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Bible Study by Martin G. CollinsSelf-control, as a vital fruit of the Spirit, is the mastery over one's passions and desires, ensuring that appetites are held in check and conduct is regulated without being swayed by sensuous urges. Moderation stands as a key element in this virtue, preventing excesses that could lead to sin. Without self-control, individuals fall prey to temptations such as lust, greed, gluttony, alcoholism, conceit, sexual sins, gossiping, violent quarreling, and reckless speech, which satan uses to lead astray. This virtue is not solely for personal benefit but extends to the well-being of others. Self-restraint, rooted in obedience to God's law, reflects an outgoing concern that prioritizes others over self-interest, enabling one to resist actions that might cause pain or weakness to fellow brethren. Producing self-control involves diligent self-discipline, akin to an athlete training for a race, recognizing that a lack of it reveals short-sightedness with long-lasting physical and spiritual damage. When self-control seems unattainable, changing circumstances to avoid temptation becomes necessary, such as marrying to manage sexual urges if restraint proves impossible. Jesus Christ exemplified self-control by mastering human tendencies, resisting temptation, and submitting to God's law, setting a pattern for others to follow. Through the Holy Spirit, God works in man to manifest self-control, strengthening the Spirit-controlled mind to resist rebellious desires and tempting pleasures. Ultimately, self-control is essential for entrance into the Kingdom of God, as mere knowledge of Him without practical self-responsibility falls short. With the aid of God's divine power, self-mastery is achieved, contrasting the works of the flesh with the fruit of the Spirit, guiding those led by the Spirit toward fruitful growth in God's character.
Self Control
Sermonette by James BeaubelleSelf-control helps us to restrain ourselves from harmful lusts of the flesh, including gluttony, intoxication, sex outside of marriage, and drug abuse.
The Fruit of the Spirit: Self-Control
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughIn a world that often feels out of control with its fast-paced lifestyles and endless distractions, self-control emerges as a vital attribute for those seeking to live according to God's will. Self-control, listed as the ninth fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5:22-23, is essential to Christian living, embodying the mastery of one's desires and impulses. It is not merely about restraining specific passions but encompasses a broad application to life, involving obedience, submission, and sinless living. The Greek word "enkrateia," translated as self-control, signifies possessing power and having mastery over one's desires, holding in hand the passions that threaten to lead astray. This concept is also reflected in terms like "nephalios," often translated as temperate or sober, emphasizing moderation and soundness of mind over self-indulgence. Proverbs 25:28 illustrates this principle, comparing a person without rule over his spirit to a city broken down, without walls, vulnerable to chaos. Self-control requires intense focus and single-mindedness, as exemplified by runners in the Grecian games who must concentrate on their race, avoiding distractions to achieve victory. Such athletes adhere to a rigorous program, abstaining from even legitimate pleasures that do not fit their goals, demonstrating that self-control extends to all areas of life. Similarly, believers must prioritize seeking first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, maintaining a disciplined approach to avoid being conformed to the insanity of this world. The powerful pulls of the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, as noted in I John 2:16, must be controlled to prevent being trapped in sin. These worldly desires can ensnare without conscious thought if not vigilantly resisted, requiring a deliberate effort to turn away from evil impressions and subordinate insatiable appetites. The body, while a good servant, becomes a bad master if not governed, leading to corruption if sown to the flesh, as warned in Galatians 6:8. Self-control is further tied to the sacrificial service of a priest, where one's life is presented as a living sacrifice to God, set apart for His use. This act of surrender, reasonable and rational, springs from a renewed mind that controls itself to align with God's will. The cost of such sacrifice is high, often demanding intense pressure to resist natural drives and habits, yet it is necessary for those who work in God's service. God's grace, as highlighted in II Timothy 1:6-7, empowers believers to express self-control, countering the unbridled freedom of worldly passions. Without this discipline, one risks falling to pieces, succumbing to the subtle persuasions and appetites that led Adam and Eve astray. The solution lies in a relationship with Christ, who provides the strength to govern oneself, transforming weakness into courage and self-control, enabling believers to glorify God through moderation in all things and rigid resistance to sin.
