Self-control, a crucial fruit of the Spirit, embodies power over oneself, mastering desires and passions through moderation. It counters sins like lust, greed, and gluttony, resisting temptations that satan may exploit. Essential for spiritual growth, self-control requires discipline to avoid causing pain to others and to prevent brethren from stumbling. It manifests God's work through the Holy Spirit, strengthening the mind to resist rebellious desires. Jesus Christ exemplified perfect self-mastery, overcoming temptation and submitting to God's law. Without self-control, one risks physical and spiritual damage, falling into ruin. It is vital for entering the Kingdom of God, demanding daily dedication to align thoughts and actions with divine will.

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Self-Control

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

Self-control, the final fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5:23, is mastery over oneself and one's passions. The Greek enkrateia means power over oneself, holding appetites in check and regulating conduct so that sensuous desires do not sway the rational will. Moderation is a key element. No structure of government can give justice and peace without self-government, and anyone entrusted with the care of others, especially a leader, must govern himself. Lack of self-control shows in lust, greed, gluttony, drunkenness, sexual sins, conceit, gossip, violent quarreling and reckless speech, and it is shortsighted because its damage lasts and affects both physical and spiritual futures. Self-control is not for oneself alone; it is realized in concern for others that rules over self-interest, resisting even lawful acts that might cause a brother to stumble. Paul disciplined his body and brought it into subjection so that his ministry would remain credible. When self-control seems impossible, circumstances must be changed to avoid temptation, as Paul counsels the single and young widows to marry rather than burn with desire. Christ set the example, mastering destructive thoughts and actions and resisting temptation by submitting to God's law. Self-control is God's work in man through the indwelling Holy Spirit, who strengthens the mind to resist rebellious desires and tempting pleasures. Knowledge of God without practical self-responsibility is not enough for entrance into the Kingdom. Self-control comes not by merely suppressing the flesh but by controlling its lusts, as those who are led by the Spirit and walk in the Spirit grow in God's character.

The Fruit of the Spirit: Self-Control

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Self-control is the mastery of one's desires and impulses (Greek enkrateia), and it is the last of the fruits of the Spirit in Galatians 5:22-23. It also includes sound judgment and moderation. A person without it is like a city with broken-down walls (Proverbs 25:28), while one who rules his spirit is better than a conqueror (Proverbs 16:32). Because the carnal mind is enmity against God (Romans 8:7), self-control is bound up with self-denial and self-sacrifice. Though these seem negative, their fruit is wholly positive. Paul's picture of the athlete in 1 Corinthians 9:24-27 shows that a Christian must focus single-mindedly, be temperate in all things, and lay aside even legitimate weights, not merely refuse certain vices. Romans 12:1-2 calls believers to present their bodies as living sacrifices, which requires governing what the senses take in, what the appetites are granted, and what the body does. The lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life must be controlled, as Joseph did by fleeing. The body is a good servant but a bad master. Human will alone is too weak, and conscience has authority but no power. Self-control comes from God's Spirit, who gives power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). God's grace schools believers to live self-mastered lives (Titus 2:11-14). Christ promises the Spirit to those who ask (Luke 11:13), and His strength is made perfect in weakness. Self-control is an attribute of the Creator, exemplified by Jesus, and it must not be minimized because Christ has done so much for us.

Self Control

Sermonette by James Beaubelle

Self-control helps us to restrain ourselves from harmful lusts of the flesh, including gluttony, intoxication, sex outside of marriage, and drug abuse.

The Essence of Self-Control

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

In a nation marked by unrestrained behavior, self-control is a scarce virtue, as people refuse to govern themselves, giving in to raw lusts and desires, thus casting off all restraint. Sin, at its core, is out of control behavior, and without self-government, no structure, however perfect, can provide justice or peace. Taking responsibility for one's thoughts and actions is synonymous with having self-control, yet society often justifies behavioral issues rather than addressing them. Historically, the Israelites demonstrated the consequences of lacking self-control, neglecting it from the start with events like the worship of the golden calf, leading to mental and physical chaos. God warned them of curses as the inherent result of self-indulgence, a state mirrored in this nation today, which faces confusion and rebuke for its self-indulgent nature. A lack of self-control is a natural human tendency, evident when Israel, left to herself, turned to idol worship and wild behavior, becoming a laughingstock to her enemies. Self-control, or self-mastery, is the power over oneself, the virtue that holds appetites in check and regulates conduct without being swayed by sensuous desires. Moderation is a key element, as seen in the contrast between revelries—unrestrained enjoyment degenerating into licentiousness—and self-control, which is essential for fruitful growth in God's character. Self-control is not merely suppressing passions but controlling the lusts of the flesh through the guidance of the Spirit. Developing self-control involves overcoming evil with good, loving one another, and putting on Christ. Overcoming evil with good requires thoughtful conduct, not automatic reactions, to avoid betraying high standards of righteousness, demanding substantial self-control to respond with kindness in the face of injury. Loving one another necessitates self-restraint, recognizing that actions affect others, fulfilling the law through love, which promotes obedience and self-control. Putting on Christ means living as though His presence is imminent, leaving no room for decadent behaviors like overindulgence, sexual misconduct, or contention, all of which stem from a lack of self-control. Jesus Christ exemplified extraordinary self-mastery, resisting temptation and submitting to God's law, even under extreme duress, never yielding to satan's temptations, thus opening the way for victory over sin for all. His self-control, especially in restraining His speech, highlights the immense discipline required to govern one's tongue. Paul, too, emphasized self-discipline, warning that a lack of control shows short-sightedness with long-lasting damage, both physically and spiritually. Self-control is crucial for holiness, a governing quality for God's followers, essential for sanctification and reflecting His holiness through the indwelling of the Holy Spirit. It manifests God's work in man, strengthening the mind to resist rebellious desires and tempting pleasures. Attaining self-mastery demands daily dedication to walking in God's law, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ, ensuring harmony between divine commands and human actions. The fruit of the Spirit, including self-control, unifies believers to God, contributing to a life of holiness, reverence, and love, preparing the mind for action with sound judgment in all areas of life.

