Self-restraint, a crucial fruit of the Spirit, embodies mastery over desires and passions, ensuring moderation to prevent sin. It protects against temptations like lust, greed, and reckless speech, safeguarding personal and others' well-being through obedience to God's law. Self-restraint demands diligent discipline, akin to an athlete's training, and may require changing circumstances to avoid temptation. Jesus Christ exemplified this virtue by resisting human urges and submitting to God's will. Through the Holy Spirit, God strengthens the mind to govern rebellious desires, essential for entering the Kingdom of God. True liberty under Christ is maintained by self-restraint, fostering freedom through submission to God's Word and resisting the chaos of unrestrained indulgence.

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Self-Control

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

Self-control, as a vital fruit of the Spirit, is the mastery over one's passions and desires, ensuring that appetites are held in check and conduct is regulated without being swayed by sensuous urges. Moderation stands as a key element in this virtue, preventing excesses that could lead to sin. Without self-control, individuals fall prey to temptations such as lust, greed, gluttony, alcoholism, conceit, sexual sins, gossiping, violent quarreling, and reckless speech, which satan uses to lead astray. This virtue is not solely for personal benefit but extends to the well-being of others. Self-restraint, rooted in obedience to God's law, reflects an outgoing concern that prioritizes others over self-interest, enabling one to resist actions that might cause pain or weakness to fellow brethren. Producing self-control involves diligent self-discipline, akin to an athlete training for a race, recognizing that a lack of it reveals short-sightedness with long-lasting physical and spiritual damage. When self-control seems unattainable, changing circumstances to avoid temptation becomes necessary, such as marrying to manage sexual urges if restraint proves impossible. Jesus Christ exemplified self-control by mastering human tendencies, resisting temptation, and submitting to God's law, setting a pattern for others to follow. Through the Holy Spirit, God works in man to manifest self-control, strengthening the Spirit-controlled mind to resist rebellious desires and tempting pleasures. Ultimately, self-control is essential for entrance into the Kingdom of God, as mere knowledge of Him without practical self-responsibility falls short. With the aid of God's divine power, self-mastery is achieved, contrasting the works of the flesh with the fruit of the Spirit, guiding those led by the Spirit toward fruitful growth in God's character.

Self Control

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Self-control helps us to restrain ourselves from harmful lusts of the flesh, including gluttony, intoxication, sex outside of marriage, and drug abuse.

The Fruit of the Spirit: Self-Control

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

In a world that often feels out of control with its fast-paced lifestyles and endless distractions, self-control emerges as a vital attribute for those seeking to live according to God's will. Self-control, listed as the ninth fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5:22-23, is essential to Christian living, embodying the mastery of one's desires and impulses. It is not merely about restraining specific passions but encompasses a broad application to life, involving obedience, submission, and sinless living. The Greek word "enkrateia," translated as self-control, signifies possessing power and having mastery over one's desires, holding in hand the passions that threaten to lead astray. This concept is also reflected in terms like "nephalios," often translated as temperate or sober, emphasizing moderation and soundness of mind over self-indulgence. Proverbs 25:28 illustrates this principle, comparing a person without rule over his spirit to a city broken down, without walls, vulnerable to chaos. Self-control requires intense focus and single-mindedness, as exemplified by runners in the Grecian games who must concentrate on their race, avoiding distractions to achieve victory. Such athletes adhere to a rigorous program, abstaining from even legitimate pleasures that do not fit their goals, demonstrating that self-control extends to all areas of life. Similarly, believers must prioritize seeking first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, maintaining a disciplined approach to avoid being conformed to the insanity of this world. The powerful pulls of the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, as noted in I John 2:16, must be controlled to prevent being trapped in sin. These worldly desires can ensnare without conscious thought if not vigilantly resisted, requiring a deliberate effort to turn away from evil impressions and subordinate insatiable appetites. The body, while a good servant, becomes a bad master if not governed, leading to corruption if sown to the flesh, as warned in Galatians 6:8. Self-control is further tied to the sacrificial service of a priest, where one's life is presented as a living sacrifice to God, set apart for His use. This act of surrender, reasonable and rational, springs from a renewed mind that controls itself to align with God's will. The cost of such sacrifice is high, often demanding intense pressure to resist natural drives and habits, yet it is necessary for those who work in God's service. God's grace, as highlighted in II Timothy 1:6-7, empowers believers to express self-control, countering the unbridled freedom of worldly passions. Without this discipline, one risks falling to pieces, succumbing to the subtle persuasions and appetites that led Adam and Eve astray. The solution lies in a relationship with Christ, who provides the strength to govern oneself, transforming weakness into courage and self-control, enabling believers to glorify God through moderation in all things and rigid resistance to sin.

