We are called to love our fellow man with a deep, outgoing concern that mirrors God's impartial love, extending to all—family, friends, countrymen, and even enemies. This love, rooted in obedience to God's commands, manifests through actions like feeding, clothing, visiting, and supporting those in need, reflecting kindness and compassion without prejudice. It serves as a gauge of our love for God, starting with those closest to us and expanding outward. True love endures, bears all things, and seeks others' welfare, uniting us in harmony. By loving one another, we show we are Christ's disciples, grow in God's nature, and prepare for His Kingdom. Also see Bible verses for Love for Fellow Man.

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Love and Fellowship

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

In the midst of a world filled with turmoil and challenges, we are called to uphold our responsibilities to God and to our fellow man. Our foremost duty lies in loving God with all our heart, mind, and actions, and in loving our neighbor as ourselves, regardless of the chaos surrounding us. This love is not merely a feeling, but an action rooted in obedience to God's commandments. It manifests in practical deeds, such as helping our brother and adhering to God's laws, providing a measurable standard against which we can assess our faithfulness. Loving humanity is often difficult due to the ingrained patterns of our character, shaped by a world out of control by the time God calls us. Yet, it is through striving to keep these commandments that we find a sense of satisfaction and well-being, as God intends. When feelings of despair or discouragement arise, we must not rely on emotions, which are unreliable and subjective, but on whether we are actively loving through our deeds. By keeping God's commands and maintaining fellowship with Him, we can overcome the negative emotions that threaten to overwhelm us. This fellowship with God, made possible through Jesus Christ, opens the way to His presence, where joy, peace, love, and all attributes of His Spirit are available to us. Even in times of depression or despair, this relationship with Him provides the strength to refocus on the reality of what He is working in us. By knowing we are keeping His commands and loving our brethren, and by believing in the nature and character of Jesus Christ, we can rise above our struggles, assured that our present dilemmas are not the end, but part of the journey with Him.

Love God, Love Neighbor

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Love for fellow man cannot be separated from love for God. The world's "love, love, love" songs reduce love to romance or to a fuzzy tolerance that simply lets everyone be, because they leave out the love of God and know neither its source nor how it works. Godly love is outgoing concern, first shown between the Father and the Son and then poured out in God's plan, in creation, and in Christ's sacrifice for sinners. When the Holy Spirit places that love in believers, it begins to change them from the inside out into the image of Christ. Christ called love for God the first and great commandment and love for neighbor the second that is like it, and all the Law and the Prophets hang on the two. Love for God must never become an excuse to neglect people, as the Pharisees did when they burdened others and devoured widows' houses. John says that anyone who claims to love God but hates his brother is a liar, and that loving God, loving the brethren, and keeping the commandments are facets of one thing. Believers are to imitate God's impartial love, extending it even to enemies, and in doing so grow toward perfection. How we treat the brethren, by feeding, clothing, visiting, and helping them, gauges our love for God, and Christ counts what is done to them as done to Him. This love begins with spouse and children and works outward.

No Real Love Without God

Sermon by John O. Reid

God is love, and that is the definition of God (I John 4:8). The Greek agape means God's willful direction toward men, doing what He knows is best for them, not necessarily what they desire, like a parent who swats a child away from the street. His love is individual, marked by sympathy, kindness, and generosity, and His overall plan is philanthropic on the largest scale: that all mankind might share in the Kingdom of God. It is proved supremely by sending His Son as propitiation for our sins while we were still sinners (John 3:16; Romans 5:8; I John 4:9-10). Even letting man suffer under his own rule shows love, since God must let him learn that he cannot govern himself apart from his Creator. Love originates with God, and those who love are born of Him; whoever does not love does not know God, no matter how much Bible knowledge he has. Because God first loved us, we are to love Him with all our heart, soul, strength, and mind, shown through the first four commandments, and to love our neighbor, even enemies, as the Good Samaritan did. Keeping His commandments is the love of God. As we love others as He loves us, His love is perfected in us, casts out fear, and gives boldness in judgment. I Corinthians 13 describes this love: patient, kind, unenvious, unselfish, not easily provoked, keeping no record of wrong, and never failing. It is the greatest virtue, because it is how God lives and will endure throughout eternity.

