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Pride, Contention, and Unity

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Pride brings us into contention with God, exalting us to break His commandments, perhaps as a way of life. It will drive one to deny clear scriptural teachings to defend personal beliefs, reject the leadership gifted by God to the church, and strive for positions of leadership within the church. Pride exalts us against our brothers in fellowship, preventing true love by fostering gossip, accusations, and division, even in jest, and hindering genuine fellowship. It fuels contention over scriptures that bear little relevance to salvation, making winning an argument a priority to avoid losing face. As Proverbs 28:25 warns, a proud heart stirs up strife, while trust in the Lord brings prosperity. Whenever contention disrupts unity, producing confusion and frustration, we can be sure that pride's dominant attitude is infecting the group. Pride always moves us toward self-benefit in this life, bringing us into conflict with others, whereas humility focuses on the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, producing peace and joy.

Discord From Self-Determination

Sermonette by Martin G. Collins

Contention, as a form of discord, embodies an intrinsic disagreement that fosters quarreling, dissension, and antagonism. It is synonymous with strife, conflict, and variance, bearing no positive purpose or benefit to humanity. Contention only serves to destroy unity and harmony. Strife, a facet of contention, highlights a struggle for superiority rather than mere incompatibility among individuals, revealing the pride inherent in those who sow discord. This pride drives a dissatisfaction with one's position or authority, leading to dissension, which is deemed a sin and foolishness. God abhors contention and becomes exceedingly angry with it, as evidenced by severe consequences meted out in response to such behavior. Satan employs contention as a ploy, often under the guise of self-determination, to instigate discord both in the world and among God's people. This tactic, rooted in feelings of unfair treatment or a desire for liberation from perceived tyranny, successfully fragments communities and moves individuals away from unity. Satan persists in using this method due to its effectiveness in creating division. The act of murmuring and complaining, tied to contention, places individuals under condemnation and renders them vulnerable to destruction by Satan. Groups that promote themselves as refuges for the abused or as havens free from hassle are, in essence, fostering contention by encouraging dissatisfaction with authority and enticing others to join them under false pretenses of fairness. God does not take contention or the sowing of discord lightly, often intervening in trials but sometimes allowing consequences to stand as a reflection of collective or individual sin. To complain or murmur against one's situation or against God's fairness provokes His anger, underscoring the gravity of engaging in contention. Individuals bear a responsibility to resist discord and to uphold unity, recognizing contention as a destructive force contrary to divine will.

A Peaceful Spirit

CGG Weekly by Gary Montgomery

Contention produces the curse of disunity, shattering unity and peace as seen when Adam and Eve sinned, leading to their sentence of death. Sin, regardless of justification, cannot produce godly peace or harmony. If we consider our calling and relationship with God of small value, our conduct will show it and produce contention and disunity. Pride produces only contention, while humility, its opposite, works to soothe, calm, heal, and unify. A meek or gentle manner, contrary to competitive assertiveness, cultivates peace with others. We must put down our selfish desire to win every argument, for a soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Disturbances and conflicts often arise from those who react without reflection, blowing things out of proportion. Converted disturbers of the peace need to change their attitude, refocusing their aims toward cultivating and exercising a spirit of peace. Peace must become a fixed goal, and we must make every effort to create peace in ourselves and our environment. God does not want contention among His children, and He aims to remove that work of the flesh from those He calls during their preparation for the Kingdom of God. If all of God's people would imitate Christ's peacemaking example and follow His instructions, there would be more peace and fewer disputes.

Spirit of Peace

CGG Weekly by Gary Montgomery

The spirit in the world inspires chaos and hatred. But to the Christian, it seems even more intense. How are we supposed to react to these things?

The Same Mind

Sermonette by Joseph B. Baity

We must not allow ideological differences to overshadow our shared faith, far greater than the lesser issues which currently divide us.

Hidden Anger (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

Anger can be outwardly visible, but it can also show up in ways that are subtle, indirect, and deceptive. Proverbs 26:24-26 provides an example of this.

Fruit of the Flesh - On Conflict

Sermonette by Bill Onisick

As God's chosen saints, we must not let our keyboard or mouth defile us. Godly conversation includes stifling the urge to win the argument at all costs.

Unity and Division: The Blessing and the Curse (Part One)

'Ready Answer' by Charles Whitaker

Unity seems to be 'godly,' while division is 'ungodly.' However, unity and division are not as black and white as we typically think of them.

'Sons of God?'

Sermonette by Bill Onisick

God gave Jesus Christ to us to restore peace, reconciliation, and harmony with God. In the Beatitudes, the peacemakers are called 'sons of God.'

Harmony with God and the Brethren

Sermonette by Ted E. Bowling

God's people are like a musical ensemble, each having unique pitches and timbre. As we yield to our Conductor, we also blend with one another, creating harmony.

