Filter by Categories
Use Words Carefully
CGG Weekly by Gary MontgomeryHuman nature, under the influence of the world and satan, often leads to destructive interactions through demeaning and sarcastic comments. An exchange of cruel words can cause considerable harm, hurting deeply and lingering far longer than physical wounds. Such belittling, condescending, and patronizing speech acts as a passive-aggressive form of verbal insult, masking abuse behind a façade of friendliness. Behind these harsh words lies an attitude of pride and arrogance, as perpetrators seek a sense of superiority by putting others down. Words are powerful; they can wound deeply, cutting emotionally like a knife. Inappropriate language can humiliate and injure, while good words have the potential to calm, heal, and build up, lifting the weak into a positive frame of mind. Many, however, fail to recognize the weight of their speech or the day of reckoning for every careless word, as warned by Jesus Christ. Even when confronted, some deny their abusive language, having grown accustomed to demeaning others. We are called to live by higher standards, following the example of our Savior Jesus Christ, who endured verbal attacks yet taught the way of love. We must show love through our speech, lifting each other up and supporting relationships as we move toward God's Kingdom. Even in jest, we must be cautious, as unintentionally cruel words can harm. Instead of following the world's proud, aggressive ways, we are to develop the habit of building others up with our words, expressing compassion and humility to live the life God desires for His children.
Our Words Matter: Are They Harmful or Helpful?
Sermon by Ted E. BowlingEmotional damage from hurtful words is more harmful to our nervous system than we have imagined, lingering long past the healing time of any cut or broken bone
Reacting to Criticism
Commentary by Martin G. CollinsAll have been guilty of malicious gossip; consequently, they should not become offended when they hear gossip about themselves (Ecclesiastes 7:21).
Sticks and Stones
'Ready Answer' by Ted E. BowlingWhat are we to do when destructive words come our way? We must learn to take everything with much patience and longsuffering, which will result in peace.
The Honeycomb
Sermonette by Ted E. BowlingWords spoken in anger or thoughtlessness, though they may not break bones, can irreparably damage or destroy a person's spirit long after broken bones heal.
Flame Wars
Sermonette by Ryan McClureAre we part of flaming — the aggressive and offensive interaction between Internet users? Or do we pursue righteousness in our speech and communication?
Reviler
Sermonette by Ronny H. GrahamAs culture degenerates, the sin of reviling has become more pervasive, as impatient narcissists lash out at others, using foul and abusive language.
The Great Divide
Sermonette by Joseph B. BaityResentment unresolved can make us physically and spiritually sick. It raises havoc with our nervous system as well as jeopardizes our salvation.
A Root of Bitterness (2016)
Sermonette by Bill OnisickOnly by letting go of the poisonous root of bitterness can we become like our Elder Brother, Jesus Christ, and our Heavenly Father.
Anger (Part Two)
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsWe dare not let the sun go down on our wrath. Uncontrolled anger can be a major cause of mental and physical illness. We must reconcile with our adversaries.
Pure Language Restored
Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Martin G. CollinsWhen we repeat negative expressions, they become reinforced, and we develop a negative disposition. Our spoken words reinforce our thoughts.
The Meekness and Gentleness of Christ
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsJesus demonstrated His meekness in His treatment of many with whom He interacted. Balancing firmness and gentleness, He seeks to save rather than destroy.
Conduct of the New Life
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsDriving out the evil must be followed by cultivating goodness and righteousness. An antidote to depression is to get our hearts focused on someone else.
Displaying a Good Conscience: Politeness
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsTrue politeness is not mere social formality but a sacred expression of Christian virtue. Genuine courtesy flows from love, humility, patience, and integrity.
Speaking the Truth in Love
Sermon by Bill OnisickOur speech reveals the true condition of our hearts. Even truthful words can be brandished as tools of destruction when delivered with pride or malice.
Unity (Part 4): The Voice of God
Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. RitenbaughThe voice of God, whether expressed through thunder, events of His providence, handiwork of creation, or the preaching of His truth, is recognizable to His flock.