Addiction and Self-Control

CGG Weekly by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

In addressing the pervasive issue of addiction, the importance of self-control emerges as a critical principle. God strongly advises healthy self-control to prevent succumbing to the effects of substances like alcohol, which can lead to addiction. Solomon counsels in Proverbs 20:1 that wine is a mocker and strong drink a brawler, warning that those led astray by it are not wise. He further advises in Proverbs 23:19-21 against mixing with winebibbers or gluttons, as such behaviors lead to poverty and ruin. In Proverbs 31:4-5, he cautions those in authority to avoid intoxicating drink lest they forget the law and pervert justice, a principle that applies especially to God's called-out ones in training for roles in His Kingdom. The Bible argues for moderation governed by self-control rather than total abstinence from alcohol. Those with weak self-control or a predisposition toward alcoholism should abstain to avoid addiction, while others may enjoy it short of drunkenness or dependence. Failure to exercise self-control in consuming alcohol or similar substances is considered a sin. Paul states in I Corinthians 6:10 that drunkards will not inherit the Kingdom of God, listing drunkenness among the works of the flesh in Galatians 5:21. The solution to addiction lies in self-control, listed as the final fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5:22-23, representing the culmination of spiritual efforts. Through God's grace, forgiveness, and Christ's work through the Holy Spirit, overcoming addiction is possible by making the difficult choice to resist intense cravings, endure withdrawal, and set the will against temptation. God will supply help if the desire, dedication, and determination to repent of poor choices are present, though the arduous process of building character to control urges must be endured. As Paul notes in II Timothy 1:7, the Spirit God gives is one of power, love, and a sound mind, attributes that aid in overcoming addiction by providing strength, affirming worth, and enabling proper decisions. Paul also asserts in I Corinthians 6:12 that while all things may be lawful, he will not be brought under the power of any, emphasizing that even permissible things can become harmful if misused. God desires His people to control their minds, bodies, speech, and behaviors to reflect His nature and live an abundant life.

Gluttony: A Lack of Self-Control (Part Two)

Article by Martin G. Collins

At the root of gluttony lies a profound lack of self-control, a weakness that is challenged incessantly by the barrage of advertisements for food and drink that surround us daily. This absence of restraint reveals itself when we consume more than is healthy for our bodies and minds, mirroring the struggle of someone unable to resist a bottle of liquor. The inability to say "No" stems from an excessive desire that overpowers us, reversing the proper order of control. Instead of mastering our urges, we find ourselves dominated by them, which stands in direct opposition to the balance and discipline God desires for us. Gluttony, as a failure of self-control, extends beyond mere overeating to affect our character broadly, sapping our perseverance for good and weakening our resistance to evil. It manifests in various forms, whether through excessive consumption of food, an insatiable thirst for knowledge, or an unbridled pursuit of material possessions and hobbies. This excessive desire, followed by inappropriate action, can lead us astray from truly important spiritual matters, causing imbalance and distraction. God warns against such loss of control, associating gluttony with the traits of an evil person and advising us to avoid close ties with those who overindulge, as familiarity with such behavior can erode our own resolve. The constant temptation to overconsume, whether in physical or spiritual matters, risks drawing us into deeper issues, pulling us away from the path of righteousness. As Christians, we are called to walk properly, setting a good example by exercising balance and restraint in using the blessings God has provided, thereby bringing glory to Him.

True Self-Control

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Self-control is a vital element in personal development and spiritual growth. It is the ability to direct the focus of our attention so that our decisions are not swayed by wrong thoughts. Through conscious effort, self-control can be learned by engaging in mental transformation, changing how we think about temptations to alter our behavior. By reframing our thoughts about what attracts us, we can control our urges and avoid pursuing harmful desires. Learning self-control is a long-term endeavor essential for success in living a life aligned with higher values. It is often seen as a rare quality among people, who frequently follow their desires without restraint unless deterred by external forces like authority or social judgment. The concept of self-control, derived from the Greek term enkrateia, signifies inner power or mastery over oneself. It involves having the strength from within to govern fleshly desires, whether related to food, drink, speech, or other indulgences, maintaining restraint over impulses and emotions. Self-control is a response to the gifts and knowledge provided by God. It is the reaction to righteousness and understanding that we receive, requiring us to put this knowledge into practice through disciplined behavior. This practice must endure over time, becoming a permanent part of our character to sustain us through challenges. True self-control, as a fruit of God's Spirit, is distinct from mere human willpower, as it is enabled by a higher power that elevates our ability to resist temptations beyond ordinary human capacity. This higher form of self-control is not just for personal benefit but is also practiced for the sake of others, to serve and support those around us, and ultimately to please God. It involves extreme measures when necessary, countering intense temptations with equally strong, opposing actions to avoid sin. Whether dealing with desires for food, money, or speech, self-control demands a deep mental exercise to redirect thoughts and behaviors, ensuring they align with right principles. Examples of self-control demonstrate its power and necessity. Joseph's daily resistance to temptation in Egypt shows internal strength and commitment to avoiding sin, driven by his awareness of God's presence and commandments. Similarly, Jesus Christ, during His temptation by the devil, exhibited unparalleled self-control by fasting for forty days and refuting each temptation with the Word of God, reflecting perfect harmony with God's will. This illustrates that self-control involves adopting God's mind, using His Word to counter temptations, and living out His will day by day.