Liberty Through Self-Control
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughLiberty under Christ is maintained through self-control, a vital fruit of the Spirit. Without a godly standard to follow, people cast off restraint, leading to confusion and chaos. Where there is no revelation, individuals run wild, but happiness comes to those who keep the law, avoiding harm and destruction through deviant behavior. Self-control prevents the sorrow and guilt that accompany unrestrained actions, fostering a blessed state of true freedom. In this age, a hallmark is the lack of self-control, as people feel free to indulge in their wildest desires, resulting in anarchy and license. Yet, true liberty is tied directly to submission and obedience to God's Word. Freedom that does not include conformity to God's standard is not genuine liberty. Self-control, as a fruit of the Spirit, enables us to govern ourselves despite the deceptive urges of the heart, guiding us to pursue and do good always. The disciplined individual is the freest of all, knowing their bounds and mastering themselves. Self-control, derived from the Greek term meaning inner strength, implies having power and rule over oneself. It is not merely a struggle to avoid sin, but a commitment to set the mind on doing good, as Christ did. By living in the Spirit, we crucify the flesh with its passions and desires, ensuring that sin does not hold sway over us. Ultimately, God through Christ has granted us freedom from the condemnation of sin, making us free under Him. We must stand fast in this liberty, not using it as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serving one another. Pursuing liberty requires governing ourselves with self-control, aided by the Spirit, to maintain the freedom Christ has provided and to avoid entanglement in the yoke of bondage.
True Self-Control
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughSelf-restraint, rendered in Greek as enkrateia, emerges as the capacity to direct attention away from immediate desires so that decisions arise from deliberate, cooler reflection rather than impulsive response. The process begins with an awareness of the mechanisms that trigger surrender to temptation; once those mechanisms are understood, strategies such as mental abstraction, redirection of thought, or removal from the stimulus become available. These tactics transform the object of desire into something neutral or distant, allowing the individual to wait for a greater outcome. In Scripture enkrateia appears as the final item in the list of the fruit of the Spirit, indicating that it is produced by God's Spirit working within a person over time. It is also placed after righteousness or knowledge and before perseverance, showing that it functions as the practical response to what God supplies. Righteousness or knowledge is received first; self-restraint then applies that gift by governing conduct, and perseverance sustains the resulting behavior until it yields godliness, brotherly kindness, and agape love. The same pattern appears in the qualifications for an overseer, where holiness precedes and makes possible the exercise of self-restraint. The word itself denotes inward power or mastery, the ability to rule one's own impulses rather than to be ruled by them. Biblical usage extends the term beyond sexual conduct to every area of fleshly desire, including speech, appetite, and material acquisition. In each case the controlling principle remains the same: the person substitutes a deliberate, scripturally informed thought for the immediate urge. Joseph's repeated refusal of Potiphar's wife and Jesus' answers to Satan illustrate this inward mastery sustained across repeated tests. Both examples demonstrate that self-restraint is strengthened by continual reliance on God's presence and Word. Ultimately self-restraint is the fruit of lifelong repentance, or metanoia, the progressive replacement of fleshly patterns of thought with the mind of God. As thoughts are reordered, behavior follows, enabling the believer to serve others and to remain faithful to the commission received from God.
