God calls and places individuals within the body for unity, giving all equal access to the Father, wisdom, inheritance, and gifts. Pride produces division, but absolute trust in the Father yields no schism. Brethren must show single-minded compassion, cover sins with fervent love, minister gifts without grumbling, confess trespasses, and pray for healing. Human nature creates misunderstandings, yet unity requires restoring each person's relationship with God first. Spiritual siblings receive priority through sacrificial love, assembly for encouragement, and turning wanderers back to save souls from death.

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Harmony with God and the Brethren

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God's people are like a musical ensemble, each having unique pitches and timbre. As we yield to our Conductor, we also blend with one another, creating harmony.

The Purpose of Relationships

Sermonette by Ryan McClure

The marriage covenant was designed to bring incomplete components of the God image together in one flesh, from which other relationships developed.

A Trustworthy Relationship

Sermon by Mark Schindler

God calls individuals to specific places within the body of Christ and weaves them together for unity. Each person must hold the conviction that scriptures about faith, love, and inheritance apply equally to all brethren placed by the Father. Pride must not overwhelm this conviction, or division will result instead of righteous living as outgoing service to the whole body. Absolute trust in the Father produces no schism among the elect. Brethren receive the same blessings and gifts: access to the Father in prayer, wisdom and revealed knowledge, hope of inheritance, power through Jesus Christ, mercy, citizenship in heavenly places, and fitting together as living stones into a holy temple. All are chosen as a royal priesthood and must treat one another with single-minded compassion and tenderhearted courtesy under the watchful eyes of God. Fervent love for one another covers a multitude of sins and requires ministering gifts as good stewards without grumbling. Personal integrity prevents abuse of these gifts. God listens when His people speak to one another in mutual encouragement. Do not grumble against one another, but establish hearts in patience. Confess trespasses to one another and pray for one another that healing may occur. The effective fervent prayer of a righteous person avails much. Trust develops as a two-way street under the Father's direction. Each person experiences times of need and times of supplying needs, requiring vulnerability and reliance on direction from the compassionate Lord. Turning a wanderer from error saves a soul from death. God works to produce faithfulness so the body stands unified at the return of Jesus Christ.

Building Relationships

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The Scriptures provide many examples of how difficult relationships were dealt with by humility, deference, longsuffering, and prayer.

United With Whom?

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

The human heart has an ever-present inward pull that is always working against unity. Even with conversion and the power that comes with the receipt of the Holy Spirit, latent self-concern still reaches out and damages relationships, destroying unity. Even when there are the best of intentions, there are still misunderstandings caused by differing levels of conversion, differing viewpoints, differing experiences, differing generations, and differing dictions. While the laws that govern relationships may be followed, because of the human nature that remains, it takes an act of God for true unity to be produced. God holds the key to the problem of disunity. The relationship with God is the key to unity with the brethren, because that relationship exists for the purpose of bringing believers into the same spiritual image as God. When all perfectly resemble Jesus Christ, all will also resemble each other and there will be unity. Just as two stones fit together when there is a uniform, smooth surface between them, so will believers fit together when lives exactly match the same spiritual standard Jesus Christ set. The general cause of disunity among brethren is a breakdown somewhere in the relationship with God. The solution to disunity is not to try to get everybody together, but rather to restore the relationship with God. This can only be done on an individual basis. While a brother may be able to give advice, encouragement, and exhortation, he cannot fix somebody else's relationship. The one thing that can be done is to try to perfect unity with God. Greater unity with others who are likewise pursuing God's spiritual image will be a result, but it can only happen in that order. Pursuing unity among men first while leaving God in the background inevitably leads to compromise. A brother offended is harder to win than a strong city, and contentions are like the bars of a castle. With God on our side, even offended brethren can eventually be won over, for when a man's ways please the Lord, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him. The key to unity lies with God. A man who is growing in unity with God is one whom God will be glad to help in overcoming the problems of disunity.