Liberty Through Self-Control

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

In this atmosphere of declining freedoms, self-control emerges as a vital aspect of Christian liberty. Without a godly standard to impose boundaries on behavior, lack of restraint leads to chaos and confusion, not true liberty. People may feel free to indulge in their wildest desires, but this results in anarchy and license, not freedom. True happiness and blessing come from adhering to a righteous standard, where self-control prevents harm and destruction through deviant behavior, eliminating shame and guilt. Self-control, as a fruit of the Spirit, is essential for governing oneself. It represents inner strength and self-mastery, enabling one to rule over emotions, desires, and impulses despite the deceitful nature of the human heart. With God's Spirit, we are free to be guided toward righteousness, not merely to avoid sin, but to actively pursue and do good as Jesus did during His life and ministry. By focusing on doing good through self-control, sin loses its hold, and God's Spirit becomes the guide. Ultimately, God through Christ has granted us freedom from the condemnation of sin, a liberty we could not achieve on our own. Maintaining this liberty requires abiding in God's Word and exercising self-control. It is through self-governance, with the help of God's Spirit, that we pursue and sustain true liberty. Let us, then, strive to govern ourselves to attain this freedom.

Control and Self-Control

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

God's way is one of self-control, not of control over others. It is a path of rigorous self-mastery, where the carnal mind's desire for control is replaced with the discipline to mortify the flesh and put down every impulse to do evil. As a Christian, one must rule their nature, mastering their flesh through a mind directed by the Holy Spirit, ensuring that no part of the body strays from the life of Christ. Self-control means taking responsibility for oneself, disciplining the body and bringing it into subjection to avoid disqualification from the eternal prize. The Christian life is one of overcoming the world, which requires overcoming the pulls of the flesh influenced by this world and satan the devil. By submitting to God's will, loving God and the brethren, and using the strength and gifts He provides, a believer can maintain self-control and avoid sin. When fully engaged in this path with faith and love, satan cannot touch us, as we walk a different line. Yet, the carnal nature often pulls us off course, making self-control a constant effort to learn, grow, and overcome. Jesus Christ exemplifies perfect self-control, especially in His final hours. Under immense stress in Gethsemane, facing persecution and crucifixion, He never wavered, remaining silent like a lamb to the slaughter. He refused to compromise or give in to the cries of His flesh, maintaining mastery over His mind and body even under the most severe onslaught. His calm and poise, even while healing an enemy's ear during His arrest, contrast sharply with the disciples' lack of control, as they fled or denied Him in fear. Christian self-control involves putting off the old man with his sins and putting on the new man, which is Christ. While the world spirals out of control, those who are Christ's must show self-control like their Master, striving toward the Kingdom prepared for them.

Our Part in the Sanctification Process (Part Ten): Cultivating the Fruit of Self Control

Sermon by David F. Maas

In the journey of sanctification, cultivating self-control is essential to reprogram our desires and cravings from a self-centered, destructive carnal nature to the life-sustaining pulls of God's Holy Spirit. Self-control is not merely an inner strength or stoical mastery but the strength of God's Spirit working through us, requiring discipline and effort on our part. It is not automatic; we must work at it diligently, understanding that having God's Holy Spirit and using it are distinct actions. Since our original ancestors partook of the forbidden fruit, we have been pre-programmed with a fatal attraction to sin, which is initially gratifying and highly addictive. Sin, defined as anything against God's will and holy laws, dwells securely in our carnal nature, hostile to His commandments. Society often resists self-control, promoting immediate self-gratification and viewing restraint as a barrier to deserved wants, thus enslaving us to habits and irrational emotions, making us bondslaves to unrighteousness. God's called-out ones have an advantage through the Holy Spirit received at baptism, a seal and guarantee of more to come, aiding in living a life of the Spirit rather than the flesh. Jesus Christ magnified the law, raising the standard to include self-control over thoughts and mind, not just actions. We must progress from mechanical obedience to passionate adherence, loving God with all our heart, soul, strength, and mind. Temptation is not sin, but it becomes sin when the mind agrees with fleshly desires, leading to actions. With God's Holy Spirit, we gain strength to endure and mortify the carnal flesh, fighting as overcomers and soldiers of Jesus Christ. There is no condemnation for involuntary thoughts if we continue to resist. God's power provides everything needed for life and godliness, but we must apply it, adding to faith, goodness, knowledge, and self-control, growing in spiritual strength to deaden carnal impulses through persistent effort.

Sanctification, Teens, and Self-Control

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Young people, God is calling you to exercise self-control in these unique and pressing times. He urges you to curb your passions and aim at self-mastery, as this is essential for navigating the challenges of life. Ruling your spirit involves self-discipline, willing yourself to do what is right regardless of feelings, even though it may not seem glamorous. Youth often tends to be short-sighted, lacking vision and overconfident, focusing primarily on the moment for fun, which can lead to recklessness and a lack of discipline. A shortsighted person sees no reason to think soberly or hold himself in unless an immediate consequence is evident, often failing to count the cost until harm is done. To develop self-control, you must have the right goals—goals you believe in and are confident can be achieved. With divine guidance, which is offered to you through your parents' calling, you can establish these goals and find the strength to restrain yourself from following mere human nature. This discipline may involve great self-sacrifice, but it ensures you make decisions that lead to success and glorify Him. God promises that with this vision and restraint, happiness and a sense of well-being follow, producing the kind of prosperity He desires for you.

The Rare Virtue of Self-Mastery

CGG Weekly by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Self-control is a vital virtue that stands in stark contrast to the world's glorification of letting go. When we drink to excess, we relax our self-control, increasing the likelihood of committing other sins such as lying, theft, hatred, violence, and sexual immorality. The Bible recommends sobriety, meaning never allowing alcohol to impair righteous judgment, even slightly. In his epistle to Titus, the apostle Paul frequently speaks of sobriety, urging us to live soberly, righteously, and godly in the present age, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts. The Greek word for soberly, sophronos, means to save the mind, implying self-control, moderation, and being of sound mind. This concept of self-mastery is the key issue in drunkenness and alcoholism, as it involves maintaining inner equilibrium and knowing what to do and what to avoid in character and life conduct. A Christian's mind must always remain under his or her control, following the example of our Savior Jesus Christ, who never relinquished control over Himself, even under the most extreme circumstances. He suffered torture and death rather than lose self-mastery, demonstrating it as a fruit of the Spirit and a primary goal for us to pursue. Our self-control now will lead to fullness of joy and pleasures forevermore in God's presence.

