Loving enemies is a profound command from Jesus, urging us to love, bless, do good, and pray for those who hate and persecute us, as taught in Matthew 5:44. This counters human instincts of retaliation, calling us to reflect God's nature by showing kindness to adversaries. As God loves even His enemies, providing for all (Matthew 5:45), we must emulate this by caring for those who oppose us. Such love, a deliberate choice over emotion, can provoke change in others and transforms our character to mirror Jesus (Romans 12, Proverbs 25:21-22). Striving for this perfection, as in Matthew 5:48, aligns us with God's Kingdom through selfless, unconditional love.

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Loving Your Enemy

Sermonette by Clyde Finklea

Scripture speaks of helping an enemy and "heaping burning coals of fire on his head." This seems to imply revenge, yet the Hebrew idiom indicates otherwise.

'But I Say to You' (Part Seven): Love Your Enemies

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Jesus teaches a radical and nearly impossible command to love even our enemies and persecutors, as seen in Matthew 5:44, where He instructs us to love our enemies, bless those who curse us, do good to those who hate us, and pray for those who spitefully use us and persecute us. This command stands in stark contrast to human nature, which often reacts to aggression and hatred with retaliation, driven by the urge to defend oneself or return harm. Yet, He calls us to override these natural instincts with self-control, to act with love and kindness even when faced with hostility, reflecting the divine nature rather than the carnal. This teaching is not merely a suggestion but a command from our Savior, King, and Master, urging us to emulate the character of God, who loved us even while we were still in rebellion against Him. As shown in Romans 5, He blessed us and performed mighty acts of providence for us despite our enmity, setting an example for us to follow. By loving our enemies, we pay forward the love and blessings we received from Him, acting as witnesses of His love shed abroad in our hearts. In Romans 12, Paul reinforces this by quoting Proverbs 25:21-22, suggesting that kindness to an enemy, such as feeding them when hungry or giving them drink when thirsty, may provoke a change of heart or attitude, likened to heaping coals of fire on their head. Regardless of their reaction, our act of love and godliness is what matters, as it transforms our character into the image of Jesus Christ, aligning us with the path to the Kingdom of God. Jesus further explains in Matthew 5:45 that we must respond to hatred and evil with love and goodness to become sons of the Father in heaven. He provides for all, even His enemies, by making His sun rise and sending rain on both the just and unjust, demonstrating His active love and providence. We are to follow this example, showing the same care and kindness to those who oppose us, as a true test of our growth and a reflection of our identity as children of God. The ultimate goal, as Jesus concludes in Matthew 5:48, is to be perfect as the Father in heaven is perfect, meaning to attain the end or aim for which we were designed—to express limitless love, kindness, goodness, and mercy, especially toward our enemies. This standard of perfection, embodying the righteous nature and character of God, is the measure we must strive for, pressing forward with determination on the arduous journey to the Kingdom of God.

Tyre and Loving One's Enemies

'Prophecy Watch' by Mike Fuhrer

The Almighty God pronounced a severe sentence on Tyre due to its attitude of commercial jealousy and greed, exulting over Jerusalem's misfortunes with the expectation of profit. Among Tyre's despicable activities, its lucrative slave trade stood out, taking people from Judah and Jerusalem during their devastation and selling them to the Greeks to send them far away. These dastardly dealings with the inhabitants of Judah would not go unpunished, as God declared through the prophets. We must heed the lesson from God's destruction of Tyre and learn to love our enemies, working for the good and betterment of haters and persecutors, as that is the way of God.

