Brotherly love, translated from the Greek philadelphia, combines philéo and adelphós, guiding us to show godly affection to our spiritual Family. We are called to be patient, hospitable, encouraging, and humble, building one another up and stirring each other toward good works. We should lay down our lives daily for our friends, loving one another as Christ loved us, which marks us as His disciples. Distinct from agape, a dutiful, obedient love shown first toward God, brotherly love is fraternal affection that cannot compensate for agape's loss when lawlessness abounds. Praying for the brethren puts this love into action. United as brothers in arms under Jesus Christ, we endure trials together, sacrificing, serving, and maturing to become more like Him.

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'Let Brotherly Love Continue'

CGG Weekly by John Reiss

Let brotherly love continue, as it should be a significant part of a Christian's life. The term brotherly love, translated from the Greek word philadelphia, combines philéō, meaning "I love," and adelphós, meaning "brother," guiding us to show godly affection to our brothers and sisters. Have patience with one another, being completely humble and gentle, bearing with one another in love. Our heavenly Father sets the perfect example with His extreme patience toward us, and we must trust Him to handle spiritual correction while we support each other in His love. Be hospitable, contributing to the needs of the saints and seeking to show friendliness, generosity, and kindness, especially to those of the household of faith. Let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart. Be an inspiration by considering how to stir up one another to love and good works. Faithfully setting a good example motivates others, showing faith and relying on the power of God to persevere through trials and overcome sins. Love as brethren, treating each other as members of the same spiritual Family with exceptional care, even beyond physical family ties. Live in harmony, be sympathetic, compassionate, and humble, sharing in both suffering and joy as true brothers and sisters through His Spirit. Be a source of encouragement, building one another up. Encouragement imparts courage to those battling self-doubt or discouragement, and as humans, we all need this support regardless of age or position. Outdo others in doing good, being helpful and kind in response to all Christ has done for us. Seek to set the best examples in expressing God's love through words and deeds, treating others with the brotherly love we desire within the fellowship of the church. Let us love and serve each other with our whole hearts, becoming a church of brotherly love.

No Greater Love

'Ready Answer' by Staff

We ought to lay down our lives for our friends, as God expects it of us. Since the death of Jesus Christ, many true Christians have sacrificed their lives for their fellow-members of God's church and their greatest Friends, God the Father and Jesus Christ. Jesus tells us that we are His friends if we keep His commandments, and thus we may call Him our Friend. There is a profound way to lay down our lives by crucifying our old, sinful selves with Christ and living brand-new lives as Christians, allowing Jesus Christ to live His life through us. Just as Jesus' life is totally dedicated to loving and serving His Father and His brethren in the church, so must our new life be given and spent in loving service. Jesus commands us to love one another as He has loved us, declaring that by this love all will know we are His disciples. We must ask ourselves not only if we would give our physical life for our friends or sacrifice our life for God as Jesus Christ did for us, but if we are laying down our life for them on a daily basis. Greater love has no man than this!

Is the Love of Many Growing Cold?

'Ready Answer' by David C. Grabbe

In the Olivet Prophecy of Matthew 24, Jesus Christ warns that because lawlessness will abound, the love of many will grow cold, yet he who endures to the end shall be saved. This love, known as agape, is a dutiful, submissive, and obedient love that is first shown toward God through adherence to His law, and toward others through sacrifice. Distinct from brotherly love, which is fraternal affection, agape love has a moral core rather than an emotional one. When lawlessness increases, this agape love diminishes, indicating a breakdown in the relationship with God, which is the source of such love. Brotherly love, or philadelphia, represents a fraternal affection, a fondness or affection for others. While it remains a vital aspect of human relationships, it differs from agape, as it does not necessarily involve the same level of dutiful obedience or sacrifice. Even when brotherly love persists with kindness and human affection, the cooling of agape love due to lawlessness reveals a deeper spiritual decline. This distinction highlights that the presence of brotherly love alone cannot compensate for the loss of agape love, which is rooted in a relationship with God. As relationships with God wane, even the expression of brotherly love may be affected, though it can still be present. The challenge lies in recognizing that all love, including brotherly affection, is shown imperfectly by God's children. Each individual reflects facets of God's love differently, and brotherly love may manifest in varied ways, not always aligning with personal expectations. Therefore, patience and endurance are required to appreciate and sustain brotherly love amidst the imperfections and differences in its expression.

