I want to state very clearly that dating and marrying outside the church is something I do not recommend in the least. It is a massive stumbling block and can only bring trouble in future years. Practically speaking, having an unconverted mate or dating outside the church makes it almost impossible to accomplish God's purpose in us. Even if an unconverted mate is moral, it does not guarantee there will be no friction, because the two ways of life are so incompatible. Life is hard enough as it is, and to knowingly enter such a situation seems foolish to me. Consider the practical challenges: How well can one keep the Sabbath with an unconverted person interfering? What about issues like unclean foods or deciding which religion to teach the children? An unconverted mate complicates matters, often leading to fundamental disagreements that can affect not only the couple but also their children's understanding of marriage and faith. Even in our current situation, where the church is scattered and potential mates are few, this does not give us more leeway to date or marry outside the church. The principle remains unchanged, as God's ways are immutable. Just because we are in a difficult position does not mean we can take matters into our own hands. Trusting in God and waiting patiently for His timing is far better than seeking a human solution that could lead to long-term complications. If, on the rare occasion, you find someone outside the church who seems right for you, do not compromise God's way of life. Be upfront about your beliefs, introduce them to church literature, and observe their reaction. If they are not receptive, it is best to end the relationship quickly. If they respond positively, wait until they are baptized before considering marriage, ensuring their conversion is genuine. However, I must emphasize that this is very rare, and I do not endorse dating outside the church. It is a risky path, and caution is essential.