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Teaching By Example
Sermonette by Ted E. BowlingAs parents, we are the most vital teaching tool for our children, shaping their habits and skills from a young age through repetition and example. We initiate and nurture good habits in them, guiding them in the way they should go, so that when they are old, they will not depart from it. Our responsibility is to oversee their guidance, instilling routines like praying and showing them the proper path, which will remain with them throughout their lives. Our character, manners, kindness, and love for family and God are developed in our children through the nurturing and instruction we provide. We must love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, and strength, embedding His words in our hearts and teaching them diligently to our children in every aspect of daily life. We are to be doers of the word, not hearers only, for if we teach without setting a good example, we are building with one hand while tearing down with the other. Every day, we have the opportunity to nurture and instruct, showing our love and dedication to God in all that we do—whether praying, studying, working, or playing. Our actions, more than our words, teach true love for our family and brethren. In every situation, from work to play, through trials and triumphs, our reactions and faith in God serve as a lifetime of teaching and training for our children. Our goal should be that they see Christ in us, aspiring to the same goal for their own lives. Therefore, we must pray for God's direction and examine ourselves daily to ensure we are walking His way.
Parenting (Part 5): Methods
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughParents must exemplify God's way in every aspect of their lives as a fundamental part of childrearing. Their thoughts, words, and deeds should consistently reflect this path, ensuring that children witness and learn from a living example of righteousness. This continuous demonstration is crucial, as children are highly observant and often mimic the behaviors and attitudes they see in their parents. By living out these principles, parents help guide their children toward the same path, increasing the likelihood that they will follow it themselves. Moreover, parents are never off duty when it comes to training their children. Whether in private or public settings, their actions and interactions should always serve as a model of proper conduct. This constant example is a form of instruction, sharpening the child's understanding of right and wrong through repeated exposure to godly behavior. Even in church services or community gatherings, parents must maintain this standard, teaching children to respect sacred times and spaces through their own respectful demeanor.
Teaching Children
Sermonette by John W. RitenbaughParents bear the solemn obligation to teach their children, a responsibility given directly by God, not delegated to the church. This duty involves diligently imparting God's words to children at all times—when sitting at home, walking by the way, lying down, and rising up. The example of Abraham shows a faithful commitment to commanding his household to keep the way of the Lord, ensuring that he did not pass off this responsibility to others. The church's role is to equip parents to fulfill this duty, not to take over the spiritual education of children. When parents shift this responsibility to church programs, it inverts God's order, often resulting in negative fruit, as seen in past experiences where such programs dominated church activities and excluded parental involvement. The key to success in rearing children lies in the parents' personal relationship with their Father in heaven, from Whom the necessary resources and attitudes flow to shape their children's character. While occasional group activities for children within the church are acceptable, establishing organizations that take over parental duties can lead to a neglect of the direct responsibility God has placed on parents.
Fatherhood
Sermonette by Ryan McClureWhen we were single, we had all the answers to the art of parenting, but actual practice humbles us as to how ill-equipped we are for this task.
Surviving the Next Hit
CGG Weekly by David C. GrabbeHow can there be such a high attrition rate among the younger generation? How could 84 percent so easily give up the doctrines that they ostensibly believed?
Legacy
Article by Richard T. RitenbaughGod tells us that a good man leaves an inheritance for his children's children. What kind of legacy will we leave our descendants?
A Heritage and a Reward
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsAmerican society is cursed because the family, its most important component, is dysfunctional. It is impossible to raise families without God.
To Whom Honor Is Due
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsDishonoring one's parents is a serious abomination, considered a capital offense by God. Fathers must be worthy of honor, teaching their children to honor God.
Fathers Provoking Children
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughMost families in God's church have a functional father, but even so, extremes of leniency and overbearing strictness do not make an ideal father.
The Fifth Commandment (1997)
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughThe fifth commandment begins the section of six commands regarding our relationships with other people. Children should learn proper respect in the family.
For the Children
Sermon by David C. GrabbeFor too many youths, God's way of life is not real because their parents are not fully convicted, but merely express a lukewarm preference for God's truth.