Liberty Through Self-Control

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Liberty under Christ is maintained through self-control, a vital fruit of the Spirit. Without a godly standard to follow, people cast off restraint, leading to confusion and chaos. Where there is no revelation, individuals run wild, but happiness comes to those who keep the law, avoiding harm and destruction through deviant behavior. Self-control prevents the sorrow and guilt that accompany unrestrained actions, fostering a blessed state of true freedom. In this age, a hallmark is the lack of self-control, as people feel free to indulge in their wildest desires, resulting in anarchy and license. Yet, true liberty is tied directly to submission and obedience to God's Word. Freedom that does not include conformity to God's standard is not genuine liberty. Self-control, as a fruit of the Spirit, enables us to govern ourselves despite the deceptive urges of the heart, guiding us to pursue and do good always. The disciplined individual is the freest of all, knowing their bounds and mastering themselves. Self-control, derived from the Greek term meaning inner strength, implies having power and rule over oneself. It is not merely a struggle to avoid sin, but a commitment to set the mind on doing good, as Christ did. By living in the Spirit, we crucify the flesh with its passions and desires, ensuring that sin does not hold sway over us. Ultimately, God through Christ has granted us freedom from the condemnation of sin, making us free under Him. We must stand fast in this liberty, not using it as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serving one another. Pursuing liberty requires governing ourselves with self-control, aided by the Spirit, to maintain the freedom Christ has provided and to avoid entanglement in the yoke of bondage.

True Self-Control

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Self-restraint, rendered in Greek as enkrateia, emerges as the capacity to direct attention away from immediate desires so that decisions arise from deliberate, cooler reflection rather than impulsive response. The process begins with an awareness of the mechanisms that trigger surrender to temptation; once those mechanisms are understood, strategies such as mental abstraction, redirection of thought, or removal from the stimulus become available. These tactics transform the object of desire into something neutral or distant, allowing the individual to wait for a greater outcome. In Scripture enkrateia appears as the final item in the list of the fruit of the Spirit, indicating that it is produced by God's Spirit working within a person over time. It is also placed after righteousness or knowledge and before perseverance, showing that it functions as the practical response to what God supplies. Righteousness or knowledge is received first; self-restraint then applies that gift by governing conduct, and perseverance sustains the resulting behavior until it yields godliness, brotherly kindness, and agape love. The same pattern appears in the qualifications for an overseer, where holiness precedes and makes possible the exercise of self-restraint. The word itself denotes inward power or mastery, the ability to rule one's own impulses rather than to be ruled by them. Biblical usage extends the term beyond sexual conduct to every area of fleshly desire, including speech, appetite, and material acquisition. In each case the controlling principle remains the same: the person substitutes a deliberate, scripturally informed thought for the immediate urge. Joseph's repeated refusal of Potiphar's wife and Jesus' answers to Satan illustrate this inward mastery sustained across repeated tests. Both examples demonstrate that self-restraint is strengthened by continual reliance on God's presence and Word. Ultimately self-restraint is the fruit of lifelong repentance, or metanoia, the progressive replacement of fleshly patterns of thought with the mind of God. As thoughts are reordered, behavior follows, enabling the believer to serve others and to remain faithful to the commission received from God.