Love

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John O. Reid

In the spirit of demonstrating true love even towards those who oppose us, we find a powerful example in the story of a young lieutenant and his captain. The captain, filled with hostility, sought to break the lieutenant, who remained steadfast in kindness and patience. Despite the captain's hatred, the lieutenant's actions culminated in a profound act of self-sacrifice, giving his life to save the captain during battle. This act of agape love, defined as outgoing concern for others, showed no emotional attachment but a deliberate choice to serve and protect, even at the ultimate cost. This principle of loving enemies is further illustrated in the account of a Japanese private enduring brutality from his sergeant. Despite relentless cruelty, the private returned kindness, cleaning the sergeant's boots after a severe beating. This gesture moved the sergeant to tears, stirring painful regret for his actions. Such acts of love towards adversaries can provoke reflection and remorse, aligning with the idea that friendly actions towards enemies can stop them in their tracks and make them reconsider their behavior. Love, as described, is a decision of the will leading to right action, not merely an emotion. It requires us to stretch ourselves, to be continually intense and earnest in our efforts, even when faced with opposition. We are called to love without conditions, overlooking differences in background, appearance, or status, just as God and Jesus Christ love every individual unconditionally. This fervent love, above all things, means forgiving faults and covering sins, not broadcasting them, as hatred magnifies offenses while love conceals and forgets them. By loving even our enemies, we set a right example for others to follow, becoming a light to the world. People will observe over time and recognize a difference in how we conduct ourselves with tenderness and concern, reflecting the love of God. This love, enduring under strain and persecution, never gives up, placing trust in God to sustain us. As we practice this love, we align with the standard set by Jesus Christ, striving to live a life of unconditional love that mirrors the better life exemplified by Him who gave His life for us.

Love God, Love Neighbor

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Loving enemies is an essential aspect of imitating God's boundless love, as He extends His care to all, whether just or unjust. Our love should not be limited to those who reciprocate it, nor should we reserve our kindness only for our brethren. Instead, we must reflect the Father's impartial love by showing concern for everyone, even those who oppose us. This selfless, outgoing love for neighbors and enemies alike mirrors the perfection of God, guiding us toward spiritual growth and righteous character. By loving others in this way, we demonstrate the depth of our love for Him, as our actions toward all people become a gauge of our devotion to Him. Practicing such love, though challenging, is a vital step in preparing to enter His Kingdom.

Our Part in the Sanctification Process (Part Two): Cultivating Love

Sermon by David F. Maas

The command to love enemies requires unselfishly seeking the best or higher good for them and praying for those who persecute, demonstrating that one is a child of the Father in heaven, who provides sun and rain to both the evil and the good. This forms the final tier in a sequence of love that begins with loving the heavenly Father, extends to loving oneself, family, brethren, friends, and neighbors, and culminates in loving enemies as God loves us. Achieving this level demands mature spiritual growth beyond what carnal human nature can accomplish naturally. The spiritual gift of love initiated from the heavenly Father must circulate freely through all tiers without blockage. Developing the mature fruit of love applies as much to nurturing the self as to nurturing others and will take equally as long to develop as love for the bitterest enemy.

Love Thy Neighbor (Part 1)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Jesus taught that a popular notion to love only those who love in return while hating an enemy was not the will of God. The commandment in Leviticus 19 requires that sojourners and resident aliens receive love in the same manner and at the same level as an Israelite neighbor. Jesus expanded this teaching in Matthew 5 to include enemies regardless of whether they were Israelite or Gentile. Followers must bless enemies, do good to them, and pray for them. The term for love in this context is the verb agapao or its noun agape. This quality of love includes an emotional element of concern and compassion toward the well being of others rather than a coldly calculated action limited to keeping the commandments. The right balance between emotion and calculation grows out of a relationship with God. God sets an example of indiscriminate generosity by giving rain on both the righteous and the unrighteous. Loving only those who love in return amounts to expanded selfishness. Followers must grow toward the high standard of maturity exemplified by the Father in heaven. The love of Christ constrains believers to live for Him and no longer view people as before so that love eventually extends to enemies.

Love Thy Neighbor

Sermon by John O. Reid

The material presents loving enemies as an essential extension of the second great commandment to love one's neighbor as oneself. This principle is introduced through the nations surrounding Israel, whose perpetual hatred, brutality, enslavement, and merciless pursuit of vengeance illustrate the opposite conduct. Such actions, though not committed against Israel in every case, reflect a hate-filled nature that God holds accountable even among peoples without His law. The discussion then turns to Judah and Israel, who received the divine law yet likewise failed to love neighbor or enemy, instead oppressing the poor, perverting justice, and rejecting God's commandments. Their punishment demonstrates that violation of this commandment brings divine correction. Jesus Christ expands the requirement beyond loving only those who reciprocate, commanding His followers to love enemies, bless those who curse them, do good to those who hate them, and pray for persecutors. This standard surpasses ordinary human conduct, as even tax collectors love their own, and it is presented as necessary for becoming sons of the Father who shows impartial kindness to all. The Good Samaritan exemplifies this love by aiding a stranger in need without regard for political, religious, or ethnic ties, simply meeting the requirement of mercy. The material connects this commandment directly to the final judgment, where acts of compassion toward the hungry, thirsty, stranger, naked, sick, and imprisoned are counted as done to Christ Himself. Keeping the commandment to love neighbor—including enemy—thus forms the measure by which God's people will be evaluated amid coming trials, distinguishing faithful conduct from the hatred and selfishness condemned in Amos.