Biblical Loves

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

In the exploration of love as a broad and often vague term in English, the concept of brotherly love, known as "philadelphia" in Greek, emerges as a vital aspect of human connection within a specific group. This form of love, rooted in the Greek term "phileo," signifies a personal warmth, affection, and regard for another, often extending beyond family to include friendships and deep companionship. It is a powerful emotional bond, exemplified by the relationship between David and Jonathan, reflecting a profound mutual respect and honor without any romantic or sexual connotation. The author of Hebrews emphasizes the importance of this love in Hebrews 13:1, urging, "Let brotherly love continue." This exhortation highlights "philadelphia" as a tight-knit brotherhood established by fellowship within a covenant, encouraging believers to persist in fostering warmth and closeness among each other. As members of God's Family, having accepted Christ's sacrifice and entered into covenant, we are called to treat one another as part of our own group, showing natural affection toward those who share our beliefs and goals. Jesus Christ further illustrates this concept in John 15:18-19, contrasting the world's affection for its own with the rejection faced by His disciples. He notes that if they were of the world, it would love its own with "phileo" love due to shared values, but because they are not, the world hates them. This underscores that "phileo" love is the affection, unity, and preference for those similar to oneself, binding members within a chosen group while separating them from outsiders. Additionally, in John 16:26-27, Jesus reveals that the Father Himself loves us with "phileo" love because we have loved Him and believed in His origin from God. This mutual preference and choice to be part of God's group reflect a reciprocal warmth, emphasizing our identity within His Family. Thus, brotherly love is essential for maintaining kindness, service, and unity among brethren, forming the emotional foundation necessary for a cohesive and supportive community under the covenant of God's Family.

Love Thy Neighbor (Part 2)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

The two great commandments are presented as inseparably linked parts of one divine standard that reflects God's flawless and perfectly balanced character. Obedience to the command to love God with all the heart, soul, and strength is fulfilled through the practical outworking of loving one's neighbor as oneself, because service rendered to fellow human beings constitutes the visible expression of love toward their Creator. James illustrates this required balance by showing that partiality in human relationships violates the royal law and renders any claim of devotion to God incomplete, while the tongue's capacity to bless God yet curse those made in His image exposes the same fractured character that must be overcome. The Hebrew term ach and the Greek term adelphos are each employed across ten distinct relational contexts, ranging from blood siblings to tribal members, countrymen, business allies, occupational associates, fellow believers, and ultimately all humanity as those sharing one Creator. This breadth demonstrates that brotherly love is not limited to immediate family but extends according to the relationship present in any given circumstance. Scripture establishes clear priorities within these relationships: devotion to Jesus Christ stands first, the marriage bond second, responsibility to one's household third, and special regard for the household of faith above those outside it, while a general obligation to render respect, kindness, and practical help remains toward every person. Because resources of time, means, and ability are finite, judgments must continually be made regarding the appropriate measure of love to extend in each situation. The standard is not sentiment but the example of Christ, whose love compels believers to regard no one merely according to the flesh and to live no longer for self. In this way brotherly love becomes the concrete means by which the two commandments are kept together, producing the unified character God is forming in those being created in the image of Jesus Christ.

Thou Shall Love Thy Neighbor

Sermon by John O. Reid

We are obligated to show compassion and mercy to all, refraining from gossip, exercising righteous judgment, forgiving others and applying the Golden Rule.

From Faith to Love

Sermonette by Clyde Finklea

Peter provides not only an effective antidote to corrosive heresies, apostasy, and false teachers, but also a practical formula for spiritual growth.

The Offerings of Leviticus (Part Five): The Peace Offering, Sacrifice, and Love

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

The peace offering teaches many things, but one of its main symbols is fellowship. Our communion with the Father and the Son obligates us to pursue peace.