Control and Self-Control

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Self-restraint, expressed in Scripture through terms such as dominion, power, and the Greek word enkrateia, requires the believer to master personal impulses rather than seek authority over others. From the beginning God granted humanity dominion over creation yet required that this authority be exercised through dressing, tending, and keeping the earth in a manner that conserves and adorns what He has made. Jesus reinforced the same principle when He instructed His disciples that greatness consists in servanthood and slavery, not in lording authority over others, and when He Himself took the form of a bondservant, humbled Himself, and remained obedient to the point of death. Paul illustrates the practical discipline of self-restraint by comparing the Christian life to an athlete who subjects every bodily impulse to a rigorous regimen so that he may obtain an imperishable crown. The same virtue appears in the fruit of the Spirit and in the command to add self-control to faith and knowledge. In daily conduct it means putting off the old man with its deceitful lusts and putting on the new man created in true righteousness, refusing to allow any member of the body to act contrary to the life of Christ. The supreme demonstration of this mastery occurred during the final day of Jesus' life. Although He faced betrayal, arrest, scourging, and crucifixion, He never yielded to the cries of the flesh or to deceptive reasoning that might have promised relief. In Gethsemane He prayed in agony yet submitted His will to the Father; when the mob arrived He went forward calmly, healed the ear of Malchus, and continued to act in kindness even toward His enemies. By contrast, those who sought to preserve their own safety lost all composure. Self-restraint therefore stands at the center of Christian overcoming. It enables the believer to keep God's commandments, to guard against sin, and to remain untouched by the wicked one. Those who cultivate this virtue now prove themselves fit to receive, in the resurrection, the authority and glory that Christ Himself received only after completing His course of perfect submission.

The Essence of Self-Control

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Self-restraint, also called self-control, is the virtue that enables a person to master personal appetites, passions, and desires so that conduct remains aligned with righteousness rather than raw lusts. When individuals refuse this mastery they cast off all restraint, turning sin into out-of-control behavior that separates them from God and produces the cursing, confusion, and rebuke described in Deuteronomy 28 and Leviticus 26. The same refusal undermines civil government, because no structure can secure justice or peace among people who will not first govern themselves. The absence of self-restraint appears in drunkenness, gluttony, laziness, sexual immorality, revelry, and every form of self-indulgence; these destroy reputation, waste resources, and injure others. Scripture presents self-restraint as the final trait in the fruit of the Spirit, the quality that completes and protects the rest. It arises not from mere suppression of desire but from walking in the Spirit, which produces power to crucify the flesh with its passions. Paul illustrates the practice by disciplining his body lest he become disqualified, and he commands believers to put on the Lord Jesus Christ while making no provision for fleshly lusts. Christ Himself demonstrated perfect self-restraint by remaining silent under reviling, refusing Satanic temptations, and submitting to the cross without retaliation. Those led by His Spirit likewise overcome evil with good, love neighbors as themselves, and fulfill the law through outgoing concern that rules over self-interest. Without this internalized mastery a person cannot attain the holiness God requires or enter the Kingdom; with it the called are reshaped into the image of the Son and prepared to serve others in love.

Self-Discipline

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Protestant theology recognizes that Christian self-discipline presents a major logical difficulty in its keystone doctrine of 'by grace alone.'

God and Self-Government

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

The New Covenant, wherein God writes His law on the heart and gives His Spirit, empowers God's people to obey without the need for external control.

Self-Government (Part Two)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

If we govern ourselves, God will take care of us. Government of any kind will not work unless people govern their own nature. Self-control enables us to show love.

Flee From Idolatry (Part One): Self-Discipline

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Though Paul's spiritual credentials outstripped all of his coworkers, Paul used none of his rights as an apostle, but gave his life as a sacrifice.

Our Part in the Sanctification Process (Part Ten): Cultivating the Fruit of Self Control

Sermon by David F. Maas

It is impossible to cultivate self-control unless one uses God's Spirit to reprogram the desires of the heart from self-centeredness to submission to God.

Choosing Our Yoke

Sermon by Bill Onisick

Self-control, also called temperance, stands as the one inward-facing fruit of the Spirit. It supplies the divine ability to govern impulses, emotions, and desires while making right daily choices. This capacity enables a person to master passions and thereby produce the other outward-facing fruits such as love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, and gentleness. Because all the fruits are intertwined, self-control functions with love as the bookend qualities that unlock the rest; without a measure of self-control it would be nearly impossible to manifest any fruit of the Spirit. The same quality is required to avoid producing the fruit of the flesh, since a good tree brings forth no bad fruit. Self-control is exercised by regulating thoughts, attitudes, and impulses, managing reactions to circumstances, resisting instant gratification, and choosing actions that honor God. It equips believers to serve as faithful stewards over every gift placed on loan, including their bodies and relationships within the Body of Christ. The Spirit described by Paul in II Timothy 1:7 is precisely the Spirit of love and self-control, providing the inner strength needed for this governance. This inner strength is obtained by voluntarily accepting the yoke of Jesus Christ. His yoke replaces self-reliance with reliance upon Him, teaching self-control through daily alignment of the will to His meek and lowly heart. Under that yoke the carnal mind yields, impulsive reactions give way to gentle and forbearing conduct, and the fruit of the Spirit flows outward. The choice to remain yoked must be renewed each day through prayer, meditation, and application of the Word, allowing Christ's Spirit to guide, correct, and sustain the believer while producing abundant spiritual fruit in God's field.