Thou Shall Love Thy Neighbor

Sermon by John O. Reid

Jesus instructs His followers to love their enemies by blessing those who curse them, doing good to those who hate them, and praying for those who spitefully use or persecute them. This love reflects a benign, compassionate, outgoing desire for another person's well-being rather than warm feelings or the expectation of being thought well of. It involves choosing to show favor and good will, which may include expressions of kindness, correction, or even discipline as an outworking of the same principle applied when parents correct their children. The command counters the common view that limited love to one's own race, friends, or those who reciprocate, extending instead to all without qualification. Obedience produces peace, overcomes evil with good, and sets an example of the Father's impartial care, since He sends sun and rain on the just and unjust alike. Those who love only those who love them in return do no more than tax collectors, but extending this love identifies disciples as children of the Father in heaven and fulfills the second great commandment on which the Law and the Prophets hang. This requirement ties directly to forgiveness, mercy, and the rejection of vengeance or grudges, ensuring that the same love shown by the Good Samaritan and by Jesus Himself becomes the identifying mark of those called by God.

Love's Emotional Dimension

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Jesus commands His disciples to love their enemies, to bless those who curse them, to do good to those who hate them, and to pray for those who spitefully use and persecute them. This directive demonstrates that the love believers must show is agape, a determined act of the will directed toward the well-being of another regardless of natural feelings of irritation, anger, or antagonism. Unlike family affection, passionate longing, or warm friendship, which arise unbidden, agape is exercised by deliberate choice and always seeks the good of the other person, even when that requires remedial discipline rather than unchecked freedom. This capacity for agape toward enemies develops only as believers maintain fellowship with God. Through continued obedience to His commandments and shared experience with Him in daily life, the right emotional qualities are formed. The mind and will remain dominant, yet the emotions that accompany obedience become increasingly aligned with God's own holy, loving, and giving character. As this relationship deepens, trust and loyalty grow, enabling believers to view others—including adversaries—from God's perspective rather than from self-protective fear. The same fellowship that produces joy and hope also supplies the strength to act for another's benefit without being overcome by fear of loss or rejection. Because God first loved humanity while it was still hostile, He supplies both the pattern and the power for His children to love their enemies. The proof that one truly knows God and abides in His love is therefore the consistent practice of this outgoing, commandment-directed agape toward every person.

The Fruit of the Spirit: Love

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Loving one's enemies stands as one of the highest expressions of the standard of love that Scripture reveals, forming part of a progressive pattern that demonstrates how far God's love exceeds natural human love. This progression begins with the second great commandment, to love one's neighbor as oneself, which already sets an extremely high standard because people naturally sacrifice a great deal for their own benefit. Jesus raises this standard further by commanding, "love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you." This command confirms that godly love is not natural to human beings but must come from a source beyond themselves. This principle connects directly to the broader teaching that true love is not self-generated but originates in God and is received through His Spirit, as affirmed in Romans 5:5, where the love of God is poured out in believers' hearts by the Holy Spirit. Since God is love by nature, every action He takes—including His dealings with those who oppose Him—reflects that loving nature. The command to love enemies therefore is not an isolated ethical demand but flows from the character of God Himself, who demonstrated the ultimate pattern of this kind of love by giving His Son while humanity was still in a state of sin and hostility toward Him, as Paul explains in Romans 5:7-8: while scarcely anyone would die for a righteous man, God showed His love in that Christ died for sinners. This example establishes that love of such strength involves sacrifice extended even toward those who have not earned or reciprocated it, and Jesus' own words in John 15:13 reinforce that the greatest love is shown in laying down one's life for others, a principle Paul extends by noting that Christ gave Himself for the church. The capacity to love enemies in this way, therefore, is not achieved through human effort or natural inclination but becomes possible only because believers are made "partakers of the divine nature," possessing the same Spirit that empowered Jesus. Godly love, including love toward enemies, is thus presented as the fruit of that indwelling Spirit, requiring the believer's continual choice to obey and follow its guidance. In this way, loving one's enemies serves as a measure of how completely a person reflects the very nature of God, whose love is not limited to friends or the deserving but extends, sacrificially and deliberately, even to those who oppose Him.