Love Thy Neighbor (Part 2)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

The call to love our fellow man is inseparable from our love for God, as the two great commandments form a unified whole. We are instructed in Leviticus 19:18 to love our neighbor as ourselves, a command that echoes through the scriptures as a reflection of God's perfectly balanced character. To focus solely on loving God while neglecting our neighbor, or vice versa, is to miss the fullness of God's intent. As James teaches in James 2:8-9, fulfilling the royal law to love our neighbor as ourselves is essential, and showing partiality is sin, for stumbling in one point of the law makes us guilty of all. This principle is reinforced in Galatians 5:14, where Paul declares that all the law is fulfilled in loving our neighbor as ourselves, suggesting that in serving God's creation, we express our love for Him. I John 4:20-21 drives this home, stating that if we claim to love God while hating our brother, we are liars, for how can we love God whom we have not seen if we do not love our brother whom we have seen? The commandment is clear: he who loves God must also love his brother. The love of Christ compels us, as seen in II Corinthians 5:14-15, to live not for ourselves but for Him who died and rose again, guiding our conduct and attitude toward others. This love transforms our perspective, as II Corinthians 5:16 teaches, so that we no longer regard anyone according to the flesh, but with compassion and empathy, recognizing that but for God's grace, we too would be in their place. Conversion demands that we follow Christ's example in loving one another, ensuring that our relationships with fellow man reflect the standard God expects. The question of who constitutes our neighbor or brother is complex, yet Genesis 4:9 challenges us with Cain's response, "Am I my brother's keeper?" This foundational query urges us to consider our responsibility toward others. Throughout scripture, the terms for brother, such as ach in the Old Testament and adelphos in the New Testament, are used in varied contexts, from blood relatives to fellow believers and even all of humanity, created in God's image. Jesus in Matthew 5:22-24 broadens this, indicating that anyone we sin against becomes our brother, and reconciliation is required before offering our gift at the altar. Priorities in relationships are also established, with Christ as our foremost Brother, above all earthly ties, as Luke 14:26-27 emphasizes. Yet, within human connections, love for spouse, children, and the household of faith holds high priority, as seen in Ephesians 5:25-28, I Timothy 5:8, and Galatians 6:10. We are called to do good to all, especially to those of the faith, while recognizing that judgments must be made due to limited resources, as Jesus notes in Matthew 26:11 that the poor are always with us. Ultimately, the lesson of loving our fellow man is not about defining who our neighbor is, but asking ourselves if we are a neighbor to others. In every situation, we must seek God's guidance to discern what we can do, trusting that He will address what is beyond our capacity in His time.

The Fruit of the Spirit: Love

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Love for fellow man forms an inseparable part of the experience of loving God. Loving the Father requires loving the children He begot. Claiming to love God while hating one's brother makes one a liar since it is impossible to love the unseen God without loving the seen brother. Love finds its expression in obedience to the commandments of God which define its basic elements and direct actions. Obedience constitutes an action of submission to God's revealed principles and examples. Although love may begin with thoughts or feelings of compassion or revulsion toward evil these become love only when they motivate action. Love can be shown through dutiful obedience or with enthusiastic devotion but obedience remains preferable to inaction. Proper attitudes and emotions develop through performing right actions under the guidance of God's Holy Spirit. In community life love enables members to maintain unity by constraining themselves to act in ways that prevent division. Virtues such as those listed in scripture express this love and make communal living possible. These qualities require strength to follow God's commands rather than natural urges.

