Conceit is a form of pride in which a person conceals his true image while projecting an inflated persona of righteousness and importance, harboring hidden contempt for God and fellow man. Job exemplified this, presenting himself as a deliverer and justice-bringer, contending with God when calamity shattered that image, until he abhorred himself and repented, gaining poverty of spirit. Conceit also drives individuals to regard themselves as superior, fueling selfish ambition, conflict, and division among brethren. The remedy is lowliness of mind, esteeming others better than oneself and pursuing unity, peace, and longsuffering. Like hubris and narcissism, pride is self-destructive, producing disgrace, quarrels, and humiliation, as seen in Nebuchadnezzar, Herod, and Haman. God opposes the proud and exalts the humble.

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Job, Self-Righteousness, and Humility

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Conceit arises as a form of pride in which a person envelops himself in smoke to conceal his true image while projecting an inflated persona of righteousness and importance to others. This quality, drawn from the Greek term tuphoo, carries connotations of being lifted up and high-minded, accompanied by haughtiness and contempt for God and fellow man that remains hidden beneath an outward appearance of humility. Such conceit drives the image one attempts to project, often based on an unrealistic appraisal of personal goodness and independence, so that the individual remains unaware of his spiritual poverty and resists correction. The text develops this through Job, who sought to present himself as a deliverer of the poor, a father to the needy, and a figure of justice and counsel, using personal pronouns excessively in Job 29 to emphasize his self-perceived excellence. When calamity shattered that image, Job defended it by contending with God, demanding vindication and treating sin merely as outward acts rather than a breach of relationship. Elihu exposed the flaw by noting that Job considered himself more righteous than God, while God Himself confronted Job with questions that revealed the vast gulf between divine majesty and human accomplishment. Job's eventual response acknowledged that he had uttered what he did not understand, leading him to abhor himself and repent in dust and ashes. This progression illustrates that conceit distorts one's relationship with God by fostering an unwillingness to submit, whereas its removal through divine intervention produces poverty of spirit, the foundational attitude that recognizes total dependence on God and enables the reception of grace.

Humility

Sermonette by James Beaubelle

Humility is not an obsequious act we turn on and off at will, but a sober reflection of our true relationship to God and our spiritual siblings.

Unity Through Humility

Sermonette by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Conceit arises as a manifestation of pride that prompts individuals to regard themselves as superior to others and deserving of positions or recognition they may not merit. This attitude fuels selfish ambition, where personal advancement takes precedence over collective well-being, and it generates conflicts by driving people to dispute or compete destructively rather than cooperate. Such behavior erodes doctrinal unity and fellowship among brethren, as each party seeks to impose its own view without regard for the other, often over matters that do not affect salvation. The remedy lies in cultivating lowliness of mind, which leads each person to esteem others better than himself and to look out for their interests alongside his own. This humility enables like-mindedness, one accord, and the bond of peace that preserves the unity of the Spirit. Without it, even sincere efforts to share truth can produce hard words and division, whereas longsuffering allows time for growth and understanding. By working out one's own salvation with fear and trembling while holding fast to the word of life, members avoid the murmuring and disputing that harm both internal harmony and external witness. Conceit therefore stands in direct opposition to the conduct that makes brethren blameless and harmless, shining as lights through patient example rather than forceful contention.

Narcissists! Get Real!

Commentary by Martin G. Collins

Classical Greek and Roman cultures stigmatized pride as hubris, a loss of contact with reality involving overestimation of one's competence, and they built their literary tragedies around the self-destructive effects of this trait and its offensiveness to the gods. Even these societies recognized through observation that such pride harms both the individual and society. When preoccupation with personal adequacy, power, prestige, and vanity becomes excessive, the condition is identified as narcissism, which psychiatrists likewise view as self-destructive. Biblical usage of the word pride most often denotes an arrogant, conceited, and haughty character trait that produces disgrace, breeds quarrels, precedes destruction, and ends in humiliation, with no positive outcome. Nebuchadnezzar exemplified this by crediting the building of Babylon solely to his own power and majesty, after which he was immediately stricken with insanity and lost his kingdom. Herod likewise accepted divine honors from the crowd and was struck down by an angel. Haman, erupting in pride when Mordecai refused to bow, devised an elaborate display of glory for himself only to have that honor forced upon his enemy, resulting in his own execution on the gallows he had prepared. Morally, pride commonly manifests as oppression of the less fortunate; spiritually, its root is disregard or defiance toward God. Proud people delude themselves with false security in their own resources, yet God consistently opposes them and brings them low, as stated in Isaiah that everything proud and lofty will be humbled and that the loftiness of man will be bowed down so that the Lord alone is exalted. Pride therefore stands always on the verge of being brought low. To avoid divine intervention that humbles in an unpleasant way, one must daily monitor motivations, judge one's own thoughts and actions, and heed the instructions to humble oneself in the sight of the Lord so that He will lift up and exalt in due time.