Controlling the Gap (Part One)

CGG Weekly by Bill Onisick

In the fleeting gap between stimulus and response, a mere instant of time, our true character is tested, often under severe circumstances. Our very futures in God's Kingdom may rest on this moment of truth. Controlling this gap is a fundamental responsibility for true Christians. We must recognize its existence and learn to utilize this momentary space properly. During each moment of truth, we must maintain awareness and control to react in a godly manner. A stimulus prompts a response, which can be unconditioned, arising naturally from human nature, or conditioned, learned through association. Unconditioned responses, like pride or self-preservation, often lead to unfavorable outcomes. Conditioned responses, however, are unnatural and shaped by external influences. Satan exploits this susceptibility to conditioning, and our society frequently rewards sinful behavior with positive reinforcement. As Christians, we are called to remove ourselves spiritually from the world, resisting negative conditioning where possible. Though some influences persist, we rely on God's help and grace to overcome them. God warned the Israelites against adopting the practices of surrounding nations, knowing how easily we are affected by satan's tactics. His message remains consistent: avoid and resist the pulls of this world. We must strive to keep ourselves unspotted from worldly influences, using awareness and control to respond in alignment with His will.

God and Self-Government

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Self-control emerges as the essential foundation for godly government, standing in direct contrast to the massive human bureaucracies required to manage sinful populations. As jurisdictions grow larger—from a single person to a marriage, a family, a neighborhood, and finally a nation—the difficulty of governing multiplies, requiring ever more rules, restraints, and bureaucratic oversight. Applying this principle to the Great White Throne judgment, a projection using current government employment percentages suggests that billions of bureaucrats would theoretically be needed to manage the resurrected population of history's uncalled. Yet God and Christ have devised something better: self-government, not the worldly notion of rugged individualism, but the voluntary submission of people who acknowledge God as Sovereign and govern themselves through righteous character developed in imitation of Christ. This self-government becomes the defining feature of the Great White Throne judgment period. Those raised in the second resurrection will see God directly, be judged according to their works exactly as the called are judged now, and will have opportunity to learn and internalize God's law without Satan's interference. The overall purpose of this judgment period is to exterminate sin and unrighteousness, culminating in the New Heavens and New Earth, a realm requiring no external government because everyone present will have already mastered self-control and aligned fully with God's character. Christ Himself modeled the path to true authority: self-control first, then control. Though equal with God, He emptied Himself, became a servant, and submitted even to death, and only afterward was exalted to supreme rulership. Paul's instruction to esteem others and reject selfish ambition reinforces that carnal power-seeking is opposite to God's way, which operates through lowliness and self-mastery. The Greek term enkrateia, translated "self-control" or "temperance," appears throughout Paul's and Peter's writings, describing a disciplined mastery over one's body and impulses so as not to be disqualified from the imperishable crown. Elders, athletes competing for a prize, and all believers are called to this same standard. Biblical figures like Jacob, Moses, Gideon, and David were shaped by God over years of trials specifically to develop self-control in their areas of weakness, illustrating that God works the same way with His people now as He will with those in the second resurrection. Self-control is fittingly the final fruit of the Spirit listed in Galatians 5, since it is often the hardest character trait to develop, requiring sustained diligence to overcome human nature's resistance to restraint. In I Thessalonians 5, believers are urged to remain sober and self-controlled as children of light, distinct from a world spinning into darkness. This self-mastery, empowered by God's Spirit yet cultivated through determined effort, is what ultimately qualifies the elect—and eventually all who are saved—for the eternal Family of God, where perfect self-government replaces all need for external coercion.

Self-Discipline

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Self-control, from the Greek term enkrateia, forms the culmination of the fruit of the Spirit listed in Galatians 5:22-23, and it stands as a crucial virtue for Christian living, though it is largely misunderstood or minimized by mainstream Protestant theology. This word appears only four times in the New Testament, and its root, kratos, meaning power or mastery, reveals that self-control is fundamentally an inner strength or mastery over one's own desires and behaviors. It is the opposite of self-indulgence or lack of restraint, and it functions as an internal governor that either restrains ungodly desires before they manifest in sin, or, when weak, allows carnality to flow freely into behavior. Even the ancient Greeks, particularly the Stoics, prized this virtue highly, viewing self-mastery as the highest good, though their practice of it did not necessarily make them righteous. Protestant theologians, however, often dismiss self-discipline as a form of legalism, arguing that since salvation is by grace alone, any emphasis on self-mastery contradicts Christian liberty and constitutes works-based righteousness. Some resolve this tension by calling it a "paradox," insisting that self-control is entirely God's doing within us, with no real effort required from the individual. This view is directly contradicted by Scripture. Paul's exhortation in II Peter 1:5-6 to "add" self-control to virtue and knowledge demonstrates that it is part of a deliberate, cumulative process of spiritual growth, not an instantaneous gift. Similarly, in Acts 24:25, Paul's discourse to Felix on righteousness, self-control, and coming judgment outlines a progression: righteousness is given through Christ, self-control is our necessary response to that righteousness, and judgment awaits those who fail to develop it. The clearest biblical picture of self-discipline appears in I Corinthians 9:24-27, where Paul compares the Christian life to competing in the Isthmian Games. Believers must run "not with uncertainty," meaning with clear purpose and undistracted focus toward the Kingdom of God, and must fight, not as one who merely "beats the air," but with real, purposeful blows against sin and temptation. Paul describes disciplining his body, using the vivid Greek term hypopiazo ("to strike under the eye"), and bringing it into subjection, using doulagogeo ("to lead into slavery"), showing that self-control requires forceful, even harsh, self-governance so as not to become disqualified. This effort-driven picture stands in stark contrast to claims that self-discipline is "never self-generated" and comes solely through grace without human effort. While God's Spirit undoubtedly empowers and strengthens believers, character cannot be created by divine fiat; it must be developed through a cooperative process akin to fruit growing on a vine, requiring both divine provision and human response. Paul's instruction to Timothy to "train" himself for godliness reinforces this: self-discipline demands diligent, persistent effort, much like athletic training, and is indispensable for growing into the image of Christ and inheriting the Kingdom of God.