Love Thy Neighbor

Sermon by John O. Reid

The book of Amos exposes a society, both ancient and modern, that has abandoned the covenant relationship with God, and this breach is defined in two dimensions: love and loyalty toward God, and obedience and love toward one's fellow man. The surrounding nations condemned in Amos's opening oracles—Damascus, Gaza, Tyre, Edom, Ammon, and Moab—had never received God's law, yet each was held accountable for violations of basic human decency: brutality, enslavement, betrayal of brotherhood covenants, and unrelenting hatred and revenge. Edom's case is especially poignant, since Edom and Israel were brothers by blood through Esau and Jacob, yet Edom pursued Israel with perpetual wrath and gloated over its destruction. These examples raise the question of which divine law, if kept, would end such cruelty, killing, and hatred that have plagued humanity since Cain and Abel. The answer lies in the second great commandment: to love one's neighbor as oneself, given in Leviticus 19:18 and affirmed by Jesus Christ as inseparable from loving God with all one's heart, soul, mind, and strength. If this single law were honored, even imperfectly, the world would be transformed. Yet when Amos turns to Judah and Israel, the indictment intensifies, for they possessed God's law directly and still despised it, showing no genuine love for God or neighbor. Their sins included selling the poor into bondage, oppressing the needy, silencing prophets, and indulging in exploitation disguised as prosperity. Their punishment—destruction by Assyria and Babylon—mirrors God's judgment against nations who never had the law, showing that ignorance is no excuse when the fundamental principle of neighborly love is violated. Jesus Christ deepens this command by requiring love even for enemies, going beyond natural affection for friends or family, as illustrated in the parable of the Good Samaritan, who helped a stranger without seeking conversion, recognition, or reward. This selfless compassion models true neighborly love. Christ further identifies Himself with the hungry, thirsty, sick, and imprisoned, declaring that acts of mercy toward "the least of these" are acts done unto Him personally, underscoring the eternal weight of this commandment in the final judgment between the sheep and the goats. Applying this to the present, the same moral erosion seen in ancient Israel—greed, exploitation of the poor, and disregard for others—manifests in contemporary corporate corruption and financial scandal. Just as famine, war, and captivity followed Israel's failure to love God and neighbor, similar national and global judgments appear to be approaching. This period is described as a testing time, a "plumb line" measuring whether God's people will finally learn and practice the second great commandment. Believers are urged, per Galatians 6:10, to do good to all as opportunity allows, especially within the household of faith, quietly and without seeking praise, preparing wisely to share resources, compassion, and practical help as hardship increases. Ultimately, the space of time given before greater trials arrive is presented as an opportunity to learn what ancient Israel never truly grasped—the requirement to love their neighbor as themselves.

John 3:16: Does God Really Love the World?

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Love for fellow man, as developed in this discussion of God's own love, is shown to be neither uniform nor unconditional but carefully differentiated according to relationship and reciprocity. The starting point is Matthew 5:43-45, where Christ commands love for enemies, explaining that this reflects how the Father Himself treats the ungodly: He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good and sends rain on the just and the unjust. This service continues despite mankind's evil, yet it falls short of the fullness of God's love, since the ungodly have not received His Spirit, forgiveness, or access to Him. This distinction becomes the model for how believers are to love their enemies—not with the emotional intimacy of eros, but rationally, as an act of will and service. Loving an enemy does not mean affectionate embrace or pretending no wrong occurred; rather, it means refusing to retaliate, refraining from destroying another's reputation, being kind, showing pity for their blindness, helping in need, acting as a peacemaker, and doing good—all of which can be done rationally, without reserving for enemies the fullness of love given to those closest to oneself. This principle of differentiated love extends into the household of faith. Galatians 6:10 instructs believers to do good to all, but especially to those of the household of faith, while Romans 12:10 commands being "kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love," a standard nowhere applied to the ungodly world. God does not command believers to prefer the world or to show it the same affectionate love reserved for brethren. Instead, love for fellow man operates on two levels: a rational, service-oriented love extended even to enemies and the ungodly, and a deeper, reciprocal love reserved for those in covenant relationship with God and with one another. This reciprocity principle, drawn from Deuteronomy 7:7-9 and John 14:21-23, undergirds the entire framework: God's love flows toward those who love Him back and keep His commandments, and this same pattern is meant to flow outward through believers to others. Matthew 25 illustrates this when Christ says that whatever is done to "the least of these My brethren" is done to Him—showing that love for fellow believers is, in effect, love returned to God Himself. The warning in the Sermon on the Mount that unforgiveness toward others results in a lack of forgiveness from God further demonstrates that love for fellow man is not optional sentiment but an active outworking of one's relationship with God. Ultimately, this teaching connects to the broader critique of Laodicean worldliness: a people who claim love for God while embracing the world's attitudes reveal, by their neglect of proper priorities and their failure to reciprocate God's love through obedience and brotherly affection, that the love of the Father is not truly in them. True love for fellow man, then, is measured not by indiscriminate affection but by faithful service to all, intensified brotherly love toward the household of faith, and ultimately by reciprocating God's own love through righteous living.

