. Love is defined biblically as the keeping of the commandments, meaning it has both a rational and an emotional quality. Service toward an enemy can be entirely rational, done simply because it is right, without requiring the emotional intimacy reserved for those who reciprocate love. Thus, when Christ commands love for enemies, He is not demanding affectionate embrace or acting as though nothing has happened between the parties. Rather, understood in the context of the surrounding verses about not retaliating and going the extra mile, the command means several concrete things: doing no evil in return, controlling the mind so that no hatred motivates retaliation, refusing to speak evil against an enemy or further damage his reputation, showing kindness in the same manner God shows kindness to the evil, pitying an enemy for his spiritual blindness, helping him in his need, working as a peacemaker, and doing good toward him. All of these actions can be carried out rationally, as an act of obedience and rightness, without granting the enemy the fullness of one's love, since that fullness is properly reserved for those who reciprocate love, particularly the brethren within the household of faith. This treatment of enemies connects to the larger theme concerning the nature of God's love for the world. God's love for the ungodly is not the same as His love for His own children; it is impersonal, rational, and bound to the outworking of His overall purpose rather than an unconditional embrace of all people equally. Galatians 6:10 and Romans 12:10 reinforce that believers are to do good to all as opportunity allows, but with special preference and kindly affection reserved for those of the household of faith. God does not instruct anyone to prefer the ungodly world or to be kindly affectionate toward it in the same way as toward the brethren. Therefore, the treatment of enemies commanded of believers mirrors the pattern of God's own dealings with the ungodly: sustained service and restraint from evil, rooted in obedience rather than emotional attachment, while the deeper bond of love, marked by reciprocity, remains distinctively reserved for those who return that love, whether to God Himself or among the brethren.

Reach for the Goal

Sermon by John O. Reid

Treatment of enemies emerges as one of the most demanding aspects of the Christian character that must be developed in pursuit of the transcendental goal of the Kingdom of God. When Paul lists the practical behaviors expected of those called by God in Romans 12, he includes the command to "bless those which persecute you; bless and do not curse," a directive explicitly reinforced by Christ's own words in Matthew 5:44 to "love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you, and persecute you." This instruction runs contrary to human nature and represents exactly the kind of self-sacrifice required of those striving to reflect God's character, since such a response can be applied not only to outside relationships but within the home as well, wherever conflict or animosity arises. This principle is further developed in Romans 12:17-21, where believers are warned never to repay evil for evil but instead to carefully consider their responses so that their fairness and integrity might be evident to all. Rather than seeking personal vengeance, believers are told to "give place to wrath," trusting that God alone possesses the right to repay, since only He can judge the heart with perfect justice. Practically, this means that if an enemy is hungry or thirsty, he should be fed and given drink, an act that "heaps coals of fire on his head." The overarching conclusion is that one must not be overcome by evil but must energetically overcome evil with good, through diligent obedience to God's law. This teaching connects directly to the broader call to lay aside personal will and sacrifice one's own desires for the higher, transcendental purpose of becoming like God. The perfect model for this behavior is Jesus Christ Himself, who endured hostility, ridicule, and betrayal from those who hated Him yet never allowed that opposition to divert Him from His Father's will. His example culminates in Gethsemane, where, seeing His betrayers approaching with torches and weapons, He did not flee but said, "Rise up, let us be going. See, My betrayer is at hand," choosing to advance toward His enemies rather than retreat. This courageous response models exactly what is required of those who claim to imitate Him: to face hostility without vengeance, to answer hatred with goodness, and to trust God's justice rather than one's own. Ultimately, the proper treatment of enemies is presented not as an isolated virtue but as an essential expression of agape—selfless, active love—which forms the very foundation of the character believers are called to develop as they press toward the Kingdom of God.