Control and Self-Control
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughSelf-restraint, expressed in Scripture through terms such as dominion, power, and the Greek word enkrateia, requires the believer to master personal impulses rather than seek authority over others. From the beginning God granted humanity dominion over creation yet required that this authority be exercised through dressing, tending, and keeping the earth in a manner that conserves and adorns what He has made. Jesus reinforced the same principle when He instructed His disciples that greatness consists in servanthood and slavery, not in lording authority over others, and when He Himself took the form of a bondservant, humbled Himself, and remained obedient to the point of death. Paul illustrates the practical discipline of self-restraint by comparing the Christian life to an athlete who subjects every bodily impulse to a rigorous regimen so that he may obtain an imperishable crown. The same virtue appears in the fruit of the Spirit and in the command to add self-control to faith and knowledge. In daily conduct it means putting off the old man with its deceitful lusts and putting on the new man created in true righteousness, refusing to allow any member of the body to act contrary to the life of Christ. The supreme demonstration of this mastery occurred during the final day of Jesus' life. Although He faced betrayal, arrest, scourging, and crucifixion, He never yielded to the cries of the flesh or to deceptive reasoning that might have promised relief. In Gethsemane He prayed in agony yet submitted His will to the Father; when the mob arrived He went forward calmly, healed the ear of Malchus, and continued to act in kindness even toward His enemies. By contrast, those who sought to preserve their own safety lost all composure. Self-restraint therefore stands at the center of Christian overcoming. It enables the believer to keep God's commandments, to guard against sin, and to remain untouched by the wicked one. Those who cultivate this virtue now prove themselves fit to receive, in the resurrection, the authority and glory that Christ Himself received only after completing His course of perfect submission.
The Essence of Self-Control
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsSelf-restraint, also called self-control, is the virtue that enables a person to master personal appetites, passions, and desires so that conduct remains aligned with righteousness rather than raw lusts. When individuals refuse this mastery they cast off all restraint, turning sin into out-of-control behavior that separates them from God and produces the cursing, confusion, and rebuke described in Deuteronomy 28 and Leviticus 26. The same refusal undermines civil government, because no structure can secure justice or peace among people who will not first govern themselves. The absence of self-restraint appears in drunkenness, gluttony, laziness, sexual immorality, revelry, and every form of self-indulgence; these destroy reputation, waste resources, and injure others. Scripture presents self-restraint as the final trait in the fruit of the Spirit, the quality that completes and protects the rest. It arises not from mere suppression of desire but from walking in the Spirit, which produces power to crucify the flesh with its passions. Paul illustrates the practice by disciplining his body lest he become disqualified, and he commands believers to put on the Lord Jesus Christ while making no provision for fleshly lusts. Christ Himself demonstrated perfect self-restraint by remaining silent under reviling, refusing Satanic temptations, and submitting to the cross without retaliation. Those led by His Spirit likewise overcome evil with good, love neighbors as themselves, and fulfill the law through outgoing concern that rules over self-interest. Without this internalized mastery a person cannot attain the holiness God requires or enter the Kingdom; with it the called are reshaped into the image of the Son and prepared to serve others in love.
Self-Discipline
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughSelf-discipline, or self-control, is presented as the crucial virtue enabling Christians to grow in godliness, and it stands in direct contrast to Protestant grace-alone theology, which dismisses it as legalism or a "paradox" that God alone produces. This view is challenged by examining enkrateia, the Greek word for self-control found in Galatians 5:22-23 as the final fruit of the Spirit. Rooted in kratos (power, mastery), enkrateia describes an inner strength that governs desires and behavior, acting as a gatekeeper against carnal impulses. The ancient Greeks, including the Stoics, prized this virtue highly, illustrated by Scipio's self-restraint in returning an untouched woman to her father rather than yielding to desire. Scripture demonstrates that self-control is not a passive gift but something actively developed. In II Peter 1:5-6, Paul-like language shows believers adding self-control to faith, virtue, and knowledge in a building process. Acts 24:25 shows Paul presenting righteousness, self-control, and judgment as sequential stages in a believer's spiritual journey, self-control being the necessary response to the righteousness given through Christ. This directly opposes theological claims that self-discipline is "created exclusively by the Spirit" with no human effort required, since fruit itself results from a cooperative process—like a plant needing sun, water, and cultivation—not a unilateral act. Herbert Armstrong's teaching that "even God cannot create righteous character by fiat" reinforces this: God supplies the overwhelming share of what is needed, yet still requires genuine human response and effort, lest His children become mere programmed automatons rather than mature sons formed through the same process of suffering and growth that Christ Himself experienced. I Corinthians 9:24-27 serves as the classic text on this subject, depicting the Christian life as a race and a fight requiring total commitment. Paul describes disciplined athletes who are "temperate in all things," and applies the term agonizomai (the root of "agonize") to show that the Christian walk involves real internal struggle. He runs "not aimlessly" but with fixed purpose, and fights not by "beating the air" but by striking decisively at sin and temptation. Paul's vivid language—disciplining his body (hypopiazo, literally "to strike under the eye") and bringing it into subjection (doulagogeo, "to lead into slavery")—illustrates the intensity required to avoid being "disqualified," a warning tied to the judgment mentioned in Acts 24:25. Finally, I Timothy 4:7 commands believers to "train" or "exercise" themselves toward godliness, likening spiritual growth to athletic training that demands persistence, diligence, and a refusal to quit despite distraction. This entire pattern reveals that self-discipline is not incompatible with grace but is the necessary, effortful human response to it—an active partnership with God through His Spirit, essential for developing Christlike character and ultimately entering His Kingdom.
