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Job, Self-Righteousness, and Humility

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

We We all carry an image of ourselves in our heart, a persona we wish to project to others. This desire to reflect a pleasing image of God is not inherently wrong, but often, the image we project is rooted in pride, which God resists. Many of us fail to understand the true impression we make on others, as there can be a wide divergence between how we see ourselves and how others perceive us. For instance, one might think he appears serious and contemplative, while others see him as stern and condemning. Pride, often hidden under a facade, involves haughtiness and contempt for others, buried deep in the heart. A proud person so admires himself that he remains unaware of his lack of essential qualities, cherishing independence and believing he is above correction or need for salvation. This self-admiration blinds him to his own shortcomings. Job, for example, worked hard to project a certain image, but despite his righteousness, it was far from the perfection he believed he displayed. His friends' testimony revealed a major failure in his heart, which God saw and sought to cleanse. Job held an exaggerated opinion of himself, thinking he was somehow equal to God, until God's confrontation shattered his self-image, revealing the vast difference between them. Humbled, Job recognized that God owes him nothing, regardless of his works, and that true humility is an internal matter of the heart, not merely an outward appearance. Humility is not a sense of inferiority but an acknowledgment of spiritual bankruptcy and utter dependence on God. Poverty of spirit, as seen in Job's transformation, occurs when one empties himself of self-will and preconceived notions, seeking God wholeheartedly. It involves confessing unworthiness and realizing total reliance on God for every aspect of life. Job, once a wealthy man who depended on no one, came to understand that without God, he could do nothing of eternal value. This poverty of spirit is foundational to a growing relationship with God, preventing the ego from becoming a hindrance. True success in all areas of life comes from humbly submitting to God, making the choice to examine oneself, repent, and humble oneself before Him. There is everything to gain by embracing humility and nothing of lasting value to lose.

Empirical Selfishness

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

The empirical self includes all groupings of people or objects with which we closely identify, becoming parts of our self-image. This natural human tendency can lead to problems when one becomes selfish, competitive, self-centered, or egotistical with their empirical self. For example, sports fans may identify so strongly with their team that they view fans of rival teams as foes, leading to conflicts. Similarly, the Corinthians suffered from empirical selfishness by competitively making various church leaders extensions of themselves, causing division. Even identifying with the church in Philadelphia over others can elevate the self and put others down. Christ's letters to the churches encourage us to hear what the Spirit says to all the churches, not just those that make us feel good about ourselves. Identifying with a corporate organization is not wrong, but problems arise at the edges when we view anything different with suspicion, condescension, or antagonism. Rightly identifying with God first and His human servants after that can prevent empirical selfishness and the suffering it causes.

The Case Against Pride

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Three symptoms of pride include (1) lying to protect our self-image; (2) competitiveness; (3) believing our personal ideas are more valuable than God's Truth.

The Vetting

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We must take a closer look at ourselves, inviting God into the vetting process, recognizing the difference between what we are and how we present ourselves.

Unlovable

Sermonette by Joseph B. Baity

If God's people do not believe they are lovable, they may deprive others of a blessing by refusing to accept charitable help from a spiritual sibling.

The Agape Evolution

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In one context, evolution is absolutely real:the transition of one of God's called-out ones from a state of fear to a state of transcendental agape love.

The Value of Humility

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Pride distorts our view of reality and our relationships. Being humble is not for the faint of heart, but requires God's Spirit operating in our lives.

A Time to Throw Away

'Ready Answer' by David F. Maas

Many of us are pack-rats, saving everything for years until we have collected a mass of—well, junk. This is like accumulated sin—and it is time to get rid of it!

New Covenant Priesthood (Part Eleven)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Pride destroys relationships, rendering righteous judgment next to impossible. Self-righteousness (a product of pride) makes an idol out of self.

Faith (Part Six)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The hallmark of Christian character is humility, which comes about only when one sees himself in comparison to God. Pride makes distorted comparisons.

New Covenant Priesthood (Part Seven)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Pride is the basis of resisting God, while humility is the key to a relationship with Him. We recognize it in others but we seldom see it in ourselves.

Use God's Word as a Mirror

Sermonette by Bill Cherry

The mirror metaphor in James 1:23 suggests that if we honestly look into God's word, we should see the state of our godly deeds reflected.

Cain's Assumption (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

Is it possible Cain saw himself as the great protagonist, the conqueror of Satan—even the Savior of the world? Did Cain literally have a "Messiah complex"?

Testing Spiritual Character

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

An outward trial can be a catalyst for character development. By testing ourselves, we can take the edge off the pressure of God testing us.

Godly Tact and Diplomacy

Article by David F. Maas

Humans are very adept at causing offense. But as Christians, we must learn the art of tact and diplomacy that works toward unity among the brethren.

Are You Living An Illusion?

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Religious narcissists, who identify with the servant who received ten talents, cherry-pick Scripture to enhance their self-love and support their views.