Pre-Feast Annoyances

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As we prepare for the Feast of Tabernacles, chances are that there will be things that test our patience and even a few more will crop up when we get there.

Longsuffering

Bible Study by Martin G. Collins

Longsuffering, or patience, the fourth fruit of the Spirit, is a much needed virtue in a fast-paced, impatient world.

What Makes a True Disciple? (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by Clyde Finklea

Love is patient and kind. These are the only two characteristics Paul says love is, defining it positively. What follows is what love does not do.

The Small and Great Standing Before God

Sermonette by Martin G. Collins

The greatest, according to Jesus Christ, can be determined by the one who serves the most with an attitude of humility, generosity, and other-centeredness.

Our Declaration of Independence (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by John Reiss

While our independence means that we are self-directed and can make our own decisions, we are still members of a society and must conduct ourselves accordingly.

Sticks and Stones

'Ready Answer' by Ted E. Bowling

What are we to do when destructive words come our way? We must learn to take everything with much patience and longsuffering, which will result in peace.

The Longsuffering of Our Lord Is Salvation

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Because God has demonstrated incredible longsuffering with our shortcomings, we should similarly exercise forbearance to those who have offended us.

Eating: How Good It Is! (Part Six)

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

In the West, both food and information are readily available. We need self-control and a dedication to truth in order to live a godly life.

Liberalism, in the News Again

Commentary by John W. Ritenbaugh (1932-2023)

Conservatism is a political philosophy that calls for stability and the protection of established institutions. Liberals think conservatives are stuck in the past.

Essential Characteristics of Our Calling

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Doctrine and practice be evenly balanced. If the behaviors are detached from principle and doctrine, the weightier matters of the law will be neglected.

Are You Sharp-Tongued? (Part One)

'Ready Answer' by Staff

The tongue may be the most untamed beast on earth! James says we all offend in word. But James 3 is filled with wisdom regarding how we can overcome the beast.

Unity (Part 8): Ephesians 4 (E)

Sermon by John W. Ritenbaugh

The group that one fellowships with is less important than the understanding that there is one true church, bound by a spiritual, not a physical unity.

The Fruit of the Spirit: Kindness

'Personal' from John W. Ritenbaugh

Kindness goes hand-in-hand with love. It is an active expression of love toward God and fellow man, produced through the power of God's Spirit.

The Meekness and Gentleness of Christ

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

Jesus demonstrated His meekness in His treatment of many with whom He interacted. Balancing firmness and gentleness, He seeks to save rather than destroy.

The Meek

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

Meekness is the opposite of weakness, exemplifying self-control under immense pressure, demonstrated by Jesus refusing to retaliate.

Jesus and the Feast (Part Two): Belief in the Spirit

Feast of Tabernacles Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

On the last day of the Feast, Jesus proclaimed Himself as the One who will dispense God's Spirit, amplifying the promise He had made to the woman at the well.

Establishing Our Hearts Before Christ's Return

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

James emphasizes patience five times, suggesting that it is a capstone of saintly character, encompassing long-suffering, forbearance, and self-restraint.

The Overlooked Work (Part Two)

CGG Weekly by David C. Grabbe

Not all waiting is actually waiting on God. We might convince ourselves that we are waiting on God, when He is really waiting for us to move forward.

Forbearance

Sermon by Richard T. Ritenbaugh

God put up with the foibles of Abraham, Samson, David, Job, and others, allowing them time to repent and build character. We need to develop this godly trait.

Patiently Waiting for Christ's Return

Sermon by Martin G. Collins

We must develop an active, God-given restraint and constancy in endurance while facing trials and waiting for Christ's return, trusting that God will provide.