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Overcoming (Part 7): Selfishness

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

We have all noticed how people who are always thinking of their own pleasures and interests often make others yield to them. They seem to obtain everything they seek except happiness, and are thus always dissatisfied. Selfishness is having too much concern with one's welfare or interests and too little or none for others. We often refer to this type of person as self-centered, self-absorbed, and self-serving. Paul writes that in the last days, self-love, self-seeking, and selfish ambition will appear at an unprecedented level. Some will not reciprocate loving deeds, not seeing what they receive but only what more they can get.

Overcoming (Part 10): Self-Pity

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

When things go wrong, many indulge in loneliness or despair, leading to a melancholy mindset that distorts their thinking, seeing, and feeling. Some feed their sadness by becoming dependent on despondency for a perverse comfort. Those who sink into apathy curl up in self-pity during hard times, failing to see God at work in their lives. Self-pity is self-indulgently dwelling on one's own sorrows or trials, often involving lying to oneself by excusing personal suffering for sins committed. It is a result of sin and incurable without repentance, differing from godly sorrow which produces repentance. It is a natural human tendency to respond to life's difficulties with self-pity, feeling that suffering is undeserved. This reaction shows faithlessness, as seen when individuals plead for exemption from responsibilities or lack mercy for others due to their own sorrows. To combat self-pity, one must pray for God's help, rest, find a new focus, repent of sins, and take obedient action rather than remain inactive based on emotions. Genuine repentance and a clear view of one's true condition are essential to fight this distorted mindset. The ultimate cure for self-pity lies in selflessness, caring for others' welfare more than one's own. This excessive love of oneself interferes with God's development of righteous character. Outgoing concern and love toward others counteract self-pity, reflecting a willingness to lay down one's life for friends. How one handles life's pressures determines whether they fall into self-pity or achieve overcoming, following the selfless example of Jesus Christ with divine help.

Murder By Selfishness!

Commentary by Martin G. Collins

Suicide is the 3rd leading cause of death among 15-24 year-olds. Contributory factors include depression, deteriorating family life, media glorification, and drugs.

Self-Examination, Not Self-Preoccupation

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

There is a critical difference between self-examination and self-preoccupation. We must accurately assess our spiritual state without becoming self-absorbed.

The Heart's Self-Absorption

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

II Timothy 3:1-5 contains 19 characteristics of carnality. The common denominator is self-absorption and pride, placing the self above others.

Take the Red Pill

Sermonette by Bill Onisick

If we were to consciously monitor our thoughts, we would be appalled about the percentage of our day that we are exclusively wrapped up in ourselves.

Whatsoever Your Heart Desires

Sermonette by Mark Schindler

We must not construe the term, "whatever our heart desires," as a pass to sin, but we should use every occasion to grow in thinking and acting like God.

Are These the Last Days? (Part 2)

'Prophecy Watch' by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

According to the book, 13th Gen: Abort, Retry, Ignore, Fail?, those born between 1961-1981 belongs to the 13th Generation, the 13th since America's Founding Fathers.

Without Natural Affection

Sermonette by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Because of lawlessness, love has gone stone-cold. Sin and lawlessness begets more sin and lawlessness, and natural affection and love disappear.

Handwriting on the Wall: Without Natural Affection

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Narcissism and self-centeredness have snuffed out out-going concern, and everyone does what is right in their own eyes as the love of many grows cold.

The March Toward Globalism (Part Two)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

As parents, we can protect our children from death and destruction if we discourage the self-absorptive pulls through correction and discipline.

What Does God Really Want? (Part 3)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The Good Samaritan parable teaches that unless one practices doing good rather than just knowing good, his faith will be severely compromised.

Worshipping the Temple (Part Three)

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

We are blessed when our trust is in God, but cursed when we trust in man or his abilities or his work, or when our heart is set on anything other than God.

It's Not About You

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The Baby Boomer generation has taken on characteristics of narcissism, self-absorption, and excessive self-centeredness, leading to rampant materialism.

Jonah: Typical Israelite

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

To this borderline-suicidal narcissist, his universe held only himself, permitting God's will for others only if it conformed to his own will.

Balaam and the End-Time Church (Part 2)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Balaam, motivated by self-interest, believing that the ends justify the means, willing to do anything to get his way, is spiritually inferior to a donkey.

The March Toward Globalism (Part Three)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Parents have incrementally abandoned the responsibility of disciplining their children. Satan has taken over the responsibility through his matrix.

Is the Christian Required To Do Works? (Part Two)

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Just as a dead person does no works, so a faith that does not include works is also dead. A person in whom living, saving faith exists will produce works.

New Covenant Priesthood (Part Six)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

We must have both perseverance and humility in prayer to keep our vision sharp and clear. Without humility, the doorway to acceptance by God is closed.

A Basket of Summer Fruit

'Ready Answer' by Charles Whitaker

Summertime reminds us of 'those lazy, hazy, crazy days' of our youth. Biblically, summertime sounds a warning to us to prepare for the fall harvest.

Are You Sharp-Tongued? (Part Two)

'Ready Answer' by Staff

James' exhortation about the use of the tongue seems to stop with James 3:12. However, the rest of the chapter provides more wisdom on controlling our speech.

Eating: How Good It Is! (Part Seven)

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Our physical bodies have a defense system to keep out invaders. Spiritually, how well do we maintain our defenses against error and contamination?