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Dealing With a Sinning Brother

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Confronting a brother who has sinned requires treating him as a brother rather than a sinner, an approach grounded in the love that Jesus Christ commands His disciples to show one another. This love mirrors the compassion Jesus Christ displayed toward sinners, as seen when He gently instructed the adulteress to go and sin no more without condemnation. Foundational principles prepare for any such confrontation: humility that esteems others better than oneself and looks out for their interests rather than using the occasion to exalt oneself; careful avoidance of rash, harsh, or uncharitable judgments, since judgment is reciprocal and belongs ultimately to the Son; and proactive forgiveness that removes any grudge before approaching the brother, lest failure to forgive hinder one's own forgiveness from the Father. The extreme case recorded in I Corinthians 5 illustrates an exception rather than the rule. There the apostle Paul directed swift removal of a man guilty of an incestuous relationship because the sin had become public, scandalous, and divisive, yet even that action sprang from deep personal anguish and tears and led later to restoration once repentance occurred. Most sins, by contrast, remain private and should stay confined to as few people as possible. When confrontation becomes necessary, Matthew 18 supplies the precise sequence. The matter must involve an actual sin against God's law committed personally against the one who speaks. The brother is first addressed alone and informatively, without preaching or accusation, so that he may acknowledge the fault. If he refuses, one or two witnesses who can confirm the facts accompany the next conversation. Persistent refusal leads to involving church authorities, and only final unrepentance results in disassociation. Throughout, the goal remains restoration to fellowship rather than punishment, because the brother is part of Christ's body and the entire process must reflect the outgoing concern that preserves unity among those being prepared for the Kingdom of God.

Confessions of a Finger-Pointer

'Ready Answer' by Staff

During times of unrest and confusion, it is easy to blame others for our problems. Yet finger-pointing is contrary to everything God teaches.

Using Righteous Judgment

Sermon by Kim Myers

When we minimize sin, we become displeasing to God. God expects His people to confront brothers and sisters in Christ gently, without becoming judgmental.

Thou Shall Love Thy Neighbor

Sermon by John O. Reid

We are obligated to show compassion and mercy to all, refraining from gossip, exercising righteous judgment, forgiving others and applying the Golden Rule.

Biblical Principles of Justice (Part Three)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Though the Old and New Testament are complementary to one another, the emphasis of justice in the New Testament switches from national to personal in scope.

Restoration and Forgiveness

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

It is impossible to grow spiritually in a climate of animosity and jealousy. If we use the power of God's Holy Spirit, peace will accrue as a fruit.

Matthew (Part Twenty-Four)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Those who are mature should be able to endure the slights of the immature, being circumspect not to lead anyone into sin through our careless example.

By This Shall All Men Know You

Sermon by John O. Reid

A native practice involves leaving a young man on a remote island with only a bow and arrows until he learns to become a man, and God does something similar.

John (Part Fourteen)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

The overriding motivation for the individuals bringing to Jesus the woman caught in adultery was to trap Him, impaling Him on the horns of a dilemma.

Joseph: A Saga of Excellence (Part Two)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Even though Joseph was born into a highly dysfunctional family, he nevertheless had a high batting average when it came to making the right moral choices.