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Fellowship Across the Miles
Article by Sherly J. Togans, Jr.Loneliness among God's people is described as a direct consequence of the separations that have taken place within the church over the past decade, leaving many feeling isolated and cut off from the fellowship they once enjoyed in larger congregations. This condition is compared to the experience of chess players who, lacking access to skilled opponents nearby, turn to correspondence chess to continue engaging in meaningful competition despite physical distance. In the same way, scattered brethren can overcome their sense of isolation by turning to letter writing as a means of maintaining genuine fellowship, requiring nothing more than "pen, paper, envelopes and stamps." The exhortation in Hebrews 10:25 not to forsake the assembling of believers together is applied to this scattered condition, suggesting that its underlying principle can be fulfilled through written correspondence when face-to-face gathering is not possible. Since fellowship at the Feast of Tabernacles is limited to only a few days a year and is often hindered by busy schedules, correspondence offers a way to sustain and deepen relationships throughout the entire year rather than placing fellowship "on hold" until the next reunion. Letter writing is presented as uniquely valuable because it allows individuals to share their backgrounds, experiences, and personal characteristics in ways that verbal conversation often does not, especially for those who struggle with reticence or fear of exposing their true selves in public settings. Coming from larger congregations where one could remain hidden in a crowd, many now find themselves in a more open environment that, rather than being feared, can be embraced as an opportunity for personal and character growth. Such correspondence encourages reciprocity, mutual edification, and the overcoming of shared anxieties, fostering relationships that can provide encouragement, advice, and prayer during times of spiritual weakness or distress. This sharing reflects the New Testament concept of koinonia—communion, participation, and sharing—which promotes the body being "joined and knit together" for mutual edification, as described in Ephesians 4:16. The example of the apostle John is cited as a model of fellowship achieved through writing, since his epistle allows believers nearly two thousand years later to share fellowship with him and, through him, with the Father and the Son. This demonstrates that written correspondence between contemporaries carries even greater potential for building lasting, mutually encouraging relationships. Ultimately, addressing loneliness through correspondence is tied to the broader purpose of unity and spiritual growth within the body of Christ, since being one with God and with the brethren "has to start somewhere." Even ordinary individuals who lack notable speaking or musical gifts may possess the gift of effective correspondence, and using this gift to reach out to others is presented as a way to combat isolation, encourage spiritual growth, and delight God through sustained, meaningful fellowship.
Who Am I?
Sermonette by Joseph B. BaityGod has called us into the His Family; we should form a bond among each other, comforting, edifying, and encouraging one another—the best antidote to loneliness.
Friendship
Sermonette by James BeaubelleTrue Proverbs 18 friends are those who stick with us in this life and will wait for us as we finish our spiritual race.
Are We Mentally Fit?
Commentary by Bill OnisickLoneliness emerges as a defining symptom of the current worldwide mental health crisis, often described as a "pandemic after the pandemic." Recent headlines highlight a loneliness pandemic linked to working from home during COVID-19, alongside reports of college students and school children struggling with mental health, largely due to isolation. Ironically, technology designed to bring people closer together has instead intensified feelings of loneliness, isolation, anxiety, and depression, as multiple studies show a correlation between heavy use of social media and news media with these conditions, even including suicidal thoughts. Technology cannot substitute for genuine human connection, since in-person, live contact with others triggers hormones that reduce stress and foster happiness, health, and positivity. This underscores the vital importance of fellowship, both physical and spiritual, as essential to mental well-being. Loneliness is tied directly to isolation as one of the key stressors—alongside job loss, fear, anxiety, and bereavement—that accelerated mental health decline during the pandemic and political turmoil. Isolating oneself from people and activities is identified as a warning sign of declining mental health, alongside sleep difficulty, loss of appetite, loss of energy, irritability, anxiety, and depression. Because mental and physical health are deeply interdependent, the isolation that produces loneliness can also suppress immune function, worsen sleep, and increase susceptibility to illness. Practical remedies for combating loneliness and improving mental fitness include forest bathing, exposure to sunlight, keeping a gratitude journal, quickly forgiving offenses, smiling, laughing with friends, and especially gathering with physical and spiritual family, which is described as vital to mental health. Daily spiritual exercise—prayer and meditation—is presented as the deeper remedy, since it enables communication with God and helps guard against negative spiritual influences that can affect attitude and mental health. Job 32:8 is cited to explain that the breath of the Almighty enables understanding, but this same channel of communication can be exploited by evil spirits to negatively affect human attitudes. Ultimately, loneliness and isolation are connected to the broader spiritual problem of an ungrateful, self-focused attitude, the same root sin that led to Satan's rebellion and Adam and Eve's fall. Living in a world influenced by this ungrateful spirit contributes to widespread isolation and madness of heart, as described in Ecclesiastes 9:3 and Romans 1. The remedy offered is cultivating thankfulness in all circumstances, as instructed in Colossians and I Thessalonians 5, choosing gratitude and connection with God and others rather than resentment or withdrawal, since maintaining a positive, thankful outlook—rooted in faith that God is working all things for good—counters the isolating effects of loneliness and restores mental and spiritual health.