Serving the Brethren Through Prayer

Sermon by Ted E. Bowling

Brotherly love is a deliberate act rooted in obedience to God's commandments. When love exists for one another it transforms individuals and builds relationships within the spiritual family because such love reflects God Himself. Through obedience to God and the keeping of His commandments one shows that one is of God by loving and giving preference to one another. A new commandment requires that one love one another as Christ has loved so that by this love one will be known as His disciples. This love serves as the very proof that one is a disciple of Christ and a defining mark of the true church. The New Testament describes believers as members of one body in which each part cares for the others so that if one member suffers all suffer with it and if one is honored all rejoice with it. Love suffers long and is kind. Love does not envy or parade itself. Love does not behave rudely or seek its own. Love is not provoked and thinks no evil. Love does not rejoice in iniquity but rejoices in truth. Love bears all things believes all things hopes all things and endures all things. Love never fails. Praying for the brethren constitutes brotherly love in action. Such prayer fosters humility because one cannot hold bitterness or judgment toward another while earnestly praying for that person. Prayer unites the body by bringing struggles and spiritual battles to brothers and sisters in Christ. Prayer invites God's power because the effective fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much. Fervent love for one another covers a multitude of sins and allows forgiveness rather than grudges. Praying for others reflects the standard of love and grace that Christ embodied when He prayed for those who persecuted Him. This act of obedience mirrors the heart of Christ who makes intercession constantly. Love as brothers requires compassion tenderness and courtesy while refraining from returning evil for evil. Through such love believers fulfill the law of Christ and demonstrate that they are His disciples.

By This Shall All Men Know You

Sermon by John O. Reid

A native practice involves leaving a young man on a remote island with only a bow and arrows until he learns to become a man, and God does something similar.

Hospitality

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Hospitality provides the motivation for good works, establishing a hierarchy of giving, directed toward God, then family, church brethren, and strangers.

Take Heed and Remember the Less Fortunate

Sermon by Kim Myers

When a nation loses its morals, people feel free to take advantage of one another, especially the poor. God hates seeing the poor oppressed.

God's Perseverance With His Saints (Part Three)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

The unity Jesus appeals for with His disciples is not organizational unity, but unity within the divine nature, exampled in the unity between He and the Father.

Forms vs. Spirituality (Part 3)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

God's holy law gives love its foundation, stability, and evenness, preventing it from degenerating into a sappy, sentimental feeling.

The Identifying Sign of a True Disciple of Jesus

Sermon by Clyde Finklea

The Navy SEALs' fear is not of death, but of failing their team, parallel to the bond Jesus Christ desires among His disciples.

Each Other (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

An individual can teach and admonish only if he is in fellowship with others. God's intention that we be connected to the rest of the Body is seen everywhere.

The Priesthood of God (Part Six)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

The priestly garments represent the holy character of God. Clothing is used as a badge of one's office and symbolizes what our character is like inwardly.

Hebrews 12 and 13: Advice for the End Time

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

We must lay aside every weight, accept God's chastening, receive encouragement from those who have gone before, and get back into the spiritual race.

A Band of Christian Brothers

Sermon by Ted E. Bowling

As a band of Christian brothers, we are called to face adversities together, united under the leadership of Jesus Christ. We are not called to a life of passive comfort but to be soldiers in His army, enduring spiritual hardships just as soldiers endure physical battles. Like the men of Easy Company who depended on each other in foxholes, we must rely on one another, strengthening each other despite being separated by miles. We are bonded through the Spirit of God, a bond that calls us to sacrifice for one another and build unity, not division. God unifies us, knitting us together as a body where each member promotes growth through love and service. From the moment of baptism, we become brothers in arms in this spiritual conflict, encouraged by the faith God builds in us and ready to serve each other. Our Savior stands with us, ensuring we do not stand alone, no matter the trials or difficulties we face. We are to stand together as one, enduring hardships with patience and a vision of the Kingdom of God, glorifying Him in the process. Suffering through trials alongside our brethren helps us grow both individually and collectively, maturing us to become more like Him.

Prayer and Persistence

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Persistence in prayer does not mean an incessant pestering God into action. God always looks at our petitions from the vantage-point of His purpose.

The World (Part 2)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Our intimate fellowship should not be with the world, but be concentrated upon God and those who have made the Covenant, loving them as we would ourselves.

Strategies for Interfacing with Babylon without Becoming Assimilated (Part Seven)

Sermon by David F. Maas

True peacemaking means emulating Christ, which that involves promoting justice and righteousness, not merely avoiding conflict or appeasing by compromising.