Love's Basic Definition

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Love for fellow man flows from God's love and cannot be separated from love for God: "He who does not love does not know God," and since eternal life is knowing God, loving others is essential to it. Human love is naturally self-centered, but God's love is others-centered, so believers love only as a response to the love God first showed in giving His Son. Godly love always costs something, as David refused to sacrifice to God what cost him nothing. Christ's whole life of self-giving is the standard for measuring love, and His "fresh" commandment to love one another as He loved them reaches beyond outward acts to motives and intent. Believers are to love fellow redeemed sinners not because they like them or share ties with them, but because they are redeemed like themselves. God intends this love to be expressed primarily within the fellowship of the church, where it strengthens the Body and makes the witness effective, as in the first century. Love completes its cycle from God to His people, to others, and back to God, and matures only as it is used. Love is an action, not merely a feeling of pity or compassion, and it begins with prayer and grows into costly help. Keeping God's commandments defines the direction love must take, whether or not one feels like it, and the Spirit gradually re-educates the feelings to match the acts. To love the Father is also to love His children, and anyone who does not love the brethren has reason to question whether he loves God.

Thou Shall Love Thy Neighbor

Sermon by John O. Reid

We are obligated to show compassion and mercy to all, refraining from gossip, exercising righteous judgment, forgiving others and applying the Golden Rule.

By This We Know Love!

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

As God's people keep God's law in its spiritual intent, they begin to think like the Father and His Son, both of whom habitually do good.

Passover, Obligation, and Love

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Christ's redemption obligates us to obey and serve Him. We show our gratitude for this priceless gift by doing good in acts of love and service to others.

The Second Greatest Commandment

Sermonette by Clyde Finklea

Jesus said the greatest commandments were Lord toward God and neighbor. There is no connective between the first and second clauses; they cannot be separated.

The Purpose of Relationships

Sermonette by Ryan McClure

The marriage covenant was designed to bring incomplete components of the God image together in one flesh, from which other relationships developed.

Parable of the Good Samaritan

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

This well-known parable describes working compassion as contrasted to selfishness. It also clarifies just who is our neighbor.

The Ten Commandments

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

God's Ten Commandments are the divine law and standard that regulate human conduct. As our world testifies, they are still very much needed today!

The Three Witnesses of Christ (Part Three)

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

The Trinitarian controversy surrounding I John 5:7-8 overshadows the record of what Jesus Christ did. It also hides key characteristics of God's children.

Abraham's Sacrifice (Part Three): Hope Demonstrated

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Abraham's resolute intent to sacrifice Isaac displayed his unreserved devotion to God's purpose for him. We must display the same kind of tenacity.

An Unpayable Debt and Obligation

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

When God calls us and redeems us through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ, we suddenly come under obligation—a debt we cannot pay but overshadows all we do.

Deceivers and Antichrists (Part Three)

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

While professing Christians confess that Christ has come in the flesh, most do not truly confess that He is appearing in their flesh. They deny Him in works.

The Offerings of Leviticus (Part Eight): Conclusion (Part One)

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

The offerings have a great deal to do with our relationship with God. How closely do we identify with Christ? Are we being transformed into His image?

John (Part Twenty-One)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

The humble attitude exemplified by Jesus in footwashing shows the mind of God. God expects us to follow Christ's example of loving others, flaws and all.

Our Part in the Sanctification Process (Part Six): Cultivating Kindness

Sermon by David F. Maas

Because kindness is love in action, we must galvanize our thoughts into concrete behaviors, including offering encouraging words and performing uplifting deeds.

The Parable of the Leaven, Expanded

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Bitterness divides one member of Christ's Body from another. Individuals often look for a 'doctrinal' reason to justify leaving a congregation.

The Third Tithe Blessing

Sermon by David C. Grabbe

God's people were obligated to declare before God that they had faithfully distributed the tithe. The blessing was applied nationally.

The Merciful

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The harsh religion of the Pharisees was unfeeling, placing more attention on rituals and man-made laws, and had turned their super-righteousness into sin.

Pentecost's Two Leavened Loaves (Part Three)

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

We may do the right thing toward a neighbor but not do it with the exact, perfect attitude that God does it in. Thus, our 'good' work contains corruption.