God and Self-Government
Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughSelf-restraint emerges as the essential answer to a problem illustrated through the escalating complexity of human governance. As populations grow from individuals to families to nations, the bureaucratic apparatus required to control them expands enormously—the United States alone employs roughly 26.2 million people in governmental functions. Applying similar percentages to the estimated 75 billion people who will be resurrected during the Great White Throne judgment period yields a hypothetical bureaucracy of 2.25 to 3 billion workers, an absurd and unworkable model. This illustrates why God's approach differs entirely from human government: rather than external bureaucratic control, God's plan relies on self-government—people who acknowledge God as Sovereign and voluntarily submit to His laws through righteous character developed in cooperation with Christ. This self-governance is explicitly biblical, rooted in the Greek term enkrateia (self-restraint or self-mastery), which Paul uses in describing athletic discipline, the fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5:23, and qualifications for elders in Titus 1:8. Paul's own example in 1 Corinthians 9:24-27 demonstrates this: he disciplines his body and brings it into subjection so he will not be disqualified from the prize. This same self-mastery is expected of every believer, controlling mind, mouth, eyes, hands, and feet to conform to Christ's life. Jesus Christ Himself modeled this path in Philippians 2:5-11, moving from equality with God to the form of a bondservant, humbling Himself even to death on a cross. Only after this self-emptying did God exalt Him with the name above every name. This establishes the pattern: self-control first, then control. God does not grant power or rulership to those who cannot govern themselves, since ungoverned power poses spiritual danger. Old Testament examples reinforce this principle: Jacob's wrestling until he yielded, Moses's forty years of shepherding that transformed him from a murderous prince into the meekest man on earth, Gideon's transformation from timidity to courage, and David's molding into a man after God's own heart. Each case shows God systematically developing self-mastery in areas of weakness, often over many years, which explains why self-control appears last in the list of the fruit of the Spirit—it is frequently the hardest quality to develop. Human nature resists restraint, preferring indulgence, as reflected in the unrestrained works of the flesh listed in Galatians 5:19-21. Yet God's plan aims to eliminate such carnality across all humanity, producing ultimately a divine Family of self-controlled beings who submit to Him from internal conviction rather than external coercion. This is why the New Heavens and New Earth will require no elaborate government: everyone present will have Christ's character inscribed on their hearts, governing themselves in holiness. Present application demands vigilance, as 1 Thessalonians 5 exhorts believers to be sober and self-controlled, especially as the world appears increasingly chaotic. Believers, as children of light, must diligently restrain carnal nature and produce godly fruit, anticipating that this same pattern of self-governed sonship will be extended to those raised in the second resurrection during the Great White Throne judgment.