Simplifying Life (Part Three)

Sermon by David F. Maas

Our Lord and Savior has commanded that spiritual siblings receive priority over physical siblings. Jesus identified His disciples as His mother and brothers. Almighty God instructs called-out believers to prioritize companionship with spiritual siblings over worldly associates. Jesus gave a new commandment to love one another as He has loved His disciples. Greater love has no one than to lay down one's life for friends. This laying down of life applies both to martyrdom and to a lifetime of sacrificial service that includes edifying siblings with spiritual gifts and receiving edification in return. Isolation from other spiritual siblings prevents service to the Body of Christ. Believers must consider one another to stir up love and good works while continuing to assemble together. Fellowship supplies spiritual growth and encouragement, accountability and correction, sharing of burdens, promotion of unity, worship and prayer, establishment of a witness to the world, and preparation for eternity. Small fellowships allow involvement with people who have faced similar trials and emerged victoriously. As iron sharpens iron so one person sharpens another through discussion. When anyone strays from the truth another must turn that person back to God to save a soul from death and cover a multitude of sins.

Strategies for Interfacing with Babylon without Becoming Assimilated (Part Seven)

Sermon by David F. Maas

True peacemaking means emulating Christ, which that involves promoting justice and righteousness, not merely avoiding conflict or appeasing by compromising.

'By What Every Joint Supplies'

'Ready Answer' by Staff

One of our primary duties as Christians is to build strong, loving relationships with our brethren. What are you supplying to the growth of the body?

Loving the Body of Christ (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by John Reiss

A root cause of the Corinthians' problems (and perhaps ours) was a massive failure in evaluating the worth of other members of the spiritual Body of Christ.

Does Jesus See You as His Friend?

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Jesus puts a condition on our friendship: We are His friends if we do what He commands, unlike the assumption that belief on His name is the only requirement.

Devoting Ourselves to Fellowship

'Ready Answer' by Clyde Finklea

Christian fellowship is more than just getting together on a regular basis; it is sharing with each other on a higher, spiritual level.

The Prisoners

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'To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.' Forgiving and being forgiven are part of being a family.

A Peaceful Spirit

CGG Weekly by Gary Montgomery

If we consider our relationship with God of small value, our conduct, especially toward our brethren, will show it and produce contention and disunity.

God's Perseverance With His Saints (Part Three)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

The unity Jesus appeals for with His disciples is not organizational unity, but unity within the divine nature, exampled in the unity between He and the Father.

Psalm 133

Sermon/Bible Study by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

True unity comes from God via His Holy Spirit and requires humbly submitting to God's terms rather than our own agendas.

Friends of the Friendless (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by John Reiss

True worship of God is more than just not sinning but also visiting the widows and the fatherless. These categories represent all who are weak and lack support.

How to Offend Someone

Sermon by Ryan McClure

Even though offense is inevitable, we must emulate Christ's love by avoiding unnecessary harm while prioritizing the spiritual growth of others.

Mutability and Our Christlike Response

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

We all change repeatedly throughout the stages of life, as do others, requiring constant adjustment as to how we evaluate and treat others.

The True Meaning of Fellowship

Sermonette by Clyde Finklea

When we examine two important connotations of the word 'fellowship,' we see that the meaning radiates far beyond the activity of talking with one another.

Troubling the Household of God

Sermon by Mark Schindler

If we allow the old, carnal man to dictate how we speak or make other decisions, we will trouble the household of God and inherit nothing but the wind.

The Beatitudes, Part 7: Blessed Are the Peacemakers

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

This world lauds warmakers, but God says that peacemakers are blessed. The first step in becoming a peacemaker is to be reconciled to God.

Church Unity Despite the Spirit of the World

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

The unity of God's church does not derive from organizational expertise, the conformity of ecumenism, or the tolerance for evil, but from the family model.

'But I Say to You' (Part Two): Murder and Anger

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Murder originates in the heart. Nothing from the outside defiles a man but originates in the heart governed by carnal human nature.

An Acceptable Gift

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

What God is most interested in is the heart behind the offering, and what is in the heart will be seen in what we are willing to do for the sake of a brother.

Love Thy Neighbor (Part 2)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

He who loves God must love his brother, including every fellow human being. Our closeness with God transcends the other human relationships.

First Things First (Part Two): The Right Sacrifice

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

Cain represents religion and worship on a person's own terms, according to his own priorities, rather than according to God's instruction.

Eating: How Good It Is! (Part Seven)

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Our physical bodies have a defense system to keep out invaders. Spiritually, how well do we maintain our defenses against error and contamination?

