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The Revelation 2:4 - You Have Left Your First Love

Sermonette by James C. Stoertz

In the spirit of self-examination, we must confront the warning given to the Ephesians in Revelation 2:4, where it is said, "Nevertheless, I have this against you, that you have left your first love." This term "left," from the Greek "aphiēmi," implies abandonment, while "first," from "protos," signifies the foremost or most important. Thus, the Ephesians had abandoned their most important love, the highest duty to God as taught by Jesus Christ: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment." This abandonment carries grave consequences, as Revelation 2:5 warns that if they do not repent, Christ will remove their lampstand, signifying the loss of His presence and their status as a recognized church. Though the Ephesians had commendable qualities like exemplary works, tireless labor for Christ's name, doctrinal vigilance, and hatred for false teachings, they had drifted from their initial faith and love, once so visible and noteworthy in their early Christian life as noted in Ephesians 1:15. We, too, are susceptible to such a drift through weariness, distraction, or complacency, losing sight of the whole—God Himself—while focusing on lesser matters. The command is clear: remember and repent. We must recall that first love, pictured as a zealous, single-minded focus, akin to young love or the passionate devotion described in Jeremiah 2:2, where God remembers the kindness of Israel's youth and the love of their betrothal, following Him in the wilderness. This love must be reclaimed and deepened into a mature bond, full of perspective, patience, and joy, mirroring Christ's love for the church. The call of Revelation 2:4-5 is personal. We are individually responsible to return our passionate focus to God through action, loving Him with all our heart, soul, and mind, as examples like David, Abraham, and Ruth inspire us to prioritize this most important love above all else.

First Love (Part Two)

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

Christ rebukes the Ephesian church in Revelation 2:4 for leaving their first love, a stark contrast to the earlier praise they received for their faith and love toward the saints. Though they remain steadfast in labor, fight against evil, and guard against false teachers, their devotion lacks the deep, heartfelt passion for Christ and the brethren that once defined them. Christ accuses them of settling for a mechanical, less passionate form of service despite their apparent success and doctrinal purity. Christ offers a remedy to the Ephesians, urging them to remember from where they have fallen and to compare their current state with their initial, zealous love. He implores them to repent and return to their first works, motivated by a sincere desire to serve God and others without selfish intent. These first works stem from a love that is an active expression, reflecting God's nature rather than personal gain. Christ warns the Ephesians of the grave consequences of failing to repent, threatening to remove their lampstand, signifying expulsion from the fellowship of His Body. This stern admonition underscores the urgency to remember and repent while time remains. Yet, He concludes with a promise of hope, assuring that to those who overcome, He will grant access to the tree of life in the Paradise of God.

First Love (Part One)

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

In His letter to the Ephesian church, Christ rebuked them, declaring that they had left their first love. This foremost love, implied through Scripture, signifies an unconditional love for God, which is the first and greatest responsibility, enabling love for one another and for the law. Despite their dedication and resistance to false teachers, the Ephesian church's spiritual condition declined over time. Disputes and divisions arose, causing many to drift away from the loving fellowship of earlier years. This waning of love and unity prompted Christ's admonition, as their initial enthusiasm and devotion had faded. Other first-century churches also struggled with declining spirituality, showing diminishing faith, growing strife, and a neglect of their salvation, reflecting a broader pattern where faltering faith led to the loss of first love.

Keeping Love Alive (Part One)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

In the message to the Ephesians in Revelation 2:4-5, Christ expresses concern that they have left their first love. He urges them to remember from where they have fallen, to repent, and to return to the first works they did when they initially knew Him. If they fail to repent, He warns that He will come quickly and remove their candlestick from its place. This departure from their first love is portrayed as a personal desertion of Christ Himself, a turning away from a singular Being, their Savior. Christ demands a return to the works that demonstrate their love and repentance, emphasizing that relationships, especially with Him, must be actively maintained and cannot be left to drift. The loss of this first love can occur subtly, as familiarity breeds contempt or hope deferred makes the heart sick. A Christian may become subject to influences that cause a decline in attention to their calling, leading to small deviations and neglect of previous commitments. This loss of zeal, likened to an athletic team losing its spirit, results in a lack of motivation to excel. The Ephesians are thus instructed to recapture their initial devotion by actively engaging in the works that reflect their love for Christ. Human nature often presents reasons for relaxing devotion, making it easy to lose sight of the real goal and neglect what Christ does daily for His followers. When devotion wanes, the proximity to Christ grows distant, affecting attentiveness, as illustrated by the principle of "out of sight, out of mind." To counter this, Christians must constantly seek Him to keep the relationship alive, recognizing that without Him, they can do nothing. This relationship with Christ is vital for growth and salvation, requiring active response and effort to maintain constant contact, much like human relationships that thrive on mutual contribution. The delay in Christ's return, similar to Moses' delay in returning to the camp in Exodus 32, can lead to impatience and justification for turning away from devotion. The Israelites quickly turned to idolatry when Moses did not return as expected, paralleling how the Ephesians' minds deceived them into justifying their actions due to Christ's prolonged absence. This impatience and loss of devoted zeal must be countered by daily effort to keep the flame of first love alive, understanding that His timing, though not immediate, is always for their good.