Pride of Life

Sermonette by Clyde Finklea

We are admonished to put out the leavening of pride and arrogance. Pride is something we loathe in someone else, but tolerate in ourselves.

Grace, Mercy, and Favor (Part One): To the Beaten

Sermon by Mark Schindler

Conceit arises when pride deceives a person into an inflated self-assessment that rests on comparisons with those judged inferior. The Pharisee in the parable exemplifies this attitude by standing apart from others, lifting his eyes to heaven, and reciting his own supposed righteousness while despising the tax collector as a contaminating presence. His prayer contains no confession, no thanksgiving, and no request, only self-congratulation that circles back to himself and leaves him unjustified before God. Such conceit feeds on faulty evaluation, deliberately seeking flaws in others to preserve a sense of worth while avoiding any measuring rod that would diminish its own standing. This mindset separates the individual both from fellow human beings and from God, producing division and a false confidence that one already possesses the righteousness required for salvation. The material connects this danger directly to the reception of grace, mercy, and favor, warning that these gifts, if received with a carnal outlook, can foster the very conceit the Pharisee displayed. The publican's beating of his breast, by contrast, expresses repentance and contrition that keeps the recipient aware of complete dependence on God. Without that humble recognition, the privileged responsibility given to firstfruits risks becoming a badge of superiority rather than a call to serve with outgoing concern. The same warning extends to interactions both inside and outside the Body of Christ, where any thought of "There but for the grace of God go I" can slide into self-exaltation unless it remains anchored in the contrite spirit that trembles at God's word and measures everything against His standards rather than against other people.

New Covenant Priesthood (Part Seven)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Pride is the basis of resisting God, while humility is the key to a relationship with Him. We recognize it in others but we seldom see it in ourselves.

Pride, Humility, and Fasting

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The intent of fasting is to deflate our pride—the major taproot of sin—the biggest deterrent to a positive relationship with God. Humility heals the breach.

Faith (Part Six)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The hallmark of Christian character is humility, which comes about only when one sees himself in comparison to God. Pride makes distorted comparisons.

The Danger of Trusting in Oneself

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Those wise in their own eyes, including philosophers, politicians, educators, and religious leaders, have failed in their quest to make the world better.

New Covenant Priesthood (Part Eight)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Pride leads to destruction, tricking us into thinking we deserve better than we have. Paradoxically, pride is a mark of inferiority, causing overcompensation.

Building Relationships

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The Scriptures provide many examples of how difficult relationships were dealt with by humility, deference, longsuffering, and prayer.

New Covenant Priesthood (Part Six)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

We must have both perseverance and humility in prayer to keep our vision sharp and clear. Without humility, the doorway to acceptance by God is closed.

Unity (Part 7): Ephesians 4 (D)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Because of our lack of self-discipline and willingness to guard the truth, we have allowed our theological base to deteriorate under the persuasion of the world.

Checklist for Overcoming

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Romans 12-16 provide a checklist for overcoming and promoting positive relationships, developing tender affection. We are mutually dependent upon one another.

Antidote For Disunity!

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Martin G. Collins

We will become united as we draw closer to God. If we regard a brother in Christ as a competitor rather than as a trusted ally, unity will be impossible.

Ecclesiastes Resumed (Part Fourteen)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Solomon ruminates about life being seemingly futile and purposeless. A relationship with God is the only factor which prevents life from becoming useless.

Humanism's Flooding Influence (Part Four)

Commentary by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

If people turn away from God and His laws, the only way they can move is to liberalize toward non-restraint and license.

The Secret Sin Everyone Commits

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Self-righteous people tend to trust in their own heart, be wise in their own eyes, justify themselves, despise or disregard others, and judge or condemn others.

Vanity (Part 2)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Solomon's statement that all of life is vanity is only true if one is not privy to God's ultimate purpose for mankind. Paul describes what God is doing.

A Just Weight Is His Delight

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

Godly principles are timeless, and though the application may not be the same, honest weights and scales are still crucial for a smooth and peaceful society.

The Heart's Self-Absorption

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

II Timothy 3:1-5 contains 19 characteristics of carnality. The common denominator is self-absorption and pride, placing the self above others.

Thou Shall Not Covet

Sermon by John O. Reid

Because virtually every sin begins as a desire in the mind, the command against coveting (lustful cravings) could be the key to keeping the other commandments.