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Use Words Carefully
CGG Weekly by Gary MontgomeryHuman nature, under the influence of the world and satan, often leads to destructive interactions through demeaning and sarcastic comments that wound deeply, causing lasting harm in relationships. Cruel words can cut like swords and sting like sharp arrows, ambushing the innocent with their power to injure emotionally. Such verbal abuse, often masked as humor, stems from pride and arrogance, giving perpetrators a false sense of superiority while damaging bonds irreparably. The apostle James points to internal cravings for power and prestige as the source of conflicts, driving aggressive speech that hurts others. Workplace and school environments reveal the severe consequences of verbal aggression, including reduced well-being, broken relationships, and even violent retaliation. Words hold immense power, capable of either wounding or healing; inappropriate speech humiliates, while good words can calm, heal, and build up the weak. The apostle Paul urges that no corrupt word should proceed from our mouths, but only what edifies and imparts grace to listeners. Jesus Christ warns that every careless word will be accounted for in the day of judgment, highlighting the gravity of our speech. Despite verbal attacks against Him, He taught the way of love, even seeking forgiveness for His crucifiers. We are called to show love through our speech, lifting each other up as disciples of Christ, following His example. The apostle Peter instructs us to refrain from evil speech, to be compassionate and courteous, blessing others instead of reviling, as we seek peace and pursue a life aligned with God's standards. Even in jest, we must guard against unintentionally cruel words, expressing love in our interactions to fulfill God's law and build the structure of our relationships toward His Kingdom.
The Reality of Evil
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughThe best weapon against the evil of our human nature is to develop the mind of Christ within us to displace our carnal nature.
The Honeycomb
Sermonette by Ted E. BowlingWords spoken in anger or thoughtlessness, though they may not break bones, can irreparably damage or destroy a person's spirit long after broken bones heal.
Purging the Rumor Bug from the Body of Christ
'Ready Answer' by David F. MaasThe church grapevine is good at spreading news, but it can be evil when it spreads gossip and rumor. Gossip actually harms the gossip himself. Here's how.
Penalty of Death
Sermonette by Bill OnisickGossip is like scattering feathers in a wind: It is just as impossible to reverse the damage done by gossip as it is to regather the feathers.
Reviler
Sermonette by Ronny H. GrahamAs culture degenerates, the sin of reviling has become more pervasive, as impatient narcissists lash out at others, using foul and abusive language.
Making the Cut (Part Four)
CGG Weekly by Richard T. RitenbaughA word here or an anecdote there into the right ears can eventually cut another down like knives in the back, blindsiding the subject with wounding gossip.
Gossip
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughThe apostle James says that the tongue can metaphorically start a dangerous fire. He warns that gossip, tale-bearing and being a busy-body is like murder.
Pure Language Restored
Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Martin G. CollinsWhen we repeat negative expressions, they become reinforced, and we develop a negative disposition. Our spoken words reinforce our thoughts.
A Christian's Information Filter
CGG Weekly by Richard T. RitenbaughPeople make judgments—sometimes consciously, but probably more often unconsciously—about what goes into their minds, and this has an effect over time.
Keeping Love Alive (Part Two)
Sermon by John W. RitenbaughIf we love another person, we like to think about him/her, to hear about him/her, please him/her, and we are jealous about his/her reputation and honor.
Speaking the Truth in Love
Sermon by Bill OnisickOur speech reveals the true condition of our hearts. Even truthful words can be brandished as tools of destruction when delivered with pride or malice.
Take the Red Pill
Sermonette by Bill OnisickIf we were to consciously monitor our thoughts, we would be appalled about the percentage of our day that we are exclusively wrapped up in ourselves.
Am I My Brother's Keeper?
Sermon by Bill OnisickBelievers are crafted to be the caretakers of all that belongs to God, accountable for how we serve, nurturing both His creation and His people.
Looks Fair, Feels Foul
Sermon/Bible Study by Richard T. RitenbaughBe wary of things and people that appear attractive and fair on the outside, but are actually foul and destructive underneath. Evaluate the fruit.