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The Elder Brother

Sermonette by Ted E. Bowling

Like the older brother in the parable, we may have looked down on those who have stumbled. We are not equipped to judge anybody else's repentance.

The Elder Brother

'Prophecy Watch' by Ted E. Bowling

The elder brother in the Parable of the Prodigal Son harbored deep resentment toward his younger sibling. This bitterness likely stemmed from the added burdens he shouldered during his brother's absence, as well as the tarnish to the family name caused by the younger son's reckless behavior. The pain and anguish of wondering if they would ever see him again only fueled this resentment further. The elder brother's pride, evident in his reaction to his father's celebration, became a significant source of his bitterness, blinding him to the greater reward his father offered. Instead of joining in the joy of reconciliation, he focused on his own sense of unfairness and lack of recognition for his hard work.

The Wrath of Man

CGG Weekly by Clyde Finklea

Resentment, as a form of sinful anger, often stems from a desire to hurt or get even with others. It can take root in the heart, producing bitterness, hatred, and vengeance, even when outward displays of anger are absent. Unlike righteous anger, which contains no malice, resentment festers and focuses on retaliation rather than remedy. Kindness serves as a counter to this malice, fostering goodness and helping to prevent angry responses. Forgiveness acts as a healing medicine, vital to maintaining unity and harmony, and prevents anger from settling into resentment and bitterness in the mind. By practicing forgiveness, we emulate God's example and stop the destructive cycle of resentment.

Seeds of Anger

Sermonette by Joseph B. Baity

God obligates us to separate our anger from sin. Whether anger is active or passive, those who cannot control it will be cut off and consumed by their own anger.

A Root of Bitterness (2016)

Sermonette by Bill Onisick

Only by letting go of the poisonous root of bitterness can we become like our Elder Brother, Jesus Christ, and our Heavenly Father.

The Defense Against Offense

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Resentment often arises when we are offended, ranging from mild displeasure to deep indignation. It can build from minor irritations or annoyances into bitterness and grudges, which are sins that we may allow ourselves to be led into by our own devious minds. Love, however, counters this progression, as it is not irritable or resentful, keeping no score of wrongs and paying no attention to suffered wrongs. Pride, in contrast, fuels resentment by being touchy and fretful, brooding over perceived slights and seeking to justify itself through vindication. When pride dominates, hurt feelings and temptations to sin lurk everywhere, whereas love dominating a life makes becoming offended a remote possibility. Overcoming resentment requires a heart aligned with love, which does not insist on its own way and is not provoked, ensuring that offenses do not lead to lasting bitterness or anger.

What Lies Beneath

Sermonette by Joseph B. Baity

If we let our emotions rule, we can lose a lifetime acquisition of reputation in a split second. When Jesus Christ undergirds us, there is stability.

Forgiveness and the Unpardonable Sin

Sermonette by Mark Schindler

Forgiveness is difficult, but the willing failure to forgive, along with any other unrepented sin, has the potential of permanently separating us from God.

So Far Away

Sermonette by Joseph B. Baity

When the children of light judge and condemn those living in this world, they become the world and move away from God.

Anger (Part Two)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

We dare not let the sun go down on our wrath. Uncontrolled anger can be a major cause of mental and physical illness. We must reconcile with our adversaries.

New Covenant Priesthood (Part Twelve)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Our forgiveness from God is conditional, depending upon our forgiving others. It is an opportunity for us to extend grace, sacrificing as Christ did for us.

The Weightier Matters (Part 3): Mercy

Article by Staff

Many have a love-hate relationship with mercy: They love to receive it, but hate to give it! Here is why we should lean toward mercy in all our judgments.

Spiritual Grave Robbers

CGG Weekly by David F. Maas

It is bad enough when we dwell on our own character flaws, but we greatly compound this habit when we dwell on other people's past sins and offenses.

The Sixth Commandment (Part One) (1997)

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Our society is becoming increasingly violent. The sixth of the Ten Commandments covers crime, capital punishment, murder, hatred, revenge and war.

Root Out Your Bitterness

Sermonette by Hunter D. Swanson

Bitterness is like a poison that springs from unresolved hurt, helplessness, or disappointment, leading to caustic sharpness in speech or behavior.

Envy: The Most Precious Daughter

Sermonette by David C. Grabbe

It is easy to follow in Satan's footsteps, courting his daughter Envy, reaping the disquiet which accompanies her. Envy comes from pushing God from our thoughts.

The Spiritual Mark of the Beast

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Anger and hostility, driven by self-centered competitive pride constitute Satan's spiritual mark that divides nations, ethnic groups, families, and the church.

Are You Sharp-Tongued? (Part Two)

'Ready Answer' by Staff

James' exhortation about the use of the tongue seems to stop with James 3:12. However, the rest of the chapter provides more wisdom on controlling our speech.

What if You Are Betrayed?

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Betrayal is triggered by a root of bitterness resulting from envy, but turning into hatred, a shoot of bitterness manifesting a spirit of murder.

The Great Divide

Sermonette by Joseph B. Baity

Resentment unresolved can make us physically and spiritually sick. It raises havoc with our nervous system as well as jeopardizes our salvation.

New Covenant Priesthood (Part Eleven)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Pride destroys relationships, rendering righteous judgment next to impossible. Self-righteousness (a product of pride) makes an idol out of self.

The Fruit of the Spirit: Kindness

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Kindness goes hand-in-hand with love. It is an active expression of love toward God and fellow man, produced through the power of God's Spirit.

Blessed Are the Meek (2014)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

In Paul's listings of virtues, meekness always appears near the end, reflecting its difficulty. Meekness is the gentle, quiet spirit of selfless devotion.

Is This the Spirit of the Times?

Commentary by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Our culture has undergone a vast change in its standards of morality, seen in a change in national attitude, a lifting of mental fog and an emergent rage.

Agape: Does Not Envy

Sermon by Bill Onisick

The source of envy and covetousness is Satan the devil who coveted God's throne and proved himself as a murderer and liar from the very beginning.

The Commandments (Part Fifteen)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Jesus emphasized the spirit of the law, which places deterrents on the motive (anger, resentment, envy, revenge), preventing murder from ever taking place.

Miriam: Prophetess and Leader

Sermonette by Ted E. Bowling

Miriam resembles every one of us as potential leaders. When she learned her lesson about pride, Miriam achieved the same exalted stature as Moses and Aaron.

Understanding Unity

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

We must separate ourselves from the world, sacrificing ourselves to God's purpose to become at one with God, waiting for Him to unify us to others.

Purging the Rumor Bug from the Body of Christ

'Ready Answer' by David F. Maas

The church grapevine is good at spreading news, but it can be evil when it spreads gossip and rumor. Gossip actually harms the gossip himself. Here's how.