Do The First Works

Sermonette by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

In addressing the concept of 'First Love, Leaving,' we turn to the poignant message delivered to the church at Ephesus as recorded in Revelation 2:4-5. Here, Jesus Christ expresses His concern, stating, "Nevertheless I have this against you, that you have left your first love." This signifies a departure from the initial zeal and devotion they once held for God, a waning in the actions that demonstrated their love not only for Him but also for their brethren. The loss of this fervor reflects a diminished relationship with God and a failure to show love through their interactions with one another. Jesus further instructs in Revelation 2:5, "Remember therefore from where you have fallen; repent and do the first works, or else I will come to you quickly and remove your lampstand from its place unless you repent." He urges them to recall their earlier state of devotion, to repent of their current shortcomings, and to return to those initial acts of love and unity. This call to action is not merely about seeking forgiveness but actively engaging in the works that characterized their early faith, with a stern warning of consequences should they fail to heed His command. Reflecting on the early days of the church, as seen in Acts 2:42-47, we observe the first works that defined their vibrant community. They continued steadfastly in the apostles' doctrine, fellowship, breaking of bread, and prayers. They shared all things in common, meeting each other's needs sacrificially, and praised God with gladness and simplicity of heart. These actions bonded them together and strengthened their relationship with God, earning His commendation. Similarly, in Hebrews 13, there is a reiteration of these first works as a remedy for the waning love observed later in the church's history. The call is to let brotherly love continue, to show hospitality, to remember those in hardship, to uphold marriage, to be content and free from covetousness, to adhere to sound doctrine, and to offer continual praise to God. These practices echo the early devotion of the church and are presented as essential to remaining in God's good graces. Thus, the message is clear: to avoid leaving our first love, we must return to these foundational works, actively demonstrating our love for God and for one another through steadfast commitment, communal support, and heartfelt praise.

How to Know We Love Christ

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

We cannot become weary of well-doing, allowing our first love to deteriorate, looking to the world for satisfaction. Here are 8 tests of our love for Christ.

Hebrews, Love, and the Ephesian Church

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Like the Ephesians, the weary veterans in Hebrews were becoming apathetic through outside pressures, losing their former zeal and devotion to Christ.

Never Allow Your Love to Wax Cold

Sermon by Clyde Finklea

Destruction comes from a gradual withdrawal from intimacy with God rather than outright rejection. We must be vigilant against spiritual complacency.

What Are You Leaving?

Sermonette by David C. Grabbe

The Ephesians had a strong sense of duty and served as a vanguard in the battle against false doctrines. What was lacking was devotion to Christ.

No Real Love Without God

Sermon by John O. Reid

God's love, as defined in this discussion, is a willful direction toward mankind, involving doing what is best for them, not merely what they desire. This love is reflected in benevolence, kindness, sympathy, and generosity, as God deals with us individually while pursuing a grand, philanthropic plan to elevate humanity into His Kingdom. True love originates from God, and as we exhibit it, we take on the nature of our Father, demonstrating that we are born of Him. Those who fail to reflect this love do not truly know God, regardless of their knowledge. The world often misunderstands love, seeing it as deep devotion, sexual passion, or mere enjoyment of activities, while God's love surpasses these limited definitions. His love is proven by the world He has provided, the patience He shows, and most profoundly, by sending His Son as a sacrifice for our reconciliation with Him. Even when we were ignorant and opposed to His way, He loved us and desired the best for us. We are called to love one another as God loves us, laying down our lives for the brethren, just as He laid down His life for us. By actively using this love in our relationships, it is perfected in us, and we grow in His nature, becoming bold in His presence as we mirror His character. Perfect love casts out fear, and though we may struggle with apprehensions in this world, we must work to perfect our love, faith, and trust in God, knowing He will help us. Jesus Christ taught that the greatest commandment is to love the Lord with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, submitting all our faculties to His will and devoting ourselves to glorifying Him. This love is shown directly through obedience to the first four commandments, which involve having no other gods, rejecting idols, honoring His name in all aspects of life, and keeping the Sabbath as holy time for spiritual refreshment and service. The second great commandment is to love our neighbor as ourselves, extending this love to all—family, friends, countrymen, and even enemies. We show this love by not harming our neighbor in body, property, or reputation, by seeking their good, and by being tender and kind, even when their actions do not warrant it, without condoning sin. Attaining God's nature requires keeping His commandments with active faith, trust, and obedience, drawing close to Him through prayer, fasting, and study. Love of God produces a desire to live His way, and His commandments are not burdensome but essential boundaries that train us to become like Him. True love in the heart is reflected in our way of living, showing that we belong to Him. Above all, we must put on godly love, forgiving others as He has forgiven us, uniting all aspects of His calling and opening our minds to emulate Him.