Self-Government (Part Two)
Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)The call to self-restraint begins with Paul's instruction to Titus and Timothy that believers remain subject to authorities, peaceable, and gentle even amid disobedient surroundings, requiring discipline to avoid being swept into the spirit of the times. This principle connects to James Madison's observation that human government's great difficulty lies in controlling the governed while also restraining itself—a problem God solves by requiring each citizen to govern himself, trusting God to handle the rest. Webster's 1828 Dictionary confirms this priority, defining government first in terms of self-government, describing it as the direction, regulation, control, and restraint of one's own temper and passions, which precedes all other forms of government including family and civil authority. Self-restraint is essential to Christian character because God will not override free-moral agency; a person must voluntarily choose right over wrong, exercising will and self-discipline to resist evil and do good, as Herbert Armstrong described godly character. This is developed through a three-step biblical formula: first, gird up the mind (1 Peter 1:13-16), fixing one's thinking constantly toward holiness; second, exercise disciplined effort like an athlete, being temperate in all things and bringing the body into subjection (1 Corinthians 9:24-27), following Paul's own example of self-mastery so as not to become disqualified; and third, direct that discipline specifically toward keeping Christ's commandments (John 14:15; 1 John 2:3-6; 5:2-3), growing toward the fullness of Christ's stature (Ephesians 4:13). This principle of self-government traces through biblical history: mankind was given dominion at creation, then family government, followed by civil government instituted after the Flood for the protection of life. Yet when Israel rejected self-government under God as King, choosing instead a human king to rule over them, they surrendered liberty just as the builders of Babel had rejected dispersion and self-governance for centralized control under Nimrod. This same failure of self-restraint is mirrored in modern nations, including the United States, which is gradually surrendering individual liberty to expanding government control. True government, whether civil or religious, derives its authority from God and requires those governed to restrain themselves out of respect for that divine appointment, rendering taxes, honor, and obedience—not because authority is inherently righteous, but because it operates under God's permission and accountability. Even the church's authority is not the government of God Himself but a human government under God's delegated authority, and it too can become improperly controlling, as illustrated by paternalistic tendencies that emerged historically in some religious institutions. Genuine order, as seen in the Corinthian congregation, depends not on external force but on each member possessing truth and voluntarily restraining himself within the boundaries of God's given authority, avoiding chaos through self-discipline rather than domination. Ultimately, God's own method of governing—through persuasion and truth rather than coercion—demonstrates that lasting order arises from internal restraint, not external control. The unraveling of any nation, including one built on a Constitution assuming a self-governing, God-fearing citizenry, illustrates that liberty cannot survive without this personal restraint, making one's relationship with God, not government, the true source of security and salvation.
Flee From Idolatry (Part One): Self-Discipline
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughThough Paul's spiritual credentials outstripped all of his coworkers, Paul used none of his rights as an apostle, but gave his life as a sacrifice.
Our Part in the Sanctification Process (Part Ten): Cultivating the Fruit of Self Control
Sermon by David F. MaasIt is impossible to cultivate self-control unless one uses God's Spirit to reprogram the desires of the heart from self-centeredness to submission to God.
Pre-Feast Aggravations
CGG Weekly by Ronny H. GrahamHow we handle pre-Feast aggravations can help us evaluate how well we are growing in the fruit of the Spirit, particularly longsuffering and patience.
Pre-Feast Annoyances
Sermonette by Ronny H. GrahamAs we prepare for the Feast of Tabernacles, chances are that there will be things that test our patience and even a few more will crop up when we get there.
Longsuffering
Bible Study by Martin G. CollinsLongsuffering, or patience, the fourth fruit of the Spirit, is a much needed virtue in a fast-paced, impatient world.
What Makes a True Disciple? (Part Two)
CGG Weekly by Clyde FinkleaLove is patient and kind. These are the only two characteristics Paul says love is, defining it positively. What follows is what love does not do.
The Small and Great Standing Before God
Sermonette by Martin G. CollinsThe greatest, according to Jesus Christ, can be determined by the one who serves the most with an attitude of humility, generosity, and other-centeredness.
