Selfishness causes dissatisfaction by prioritizing personal pleasures and interests, becoming more dominant with age, while a selfless person is usually the happiest. It manifests as self-preservation through hoarding, resulting in spiritual destitution, and in false ministers seeking their own pleasures. Symptoms include ignoring the rights of others and neglecting the needy. In the last days, it appears as self-love, self-seeking, and selfish ambition. God has designed natural ramifications for it into His law, leading to poverty, sin, and loss of spirituality. Yielding to the power of the Holy Spirit overcomes it, but resisting allows it to overcome. His Son's sacrifice provides reconciliation through selflessness and service to others.

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Murder By Selfishness!

Commentary by Martin G. Collins

Suicide is often a deeply selfish act, rooted in an excessive love for oneself that prioritizes personal escape over facing life's challenges. This self-centeredness, termed selfism by psychologists, is fueled by societal emphases on self-esteem, self-assertion, and self-indulgence, leading individuals to feel inadequate when they fail to meet distorted standards. In this mindset, the individual considers only their own pain, disregarding the impact on others. Biblically, such actions defy the principle that we are not our own, but belong to God, who created us in His image. To destroy one's life is to dishonor Him, placing the self as sovereign over the Creator and violating the First Commandment by making the self a god. Additionally, suicide breaks the Sixth Commandment, as it is self-murder, an act of taking a life that belongs to God. Our lives are not ours to end at will, for we were bought at a price, and we are called to glorify God in body and spirit. Satan tempted Jesus to act recklessly with His life, yet He resisted, affirming that we must not test God. This skewed thinking, driven by sinful desire and enmity against God, fosters a self-destructive attitude that can lead to a life of slow death through harmful choices. The antidote lies in turning to Christ, who offers rest and healing to the brokenhearted, transforming despair into a joyous life through faith and reliance on His strength. True contentment and selflessness come from serving others humbly and trusting in God's deliverance, countering the discouragement sown by satan.

Empirical Selfishness

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

While it is natural and harmless to identify with a teacher that we hear each week, that identification should not be the source of friction.

Celebrating Birthdays

Article by Martin G. Collins

Are birthday celebrations as harmless as they seem? How did the practice start? Here is a spiritual principle concerning birthdays that many do not consider.

Take the Red Pill

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If we were to consciously monitor our thoughts, we would be appalled about the percentage of our day that we are exclusively wrapped up in ourselves.

Marriage and the Bride of Christ (Part Eleven)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Our concept of marriage must be positive and more mature, modeled after Christ's attentiveness toward the Church, as opposed to the world's distorted concept.

Daily Overcoming

Sermonette by Bill Onisick

Daily reflection helps to identify areas in our lives that need to be overcome. Without self-reflection, overcoming specific faults cannot gain traction.

Adolescent Geriatrics

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The cultural phenomenon known as 'adolescent geriatrics' is when a senior citizen, ignoring the ravages of time, continues youthful styles, desires, and goals.

Authority: Why So Many Resent It

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Pride, the father of all sins, is the source of self-exaltation, self-justification and the despising of authority. It cloaks rebellion in a deceptive appeal.

Flag of Our Father

Sermon by Mark Schindler

Adam and Eve's act of covering themselves symbolized humanity's tendency toward separation. God's provision of clothing foreshadowed Christ's redeeming work.

Benefits of Thanksgiving

CGG Weekly by Gary Montgomery

Do we thank God daily for all His blessings? Do we thank Him for only the nice things? He wants us to thank Him for His benefits, mercy, and graciousness.

Without Natural Affection

Sermonette by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Because of lawlessness, love has gone stone-cold. Sin and lawlessness begets more sin and lawlessness, and natural affection and love disappear.

This Life of Sacrifice

CGG Weekly by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Selfishness in any form turns Christianity on its head, making a mockery of the many sacrifices that form its foundation and the grace of God that makes it possible.

Christian Men: Personal Responsibility

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Although men have no moral or mental advantages over women, God has commissioned them to actively lead, providing security and stability to family and society.

The Longsuffering of Our Lord Is Salvation

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Because God has demonstrated incredible longsuffering with our shortcomings, we should similarly exercise forbearance to those who have offended us.

I Versus We

'WorldWatch' by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Opposing worldviews, individualism and collectivism, fight for dominance in cultures worldwide. Their struggle may play a prominent role in the end time.

How Human Nature Came to Be

CGG Weekly by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Why is human nature so corrupt? Why is it so widespread? How did it come to be? Did God create it this way?

Seeks Not Its Own

Sermon by Bill Onisick

Though as a Pharisee, the apostle Paul had abundant knowledge of God's law and obedience, he was a spiritual babe because he lacked agape love.

The Wrath of Man

CGG Weekly by Clyde Finklea

Righteous anger is unselfish. Sinful anger occurs when our desires, ambitions, or demands are not met, always focusing on satisfying the self.

Human Will

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

God's children should never emulate the self-willed attitude Frank Sinatra's song "My Way" glorifies. Human nature and godly character are polar opposites.

It's Not About You

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The Baby Boomer generation has taken on characteristics of narcissism, self-absorption, and excessive self-centeredness, leading to rampant materialism.

Thankfulness (1986)

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

We need to give thanks for everything, blessings and trials. Christianity ought to be an exhilarating experience, but it depends on our outlook on life.

Handwriting on the Wall: Without Natural Affection

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Narcissism and self-centeredness have snuffed out out-going concern, and everyone does what is right in their own eyes as the love of many grows cold.

Titus (Part Six)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

We have the commission to be witnesses to a corrupt society. It is in the closeness of the crowd that we have the greatest potential to grow spiritually.

Themes of Ruth (Part Four): Kindness and Faith

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Both Ruth and Naomi demonstrated covenant loyalty in this marriages long after the death of their spouses. Ruth faithfully continued to serve her mother-in-law.