John 3:16: Does God Really Love the World?

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

God's love for enemies consists of rational service rather than emotional affection or full personal concern. He continues to provide sun and rain for the evil and the good alike, sustaining creation within His overall purpose even while withholding forgiveness, access, and His Spirit from those who reject Him. This measured expression of love requires no reciprocity from the ungodly and stops short of the intimate bond He reserves for His children. Believers are instructed to follow the same pattern. They must refuse to retaliate, speak evil, or seek vengeance; instead they extend kindness, pity, practical help, and peacemaking efforts when opportunity arises. Such actions remain rational and limited, performed because they are right rather than because affection has developed. Fullness of love, marked by warmth and preference, is directed especially toward the household of faith, where mutual exchange and obedience to the commandments strengthen the relationship. This distinction preserves God's justice and holiness. Treating enemies with measured service does not imply acceptance of their ways or permission to disregard law; it simply reflects the ordered priority in which God first loves those who love Him in return. The same principle prevents the error of supposing that divine love erases all moral distinctions or renders every person equally acceptable to Him.

The Absence of Love

CGG Weekly

Paul fought against discord by reminding the brethren that the church is united in Christ, and that He requires His followers to show love to each other.

Love's Greatest Challenges

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

An irrational fear of loss prevents the development of agape love — we fear that keeping God's commandments will cause us to lose something valuable.

Go and Do Likewise

Sermon by Bill Onisick

Without the gift of God's Holy Spirit, it is impossible to understand the kind of love which Christ commanded of His disciples.

By This Shall All Men Know You

Sermon by John O. Reid

A native practice involves leaving a young man on a remote island with only a bow and arrows until he learns to become a man, and God does something similar.

Our Growing Fellowship

Sermonette by Austin Del Castillo

We need to nurture fellowship with our spiritual siblings, forgiving others as Christ forgave, steadfastly resisting pride and division within the church.

The Second Greatest Commandment

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Jesus said the greatest commandments were Lord toward God and neighbor. There is no connective between the first and second clauses; they cannot be separated.

The Purpose of Relationships

Sermonette by Ryan McClure

The marriage covenant was designed to bring incomplete components of the God image together in one flesh, from which other relationships developed.

River of Life

Sermon by Bill Onisick

I Corinthians 13 describes the assaying instrument to detect the purity of love. Our need for love never ends as we move through the sanctification process.

The Identifying Sign of a True Disciple of Jesus

Sermon by Clyde Finklea

The Navy SEALs' fear is not of death, but of failing their team, parallel to the bond Jesus Christ desires among His disciples.

Just What is Mercy?

Sermonette by Clyde Finklea

It is impossible to become perfect without having mercy or compassion. Jesus' command to become perfect includes showing compassion to our enemies.

Parable of the Good Samaritan

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

This well-known parable describes working compassion as contrasted to selfishness. It also clarifies just who is our neighbor.

Hitting the Mark

Sermonette by Bill Onisick

One definition of sin is 'missing the mark,' as hamartia denotes. Unless our righteousness exceeds that of the Pharisees, we have failed to reach our goal.

The Tongue: Our Tool of Power

'Ready Answer' by Staff

Our hurtful words can create scars that last longer than any physical scar that sticks and stones may cause. Christians must harness the power of the tongue.

Vengeance is Mine

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Christ counsels us to love our enemies in order that we may be children of God, demonstrating not only His mercy but also our sonship by being peacemakers.

Listen To The Lamb's Voice

Sermon by Mark Schindler

The movie Ben-Hur captures the essence of the time and ministry of Christ. By letting go of anger and hatred, we take on the yoke of Jesus Christ.

Reach for the Goal

Sermon by John O. Reid

Similar to the way people pull together in times of crisis, we must also have a goal, a vision of the finish line, in order to overcome and grow.

