Talebearing, or gossip, is a grave sin condemned by God, as it betrays trust and sows strife. Leviticus 19:16 commands against being a talebearer, and Proverbs 11:13 warns that revealing secrets harms others, unlike a faithful spirit that conceals matters. Described as a fire in James 3:5-6, the tongue's destructive power spreads harm through slander. Proverbs 26:20-22 notes that without talebearing, strife ceases, while its enticing words cause deep wounds. Romans 1:29-30 lists whisperers among severe sins, and Psalm 15:3 urges avoiding backbiting to abide in God's presence. Talebearing mirrors the adversary's nature, and believers must guard their speech, seeking forgiveness and using words for edification, as in Ephesians 4:29.

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Making the Cut (Part Four)

CGG Weekly by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

In Psalm 15:3, the prohibition against backbiting with the tongue addresses the sin of slander. The Hebrew word rāgal (Strong's 7270), typically meaning to spy out, suggests a secretive search for gossip when combined with "with his tongue," implying the collection of harmful tidbits to use against another. This mirrors the imagery of a talebearer, as the root of rāgal is regel, meaning foot or leg, evoking the idea of someone scurrying among neighbors to gather malicious tales for personal advantage. Such actions, likened to knives in the back, blindside the victim with wounding gossip. A godly person must avoid this behavior, recognizing that slanderous speech and every harmful use of the tongue are wicked and injurious to others.

Penalty of Death

Sermonette by Bill Onisick

Gossip is like scattering feathers in a wind: It is just as impossible to reverse the damage done by gossip as it is to regather the feathers.

Reviler

Sermonette by Ronny H. Graham

As culture degenerates, the sin of reviling has become more pervasive, as impatient narcissists lash out at others, using foul and abusive language.

Gossip

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Early Christians faced severe accusations due to misunderstandings and rumors, which were fueled by careless talebearing. This destructive behavior led to false conclusions about their practices, damaging reputations and relationships. Talebearing, or gossip, is a grave sin that God condemns, as it betrays trust and sows strife among people. It is likened to a fire that spreads destruction, as seen in James 3:5-6, where the tongue is described as a small member that boasts great things and kindles great harm. In Leviticus 19:16, God commands, "You shall not go about as a talebearer among your people," placing this prohibition within the holiness code, emphasizing its seriousness alongside other commandments. The Hebrew word rakil, meaning talebearer or slanderer, is used here and in Proverbs 11:13, where it is noted that a talebearer reveals secrets, while a faithful spirit conceals a matter, protecting others from harm. This act of revealing privileged information is a betrayal of trust, causing damage through the spread of unconfirmed or private details. Another Hebrew term, ragan, meaning whisperer or backbiter, appears in Proverbs 16:28, describing a perverse man who sows strife and separates close friends through malicious whispering. Proverbs 26:20-22 further illustrates that without a talebearer, strife ceases, but the words of a gossip are like tasty trifles that penetrate deeply, causing lasting harm. These passages underline the destructive intent and consequences of gossip, portraying it as a tool of division and conflict. In the New Testament, Romans 1:29-30 lists whisperers and backbiters among severe sins like malice and murder, indicating that practicing or approving of such behavior makes one worthy of God's judgment. I Timothy 5:13 warns against idleness leading to gossip and meddling, with terms like phlyaroi (babblers) and periergoi (busybodies) describing those who speak excessively and interfere in others' affairs, often spreading harmful information. These behaviors are ranked alongside grave offenses, showing their serious nature in God's eyes. Proverbs 18:21 declares that death and life are in the power of the tongue, highlighting the profound impact of words, which can either build up or destroy. Talebearing aligns with the work of the adversary, as the Greek word diabolos, often translated as devil, also means slanderer or accuser. Engaging in gossip mirrors the destructive nature of satan, making it a sin that God abhors among His people. To combat this sin, one must acknowledge personal guilt in talebearing and seek God's forgiveness and help, as no human can tame the tongue alone, according to James 3:8. Believers should dedicate their speech to righteousness, ensuring that only edifying words proceed from their mouths, as urged in Ephesians 4:29. Additionally, one must refuse to listen to gossip, avoiding association with those who speak too much, as advised in Proverbs 20:19, to prevent temptation and the burden of harmful knowledge. Finally, Psalm 15:1-3 emphasizes that those who avoid backbiting and harming their neighbor with their tongue will abide in God's presence, securing a steadfast place in His Kingdom.

