Selfish desire, termed concupiscence or covetousness, is a deep-rooted yearning for forbidden or worldly things, often leading to sin. It encompasses not just sexual longing but all evil desires, as seen in Romans 7:8 and Colossians 3:5, including covetousness akin to idolatry. The Tenth Commandment forbids coveting a neighbor's possessions, highlighting how such uncontrolled lusts can result in theft, murder, and sorrow. These selfish cravings, described as lust of the flesh and eyes in I John 2:16, drive actions like gambling when motivated by greed, contradicting God's will. God calls us to resist these desires, pursue righteousness, and seek His Kingdom, promising help through His Spirit to overcome them.

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Evil Desires

Sermonette by Clyde Finklea

All the medieval 'seven deadly sins' could be categorized as a facet of lust. God designed us to have proper desires, just as His desires are always proper.

Achieving the Desires of Our Hearts

Sermonette by David F. Maas

God's promise to give us the desires of our heart is contingent upon delighting ourselves in Him, changing our hearts to be in alignment with His attributes.

Concupiscence

CGG Weekly by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Concupiscence, an archaic term derived from a Latin verb meaning to yearn or long for, encompasses strong, often ungodly desires. While modern definitions may lean toward sexual connotations, its historical use in the King James Version of the Bible, as seen in Romans 7:8, Colossians 3:5, and I Thessalonians 4:5, reveals a broader scope of wrong desires. In Romans 7:8, sin is described as producing all manner of concupiscence, indicating not just sexual longing but every kind of evil desire. Similarly, in Colossians 3:5, it appears in a list progressing from physical sin to its abstract roots, suggesting that evil concupiscence includes more than sexual desire, pointing to a deep-seated covetousness and idolatry. The underlying Greek word, epithymia (Strong's 1939), translates to earnest desire, often for forbidden things, as exemplified in the Garden of Eden where Adam and Eve's craving for the prohibited fruit led to sin. This ungodly desire, termed by the apostle John as the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life in I John 2:16, encapsulates the lust of the world, which is transient. God calls us to reverse this process, turning from worldly, carnal desires to spiritual, godly pursuits, resisting temptation and seeking Him to overcome these selfish longings.

The Tenth Commandment

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

Covetousness, as addressed in the Tenth Commandment, is an insatiable desire for worldly gain and lies at the heart of where most sin originates. The commandment, "You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor's," emphasizes man's relationship to man and protects the interests of others in seven major areas. When desire has conceived, it may result in breaking any of the Ten Commandments, as uncontrolled lust for power, land, and wealth can drive men to murder to obtain a coveted prize. No one is immune to covetousness, and it often leads to wars and fights stemming from such desires. Covetousness is described as a spiritual sin, akin to idolatry, where lusting after something contrary to God's will can make it an idol to us. When a man amasses possessions through covetousness, he deceives himself with a false sense of security, feeling superior to others, yet it brings only sorrows and never satisfaction. It produces negative results like theft, lying, murder, harmful lusts, and apostasy, ultimately leading to sorrow and death if it dominates a person's mind. It is wrong for anyone, including a minister of God, to be covetous, and God will exclude any covetous person from His Kingdom. Even the elect struggle with resisting covetousness, but God through His Spirit helps us to oppose the desires that war within us. He expects us to resist the lusts of the flesh and present ourselves as instruments of righteousness, hating covetousness and being content with what we have. The opposite of coveting is giving and generosity, and we should pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, and gentleness, seeking first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness.

Are All Forms of Gambling or Games of Chance Sin?

Bible Questions & Answers

The Bible identifies sin as the transgression of God's spiritual law, the Ten Commandments, which includes the prohibition against coveting or wrongfully desiring another's possessions. Any activity rooted in covetousness is considered sin. Jesus teaches that we are to love our neighbor as ourselves, a principle that cannot be upheld when we harbor a coveting attitude, such as competing for another's belongings through a wager. A Christian should not seek to increase personal wealth by depriving others. When greed drives an activity, it is wrong, regardless of the wager's value. The Bible warns that those with such an attitude will not inherit the Kingdom of God, and it cautions against the trap of lusting after riches. Gambling often reflects a desire to gain something without effort, contradicting the biblical work ethic and frequently leading to negative outcomes like neglect of family and poverty. However, games of chance or cards are not inherently wrong; it is the wrongful use, driven by covetousness, that results in sin. Every activity must be evaluated against God's commandments, and if it causes a breach of these laws, it is sinful. God holds each individual accountable for their choices, and by seeking His Kingdom and righteousness first, as Jesus instructs, He will provide the wisdom to make right decisions.

The Tenth Commandment (1998)

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

One commentator said all public crime would cease if this one law was kept. Another said every sin against one's neighbor springs from breaking this commandment.

Thou Shall Not Covet

Sermon by John O. Reid

Because virtually every sin begins as a desire in the mind, the command against coveting (lustful cravings) could be the key to keeping the other commandments.

Covetousness

Sermonette by Martin G. Collins

Covetousness—wanting something with a deep, greedy, envious burning—has reached epidemic proportions. Covetousness is also idolatry.

The Tenth Commandment

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Coveting begins as a desire. Human nature cannot be satisfied, nothing physical can satisfy covetousness, and joy does not derive from materialism.

God's Rest (Part 4)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Coveting—lust—is a fountainhead of many other sins. Desiring things is not wrong, but desiring someone else's things promotes overtly sinful behavior.

The Commandments (Part Nineteen)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Jesus taught that all outward sin stems from inner inordinate desire. What we desire or lust after automatically becomes our idol.

The Second Commandment

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Most people consider the second commandment to deal with making or falling down before a pagan idol, but it covers all aspects of the way we worship.

The Philosophy of Black Friday

Sermonette by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Black Friday stirs up greedy, materialistic, covetous attitudes. When a nation reaches a materialistic mindset, it is on its way to oblivion.

Overcoming (Part 8): Self-Indulgence

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

Few human faults can hinder Christian overcoming like self-indulgence. If we can learn to control our desires, we are a long way toward living a godly life.

The Thinking Mind

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Martin G. Collins

In the current toxic culture, we have been warned not to be conformed to the world, but to become transformed into the glorious likeness of Christ.

The Great Flood (Part Three)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Genesis 6:1-4 summarize what led to God's rejection of the pre-flood civilization: men chose wives solely on the basis of sex appeal and external beauty.

Spiritual Satisfaction

Sermonette by Martin G. Collins

The Parable of the Rich Fool illustrates that, when one has all the material possessions he could want, he may still not be rich toward God.

Light of the Body

Sermonette by Ronny H. Graham

If we take their focus off the genuine Light of the World (John 8:12), we run the risk of being blinded by the lusts of the world and the pulls of the flesh.

God's Rest (Part 3)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Lust begets a guilty conscience, agitation, anxiety, depression, grief, torment. Wrong desire leads to lying, adultery, and murder—eventually leading to death.

Prosperity's Consequences

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Prosperity is not always an emblem of God's approval. God will not prosper us if it would cause spiritual damage, insulating us from seeking His kingdom.

Do You Take Sin Seriously? God Does!

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

The demise of an institution can result from the irresponsibility of its constituents; if one member sins, the whole body experiences the effects.

The Commandments (Part Three)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Idolatry derives from worshiping the work of our hands or thoughts rather than the true God. Whatever consumes our thoughts and behavior has become our idol.