Carrying Water for Jesus Christ

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Ted E. Bowling

The parable of the Good Samaritan depicts a way of life God intends all His called-out Saints to follow.

Offerings (Part Five)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

We give peace offerings today through living sacrifice, keeping God's law out of love and to glorify Him rather than just to perform duty.

Do Unto Others and Reap What We Sow

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Reaping good fruit does not happen immediately. If we feel we are not reaping, we must consider that we might be reaping some negative things we have sown.

Blessed Are the Meek (2014)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

In Paul's listings of virtues, meekness always appears near the end, reflecting its difficulty. Meekness is the gentle, quiet spirit of selfless devotion.

Mercy Triumphs Over Judgment!

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Jesus commands His followers to love their enemies by doing good to those who hate them, blessing those who curse them, and praying for those who spitefully use them. This directive requires an act of the will rather than natural affection, meaning one must consciously choose to act in the best interests of adversaries, treating them with the same respect and rights one desires for oneself. Such love extends to offering the other cheek when struck, giving without withholding, and lending without expecting repayment, all while refraining from judgment or condemnation. This teaching develops the principle that mercy is an expression of love directed toward those in need or suffering, even when they are unworthy or undeserving. It stands in contrast to the natural human tendency to love only those who reciprocate, a practice common even among sinners, and instead calls for extending compassion without conditions or hope of return. By obeying this command, believers emulate the Father, who shows kindness to the unthankful and evil, and thereby fulfill the requirement to be merciful just as He is merciful. The practice connects directly to the broader message that true justice must be accompanied by mercy and compassion, as God Himself balances perfect justice with abundant mercy. Those who withhold such mercy from others, including enemies, demonstrate a failure to appreciate the forgiveness they have received, while those who extend it align their conduct with God's character and position themselves to receive mercy that triumphs over judgment.

Forms vs. Spirituality (Part 3)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

God's holy law gives love its foundation, stability, and evenness, preventing it from degenerating into a sappy, sentimental feeling.

Deuteronomy and Holiness

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

God has provided the God-plane marriage relationship to teach us how to submit to one another, sacrificing our self-centeredness for the benefit of our spouse.

Should a Christian Go To War? (Part 2)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

God alone has the prerogative of giving and taking life. As ambassadors of God's heavenly Kingdom, we do not take up arms on behalf of any nation on the earth.

Philippians (Part Two)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Paul both appealed for unity among the Philippians and offered encouragement, reminding them that their relationship with one another was through Christ.

John (Part Twenty-One)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

The humble attitude exemplified by Jesus in footwashing shows the mind of God. God expects us to follow Christ's example of loving others, flaws and all.

Footwashing: An Attitude of Service and Forgiveness

Sermon by Ted E. Bowling

In John 13, when our Savior washed His disciples' feet, He taught them that He was willing to accept the task designated to the lowest of the servants.

In Our Time of Need

Sermonette by Austin Del Castillo

When we accepted God's calling, we trusted in His ability to fend off the evil influences of the world as well as our deadly carnal nature.

Matthew (Part Seven)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Jesus, showing the spirit of the law, warns against rash divorces, taking oaths, invoking God's name frivolously, realizing that a covenant is binding.

Humble Service

Sermonette by Ted E. Bowling

Jesus modeled the practice of foot-washing to demonstrate the need to be submissive to one another, to serve one another, including those who betray.

John (Part Twenty-Two)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Jesus encouraged His disciples by promising to send the Holy Spirit to empower them for the challenges of the Christian life, making us sensitive to God.

Watch and Vigilantly Prepare

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

We are ambassadors in a foreign land, awaiting the return of Christ, when we will help our Warrior King subdue all the rebellious nations of the earth.

Biblical Principles of Justice (Part Three)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Though the Old and New Testament are complementary to one another, the emphasis of justice in the New Testament switches from national to personal in scope.

The Sixth Commandment (Part One) (1997)

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Our society is becoming increasingly violent. The sixth of the Ten Commandments covers crime, capital punishment, murder, hatred, revenge and war.

Psalm 23 (Part Three)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

The valley-of-shadow imagery symbolizes the fears, trials, and tests needed to produce character, quality fruit, and an intimate trust in the shepherd.