Our Words Matter: Are They Harmful or Helpful?

Sermon by Ted E. Bowling

As members of God's church, we must recognize the destructive power of our words, particularly in the form of talebearing. Leviticus 19:16 commands, "You shall not go about as a talebearer among your people," equating this behavior to the grave sins listed in the Ten Commandments. Talebearing, or gossip, involves spreading falsehoods or privileged information about others, often causing deep, lasting pain. The Hebrew word for talebearer is rakil, and Proverbs 11:13 warns, "A talebearer reveals secrets, but he who is of a faithful spirit conceals a matter." Such actions sow discord and separate close friends, as noted in Proverbs 16:28, "A false man soweth contention; and a talebearer separateth very friends." The words of a talebearer can be enticing yet harmful, as Proverbs 18:8 states, "The words of a talebearer are like tasty trifles, and they go down into the inmost body." This kind of speech often stems from a motive to elevate oneself by diminishing another, rarely focusing on praise or edification. We must question our intentions when sharing information, for talebearing can irreparably damage reputations and create invisible scars that linger for a lifetime. Proverbs 26:20 offers a solution, declaring, "Where there is no wood, the fire goes out; and where there is no talebearer, strife ceases." We have the power to extinguish conflict by guarding our tongues against gossip and destructive speech. Talebearing feeds contention like wood feeds a fire, and even a small rumor can grow into a devastating blaze, exaggerated and distorted as it spreads. Our words matter immensely, and we must strive to ensure they reflect God's love and character, avoiding the harm caused by talebearing and instead using our speech to build up and encourage others.

Our Spiritual Roof

Sermon by Bill Onisick

If we are not performing righteous acts with the right spirit (God's Holy Spirit or the mind of Christ) we will not hit the mark.

Pure Language Restored

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Martin G. Collins

When we repeat negative expressions, they become reinforced, and we develop a negative disposition. Our spoken words reinforce our thoughts.

Have You Become an Example to All Who Believe?

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Whether we are called to welcome others, speak truthfully, keep commitments, or guard our own speech, credibility flows from consistent daily actions.

Christianity Vs. Cultural Paganism

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Satan deceives by mixing truth with and falsehood, promoting cultural pagans or tares among the wheat or members of the church of God.

Becoming Like Little Children

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Kim Myers

The Millennium and subsequent Kingdom of God with the New Jerusalem, a venue of peace and innocence, will be bequeathed to the humble and pure of heart.

The Commandments (Part Eighteen)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

A community can only be established upon a foundation of stability and truth. Our relationships must be based upon God's truth, producing faithfulness.

Old Testament: Fruit of the Spirit (Part Three)

Sermon by Ronny H. Graham

In contrast to Stephen who spoke the truth fearlessly, Haman valued his position more than the truth and gave into hatred for Mordecai and his people.

Stop the Groundhog Day of Sin

Sermon by Kim Myers

Instead of repeating the same day over again, we must break the habits of things like gossip, promiscuity, pornography, sexual immorality, and drunkenness.

Thou Shall Love Thy Neighbor

Sermon by John O. Reid

We are obligated to show compassion and mercy to all, refraining from gossip, exercising righteous judgment, forgiving others and applying the Golden Rule.

Casting Pearls

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Jesus warns His disciples not to cast their pearls before those not called or those acting contemptuously to God's truth and would attack the messenger.