The Commandments (Part Eleven)
Sermon/Bible Study by John W. RitenbaughHonor of parents is the basis for good government. The family provides the venue for someone to learn to make sacrifices and be part of a community.
Christian Heroes
Sermonette by John ReissWhile it is inspiring to observe the acts of heroism performed by Medal of Honor recipients, it is far more inspiring to recognize everyday heroes living among us.
The Commandments (Part Ten)
Sermon/Bible Study by John W. RitenbaughThe fifth commandment provides a bridge, connecting our relationships with God and the relationships with our fellow human beings.
Teach Your Children
Sermonette by Bill CherryAs parents, we hold a unique opportunity to shape our children by our example. When we develop a passion for God and put His words in our heart, we have something valuable to share with them. We can offer our example of righteous living, impart our knowledge of the Scriptures, and instill confidence, faith, and love in them. We provide guides for their lives through our actions and teachings. We must teach diligently, with perseverance, drive, consistency, and planning, ensuring that every day we have a teaching session with our children. This teaching should occur at specific times, whether when we sit in our house, walk by the way, lie down, or rise up, covering virtually every facet of life. Through planned activities and eye-to-eye conversations, we engage with them, showing how God's Word applies to their lives with brief, impactful lessons or stories. Beyond formal teaching, casual conversations are vital. We must spend time with our children, listening to understand their minds and hearts, especially with teenagers who face negative influences from the world. By stopping everything to look them in the eye and talk, whether while folding clothes, doing housework, or playing sports, we show them they are important. In these moments, we can guide them with examples from our experiences, demonstrating the joy and happiness that comes from living God's way. Our example must be genuine, without hypocrisy. If we love them, look them in the eye, and prioritize them over distractions, we communicate their value. We can teach them the love of God and the knowledge of His Word, building a wall of protection through faith in God to help them resist the selfishness, strife, and false ideas of this world. If we do not teach our children the way of God, who will?
Specks as Mirrors
'Ready Answer' by David F. MaasOur ability to see the specks in others' eyes may indicate spiritual deficiencies in ourselves, as we project our own sins onto others.
The Unsung Hero
Sermonette by Ted E. BowlingJoseph exemplified the qualities of fairness, kindness, and humility, giving Jesus a solid moral and ethical foundation, coupled with an exemplary work ethic.
Childrearing (Part Four)
Sermon/Bible Study by John W. RitenbaughChildren do not initiate love but reflect it. If a child does not receive a convincing demonstration of this love, he will not become a conductor of love.
Ecclesiastes Resumed (Part Thirty-Nine): Ecclesiastes 11:9-10
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughThe fleeting time of youth is a time of strength, exploration, and boundless opportunities, offering the freedom to try new things as well as make mistakes.
The Chemistry of Government
Sermon by John W. RitenbaughExpectation of reward, fear of disadvantage, and charisma all constitute the chemistry of government and childrearing, but require the right proportion.
Childrearing (Part Three)
Sermon/Bible Study by John W. RitenbaughOur children internalize our values; we teach largely by example. If we do not take seriously the responsibility for rearing our children, somebody else will.
Be Kind
Sermonette by James C. StoertzThe seemingly benign advice to 'Be Nice' falls short of a truly virtuous approach to life. It is associated with pleasant but superficial behavior.
Deleavening the Home
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughIf each of us individually puts out the leaven of malice and consume the Unleavened Bread of sincerity, we would fulfill our community responsibility.
The Plan of Salvation in Genesis 3:15
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughThe sin of Adam and Eve led to three prophecies that outline God's plan to remedy this grim situation. The conflict ends with the Christ destroying Satan.
Deuteronomy: Hearing
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughBy listening, taking heed, and drinking in of God's Word daily, we take on the wisdom of God, upending and making foolish the wisdom of man.
Leadership and the Covenants (Part One)
Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)We qualify to lead by internalizing the covenants, not only believing God, but doing what He says, realizing that the covenants are not complicated.
But Will You Love Me Tomorrow?
'Prophecy Watch' by David F. MaasIn the letters to the seven churches, Scripture foresees that a dearth of steadfastness marks the time of the end, but Christians are urged to hold fast.