Everybody's Protesting

Commentary by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Americans have a high regard for free speech. God, on the other hand, shows little tolerance for incessant grumbling, complaining, murmuring, or rebellion.

Satan, Division, and Humility

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Competition is the root cause of war, business takeovers, and marital discord. Solomon describes man's rivalry with one another as a striving after wind.

Differences of Opinion

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Satan champions self-opinion and mob behavior. God's church has never been immune to division because each member has only part of the truth.

Unity (Part 7): Ephesians 4 (D)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Because of our lack of self-discipline and willingness to guard the truth, we have allowed our theological base to deteriorate under the persuasion of the world.

James and Unleavened Bread (Part Two)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The epistle of James stresses both faith and works, emphasizing those factors necessary for growth, enabling us to produce a bountiful harvest of fruit.

All Sifted Like Wheat (Part One)

Sermon by Mark Schindler

We will be subject to Satan's attempt to destroy our faith through being sifted like wheat. Jesus allows this to strengthen our faith yet also oversees it.

Unsharpened (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by Joseph B. Baity

Have we convinced ourselves that unity of fellowship within our group, our congregation—our spiritual family—is just too hard?

Grace, Faith, and Love

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Pride condemned Satan to a fate of manipulating rather than serving. This presumptuous self-centered trait creates disunity and ultimately destruction.

Debate

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The Bible takes a very dim view of argument, debate, discord, and strife. In all matters of contention, we must strive to put ourselves above the fray.

The Beatitudes, Part 7: Blessed Are the Peacemakers

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

This world lauds warmakers, but God says that peacemakers are blessed. The first step in becoming a peacemaker is to be reconciled to God.

Psalm 133 (1998)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Unity comes only through the initiation of God. If we would follow the suggestions in Romans 12, we could do our part in promoting unity in God's church.

The Fruit of the Spirit: Peace

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

The world has little or no idea what true peace is or how it is achieved. Yet we can produce godly peace even in the midst of turmoil—and we must.

Division, Satan, Humility

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Throughout the course of Biblical history, whenever sin appears, confusion, division and separation are the automatic consequences.

Antidote For Disunity!

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Martin G. Collins

We will become united as we draw closer to God. If we regard a brother in Christ as a competitor rather than as a trusted ally, unity will be impossible.

Of One Accord

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Confusion and separation have been man's legacy since Eden. Christ is working to put an end to division, enabling us to be one with the Father and each other.

Themes of I Corinthians (Part 2)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

A true, godly minister does not draw people to himself, but instead to God. Not placing Christ at the forefront will lead to carnal-mindedness.

Strategies for Interfacing with Babylon Without Becoming Assimilated (Part Three)

Sermon by David F. Maas

The current stormy cultural headwinds consist of noise, hurry, and party spirit. We must replace the gentile style of leadership and elevating leaders.

The Epistles of II and III John (Part Two)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

John warns Gaius of the treachery of Diotrephes, who had initiated a mutiny against God's true ministers, putting out of the church those who did not follow him.

Prosperity's Consequences

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Prosperity is not always an emblem of God's approval. God will not prosper us if it would cause spiritual damage, insulating us from seeking His kingdom.

Many Are Called, But Few Are Chosen (Part Six)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Like the four groups of seeds exposed to various qualities of soil, many have heard the true gospel, but few have remained faithful after the onslaught of hardship.

Unsharpened

Sermonette by Joseph B. Baity

The church of God may have focused too intensely on elusive esoteric principles and neglected the basics, such as developing solid relationships.

Tests of True Knowledge

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

A person who is puffed up parades his knowledge by exhibiting impatience, intolerance, or a false modesty, marginalizing what the uneducated in their minds.

Who Are We and Where Do We Fit (Part Two)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

God has placed us all in the body where it has pleased Him. We dare not imitate Satan by letting self-centered goals eclipse God's purpose.

Hidden Anger (Part One)

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

'Of the seven deadly sins, anger is possibly the most fun. To lick your wounds, to smack your lips over grievances long past, to roll over your tongue the ...'

Titus (Part Six)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

We have the commission to be witnesses to a corrupt society. It is in the closeness of the crowd that we have the greatest potential to grow spiritually.

Spiritual Renewal

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Paul admonishes the Corinthians to resist contentions, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambition, backbiting, whispering, slander, conceit, and agitation.

Civility and Courtesy

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Societal incivility, discourtesy, and in-your-face attitudes (works of the flesh) have manifested themselves in the church of God, but contradict agape.

Goats on the Left

Article by Mike Ford

Goats are intelligent creatures, but also loners and devious. Understanding their characteristics helps us in evaluating our own tendencies that hinder our walk.