Choosing Our Yoke
Sermon by Bill OnisickSelf-control, also called temperance, stands as the one inward-facing fruit of the Spirit. It supplies the divine ability to govern impulses, emotions, and desires while making right daily choices. This capacity enables a person to master passions and thereby produce the other outward-facing fruits such as love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, and gentleness. Because all the fruits are intertwined, self-control functions with love as the bookend qualities that unlock the rest; without a measure of self-control it would be nearly impossible to manifest any fruit of the Spirit. The same quality is required to avoid producing the fruit of the flesh, since a good tree brings forth no bad fruit. Self-control is exercised by regulating thoughts, attitudes, and impulses, managing reactions to circumstances, resisting instant gratification, and choosing actions that honor God. It equips believers to serve as faithful stewards over every gift placed on loan, including their bodies and relationships within the Body of Christ. The Spirit described by Paul in II Timothy 1:7 is precisely the Spirit of love and self-control, providing the inner strength needed for this governance. This inner strength is obtained by voluntarily accepting the yoke of Jesus Christ. His yoke replaces self-reliance with reliance upon Him, teaching self-control through daily alignment of the will to His meek and lowly heart. Under that yoke the carnal mind yields, impulsive reactions give way to gentle and forbearing conduct, and the fruit of the Spirit flows outward. The choice to remain yoked must be renewed each day through prayer, meditation, and application of the Word, allowing Christ's Spirit to guide, correct, and sustain the believer while producing abundant spiritual fruit in God's field.
Our Declaration of Independence (Part Two)
CGG Weekly by John ReissWhile our independence means that we are self-directed and can make our own decisions, we are still members of a society and must conduct ourselves accordingly.
Sticks and Stones
'Ready Answer' by Ted E. BowlingWhat are we to do when destructive words come our way? We must learn to take everything with much patience and longsuffering, which will result in peace.
The Longsuffering of Our Lord Is Salvation
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsBecause God has demonstrated incredible longsuffering with our shortcomings, we should similarly exercise forbearance to those who have offended us.
Eating: How Good It Is! (Part Six)
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughIn the West, both food and information are readily available. We need self-control and a dedication to truth in order to live a godly life.
Liberalism, in the News Again
Commentary by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)Conservatism is a political philosophy that calls for stability and the protection of established institutions. Liberals think conservatives are stuck in the past.
Essential Characteristics of Our Calling
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsDoctrine and practice be evenly balanced. If the behaviors are detached from principle and doctrine, the weightier matters of the law will be neglected.
Are You Sharp-Tongued? (Part One)
'Ready Answer' by StaffThe tongue may be the most untamed beast on earth! James says we all offend in word. But James 3 is filled with wisdom regarding how we can overcome the beast.
Unity (Part 8): Ephesians 4 (E)
Sermon by John W. RitenbaughThe group that one fellowships with is less important than the understanding that there is one true church, bound by a spiritual, not a physical unity.
The Fruit of the Spirit: Kindness
'Personal' from John W. RitenbaughKindness goes hand-in-hand with love. It is an active expression of love toward God and fellow man, produced through the power of God's Spirit.
The Meekness and Gentleness of Christ
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsJesus demonstrated His meekness in His treatment of many with whom He interacted. Balancing firmness and gentleness, He seeks to save rather than destroy.
The Meek
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughMeekness is the opposite of weakness, exemplifying self-control under immense pressure, demonstrated by Jesus refusing to retaliate.
Jesus and the Feast (Part Two): Belief in the Spirit
Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughOn the last day of the Feast, Jesus proclaimed Himself as the One who will dispense God's Spirit, amplifying the promise He had made to the woman at the well.
Establishing Our Hearts Before Christ's Return
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsJames emphasizes patience five times, suggesting that it is a capstone of saintly character, encompassing long-suffering, forbearance, and self-restraint.
The Overlooked Work (Part Two)
CGG Weekly by David C. GrabbeNot all waiting is actually waiting on God. We might convince ourselves that we are waiting on God, when He is really waiting for us to move forward.
Forbearance
Sermon by Richard T. RitenbaughGod put up with the foibles of Abraham, Samson, David, Job, and others, allowing them time to repent and build character. We need to develop this godly trait.
Patiently Waiting for Christ's Return
Sermon by Martin G. CollinsWe must develop an active, God-given restraint and constancy in endurance while facing trials and waiting for Christ's return, trusting that God will provide.