The Seven Churches (Part Three): Ephesus

Bible Study by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Christ's letter to the Ephesians focuses on a people who succeeded in fighting heresy and apostates but, in the process, had left their first love.

What Is the Work of God Now? (Part Four)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The scattering of the church was an act of love by God to wake us from our lethargic, faithless condition. The feeding of the flock is the priority now.

Intimacy with Christ (Part One)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

We must guard our time, not allowing busyness and involvement with activities of the world to prevent us from forming a deep intimacy with God.

God Hates? (Part Two)

Sermonette by Ronny H. Graham

Almighty God loves righteousness—something which Gods saints should emulate. Conversely, God abhors, disdains, and hates evil, particularly the Nicolaitans'.

Hebrews: A Message for Today

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The book of Hebrews provides reasons to recapture flagging zeal, focusing on the reason for our hope and faith, establishing Christ's credentials.

Hebrews (Part Two)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Hebrews is addressed to a people living at the end of an era, who were drifting away, had lost their devotion, and were no longer motivated by zeal.

The Holy Spirit and the Trinity (Part Seven)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

God personally handpicks individuals with whom He desires to form a reciprocal relationship. This relationship must be dressed, kept, tended, and maintained.

Letters to Seven Churches (Part Two): Ephesus

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The Ephesus church effectively battled various heresies, for which Christ commends it. However, the members lost sight of the reason, having left their first love.

Conviction and Moses

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Our conviction reveals itself in living by faith. Moses is a stunning example of how a convicted Christian should live — with loyalty and faithfulness to God.

The Handwriting Is on the Wall (1996): Scattering

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

God initiated the scattering of the church for our ultimate good. When the revelation of God was replaced with the wisdom of this world, God intervened.

Hebrews (Part Twelve)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Hebrews 11 provides examples to bolster faith. The faith described is not blind, but is carefully developed from systematic analysis of available evidence.

Unity (Part 6): Ephesians 4 (C)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Unity has to come from the inside out, with God raising a leader which His people, having their minds opened by His Spirit, will voluntarily submit to.

The Importance of Follow-Through

Article by David F. Maas

Just as important as follow-through is in an athletic motion, its spiritual counterpart is vital to our life in Jesus Christ.

What Is the Church's Work Today (Part Three)

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The primary focus at this time is the repair of the faith once delivered that has seriously deteriorated because of heresy, apostasy, and Laodiceanism.

Caught in a Blizzard?

Sermonette by Bill Onisick

We are being exposed to a spiritual blizzard, bringing darkness and coldness into the entire world. We are admonished to stoke the fire of God's Holy Spirit.

Those Who Hunger and Thirst

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

In the Beatitude, hungering and thirsting for righteousness are present tense active participles signifying continuous longing for God's righteousness.

Grace, Mercy, and Favor (Part Four): Favor to Live as God Lives

Sermon by Mark Schindler

We earn God's favor by obedience; there is a direct tie between submission to His will and His favor. The more one submits, the more favor and grace accrues.

Many Are Called, But Few Are Chosen (Part One)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Jesus Christ warns us to hold fast to true doctrine. Secular historians help us discover the identity of the small flock repeatedly rescued from apostasy.

Prayer and Seeking God

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Rather than having an apathetic relationship toward God, we must ardently, earnestly, and fervently seek God in order to imitate His behavior in our lives.

Exalt With Music

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Music has an intense power to stimulate the emotions, trigger the imagination, set the mood of services, and serves as a teaching vehicle for instruction.