Self-Government (Part Two)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Self-control emerges as the foundational principle underlying every form of government that God establishes, whether personal, familial, civil, or ecclesiastical. The discussion begins with Paul's instruction to Titus, urging believers to be subject to rulers, peaceable, and gentle even amid difficult circumstances, which requires deliberate self-discipline so as not to be swept into the disobedient spirit of surrounding society. This theme is reinforced by Webster's 1828 dictionary, which defines government first and foremost as self-government, implying direction, regulation, control, and restraint of one's own conduct—preceding and underlying one's response to family, civil, or church authority. This principle connects directly to the nature of free moral agency: God does not force obedience but requires a voluntary response, which is why godly character is described as the ability to discern right from wrong and then choose the right, even against self-desire, through will and self-discipline. A three-step biblical formula illustrates this process. First, believers must "gird up the loins of the mind," fixing their thinking constantly toward holiness rather than the world's lust-driven patterns. Second, like an athlete competing for a prize, believers must exert disciplined effort, being "temperate in all things," as Paul describes disciplining his own body and bringing it into subjection so as not to be disqualified. Third, this self-discipline is given specific direction through keeping Christ's commandments, growing toward the full stature of Christ. This same principle of self-governance is traced through biblical history. At Babel, mankind rejected the responsibility of self-governance under God, congregating instead under a centralized despot rather than dispersing as commanded. Centuries later, Israel repeated this pattern, rejecting God's kingship and demanding a human king, thereby surrendering liberties and personal responsibility. In both cases, the abandonment of self-control under God's rule led to loss of relationship with Him and increased external domination—a pattern paralleled in the present drift toward centralized, controlling government. Contrastingly, God's own method of governing operates through persuasion and truth rather than force, since forced compliance does not produce genuine conviction. This is why God gives His Spirit to His people, enabling them to know truth and freely govern themselves accordingly, following the example of Christ, who always did what pleased the Father and never abused authority. Paul modeled this same self-mastery, refusing to misuse his authority and instead disciplining himself rigorously. This principle also bears on church government, which too often shifted toward a controlling, paternalistic model rather than fostering individual self-government under Christ's headship. True biblical order, as seen in Corinthian worship practices, depends on each person possessing truth and voluntarily governing himself without overstepping given authority. Finally, this theme extends to civil society: the American Constitution's liberties were founded on the assumption of a self-governing, God-fearing citizenry. As self-control diminishes and dependence on government increases, the trajectory moves toward loss of liberty, foreshadowing a coming centralized world authority—underscoring that only through personal self-government under God can freedom and relationship with Him be preserved.

Flee From Idolatry (Part One): Self-Discipline

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Self-control emerges as the decisive answer to the problem of human carnality that runs throughout this message. Israel's history, chronicled in Psalm 78, illustrates that the fundamental flaw of God's people was internal—a heart not set aright and a spirit unfaithful to God—despite witnessing His mighty works. This same corrupted nature, described in Jeremiah 17:9 as deceitful and desperately wicked, remains in believers even after baptism and the receiving of God's Spirit. Sins are forgiven, but the "sin engine" of human nature continues producing new transgressions, leaving many struggling to see real progress toward godliness, much as Paul described his own inner conflict in Romans 7. The solution to this ongoing rebellion and lack of progress is found in Paul's teaching in 1 Corinthians 9. Having established his freedom as an apostle, Paul explains that he voluntarily became a servant to all, refusing to exercise his rights so that he might win more people to the gospel. This raises the question of how he was able to live so selflessly despite his own admitted weakness and sinfulness. Paul answers by drawing on the Isthmian Games, comparing the Christian life to an athlete competing for a prize. Just as only one runner wins the race, believers must run with total dedication toward the goal of eternal life. The key to this dedication is stated plainly in verse 25: "everyone who competes for the prize is temperate in all things." The underlying Greek term, enkrateuomai, means to exercise self-control or to have power over oneself, while the noun form enkratea conveys inner strength, self-discipline, and self-restraint—essentially self-mastery. Without this quality, maximum effort toward the goal is impossible. Self-control involves both restraining oneself from anything that hinders progress and pursuing with vigor anything that helps, much like an athlete who follows a strict regimen of diet, training, and avoidance of harmful habits. This mirrors the lesson of unleavened bread—purging out the old leaven of malice while embracing the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth. Paul further warns against running "aimlessly" or "beating the air," images that emphasize purposeful, focused effort rather than distracted or ineffective striving. He concludes by stating that he disciplines his body and brings it into subjection, striking a blow against his own carnal desires so that, having preached to others, he himself would not become disqualified. This self-mastery over one's own nature—body, mind, heart, and spirit—is what allowed Paul to serve wholeheartedly without abusing his authority, and it is the same virtue required to lay hold of eternal life. The broader message ties this directly to the Feast of Unleavened Bread: believers must recognize that their efforts often remain unproductive because human nature is allowed to rule rather than being ruled. The call is to rededicate oneself to running the race with the same single-minded self-discipline Paul exemplified, striking at one's own carnal nature so as not to be disqualified from the imperishable crown of the Kingdom of God.

