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Narcissists! Get Real!

Commentary by Martin G. Collins

When individuals and society become excessively preoccupied with personal adequacy, power, prestige, pride, and vanity, they are labeled narcissistic. Even psychiatrists recognize through observation and secular reasoning that narcissists are self-destructive.

Absalom: A Study in Narcissism

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Narcissism, as a heightened form of self-indulgence, represents a dangerous extreme that all individuals have the potential to develop. Narcissists often appear nice on the surface, masking a lie they live, believing they fully deserve the attention and conformity to their desires from others. They are drawn to environments like churches, convinced their ideas surpass others and that their way is the only way, expecting others to follow their bidding. In reality, they are manipulative controllers with oversized egos, working deviously to achieve their goals. Their tactics vary, sometimes withdrawing to evoke pity, or displaying petulance, anger, and threats to turn situations in their favor. At other times, they employ disarming craftiness, but always, their massive pride drives them to control circumstances for their own benefit. This self-centeredness mirrors the tragic flaws seen in Absalom, whose life became entirely about himself, using his charm, intelligence, and physical gifts to manipulate and secure personal advantage, ultimately leading to devastating consequences for himself and others.

Whatsoever Your Heart Desires

Sermonette by Mark Schindler

We must not construe the term, "whatever our heart desires," as a pass to sin, but we should use every occasion to grow in thinking and acting like God.

What Makes Generation "Me" Tick?

Commentary by David F. Maas

The rise of narcissism, as explored through extensive research, marks a profound shift in generational attitudes, particularly among the Me Generation or the Me, Me, Me Generation, encompassing Generations X, Y, Z, and the Millennial and post-Millennial cohorts. Studies by Dr. Jean Twenge and Dr. W. Keith Campbell reveal a causal link between the permissive self-esteem programs championed by the Boomers and the resulting super-entitled, ego-inflated adolescence in their offspring, leaving them unprepared for adulthood. This conclusion is grounded in empirical evidence from 33 studies involving data from 11 million individuals, representing one of the most comprehensive longitudinal generational studies ever conducted. The toxic narcissistic programs have fostered a culture of moral individualism, where morality is seen as a personal choice, and religious affiliation declines in favor of a self-worship termed the None religion. Generation Me exhibits rampant cheating, with 95% of high school students admitting to copying or using crib notes in a 2008 study, and cheating on exams rising from 34% in 1969 to 74% in 2000. Disregard for traditional values is evident as the sanctity of marriage diminishes, with approval of premarital sex jumping from 30% in the late 1950s to 75% by the late 1990s, and cohabitation and hooking up replacing marriage and dating. Additionally, Generation Me despises the work ethic, refuses responsibility, embraces victimhood, displays rudeness, rejects correction, and suffers from arrested adolescence and delayed adulthood, compounded by a sense of entitlement and bitter disappointment when unrealistic expectations clash with reality. The excessive self-esteem propaganda from media, progressive education, and overprotective parenting across the '60s through the '90s has plunged these generations into profound adulthood shock.

The Danger of Trusting in Oneself

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Those wise in their own eyes, including philosophers, politicians, educators, and religious leaders, have failed in their quest to make the world better.

Pride, Humility, and the Day of Atonement

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

The Day of Atonement, when God commands us to afflict our souls, is a day of self-evaluation and repentance to seek unity with Him and our brethren.

Are These Your Feasts? (Part One)

CGG Weekly by Mark Schindler

This earth is a prison, and Satan is its jailer. The inmates—mankind—do not realize that there is no free will! A prison takes away freedom.

Human Will

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

God's children should never emulate the self-willed attitude Frank Sinatra's song "My Way" glorifies. Human nature and godly character are polar opposites.

New Covenant Priesthood (Part Six)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

We must have both perseverance and humility in prayer to keep our vision sharp and clear. Without humility, the doorway to acceptance by God is closed.

Mightier Than The Sword (Part Eight)

Commentary by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Rousseau crafted the blueprint followed by proponents of socialist/communistic governments, disparaging private property, free enterprise, and the family.

Ecclesiastes and Christian Living (Part Twelve): Paradox, Conclusion

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

There is a danger that arises when the righteous suffer and the wicked prosper: trying to put God under obligation to bless us through becoming 'super-righteous'.

Coattails

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

Nimrod, Babylon's founder, was a narcissistic, arrogant, ungodly rebel who strove for preeminence. Most of his world clung to his coattails for security.

Mightier Than The Sword (Part Seven)

Commentary by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Rousseau's modern disciples, gaining ascendancy in today's political climate, have plans to dismantle the family, replacing it with the State.

The March Toward Globalism (Part Two)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

As parents, we can protect our children from death and destruction if we discourage the self-absorptive pulls through correction and discipline.

New Covenant Priesthood (Part Seven)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Pride is the basis of resisting God, while humility is the key to a relationship with Him. We recognize it in others but we seldom see it in ourselves.

Are You Living An Illusion?

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Religious narcissists, who identify with the servant who received ten talents, cherry-pick Scripture to enhance their self-love and support their views.

Gender Madness

Commentary by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Some leftists have created 112 genders. This bizarre gender madness is a symptom of what was formerly known as craziness — simply being out of one's mind.

Ecclesiastes Resumed (Part Twenty-Nine)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

We are not privy to God's, but we must realize that He has the prerogative to impose both blessings and calamity, the latter in response to disobedience.

Ecclesiastes Resumed (Part Twenty-Four)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

The paradox of Ecclesiastes 7 shows an unrighteous man flourishing and a righteous man suffering. The solution to this conundrum is found in Psalm 73.

Fathers Provoking Children

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Most families in God's church have a functional father, but even so, extremes of leniency and overbearing strictness do not make an ideal father.

Is the Christian Required To Do Works? (Part Two)

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Just as a dead person does no works, so a faith that does not include works is also dead. A person in whom living, saving faith exists will produce works.

The Handwriting Is on the Wall (2005)

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The family is under savage attack, with more and more children born out of wedlock. With the destruction of the family, we are witnessing the death of the U.S.

It's Not About You

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The Baby Boomer generation has taken on characteristics of narcissism, self-absorption, and excessive self-centeredness, leading to rampant materialism.

Facing Times of Stress: Lovers of Self

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

We face the same kind of pressures and stress that Timothy faced, with perilous times ahead of us, threatening the existence of the nation and the church.

The Heart's Self-Absorption

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

II Timothy 3:1-5 contains 19 characteristics of carnality. The common denominator is self-absorption and pride, placing the self above others.