If we use or manipulate others to achieve our goals, it reveals a deep flaw in our actions. Such behavior suggests that something is fundamentally wrong, far from the will of a holy God. At best, we are following the desires of our own carnal nature; at worst, we are serving the will of someone far more deceitful. Jesus Christ identifies Satan as the father of lies and liars, highlighting the grave danger in such practices. God decries both the act of deceiving and the willingness to be deceived, warning us not to be taken in, hoodwinked, or used in others' schemes and manipulations. Jesus advises us to be wise as serpents yet harmless as doves, striking a balance that avoids the pitfalls of manipulation while remaining vigilant against deception.

Lies serve as a little fortress, providing a false sense of safety and power to the liar. Within this fortress, individuals attempt to control their lives and manipulate others. To sustain this illusion, they construct walls of justification, claiming their deceit protects loved ones or prevents pain, doing whatever it takes to ease their conscience. This manipulation through lies ultimately destroys trust, damaging relationships irreparably and preventing any possibility of peace.

In the pursuit of power, many fall into the trap of manipulating others, a behavior deeply rooted in the negative connotations of politics. This art of scheming, evident since the term "politician" emerged in the English language at the end of the 16th century, often carries the stigma of crafty and shrewd behavior for personal gain. Such actions reflect a fundamental flaw of pride, overshadowing even avarice or lust for power, as individuals seek advancement through deceit and control. The story of Absalom exemplifies this destructive politicking. Driven by an insatiable desire for the throne, despite not being first in line of succession, Absalom meticulously plotted against his own family. He waited two years to murder his brother Amnon, spent three years in exile, and upon returning to Israel, endured another two years before reconciling with his father, King David. Over an additional four years, he continued his scheming, promising more than his father's prosperous reign could offer, captivating people with charisma and empty pledges. Absalom secretly rallied support, sending messengers to declare his rule in Hebron, and even deceived 200 men from Jerusalem into joining him under false pretenses. His manipulation extended to key figures like Ahithophel, David's closest adviser, showcasing his ability to bend others to his will through calculated moves. This pattern of manipulation is not confined to ancient narratives or governmental halls but permeates everyday life. Whether in families, workplaces, or schools, individuals often jockey for position by belittling others or criticizing those above them to elevate their own status. Such behavior mirrors the negative side of politics, where personal gain overshadows integrity. In contrast, true leadership demands humility, a quality absent in those who manipulate for power, rendering them unfit to be used by God in any sphere, be it a small community or a vast ocean of influence.