Time for Self-Evaluation

'Ready Answer' by John O. Reid

Self-control appears within the broader framework of self-examination that precedes Passover, listed among the fruits of God's Spirit against which believers must measure themselves. It is defined as the discipline that gives victory over the wrong pulls of the mind and body, drawing on the warning in I John 2:15-17 against the desires of the flesh, the desires of the eyes, and the pride of life. This quality is presented as one facet of the character of Jesus Christ, the perfect man who possesses all the fruit of God's Spirit, and thus serves as one of the standards against which self-examination must be conducted. The connection between self-control and the wider theme of self-examination is significant. Paul's instruction to examine oneself before taking the Passover requires an honest inspection of the heart, not merely a superficial glance nor a self-condemning dismissal of one's worth. Two faulty approaches are identified: one in which a person judges himself as utterly worthless due to painful backgrounds or past failures, and another in which a person gives himself only a cursory glance, excusing ongoing sin by reasoning that since Paul himself struggled with sin in Romans 7, perfection is unattainable and God will simply understand continued failure. Neither approach constitutes the honest, testing examination Paul intends by the word dokimazo, which carries the sense of proving or testing metal for purity, and connotes approval rather than condemnation. Self-control, as one of the fruits to be examined, exposes the areas where a person still yields to the wrong pulls of human nature rather than exercising discipline. Recognizing where self-control is lacking should lead not to despair but to positive, serious change. This process of change carries a cost, since human nature resists denial of its pulls and will fight back against the discipline required. The less willing a person is to make necessary changes, including growth in self-control, the more painful the process becomes. Yet the material insists that avoiding this pain by skirting the depths of self-evaluation is not an acceptable option, since God desires an honest review of the past year and genuine transformation. This call to examine self-control and the other fruits of the Spirit is framed within assurances of God's mercy. Even upon discovering major deficiencies in qualities like self-control, one can trust that God is ready and eager to forgive upon repentance and change, understanding human limitations and the pressures of the present time. The ultimate purpose of examining self-control alongside love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, gentleness, and faithfulness is to worship God in Spirit and truth, to identify what needs correction, and to approach Passover not with heaviness or doubt but with thankfulness and joy, having made an honest and constructive assessment of one's spiritual progress.

Self-Government

Sermon/Bible Study by John W. Ritenbaugh

Self-control, or self-government, forms the central concern of this study, presented as the disciplined ability to willingly submit oneself to God's authority and standards rather than to human impulse or cultural pressure. The foundation is laid in Romans 13:1-7, which establishes that submission to governing authorities is required of believers, demonstrating that self-governance is necessary to fulfill God's commands. This connects to the broader biblical emphasis on works: salvation through Christ required action, as Jesus Himself declared He came to do the Father's will. Since believers are being conformed to Christ's image, they too must perform works, and this requires governing oneself to accomplish what God wills. Paul's example in 1 Corinthians 9:23-27 sharpens this point: those who compete for an imperishable crown must be "temperate," or self-controlled, disciplining the body like an athlete or boxer in training. This intense, deliberate self-mastery contrasts sharply with the modern cultural trend toward "progressivism," which rejects tradition and discipline in favor of hedonistic self-indulgence. Society's inability to govern itself—evident in moral collapse, government corruption, and increasing lawlessness—stems from two root causes: people do not recognize their responsibility to God, and they fail to grasp that "everything matters" because God oversees all aspects of life, as taught through Ecclesiastes' distinction between living "under the sun" versus "under God." Daniel 12:4's prophecy of increased knowledge and people "running to and fro" describes the overwhelming, disorienting flood of information in the end times, which wearies people and tempts them to abandon self-discipline. Faithful self-government requires resisting this pull, holding fast to God's enduring standards rather than drifting with the culture's spirit. Hebrews 11 illustrates that such discipline flows from vision—Abraham and Moses governed themselves because they held a compelling picture of future reward. Lacking historical knowledge and spiritual understanding, most people today have no such vision and thus cannot discipline themselves toward godliness, even though they may exercise control in other areas of life. True self-government is only possible through God's calling, which opens spiritual blindness, imparts truth, and builds a Christ-centered worldview through the gospel of the Kingdom. This worldview, filtered through knowledge of God's purpose, produces the "mind of Christ" and a growing intimate relationship with Him, which in turn generates love-driven motivation to avoid displeasing Him. Ultimately, self-control is tied to free moral agency—God's gift allowing genuine, uncompelled choice between right and wrong. Without such freedom, love and obedience could not exist; they would be mere compulsion. God's purpose is not to grant license for self-invented standards but to write His already-established laws upon the heart, enabling believers to freely and lovingly choose to govern themselves in harmony with God's will, forming Christ's likeness within them.

Self-Government and Responsibility (Part One)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