Unity (Part 7): Ephesians 4 (D)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Because of our lack of self-discipline and willingness to guard the truth, we have allowed our theological base to deteriorate under the persuasion of the world.

Compassion and Couch Potatoes

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Charles Whitaker (1944-2021)

Christians who 'sit out' opportunities to serve, becoming in effect couch potatoes, commit sins of omission which may lead to the Lake of Fire.

Burying Our Talents?

Sermonette by Bill Onisick

God expects a return on the investment He has placed in us. Doing nothing with our abilities is a grievous abuse of this trust.

Are You Subject to Perpetual Bondage?

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Paul appealed to his old friend Philemon after his slave Onesimus ran away, stealing his money, running to Rome to assist Paul during his imprisonment.

Unity and Unleavened Bread

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

As members of Christ's body, we must function for the good of the whole body, not competing with other parts. We must continually function as a son of God.

Reconciliation and Unity

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

It is foolish and pointless to use the same charm, social skills, and duplicity toward God as we use to deceive others and, sadly, even ourselves.

Are You Running on Empty?

Sermonette by Austin Del Castillo

The Parable of the Ten Virgins must become a wake-up call to the church of God that we are 'running on empty,' to quote a Jackson Brown song.

Checklist for Overcoming

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Romans 12-16 provide a checklist for overcoming and promoting positive relationships, developing tender affection. We are mutually dependent upon one another.

Unifying Behaviors

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Every righteous, selfless act of outgoing concern we perform promotes unity within the church, drawing brethren closer together, suggesting a spiritual law.

A Just Weight Is His Delight

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

Godly principles are timeless, and though the application may not be the same, honest weights and scales are still crucial for a smooth and peaceful society.

Unity

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Each member of Christ's body must choose to function in the role God has ordained to produce unity, emulating Christ in striving to please the Father

Am I My Brother's Keeper?

Sermon by Bill Onisick

Believers are crafted to be the caretakers of all that belongs to God, accountable for how we serve, nurturing both His creation and His people.

The Rest of the Story

Sermon by Mark Schindler

In I Corinthians 11:29, we are cautioned not to partake of the Passover in an unworthy manner, a primary example of which is the shabby treatment of brethren.

The March Toward Globalism (Part Four)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Self-will must be extirpated from our children; God's will must take its place. Childrearing must begin at the start of a child's formative life.

How to Conduct Ourselves as Ambassadors for Christ

Article by David F. Maas

The apostle Paul calls Christians 'ambassadors of Christ.' Our commission parallels what this world's ambassadors do and how they present themselves.

The Talking Blood (1994)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The blood of Christ, a propitiation or appeasing force, the only means to satisfy God's pure sense of justice, is a testimony of God's intense love for us.

Are You a True Friend of Jesus Christ?

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

In every platitude and truism about friendship that we have read, all point to loyalty and faithfulness as the most desired attributes.

Unlovable

Sermonette by Joseph B. Baity

If God's people do not believe they are lovable, they may deprive others of a blessing by refusing to accept charitable help from a spiritual sibling.

The Mystery of the Church

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

God desires to know whether the spiritual remnants will choose His teaching or assimilating into the world, biting and devouring one another.

Humble Service

Sermonette by Ted E. Bowling

Jesus modeled the practice of foot-washing to demonstrate the need to be submissive to one another, to serve one another, including those who betray.

How God Deals With Conscience (Part Four)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

At times, God has to ignite our conscience and undermine our self-confidence to get our attention in a similar fashion as he did to Joseph's brothers.

Godly Tact and Diplomacy

Article by David F. Maas

Humans are very adept at causing offense. But as Christians, we must learn the art of tact and diplomacy that works toward unity among the brethren.

Image and Likeness of God (Part Four)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The numerous figures of speech describing God's body parts substantiate that God has shape and form and occupies a specific location.

Submitting (Part 1)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Liberty without guidelines will turn into chaos. We will be free only if we submit to the truth. All authority, even incompetent authority, derives from God.

Reconciliation and the Day of Atonement

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Repentance is something we must do with our God-given free moral agency. Reconciliation is an ongoing process that enables us to draw closer to what God is.