We Are Not Alone
Sermonette by Ted E. BowlingLoneliness is introduced through the illustration of a castaway figure stranded on an island for years, whose only companionship is an inanimate object incapable of offering real comfort, love, or counsel. This depiction of total isolation—celebrating alone, struggling alone, even contemplating despair alone—serves as a picture of what it means to be utterly without human connection, a condition from which the character never fully seems to recover even after rescue. This image opens a broader reflection on the meaning of "alone," which carries several definitions: being apart from others or isolated; being without anyone else; being considered separately from others of the same kind; and being without equal or unique, a definition applied specifically to the Father and Jesus Christ. These meanings are shown to apply in different ways to members of the Church of God, who at various times must contend with loneliness marked by emptiness, discouragement, sadness, resentment, and anxiety. This experience is tied to historical realities within the Church, particularly following its scattering, which left many believers separated from fellowship, meeting alone through phone or online connections rather than in congregation. Such isolation intensifies during hardship, disappointment, and trial, especially for those who have lost a spouse, single parents raising children alone, or young people unable to find a mate. Despite this, the exhortation is to be strong and courageous, trusting that believers are not truly alone, as affirmed in God's promise to strengthen, help, and uphold His people. Biblical examples reinforce this theme: Abraham journeying into unknown land, Joseph enduring betrayal and imprisonment, and Elijah believing he alone served God, all illustrate isolation endured by the faithful. Christ Himself experienced profound loneliness—tempted alone in physical weakness, and ultimately forsaken by His disciples in Gethsemane, fulfilling the prophecy that the Shepherd would be struck and the sheep scattered. Yet Christ declared that even then He was not alone, for the Father remained with Him, sustaining Him through betrayal, physical torment, and death. This sacrifice becomes the foundation for the promise renewed at Passover, when believers commemorate His body and blood and reaffirm the assurance that they will never be forsaken. This assurance is grounded in Hebrews 13:5, emphasized through its intensive, repeated negatives affirming that God will never, never leave nor forsake His people—a promise consistently given throughout Scripture, from Jacob to Israel to Joshua to Solomon. Unlike the castaway's silent, unfeeling companion, believers are given a God who knows their needs beforehand and strengthens them even unknowingly. Thus, whatever isolation or trial one faces, the assurance remains that one is never truly alone.
Lonely, But Not Forsaken
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsEven Jesus had to cope with feelings of anxiety and loneliness in Gethsemane before His crucifixion, a time when He experienced separation from His Father.
Addicted
Sermonette byIndividuals from stable families or those having a network of healthy relationships are less vulnerable to addiction than those who suffer isolation.
Friends of the Friendless (Part One)
CGG Weekly by John ReissGod exhorts His children to be friends of the friendless, and reach out to others in our fellowship who may be experiencing difficult times.
Friends of the Friendless (Part Two)
CGG Weekly by John ReissTrue worship of God is more than just not sinning but also visiting the widows and the fatherless. These categories represent all who are weak and lack support.
The Great Retreat
Sermonette by Joseph B. BaityWhen we withdraw from fellowship, we deprive ourselves of the blessing of sharpening one another. God demands active and practical engagement with His people.
Everlasting Consolation and Good Hope
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsGod's saints are not immune to depression. Job, Moses, and Elijah all felt so overwhelmed, they wanted God to take their lives.
God, Why Am I so Lonely?
Sermonette by Craig SablichBecause of God's outworking, we may consider isolation a vital key, causing our spiritual vision and understanding to become sharper through fewer distractions.
It's Enough! Now, Lord, Take My Life!
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsGreat luminaries of faith all wrestled with devastating despair. We must face depression with honesty, compassion, and unwavering trust in God.
How God Deals With Conscience (Part Two)
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsWe may have guilty consciences like Joseph's brothers and self-pity like Jacob, but we can break through if we acknowledge God as Jacob and Elisha did.
Antidote For Disunity!
Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Martin G. CollinsWe will become united as we draw closer to God. If we regard a brother in Christ as a competitor rather than as a trusted ally, unity will be impossible.