God's ultimate purpose, revealed from Genesis 1:26-27, is to reproduce Himself by transforming mankind into His image and likeness—a matter of character and nature rather than physical form. Because this image is a matter of nature, it can only be developed through free moral agency, the capacity to choose freely without external control. From the beginning, God taught and commanded but never controlled Adam and Eve, Cain, or Israel; He set before them life and death and allowed them to choose. This freedom is essential, for God's goal requires beings who willingly submit themselves to His way rather than being forced into it. The key to understanding this is the Greek word hupotasso, meaning "to arrange oneself in order under." Unlike control, which is imposed externally by force (as a drill instructor controls recruits), hupotasso is something a person does to himself—submitting, arranging himself under authority, as seen in instructions to wives, to citizens, and to believers generally. Romans 8:7 shows that the carnal mind cannot subject (hupotasso) itself to God's law; it lacks the internal capacity for self-government. Only conversion, through the Spirit of God, gives a person the ability to govern himself and freely choose obedience. Human nature resists this self-submission for three reasons: pride (believing oneself to know better, as Adam and Eve did), fear (seeking to control outcomes to avoid pain or loss, producing manipulation, bullying, bribery, or arbitrary demands), and covetousness (desiring something enough to seize control to get it). Each stems from the desire to control rather than to submit—the same desire Satan awakened in Adam and Eve when he persuaded them to seize control of their own destiny. Because the carnal mind will not submit itself, worldly governments—and even much of the visible church—resort to external control, force, and fear, producing order without character, as seen in secular rulers Christ called "benefactors," and in ecclesiastical systems that mistake human authority for God's actual government (which remains in heaven, on Christ's shoulders alone, per Isaiah 9:6-7). True godly government, by contrast, depends entirely on each person governing himself within the parameters of authority God has given, never overstepping it as Adam and Eve did. Scriptural instruction consistently reinforces this: submitting to every ordinance of man for the Lord's sake, honoring all, following Christ's own example of enduring wrongful suffering without retaliating or trying to control the situation. Even correction of others' errors must be done through respectful suggestion, not defiance, since disobedience is warranted only when obedience to man would require sinning against God—then one submits to the penalty rather than resisting the authority itself. Colossians 3 outlines the practical outworking: putting off anger, malice, and pride, and putting on humility, patience, forgiveness, and love—all deliberate choices requiring self-discipline. As the old Ambassador College course states, self-government is discerning right from wrong and then choosing the right despite desire or temptation, using God's Spirit to master carnal impulses. This self-discipline, not external control, is the essential foundation for developing godly character and ultimately being fit for God's Kingdom.

Self-Government and Responsibility (Part Three)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Self-control emerges as the essential response God requires from individuals living amid the mounting pressures described throughout this study. Escalating tribulation, economic collapse, and social breakdown are shown to result directly from mankind's collective failure to meet God-given responsibilities, and self-government—governing oneself within the framework of God's will—is presented as the antidote to this irresponsibility. The connection between self-control and personal responsibility becomes clear through the contrast between a victim mentality and genuine self-discipline. Modern culture teaches people to blame parents, circumstances, addictions, or others for their own choices, but this evasion prevents anyone from exercising the self-control needed to change. David's confession in Psalm 51:4 stands as the model of true responsibility: he blamed no one—not Bathsheba, not circumstances, not Satan—but accepted full guilt, which then freed him to work on himself so the sin would not recur. This willingness to own one's conduct is the starting point of self-control. Ezekiel 18 reinforces this by establishing that God judges each person according to his own ways, not according to the sins of forefathers or the failures of society. Even though upbringing and environment shape a person, once knowledge of God's will comes, the individual bears responsibility for his choices—illustrated by the example of someone predisposed to alcoholism who, upon learning God's standard, must discipline himself rather than blame heredity. This is where self-control becomes active: the will must be exercised to resist ingrained tendencies once truth is known. Five reasons for failing in this discipline are identified: ignorance of one's duties, a wrong mindset about one's obligation as God's servant, laziness or fear of the effort required, refusal to accept blame when things go wrong, and lack of vision or faith to motivate sustained effort. Each of these represents a breakdown in self-control, whether through neglecting to learn what God requires, resenting the demands of servanthood, avoiding the "cost" of discipline in prayer and Bible study, deflecting blame instead of correcting oneself, or losing motivation without a clear goal, as Proverbs 29:18 warns that without vision people "cast off restraint." The broader message ties self-control to national and even end-time consequences. The American economic crisis illustrates that reform will not come from government but from individuals getting themselves out of debt—self-control applied practically. This same principle governs the coming Millennium, when universal self-government will eliminate the pressures now caused by widespread irresponsibility. Self-control is thus framed as both a personal obligation flowing from love of God and the very quality whose absence produces the tribulation and pressure described in Matthew 24, Amos 5, and elsewhere—making its cultivation urgent for anyone seeking to be judged favorably by God.

Self-Government (Part One)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Regardless of whether one submits to God, government, or community, self-government is the best means to having a safe, smooth course toward an objective.

Self-Government and Responsibility (Part Two)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Our experiences prepare us to be a better judge or king. Though we may exercise righteous judgment, we dare not pass judgment nor justify sin in ourselves.

Controlling the Gap (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by Bill Onisick

Spiritual conditioning involves prayer, study, meditation on God, and occasional fasting, refining our judgment of—and hence our response to—trying situations.

Optimus Modus

Sermonette by Mike Ford

Proverbs 25:16 stresses that moderation is the best policy. Of all the fruits of God's Holy Spirit, self-control is the most difficult to attain.

The Small and Great Standing Before God

Sermonette by Martin G. Collins

The greatest, according to Jesus Christ, can be determined by the one who serves the most with an attitude of humility, generosity, and other-centeredness.

The Nanny Church (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

The problem of Nannyism does not lie only with those in authority; the actions of the people may invite the government to assume the people's responsibility.

Choosing Our Yoke

Sermon by Bill Onisick

Self-control is the last fruit of the Spirit listed and is more inward facing than the others. It is a divine given ability to govern impulses, emotions, and desires and to make the right daily choices. Self-control means one who masters his desires or passions. All the fruits of the Spirit are intertwined, yet love and self-control act as bookends that unlock the rest. It would be almost impossible to produce any of the fruit of the Spirit without a measure of self-control. God's Holy Spirit is a powerful Spirit of love and self-control. Self-control is an essential characteristic for producing good spiritual fruit and for producing no bad fruit. Self-control is required to regulate thoughts, attitudes, and impulses, to manage reactions to life's circumstances, and to drive the right actions while resisting instant gratification each day. By submitting to the yoke of Jesus Christ, self-reliance is replaced with His strength. His yoke teaches self-control by aligning the will to His and the Father's. When the heart becomes like that of Jesus Christ, meek and lowly, the fruit of the Spirit is produced because it is God's Spirit in the person that comes back out to others. Through the enabling Spirit of Jesus Christ there is inner strength necessary to discipline the mind against worldly distractions and temptations. Each day requires putting on the yoke of Jesus Christ to use His Spirit of love and self-control to regulate thoughts, attitudes, impulses, and reactions.

Eating: How Good It Is! (Part Six)

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

In the West, both food and information are readily available. We need self-control and a dedication to truth in order to live a godly life.

If You Do These Things, You Shall Never Fall

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Mark Schindler

God has not set up us for failure, but if we can't control our inordinate pride, we could destroy our own chances of fulfilling God's purpose for us.

Displaying Virtuous Character

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Self-control has both an inward and outward dimension, the latter concerned with human relationships, manners, and reflecting God's orderly mindset.

Perfect, Gentle Courtesy (Part 2)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Good manners are not just an accomplishment, but a duty that everyone must practice in order for society to move smoothly.

The Patience of God

CGG Weekly by Ronny H. Graham

Patience is sometimes misunderstood. Many think that it is just sitting and waiting, but exercising patience takes work and sometimes great self-control.

Essential Characteristics of Our Calling

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Doctrine and practice be evenly balanced. If the behaviors are detached from principle and doctrine, the weightier matters of the law will be neglected.

Ground Hog Day - Again?

Sermonette by

If we become stiff-necked, like our ancestors at Sinai, we are not submitting to God's Holy Spirit, sabotaging our overcoming and our path to salvation.

Christians in the Spotlight

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

We must let our lights shine by our moderation, self-control, attitude, and behavior, realizing that we are reflecting the characteristics of God Almighty.

Five Teachings of Grace

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Protestantism unthinkingly presents grace as "free." However, Scripture shows that God expects a great deal of effort from us once we receive it—it is costly.

Patience (2019)

Sermonette by Ronny H. Graham

Patience, a fruit of God's Spirit and a trait He abundantly displays, is not a passive turning away, but an active effort to control bursts of anger.

Eternal Servant Leadership

Sermon by Mark Schindler

Our responsibility should be to learn to serve rather than to emulate the pompous gentile leaders who love to domineer over their subjects.

Paul's Letter to Titus (Part 2)

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

The last two chapters of Titus emphasize the importance of sound doctrine to neutralize the negative worldly aspects of culture and the attending heresies.

The Meek

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Meekness is the opposite of weakness, exemplifying self-control under immense pressure, demonstrated by Jesus refusing to retaliate.

How to Have a Great Feast

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The Feasts of God are not vacations, but are holy convocations when God assembles His family for the purpose of enabling us to learn to fear and honor Him.

Maintaining Good Health (Part 11)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Human nature takes chances, assuming the day of reckoning will come later, not sooner. We cannot ignore truth or God's laws without paying a horrific price.

Remaining Unleavened

Article by John O. Reid

We often put matters behind us once we finish with them, but we cannot afford to do this with the lessons we learn from the Feast of Unleavened Bread.

Elite, Special Spiritual Forces Training

Sermonette by Bill Onisick

Like a muscle, God's Spirit must be continually used to overcome Satan's attacks in our minds which are, without discipline, hostile to God's laws.

Modesty (Part One): Moderation and Propriety

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Martin G. Collins

We must avoid the world's extremes and sensual excesses in matters of dress and fashion, adopting instead humility, chastity, decency, morality, and self control.

The Meekness and Gentleness of Christ

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Jesus demonstrated His meekness in His treatment of many with whom He interacted. Balancing firmness and gentleness, He seeks to save rather than destroy.

Displaying Gentle and Patient Conduct

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

God's people must follow the spirit of the law regarding the treatment of others, being humble, sincere, and gentle, esteeming others before themselves.

Delusions of Perfection

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

We need to exercise humility and forbearance when we deal with the weaknesses of our brethren, restoring them in love as we would expect them to do for us.

Abstinence - Asceticism or Christian Living?

'Ready Answer' by Martin G. Collins

Some equate abstinence with religious asceticism, but abstinence is broader. Christians may need to abstain from more than just sinful actions.

Titus 2:11-14

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

We are obligated to dress and keep what is placed in our care, improving what He has given to us. We dare not stand still, but must make effort to grow.

Our Reasonable Service

Sermonette by Bill Onisick

One really cannot have proper spiritual health without maintaining a physical regime of diet, exercise, and rest. We have a responsibility to educate ourselves.

Dystopia? Utopia?

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The Great Tribulation is the ultimate dystopia. The return of Christ will avenge all the crimes committed against God's people, as God's Kingdom is restored.

Loyalty and Submission (Part 3)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

As wives are admonished to emulate the ideal of the Proverbs 31 woman, husbands must emulate the sacrificial spirit of Jesus Christ.

Blessed Are the Meek (2014)

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

In Paul's listings of virtues, meekness always appears near the end, reflecting its difficulty. Meekness is the gentle, quiet spirit of selfless devotion.

Facing Times of Stress: Hopeless Regrets

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

It sometimes appears that people outside the church have fewer problems and anxieties, having been spared Satan's onslaught of temptation and deception.

Humanism's Flooding Influence (Part Three)

Commentary by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

James Madison and the other founding fathers realized that a democratic republic would only work in a godly, moral, or Christian administration.

Sanctification and the Teens

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

Young people in the church must realize that they are not invincible. Not only is God's law no respecter of persons, but also sanctification can be lost.

The Covenants, Grace, and Law (Part Twenty-Two)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The Gnostics criticized by Paul in Colossians 2:16-17 were guilty of bringing in ritualistic ascetic discipline to propitiate demons.